Well you can still wish her if you want, for me i don't remember my ex-girlfriends birthday

@latepa. One way traffic

Sure! There's nothing wrong with sending an sms to her. Just make it brief. Cheers!

bros move on with your life. you obviously still wish she will take you back. thats why you want to send her a card. man-up and move on with your life. get a new babe. sending birthday cards to your ex is creepy at best and stalker-ish at worst

Gbam

buzugee:

bros move on with your life. you obviously still wish she will take you back. thats why you want to send her a card. man-up and move on with your life. get a new babe. sending birthday cards to your ex is creepy at best and stalker-ish at worst

Pay her an impromptu visit with a birtday cake and a portable microphone, then go down on ur knees and sing happy birthday.

@oliidel kai wat if her new bobo is around? Bros move on.

Hahahahaha

Muthafucker move on with your life

Depends on what led to d break up and how it happened
If u guys r still normal friends, then WHY NOT,
Don't sound 'romantic' and 'needy' sha

I thank all of you that contributed to this topic. Infact this topic is for me because the story is like mine.I had a girl I love so much b4 something that doesnt make sense seperated us. Inshort, she finally broke the silence by mid feb., early this year by telling me nt to wait 4 her again and move on. Her birthday is Nov. 22nd. I've been thinking whether or not to send her txt mssg which was our usual tradition yearly. But she didnt send me any wishes on my birthday.

Why not? there's nothing stopping you from wishing each other well

jude33084:

I thank all of you that contributed to this topic. Infact this topic is for me because the story is like mine.I had a girl I love so much b4 something that doesnt make sense seperated us. Inshort, she finally broke the silence by mid feb., early this year by telling me nt to wait 4 her again and move on. Her birthday is Nov. 22nd. I've been thinking whether or not to send her txt mssg which was our usual tradition yearly. But she didnt send me any wishes on my birthday.

if she no send u msg, no send am, Shikena

Dont know why some guys cant move on.
What if you have a GF and she wants to wish an ex a happy birthday? (or whatever).
You are the type that will have the biggest hang-ups about it so stop creeping and just
go away! !

Abi o

y not if u guys are still best of friends.

its a sin,try read your bible

Should I wish My Ex-girlfriend Happy Birthday?

ODE!!!!. make ur current babe find out abi?
I swear this is the thought of his THIRD LEG not his brains. She must be giving it to you BIG TIME abi?!. Its not to late to confess.
Carry on, it thats where your ddick heart tells you!!!

why didn't you just tell us it's on facebook?
Drop your message there along with the others. She is not going to respond to each of them all, but only going to give a general "thank you all". So, just drop your message there. You have nothing to lose!

i would say, it depends on the way in which your relationship ended. if you ended it mutually and you remain on good terms, then by all means send her a birthday greeting, but if you ended it on a sour note particularly if she was the one who ended it, then there is no need to send her a birthday greeting as doing so would imply that you have not moved on - best of luck

@shadrach77 I quite agree with you on that. It's the best solution because i have gone through that before though mine ended in a good terms and i was the one that broke up with her but she still wants to hear my voice just be friends. You give it a try also if it's just like mine.

kokoletz:

Yea her head might start swelling. Let her be.

, and BURST. Depending on if you had game at all///did you have game at all? do you have game at all?

dont!

She never cared for u & u still gat her at heart
Grow up man & face reality!!!
About sending an sms or ringing her, ma opinion is 'hell no'.
She might wanna take u for a ride afterwards!!!

just send her a simple and VERY short text message

no love tones just be straight

then move on with your life

I doubt sending her a birthday message would be nice doing,
Hey, when relationship ends then everything should as-well end and forgotten cus apparently she's your past and we move better in life when we dont think or include our past in our future,
Obviously it aint easy to forget bout something you cherished very often simple because of some sentimental/emotional attachment bou when such thing aint bringing comfort and satisfaction and you had to let it go then let it go for good and never have re-think on such issue,
Guy move on and i bet you there are better love on the way bou only when you want to identify with it,
Goodluck and all the best as you decide!!!!!!!!

if she doesn't deserve it pls dnt but if she deserves it go ahead.

If you guyz were best of friends when the whole thing was going on then splitting doesn't mean not wishing each other well, There's nothing wrong about calling or sending her a message, no gifts though

This was exactly what i was faced with in August when my EX celebrated her b-day. I must say EMPHATICALLY that our relationship ended on a VERY VERY SOUR NOTE becos i was d one who ended it due 2 deceit and double-dating. b4 then i was 2 knw why she had nt been giving attention lyk b4- thru cols,txt etc . I calld her several tymes 2 meet nd av a dialogue which she everly evaded. When i couldnt bear d 1 loved so dearly 4rm treating me in such way anylonger, i sent her a STINKER SMS. she later calld back nd we startd abusing it eachoda on fone lyk babies. Ever since then i neva calld her nt until her b-day when i sent her a txt msg and guess what she calld back nd thankd me for rembering her. But the bottomline is dat ' I CAN NEVER GO BACK TO MY VOMIT'. Eventhough i still sense some mutual feelings btw me nd her but i cant play a second fiddle in a relationship besides d deed had been done. No going back 'cos there re a lot better than her. SO THE GUY IN QUESTN MAY SEND D BIRTHDAY WISH.