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Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
al gore isnt that handsome, imo. his ex-wife is better looking than him. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by KnowAll(m): 1:41pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
[size=14pt]That is why it is good to embrace the African traditional matrimonial arrangement, when the older wife gets all grey and elderly, f**king such a motherly woman who has probably pass her menopause is an abomination in some cultures[/size](the thought of it makes me want to puke ooopps ![]() The elderly wife’s role would be as a custodian of the home, the mother of the home, in some rather interesting arrangement she is seen as the de-facto mother of both the husband and the younger wife. This role reversal is an accepted and practicable norm in many traditional Yoruba families. I am still struggling to convince my wife the reason why a younger woman would be an advantage to both of us especially when I get to the golden ripe age of 60.[/size] ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
ah, our african mentality. cant escape it can we. easier taking the man out of the bush than taking the bush out of the man. ^^ this is an oyinbo matter, not nigerian one, bro. start a new thread for your african viewpoint. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by otukpo(f): 2:40pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
:-x |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by sayso: 2:54pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
yes ooohh,na oyibo matter |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by amanze15(m): 3:14pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
It really sad to see great people just, it is just to bad since high sch and u decide to separate after 40 good yrs men sometin must dey there. ![]() |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 3:29pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
KnowAll: You are retarded!!! do u think only men notice aging in their partners!!? you think women don't notice the balding heads and potbellies of ugliness of their aging husbands? or only men have the right to be unhappy with it? why shouldn't women be able to go look for younger men if their husbands have become senile? and do u think the young girls who do follow these old ugly men are doing it because they like his grandpa looks? mtchew and then when the young women marry a man for his money, you guys complain and say she's a gold digger, she's waiting for the old man to die to get his money.what else do u think a young girl would want in an old ugly grandpa? african tradition ko, iranian tradition ni. the day america adopts that backward sexist practice called polygamy will be the day the world comes to an end. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Afam(m): 3:54pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: Firing from all cylinders there! @topic, The funny thing is that many people think about a lot things when it comes to sex from fantasies to experiments than they would ever want to admit or divulge. Put differently, sex is something that is on a lot of peoples' minds but at the same time would not want to talk about it unless they are in the midst of others where any form of inhibitions must have been reduced to the barest minimum. Call it sycophancy or hypocrisy if you like but beware of those that talk and behave as if they don't like talking or getting involved in sex, they are usually the undisputed tigers in the room kpakpa. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by wazobiang: 3:57pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
shy seperate after so long? what are they going to do with the freedom? this is so, ! |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 4:07pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: no one said it's not normal to think about it. thinking and doing are not the same thing!!!! people who can't restrict themselves are people who have no sense of disciple or control that's my point!! for example, do you have the opportunity to have intimacy everytime you think of it? so what do u do when u think of it but there is no girl around? you control your urges right? do u have the discipline to control it even when there is a girl around? i'm refering to ppl without any sense of discipline. those who feel it's their "manly natural right" to sleep around. to me, that's just like stealing. yea everyone covets and thinks about good things of life. but does that give us the right to go and steal it if we don't have it? that's a trait of greediness and laziness to me. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Afam(m): 4:12pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: I am glad you agree that a lot of people think about it and many if given the opportunity will effortlessly do it. So, that it is not common (the act itself) has more to do with availability and opportunity and not self control as you might think. Yes, there are people who get intimacy whenever they want it trust me and the issue of whether this is proper or not is another matter entirely. NB: Meanwhile why is Seun changing s-e-x to intimacy? |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 4:21pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: NO i did not say they will effortlessly do it!! I said the ones who lack discipline and self control will. if men are told from birth that sleeping around is their right, they will not have the motivation to build the discipline and self control. women have the self control because we are told from birth that if we do, we will be called sluts and love-peddlers. the same teaching is not taught to men so they feel that it's normal for them. for example, when u go to the store and don't have money to buy a nice wristwatch, do you walk away or go and steal money to buy it? depends on ur level of discipline or how you were raised!! the people who get intimacy whenever they want to me are like criminals who go around looting and stealing. it is definitely not proper. and the fact that you question if it is proper or not makes me believe you are one of those men!!! |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 4:26pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: zzzzinng!!!! roflmao!! |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 4:29pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
favouredjb: Especially in the west? Are you joking? Take a poll on nairaland today and you will discover how many Nigerian families ended in divorce. . . . many of my generation grew up in a single family home with one absent parent, and you think it is just in the west? How many married folks today are truly married in Nigeria? If anything, adultery is to some a part of our culture now. Some even think it a RIGHT. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Afam(m): 4:34pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: Sorry for not breaking my first sentence into two, the "effortlessly do it" part wasn't referring to what I claimed you agreed to. oyinda.: Wrist watch is not sex so the analogy does not apply. oyinda.: It really does not matter how you see those people who get sex whenever they want it just as they could see you as someone who could be worse as regards having sex with any man even though you try to portray otherwise. Now, as to whether I am one of those men my response to you is this - sex is not a crime as long as it is not rape and it is between adults without any partner taking advantage of the other in any way it is ok. I am not one of those who say things to please people or try to present a kind of holier than thou attitude in life, far from it. I know for a fact that some women if given the chance would claim they have never seen a naked man even if they already have 2 or 3 kids. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by chiozor: 4:36pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by chiozor: 4:42pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
@oyinda at 60-70 years, between a man and a woman who still have libidio for intimacy -if a man and a woman have intimacy, who bears the mark of the act i.e pregnancy, flatten bosoms e.t.c -what is proper, for strangers-a man telling a woman i need bleed or woman telling man I need f.cuk -who between man and women needs to be taken off as in materials needs please just be patient and truthful in your answers |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 4:44pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: yea wrist watch is not sex. but u get the same satisfaction from getting them. ok let's say car instead of wristwatch. i'm sure many men will agree to get a car in place of having sex for a week. you will ultimately get a satisfaction from it.
that's why infidelity is called "CHEATING" if you know you are one of those guys who feel the need to have sex with every woman, then don't get married or lie to a girl that you are her boyfriend!!! same with being materialistic. If you have the money to buy the wristwatch/car whatever, then you can splurge and buy as many as you want. as long as u are not stealing from someone to satiate ur greed!!! what do you think about monks? i know that's an extreme case. but what's ur opinion? are they "holier than thou" people who are trying to please everyone? |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 4:45pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
chiozor: what the heck? ROFLMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: Couldn't have said it any better. What a bloody Arrow ![]() Calling a spade a spade on indiscipline and lack of self control is now being seen as acting 'holier than thou' as someone said. The crap you read these days. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oge4real(f): 4:51pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Boredom is a terrible thing. Seriously, after 40 yrs? |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 4:54pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
chiozor: -at 60-70 men may have more libido for intimacy but i doubt it is as high as u are trying to imply. and besides typically, men who carry on these behaviors are usually way younger than 60. -I don't know where you live, but where I live, there are things called condoms, birth control pills, nuva rings etc that prevents pregnancy!! - depends on how and where u are raised. in a less sexist country like America, many women tell men they need to have sex. the women are looser. In naija (and many muslim countries) women are called sluts if they say that. - what do u mean "taken off" both men and women are materialistic. just that culture dictates what they are materialistic about. ex cars and houses for men, clothes, jewelries for women etc. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Afam(m): 4:57pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
stillwater: Hypocrisy on display here. My comments and statements reflect reality where as people like you state things you even know are lies just to feel good with yourself. Today we have single parents everywhere, marriage breakups everywhere and both married men and women are engaging in all sorts of escapades and you pretend this is not happening? I am not a pretender like you so tell a kid what you have in mind, certainly not me. If you are ignorant about sex make it clear but don't come here and talk as if you know a thing or two about it when your comments show otherwise. oyinda.: Monks? They made choices which I respect even though just like every other thing in life some of them would still engage in sex if they have the opportunity. We have reverend fathers impregnating girls, sisters who are in seminary schools getting pregnant, choir masters sleeping with female members of the choir and even pastors doing same with women members of the church. Now, there will be no end in sight on this issue because people see things differently. What you call infidelity may not be infidelity to another. Christianity is about 1 man 1 wife but Islam allows a man to marry up to 4 wives. Lastly, there are people who are more open with their sex lives than others and these people do not see what you see just as you do not see what they see. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 5:04pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
roflmao!! |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 5:09pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: yea I agree not all monks are holy. just as not all reverend fathers etc. but i'm glad u said "SOME" not all. which means that those some have no self control or discipline and shouldn't be in the position they are. i don't think it's infidelity to have 4 wives. infidelity is when you cheat on your 4 wives with a 5th woman. i'm sure islam does not support infidelity. marrying 4 wives is called polygamy not infidelity. both are wrong anyways. those people who are open with their sex lives, as long as they marry someone who is ok with it. ex. people in open marriages such as will smith, hugh hefner of playboy mansion etc to me, that's fine. I don't support it but they are not committing a crime. but lying to ur wife and cheating on her back to me is VERY WRONG. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 5:17pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Has Will Smith ever really taken advantage of his so-called open marriage? |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Afam(m): 5:19pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
oyinda.: Ok, polygamy is wrong? You see my point, to you it is wrong to others it is not. I guess your last paragraph cleared a lot of things up so I now understand where you are coming from. Of course lying about sex is wrong, just needed to let you know that there are people who don't lie about it, have multiple sex partners, do wife swapping, engage in group sex with the full knowledge of their partners who enjoy or look forward to such things. My point here is that we must be willing to accept the fact that not everyone is tied to the 1 man 1 woman till death mantra. Yeah, I agree with you no cheating. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: Hypocrisy indeed. How does spelling out the fact that lack self control and indiscipline to someone who cheats on his family means the person is acting holier than thou. Why don't we let all criminals do as they please because each one of us has stolen or done something else in order not to act 'holier than thou'. Besides that, I too I'm being realistic that whoever would destroy his/her family and all that he has labored to keep for few seconds of extramarital affair/s is indisciplined and lacks self control. The dictionary is self explanatory on what these things mean if you have problems with their definitions. ![]() Today we have single parents everywhere, marriage breakups everywhere and both married men and women are engaging in all sorts of escapades and you pretend this is not happening? Many factors contribute to marriage break-ups, not only sex. I am not a pretender like you so tell a kid what you have in mind, certainly not me. Lame!!! |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 5:29pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
Afam: ok. i think we are on the same page now ![]() i'm curious what ur stance on polygamy is? are you christian? personally, i think it's sexist. that's the only problem i have with it beside it being against the bible. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by OAM4J: 5:31pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
The more people drop the knowledge of God and his word, and the more a lot of pastors, religious leaders and influential people divorce their partners, the higher the rate of divorce goes. Al Gore and Tipper have just given courage to many other marriages going through challenges to consider the option of divorce I also want to say that many people marry cos of societal pressure and cos it is a sin to have sex outside marriage, and the highest cause of divorce is infidelity. |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by Kobojunkie: 5:35pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
OAM4J:I disagree with that. OAM4J:Please . . . you assume there that people even considered their marriage a model of some sort. OAM4J:My Gosh!!! In this day and age, how many people actually marry for the second reason? |
Re: Al Gore And Tipper Gore To Separate After 40 Years by oyinda3(f): 5:37pm On Jun 03, 2010 |
http://www.examiner.com/x-11908-Milwaukee-County-Special-Interests-Examiner~y2009m7d13-The-sexual-revolutions-consequences you guys should read this article. personally, in my opinion, infidelity/ sleeping around is a cultural trait not a biological one. the US high divorce rates IMO can be attributed to the sexual revolution of the 60s that made sex more casual. And we all know that US culture makes its way around the globe in most cases. (esp. when it's a culture that's favorable to men and imported into a male dominated country) |
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