My ex-girlfriend birthday comes up by weekend but I don't know if it would be nice to send her a birthday message even though with the fact that she was never committed to the relationship which led to break up.she never really cared all through the time I knew her but I still love her.please,what do you guys suggest ? Should I send her the message  or not ? Will she respond well or just ignore  ? Please help me with your candid advice.I will tolerate any form of advice from you guys cuz I need it badly.
thanks

No.

go on soun, go ahead

Why not?

Go ahead, if she ignores it, that's her business.

Hmmmm although i dont celebrate birthdays. But if i were to do so i wont send her a message because honestly she would use it to form for you o! You know girls na

i would say, it depends on the way in which your relationship ended. if you ended it mutually and you remain on good terms, then by all means send her a birthday greeting, but if you ended it on a sour note particularly if she was the one who ended it, then there is no need to send her a birthday greeting as doing so would imply that you have not moved on - best of luck  

@shedra hmmmmm

Depending on the circumstances, if both of you are not already in a relationship, then go ahead. But if one of you is, then better not to.

send a birthday wish as what- friend , acquitance or ex girlfriend

are you still thinking of her?

a simple 'happy birthday' would not hurt, better to do than think 'i should have' later

Bros  stop being childish, since u remembered it. Go ahead and wish her happy birthday. and Pls go on with your life(Not that it will be easy since u'r still clinging to her)

go ahead and do it, but just dont appear needy or acting like u desperately want her back. win or lose, u'll only come from the experience stronger

why not , you can still meet in future ,

Don't call her on phone, she myt ignore and dat would make it worse (dependin on how u guys ended up).

Just send her a text message, wishin her a happy birthday and move on with your lyf !!!

Creamish:

a text message is more appropraite.

yeah

I can  imagine

ring ring rung!

hello ma ex girlyflend, how does u do?
I am call to whissh u Appy bedday
& to findi out if by any chance
u still get some punny remain for me

call her and sing happy birthday to her

why not if not.its just a b/day wish&nt a makeup text.juz go ahead&only text her.if she gat conscience she wud reply&if she dont,u hav satisfied ur conscience, praaah

Suprise should be the key element here. If she's expecting you to call or reach out to her in anyway to say happy birthday, don't. But if she isn't expecting it, then you should. So, can you tell what she'll be expecting you to do?

No harm in wishing her a happy birthday. Hopefully, you are not expecting her to appreciate it cos SHE WON'T so wish her well and move on with your life  

It does not add neither does it reduce your status in all ramification; you can go ahead and wish her happy birthday, BTW if she was not your ex, can't you wish anybody a happy birthday?

Anyway, if you choose to call her don't get broken in your conversation with her for how you say those words matters.

@ Poster your ex, haba please get a life and move on from the she devil.

Creamish:

a text message is more appropraite.

A birthday card is more appropriate dont you think?

Just send her a message and be brieve, dont act or appear as if you still want her back.

For example a message like this could be sent to her.

Happy Bday,long life and prosperity,God bless.

That is qiute straight and make sure you move on with your life aswell.

@ poster.

move on ma guy. she shouldnt exist in ur line of vision anymore
therefore u need to reset the jumper in ya head, better still
reformat ya psyche & delete her from ya memory.

Yes you can dear, i have posted something similar here before, you can, but not more than that, just a simple 1minute call should do, no lovvy durvy stories pls in ur conversation, and NO GIFT.!!!

Yes you can dear, i have posted something similar here before, you can, but not more than that, just a simple 1minute call should do, no 'i miss u', no lovvy durvy stories pls in ur conversation, and NO GIFT.!!!

A simple or casual happy birthday will do,with no emotional tones.And dont give her an opprtunity to think u re still emotionally attached to her.