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| 8 Yrs In A Relationship by niceG: 9:49pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
I ve been in dis relationship for 8yrs now,my girlfriend walked up 2 sumtyme last yrand asked wat were my plans n I told her I wasn't ready yet, she left n we stayed away from each other for abt 2 weeks. Dis afternoon I was chating wit my on ymsnger wen he told my girlfriend wants him 2 ask me if I will marry her cos people are coming. I know I will luv 2 but I'm not ready. What do I do? Pls advice. |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
tell her what is in your mind |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by 1102(m): 9:57pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
[size=13pt]Poster why dont You keep assuring her and re-assuring her and make sure u dont dissapoint her  8 years nor be beans ooh  [/size] |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by kokoye(m): 10:00pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
Tell her people you are not ready! But damn! 8 years. Have you been dating since primary school?? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:01pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
8 solid good years? my question is, how old are you and how old is your girlfriend? 8 years ain't 8 months, days or hours bro, A child born during this 8 years will be doing good in 3rd grade now or 4th, will you marry her after more 8 years? Well if you ain't ready please don't be selfish, Simple FREE her. She is a woman and like a morning flower you know? what after all that 8 yrs or more of serious banging and at the end all she will hear is sorry you are bla blah? Please don't crucify me, |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by 1102(m): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
REALITY101: Did you have to include that, You really need a smack on the head  dont spoil me,Im not used to such rotten words~ |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
8yrs? Na lie. If for this long u arent ready for marriage how old were u when u started the relationship? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by ds700(m): 10:26pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
REALITY101: Banging  ? how sure.I've been in a relationship for almost 2yrs, No bang (talkm more of Please don't insinuate. |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Specialist900(m): 10:32pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
toba:8 yrs kokoye:from him mums womb |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
Your a selfish piece of sh1t. 8years really? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by ds700(m): 10:38pm On Sep 13, 2010 |
niceG: You are not ready after 8yrs of dating, rite? But why? Are you still school, or still trying to achieve this & that? That some folks set out to achieve some certain goals in life and it worked doesn't mean that same formula will definitely work for everybody. Your breakthrough could be tied to marriage, you could get married today and some certain things that could not work initially will start falling in place. The bible says that (one)1 will chase 1000 while 2 (man & wife) will chase 10,000! Pls reconsider your decisions. It is well with you. |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Akinagirl(f): 12:42am On Sep 14, 2010 |
8 years is no joke. But before I advice how old were you all when you started dating? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Girl846(f): 1:08am On Sep 14, 2010 |
What is your reason for not being 'ready'? Have you finished school? Do you have a job? How old are you? Do you love her? Do you have any children with your girlfriend? You just sound selfish to me. You've been chopping from this woman for 8 years!!! - that's 2 years short of a decade? The woman even has a part to blame in this for sticking with you without a clear plan for the future! *hissss* |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by queeneve: 2:32am On Sep 14, 2010 |
WHOOOOOOA! Why is he a piece of chit cos the GIRL is dumb enough to be with a man that did not make a commitment after a period of time? He simply said he is not ready and he being honest about it. Women need to stop lowering their standards for a piece of DICCK, that sad and I have seen many women hold out in HOPE HE WILL PROPOSE, Let me give you women a clue, IF A MAN DOES NOT MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOU AFTER A YEAR, I SUGGEST YOU LOOK ELSEWHERE, Look at EXHIBIT A, the chick still waiting on a proposal after EIGHT YEARS!!!!! |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by tRoOE(f): 3:10am On Sep 14, 2010 |
8yrs  , the girl is very stupid 4 staying with a man 4 dat longbut mehn u r wicked sha, if your intention did not include marriage, then u shuld ve told her, y wait did long  , I BLAME d mumu gf of yours 4 wasting her time with u |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by deniyor: 3:26am On Sep 14, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: Very disappointing comment. He is a piece of shit cos he is not ready for marriage? Typical nl female comment. @ poster Why are you not ready and is she included in your future plans. Whatever it is, be honest with her |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:13am On Sep 14, 2010 |
Lol@ 190, we ain't git no minor here do we? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Specialist900(m): 6:19am On Sep 14, 2010 |
The poster 8yrs might have started before they became teenagers, when they were just street friends. |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by sexylogan(m): 11:26am On Sep 14, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes:LMAO! Easy,my dear  @Poster; 8 years and you say that you are not ready? Don't you love her? Or are you waiting til you becum a Millionaire? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by sexybabes(f): 2:30pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
8 years and still not ready ??U want her 2 wait another 8 years |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Kelvinj(m): 3:01pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
sexybabes:Lwkmd Poster abeg free the poor girl since ur not ready cos it wont be fair for u 2 tell her later thats she's 2 old 'sorry i cant marry u', that will be So bad |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by yme1(f): 3:11pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
let that girl go cause she can never wait for you forever |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by DrCork: 3:13pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
, yawnnn, |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
This is the exact reason why I'll NEVER wait for anybody!  |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by DrCork: 4:23pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
[color=#990000]Ujujoaf, sweeetie, did i mention that i have moiney and i own 3 car and i have 12 suits and i have 17inches c0rk and i am romantic and i can cook and i have my ow shoes and i go to resturants and I love cinima and i have no kids and I am ready to love u like fanta? [/color] |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Mobinga: 6:56pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
Dr Cork:lol |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by 1102(m): 7:04pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
Dr Cork:  |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
Mr. Cork stop changing the topic, |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by amyg(f): 7:19pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
am gonna be blunt here so take it or leave it cos the truth is bitter.u've been dating a good girl for 8yrs(cos if she isnt good,u wld have quit) and still not ready?u r never gonna be ready.am in a 3yr r/shp and already tired.add her age to 8.man think and grow up.please tell while there is still time.when she starts having difficulties in conceiving,u wld hit another girl b4 we say jahmen are trouble really/so u just want to bang all your life? |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:05pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
@poster there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with what you are doing.you are being honest about who you are and how you feel about the relationship. the gal knows the deal and can go and seek for a better man if she doesnt want to "wait" or continue dating you. marrying her while you are not ready IS what you should never do! as for Ebony's comment, although she is a militant for marriage, she must have been in a (really) bad mood today. lol |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by deniyor: 11:03pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
The fact that you have been dating someone for the past 8 yrs does not mean you have to marry her. As long as you are totally honest with her, there is no probs. If we start putting a cap on how long a relationship should last, u start forcing people to marry whether they aren't sure or are not ready. Either ways that will be a disaster. If you are not ready, then you are not ready. If you don't think she is the one, let her know. It is what it is. I had a family member that dated 11 yrs b4 marriage. Others 6 months - Different strokes for different folks. Ignore all those who are screaming for your head cos you hv been dating someone for 8 yrs. They will not be the ones to bear the marriage joys & burdens with you when you do so. If they are that passionate, let them go concentrate on their own weddings. |
| Re: 8 Yrs In A Relationship by queeneve: 11:16pm On Sep 14, 2010 |
No one telling HIM HE NEED TO GET MARRIED, WE ARE SAYING THE CHICK IS dumb FOR WAITING THAT LONG, IT OBVIOUSLY THE GIRL IS READY AND WAITING ON HIM TO BE READY, LIFE IS TOO CHOICE TO WAIT ON ANYBODY, WHAT IF THE BUS HIT HER AZZ TOMORROW, NOW SHE WASTED HER LIFE WAITIN ON THIS MOFO, HE CAN TAKE AS LONG AS HE WANT, HE IS NOT READY, THE GIRL IS READY, AND WAITING, SAD, |
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