Tracey121:

your such a dumbass, next tym keep your silly opinions to urself, U just prove what kind of poo we have to keep up with for being intelligent, its idiots and mediocres like you who makes smart ppl's life difficult

see the kind mouth wey you get want come date a :fair, tall gentleman. Do you think any man would lower his own standards to put up with you. As you rightly found out, you cant be satisfied so goodluck with your lovechild

[s]Anger Management issue with  Bad mouth = Ability to find a perfect man[/s]

ITbomb:

see the kind mouth wey you get want come date a :fair, tall gentleman. Do you think any man would lower his own standards to put up with you. As you rightly found out, you cant be satisfied so goodluck with your lovechild

@ITbomb
Am very surprised,am sure this might be d reason she hasnt been able 2 find a man all these yrs. Jst listen 2 d kind of words she used on me wen i havnt done anytin 2 her,i wonder d type of words she wil use on sum1 who now does sumtin 2 her. Let me kip quite b4 she pours me an acid,this lady is capable of such

Tracey121:

its idiots and mediocres like you who makes FRUSTRATED ppl's life LIKE MYSELF difficult

This is how ur statement shld look like cuz ur life is already a difficult and a pathetic one. U dont nid 2 tel us how frustrated u are cuz we hv seen d extent and d cause

I have learnt so much on this thread,
if you're 25 then you re still in a middle class age.

First of all i commend you for having the strong mind in posting ur problems for an advise and also having a meaningful taste cos i never see Wealth in your requirement  . There many people here having such problems including those who has nothing to offer but making gest of you.I know you can add and subtract every advise we give here and figure out a solution . My suggestion is try to be more religious and try meeting and making friends with guys. Its very difficult to have all those qualities just in a man, but u may itemized them by how more importance they are.

Instead of dating a guy u don't know, establish a friendship for sometime, see if he can meet some of your most important qualities. you may meet a medium height with no broad chest and shoulder! that would have other qualities and make you happy. (its a matter of physical appearance) If a man has good appearance but no future and as a player what will it profit you? Heart Breaking. A Guy with good character, Caring, Loving, Happiness, Optimistic, test him to know if he is not a liar, Clever, Very Very relevant to humanity, Adore and Praise you, religious, Advise and help you. Give him a chance. You can get to know this through friendship.

Quote me if am wrong 99% of women want the same thing you wanted so don't expect such man to have only u. Its either he his a player or he has many GF for him to pick the best.

I use my case for example. I had an extreme tasted for Ladies. She must be yellow in complexion, She must be pretty, She must be almost my age at most 2yrs younger, attractive and pretty. I searched and make friends and whenever i fall in Love and proposed, is like i just unleash their character. I always make mistakes by showing my love, They use the avenue to Play me until i give up. Now am in Luv with a Black Gurl, Pretty and 7yrs younger. She makes me happy, she adore me, She loves me, She is optimistic but am afraid if she gained admission to the university she may turn to something else, but i have made realized that. I have her as Young shall Grow.

Heaven is your limit you have nothing to worry take you time to digest our advise and be no in haste, slow and steady wins the race. The patient dog eats the fattest Bone. You shall meet Mr right but not with all the qualities you want i assure You.

LUKINGUY:

I have learnt so much on this thread,
if you're 25 then you re still in a middle class age.

First of all i commend you for having the strong mind in posting your problems for an advise and also having a meaningful taste cos i never see Wealth in your requirement  . There many people here having such problems including those who has nothing to offer but making gest of you.I know you can add and subtract every advise we give here and figure out a solution . My suggestion is try to be more religious and try meeting and making friends with guys. Its very difficult to have all those qualities just in a man, but u may itemized them by how more importance they are.

Instead of dating a guy u don't know, establish a friendship for sometime, see if he can meet some of your most important qualities. you may meet a medium height with no broad chest and shoulder! that would have other qualities and make you happy. (its a matter of physical appearance) If a man has good appearance but no future and as a player what will it profit you? Heart Breaking. A Guy with good character, Caring, Loving, Happiness, Optimistic, test him to know if he is not a liar, Clever, Very Very relevant to humanity, Adore and Praise you, religious, Advise and help you. Give him a chance. You can get to know this through friendship.

Quote me if am wrong 99% of women want the same thing you wanted so don't expect such man to have only u. Its either he his a player or he has many GF for him to pick the best.

I use my case for example. I had an extreme tasted for Ladies. She must be yellow in complexion, She must be pretty, She must be almost my age at most 2yrs younger, attractive and pretty. I searched and make friends and whenever i fall in Love and proposed, is like i just unleash their character. I always make mistakes by showing my love, They use the avenue to Play me until i give up. Now am in Luv with a Black Gurl, Pretty and 7yrs younger. She makes me happy, she adore me, She loves me, She is optimistic but am afraid if she gained admission to the university she may turn to something else, but i have made realized that. I have her as Young shall Grow.

Heaven is your limit you have nothing to worry take you time to digest our advise and be no in haste, slow and steady wins the race. The patient dog eats the fattest Bone. You shall meet Mr right but not with all the qualities you want i assure You.

Round of applause

matter arisin,,,,,, make i sleep over d matter sha,,,i dey come.

Hope i will have the patience to read through your situation, maybe i will tomorrow!, In the mean time, @25, You er thinking straight, Thats the best age for a woman to marry,

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@ chaircover: She's her own problem , she's not looking at the men's character and personality only the physical attractiveness they posses. She made one statement which proved it all : " I've loved guys who don't give shit about me ". Cute500 said it all.
She'll come to learn that love goes beyond physical outlook , I just hope it won't be too late

@MOBO444, i'm a con Whats wrong with you? Why do you say a thing like this? I need some explanation before i make my conclusions, Its wrong for a lady to marry at 25? Please!!! Maybe you er not a con , but i bet you are confused or maybe we are not the same page, Its not really cold in England right now , would have said the cold is bothering your thinking faculty! I have sisters dammit, 25 is not too young to marry, Big up your brains!

Break down your requirement into five places and accept whoever that has up to 2/5 of it.

Tracey,u shouldn't have plastered rymzo the way u did though it does reveal where some of ur deficiencies lie. 25 isn't BAD at all, my aunt is over 40 and still single! The attributes u listed earlier are predominantly physical; the firt gifts nature gives to humans. Sadly,these are also the FIRST qualities nature takes away-ur man's six pack will become a lopsided onepack and the biceps won't defy gravity till eternity. By all means,be physically attracted to each other,but u won't have us believe u're shaped like a coke bottle,with flawless skin,jetblack long hair with a voice like velvet If u are(in de offchance),we'd have to see it to believe it.

Tracey, you still hv 15 years b4 u hit 40. When you reach 40, you can start worrying abt being single at 40 and no kid. Till then, it's your life, enjoy it the way you want.

Poster i jxt recoiled in shock when i saw ur long list on what ur man must possess. I wont hve been shocked if u included he must hve a long, big and huge d1ck. MEHN 4 chrissake ur list is so spotless and i hope u are also.

In relation to ya problem what u need is to do is go easy on ma fellow brodas give them the benefit of a doubt ie don't jxt guess- this man is all i want but must be an as s type. When u happen to fall in love jxt don't put up marriage sign post so early for chrissake don't appear desperate. And 1 more thing i noticed u hve a short fuse try hiding it dear. GOODLUCK with ur search.

Rymzo:

@ITbomb
Am very surprised,am sure this might be d reason she hasnt been able 2 find a man all these yrs. Jst listen 2 d kind of words she used on me wen i havnt done anytin 2 her,i wonder d type of words she wil use on sum1 who now does sumtin 2 her. Let me kip quite b4 she pours me an acid,this lady is capable of such This is how your statement shld look like cuz your life is already a difficult and a pathetic one. U dont nid 2 tel us how frustrated u are cuz we hv seen d extent and d cause

Actually the reason I hadnt find a man is coz I know my worth and I find it so hard to trust anybody and sweetie if I was a guy, I'd say Im such a sweet kind gentlemen bt ur Pal was jst unlucky and the comment he left made me question his intelligence, I mean if u hv nothing to say in the thread why say anything, if he knew he didnt belong in the thread what was he doing at the first place, u'd wonder if he engage his brain b4 saying anything and my statement ws jst the way it should be no need for correction and my life is not pathetic blv me, Im just concern about my singleness that dsnt mean Im leading a pathetic life, Im terrified none of my family members are married or at least have BF

On a very serious note now, Inked-Nerd thank you for having my back sweet,

And one more thing guys I hear you and I understand, guys are just a lot of work for my own liking and I cant put up with their crap, but I dnt wana be single until Im 40 Yho, thats more than I can handle and on my wildest dreams I dnt see myself alone at the age of 30, I see Money and a very big family but I only need twins or just 2 children

Vic2k3:

Poster i jxt recoiled in shock when i saw your long list on what your man must possess. I wont hve been shocked if u included he must hve a long, big and huge d1ck. MEHN 4 chrissake your list is so spotless and i hope u are also.

In relation to ya problem what u need is to do is go easy on ma fellow brodas give them the benefit of a doubt ie don't jxt guess- this man is all i want but must be an as s type. When u happen to fall in love jxt don't put up marriage sign post so early for chrissake don't appear desperate. And 1 more thing i noticed u hve a short fuse try hiding it dear. GOODLUCK with your search.

The list is just a mere fiction of my ideal partner and most of all a joke, only one guy I have dated once who posses those attributes and U know Im without him right now is coz he had bird seeds for brains, he needed a recipe to boil water and intructions to warm food in the microwave and Boy did he think he was the best thing that ever to the feminine gender since Jesus it was so funny, but hey it happens, ok truth is I prefer my guy to be not thin in all that is there and not shorter than me those are the attributes that I cant compromise especially the short part, but Ive dated many guys who were just my height but I found it so difficult to be with them when Im on high heels, it felt like I was dating my younger brother or someone who is younger than me, and thin is just another problem, see I love warm and gentle hugs but if Im gona hit bones whenever I hug my BF then we will have a problem so guys U really need to understand I cant compromise those 2 attributes, I always tell God that if my Soulmate is Small, Thin and Short then he was certainly making him for himself otherwise Im always happy with the rest, charactor is more important, U see Im very sensitive and I cant date someone who is inconsiderate of my feelings or else that will be the only time I will ever have to lead a very pathetic and miserable life, u can break and mend my heart very quickly but really Im too fragile and I need a partner that will understand that

Ur ex-admirer/bf that needed recipe to boil a hot water will be fun i tink, i will definitely love to meet him

BTW u've jxt answered the 1st paragraph what about the 2nd?

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MOBO444:

Please nobody should insult the poster anymore, all she need is a MAN and a BABY, cant a lady have a choice.

Very comforting MOBO444,

Vic2k3:

your ex-admirer/bf that needed recipe to boil a hot water will be fun i tink, i will definitely love to meet him

BTW u've jxt answered the 1st paragraph what about the 2nd?

And what second paragraph are u talking about, I wonder why guys are so concerned abt their dicks, I once dated someone who couldnt give it up, everything was about his dick, my dick is small, my dick is short, im like if ur so concern about ur dick why dont u just go and enlarge it, and the worst part was that I didnt care, it looked fine to me but hey u got sick to listen to a guy mourning about his dick, he was such a sissy, he worried so much abt a whole lot of things like how he looks, does he smell nice, the hair cut he had did it suit him, his ironing was it okay, he is got a pimple in his face and cant go out like that, Oh God I was dating a gay, he was fussing about a whole lot of things, I was like man if u gona be a woman lets exchange the pants

ROTFLMAO. Don't tell me u're not a comedian? . U've jxt made ma day with ur last sentence lol

Hey Vic!

@ Tracey, girl why are you frustrated being single at 25?

Hey Sa Goddess how was ya night? I hope cool

Restful. . . . . .Weekend was cool also!

Are you well?

Why not, cool as ever jxt that i'm feeling a lil lazy today wanna take a day off .

@ poster i get u.but have you noticed sometimes when you are so disturbed abt situations like this the solutions just keep moving away.you cant control this but what you can control is how you react to it.dnt beat yuorself up the right guy will turn up keep going to the rt places and kip in touch with your spirituality,he cnt miss you when he sees u .

I didn't want to wake up this morning I am taking leave in a two weeks' time so I have to soldier on until then!

Good to hear you are cool!

SA Goddess:

Hey Vic!
@ Tracey, girl why are you frustrated being single at 25?

Well I dont have a reason why I should not be frustrated, my younger sister who is 20 years old has a 2 year old son, my coosin sisters have children, my onlder brother who is 27 years old has 6 year old son and I dont want my children to think that im their grandmother, I cant afford to have a milk leaking breast at the age of 40 im sorry, its just not so on, and another thing Im working to achieving my goals in life which will change my life drastically and guys even now they date me coz they think Im intelligent and I might change their financial crisis for some reasons I dont coz Im so broke to even begin taking of my family but they always get the impression that I have money and I might happen to change from being their GF to their mothers, this has happened in many occasions where I broke up with the guy coz he'd take and take and take and never give, see I always give ppl a benefit of the doubt, maybe coz I network myself as a business woman, I dont know, ok, at the end of the day I have to sell my product even I am still building it u know and sometyms I will tell someone that I do this and this and that coz I have to network thats what business ppl do and the next thing he is interested, and then he is borrowing money and asking me to buy him staff thats when the problem start where I will tell him baby if u think Im ur mother u must be one stupid guy I ever have to meet, U see I dont mind helping a fellow guy out if I can but I know when its all about that, guys use girls, same as girls especially here, there is this one who wanted me to maintain his family welfare, I couldnt stop laughing but he didnt say it out loud and I am so broke, like really broke, My Mom is hungry where she is, so now whats gona happen is this when Im planning to have my business up and runnin when Im 30 and guys will not love me for who I am by then bt they will love my intellect just like now

thats one of the reason I am panicking, 1 coleague was only interested in me when he learns that Im different from most women and Im intelligent and now he wana break it off with his wife, its very strange, I was laughing at him, I mean guys think there is a big FOOL in my forehead, Im smart they should know that, they cant fool me but they try anyway

Leave? I will suggest that u visit another country in order to unwind take Nigeria 4 instance. Her landscape is breath taking and we also hve really 9ice dudes here too

SA Goddess:

I didn't want to wake up this morning    I am taking leave in a two weeks' time so I have to soldier on until then!

Good to hear you are cool!

Vic2k3:

Why not, cool as ever jxt that i'm feeling a lil lazy today wanna take a day off .

Vic2k3:

Hey Sa Goddess how was ya night? I hope cool

Couldnt u guys start a topic on this than hijacking my post, I mean there are no payments required to start a topic in this place and its not really a mission to do so

Vic2k3:

ROTFLMAO. Don't tell me u're not a comedian? . U've jxt made ma day with your last sentence lol

LOL, well Im not a comedian, I just love making ppl laugh, I do have a sense of humor really, and everybody love being with me coz they know I will go out of my way so that they laugh and me too I love being with myself so much, Im funny, intelligent, smart, beautiful and I always provide a good company except to me and everybody but u have to watch what u say to me or ur gona make ur life and mate's very difficult, I am capable of anything, I can make u laugh and make u cry, I can bring u happiness or misery, depends on how u treat me, but most of all I love myself and I love being with myself more than anything or anyone in this world, I have a world of my own where everything happens as per my wishes

Ok Tracey, go ahead and panic then, hopefully your titz will be leaking milk soon, good luck!

@Vic, I am off to a jazz festival 4 hours away, whole weekend affair, will travel on Friday and come back on Sunday and rest on Monday, it's more of an outing out of Johannesburg than really wanting to party the entire weekend!  Next time I will plan better and come over to Naija    I believe you about Naija and hot men, look at your profile pic  

Tracey121:

Couldnt u guys start a topic on this than hijacking my post, I mean there are no payments required to start a topic in this place and its not really a mission to do so[i][/i]LOL, well Im not a comedian, I just love making ppl laugh, I do have a sense of humor really, and everybody love being with me coz they know I will go out of my way so that they laugh and me too I love being with myself so much, Im funny, intelligent, smart, beautiful and I always provide a good company except to me and everybody but u have to watch what u say to me or your gona make your life and mate's very difficult, I am capable of anything, I can make u laugh and make u cry, I can bring u happiness or misery, depends on how u treat me, but most of all I love myself and I love being with myself more than anything or anyone in this world, I have a world of my own where everything happens as per my wishes

So people can't even greet each other on your thread? Oh, I see, we are taking the focus from you, shine on then!