If they find each other attractive why play hard to get

it all comes down to the individual really and what their idea of dating is.

dayokanu:

Playing hard to get is for teens. Why play hard to get when you know in the process of dating you can know the guy and end it with him if he doesnt fit in.

Its not like you are gettng married to him the day after agreeing to date

to you dating is fun and casual thing. you are not looking for a wife maybe just a temporary fling based on looks and attractiveness.
some people on the other hand are looking for longer term relationships/ husband or wife, so are more selective in their picking. lol

Oyinda. Now quit fronting and lets get down to bizniz.

At least I ahve been chasing you for 2 yrs now

2 years!? wow i don't remember that.
well, we can be friends first. then after a while i will see if i still consider u. u kno i am very hard to get

2 years of being friends? what have we been all these while? enemies?

Or you want me to come to RI first?

Oya how long does this friendship need to last for

u meant to say New Haven? i will buy ur plane ticket don't worry. then u can come over
we have to be friends for 6 more years though. then i will consider u. will u wait for me?

oyinda.:

u meant to say New Haven? i will buy your plane ticket don't worry. then u can come over
we have to be friends for 6 more years though. then i will consider u. will u wait for me?

I nor pity you.
You better grab Dayokanu fast. . . . .Your menopause is just few years away.

i thought dayokanu was already taken. i don't wanna be mistress

oyinda.:

i thought dayokanu was already taken. i don't wanna be mistress

Men are scarce. . . . .Haven't you heard the news?
These days, there's nothing wrong aspiring to be his number two.
In the next 6 months, you could be number 6 if you don;t grab the opportunity NOW.

well it's either number 1 or nothing for me i'm good by myself
if i wanna be number 2 or number 6, then he has to be a super rich guy (but not tiger woods famous sha. i no wan wahala)

oyinda.:

well it's either number 1 or nothing for me i'm good by myself
if i wanna be number 2 or number 6, then he has to be a super rich guy (but not tiger woods famous sha. i no wan wahala)

I know quite a number of women with this 'number 1 or nothing schitzo' back in the days.
They are now so desperate these days they are considering marrying men 9 years younger than they are.
If you happen to find yourself as a man's number one - it's a bonus, it's no longer a standard women can demand.
The ratio is no longer in y'all's favour.

~Sauron~:

I know quite a number of women with this 'number 1 or nothing schitzo' back in the days.
They are now so desperate these days they are considering marrying men 9 years younger than they are.
If you happen to find yourself as a man's number one - it's a bonus, it's no longer a standard women can demand.
The ratio is no longer in y'all's favour.

i definitely would marry a guy 9 years younger than me (although if i marry in my mid 20s he will be underage so that might not be possible) . but ultimately i don't see anything wrong in that if he's responsible n handsome.

and i not only have to be number 1. i have to be the 1 AND ONLY
i will only agree for him to have a number 2 on the side if he's super rich. that's it.

oyinda.:

i definitely would marry a guy 9 years younger than me (although if i marry in my mid 20s he will be underage so that might not be possible) . but ultimately i don't see anything wrong in that if he's responsible n handsome.

Christ. . . . .How women's standards have fallen in the past decade.

and i not only have to be number 1. i have to be the  1 AND ONLY 
i will only agree for him to have a number 2 on the side if he's super rich. that's it. 

Be deceiving yourself. . . . . .
If he's super rich, you are not the only female that will be attracted to him.
There will be scores of females scheming their ways to get into his drawers so stop being a fantasist.

duh. that's why i excuse him to have a #2 if he's super rich. otherwise, I'm his one n only

~Sauron~:

Christ. . . . .How women's standards have fallen in the past decade.

oh please. younger men are more handsome and youthful looking.
besides, different women have different standards.
i personally would rather date a slightly younger guy than date a guy more than 4 yrs older than me.

u meant to say New Haven? i will buy your plane ticket don't worry. then u can come over
we have to be friends for 6 more years though. then i will consider u. will u wait for me?

6 more years for wetin. If I would wait then I need to know and appreciate what I am waiting for. How about tasting first so I can know if the wait is worth the effort

taste kini!? we are clearly very incompatible

Incompatible ke? Abeg dont break my heart o. I am not stone hearted like you

awww dayokanu's fragile heart so i heard u were 6 feet tall. is that true?

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vivaladiva:

tru tru , that one no be ikebe
by defination ikebe or yansh is usually on the large side
sister me, na bum bum you get, not ikebe

yeah.

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@OP
i kinda enjoy the chase- d harder she "forms" d more satisfying feeling i get wen i finally break in and then i look for another ,

awww dayokanu's fragile heart so i heard u were 6 feet tall. is that true?

Wrong I am over 6ft.

its Oyinda ure chasing now

u go see pepper soon

Na wa for some naija guys sha, there's no satisfying them

You lot wonder why some chicks play hard to get and claim to get turned off by the "long thing", but you're quick to diss a chick that gives it up too easy

Its a lose lose situation

its Oyinda ure chasing now

u go see pepper soon

I dont mind seeing hell fire sef, if na because of Oyinda

dayokanu:



Wrong I am over 6ft.

hmm ok

so why r u always in the football topics? won fi sports she e ni?

oyinda.:

duh. that's why i excuse him to have a #2 if he's super rich. otherwise, I'm his one n only


oh please. younger men are more handsome and youthful looking.
besides, different women have different standards.
i personally would rather date a slightly younger guy than date a guy more than 4 yrs older than me.

Oyinda, you need deliverance!

why?
u know that's my preference. but older guys tend to be more financially stable so I have to let go of my dreams of a young guy n find a older one.
does that make u happier?

u seem like one who is obsessed with young girls btw.

Hard to get? In 2k10? Nigga please! In the words of Chris Rock 'Most women know if they are going to $hag a dude within 15 to 20 mins provided the dude acts right' Life's short then you are on life-support

oyinda.:

why?
u know that's my preference. but older guys tend to be more financially stable so I have to let go of my dreams of a young guy n find a older one.
does that make u happier?

u seem like one who is obsessed with young girls btw.

Obsessed with young girls? Hell No!!!
What do young girls gotta offer? I don't do under-22s.

how old r u?

oyinda.:

how old r u?

I'll be 48 in July.

@OP Did u not listen 2 d [i]play[/i]ing part?na just play na