Bro do cus i just did dat easily,still shows i loved her for real.

IN FACT, ADD A BIG BIRTHDAY PRESENT TOO.

Nothin spoil.Their is nothing wrong with that.

Preferably, send her your wedding invitation to show that you have moved on and found a better life.  seems like part of your heart is still there? I bet her new BF would use your card to fan himself (i mean say her new bobo go use your card blow himself breeze and laff at you) 

My X left me for no just cause (about 5yrs ago) and i moved on with my life.
Am i to start thinkin of my X's B-day when i know i can't even remember mine and have lots to think about?
To make matter worse, it was my present gf that reminded me of my B-day these yr (with gr8 surprised gifts) !!!

Op, you can just send her somtin like: HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU . . .as simple as that and move on with your life.
Or better stil, man-up and bone anytin X. Let by-gone be by-gone for someone that wants to procceed further does not allow thins of the pass to bring him down, that's the belief of a courageous man !!!

@Jude, since your X did not borther textin U B-day wishes, den don't borther yoursef in sendin her a B-day text too.
It shows that she has forgotten about U and moved on with her life, so u also should forget her and move on too !

@poster, an ex is one's past, thats where she shld belong, ur past. DON'T wish her a happy bday

do what u like bro. be urself. dont lozen to these people. and u, you are telling us now because it (ur relationship) didnt wok out. Just be urself. do what your heart says.

yes, whats the problem

I wouldn't bother

No. Please stop tormenting yourself and snap out of the fantasy, she is gone and according to your words 'she was never committed to the relationship'.

No. No. No.

Guyman02:

Preferably, send her your wedding invitation to show that you have moved on and found a better life.  seems like part of your heart is still there? I bet her new BF would use your card to fan himself (i mean say her new bobo go use your card blow himself breeze and laff at you) 

This is one of the best replies to the poster's question. You see, you said she was never into the relationship and all that, and of course you WERE, and probably still have feelings for her.

The truth is that she was and WILL not be into you, and trying to work on yourself and improve yourself, which could land you a girl of your dreams, is the way to go. And imagine, 2 or 3 years from now, she'll add you to facebook and scan through your entire wedding album feeling like a dumazz .

Dont let those who say do it deceive you, dont give up the last inch of power you have (your dignity). MOVE ON BRO!

If u parted on good terms then go ahead and call or text but if she hates ur guts u better leave her alone.

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Call her ?

What if she ignores ?

Omo, na yawa be dat joor, make she go DIE abeg !!!

Bros, express ur love for her, go ahead and wish her a hapi bday.

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which kain loff dem dey express for X dat doesn't deserve it ?

You know your ex better than we do. This one doesn't need advising. Do what you feel is right. I personally don't wish my ex a happy birthday because the man wicked! But that na me. Do you and do am well.

This is a girl u've gone out with and for u not to be with her does not mean u r enemies, i think it's normal to send her wishes. let me ask u a question if u see anything bad coming to her won't u call her and inform her? if yes is the answer then call her at this her happy moment and i tell u if she's really a reasonable person she'll appreciate it, and u'll be equally happy within u that u did,

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ur ex no send u wen una dey date then na now she wan feel u cos u said happy birthday. ur a dunce

It depends on your relationship after breakup.

^^^^ True talk

No you should not, please do not, she never ever wants to hear from you move on with your life and die happily.

I suggest that u don't.. it doesn't matter ifbon a sour note or on a good term.. a breakup is a breakup.. no buts or maybes... so chillax and stay put.. no messages 4 her dis year