EmptyCoconutHead:
I've sent a pm thru. Kindly reply dear.
Thanks. I love tommies

missjo:
Oh dear

camobri:

all tomboys are lesbians but they mostly live in denial

Kayceenaz:

By using "mostly," you imply there are other factors besides "being born that way" which could trigger a transgender switch. That is where tomness and external influences such as sexual abuse, peer orientation, emotional heartbreak, misogyny/misandry, and so on, come in. Although not every tomboy/tomgirl turns a transgender (a point I have reiterated and you've misunderstood, too), my contention is the probability is high due to the growing comfort associated with assuming behaviours of the opposite gender. Such could (not must) lead to the transgender decision, especially when the resources to effect it are reachable.

Clearly, my position gives room for tomboy/tomgirls to significantly quit the personality as time passes, and advises the "shedding off" can be made earlier for harmony with the self. The fact tomness can be outgrown suggests it doesn't constitute the person's essence, making it extrinsic rather than intrinsic.

NiCurious:
Beyond just plain ENJOYING playing football with the guys?

[assuming that tomboys = girls who like to dress boyishly and play "boy" games with the boys]

Another reason you might find a girl acting tomboyish, is when she perceives that only males are respected and compensated for their contributions. She knows how people tend to be blinded by stereotypes, and prescribe for other people how they "should" behave, irrespective of their talents and preferences. If by birth she is "supposed to" sit on the sidelines, wear pink dresses and play with dolls, and follow after boys--in spite of the fact that she has much of value to contribute and which would be valued if she were male--she might reject a feminine appearance to make others take notice of herself for herself, to be heard, and fully express herself and her gifts, and be herself.

A tomboy can be a strong individual reacting to social norms that are too narrow and short-sighted. She is finding another way to be herself, when the first path is closed to her.

missjo:

I saw the notification, but i can no longer access the mail connected to my account

Cousin9999:


That's just not true. And a lot of hyper feminine women used to be major tomboys.

camobri:

don't tell me what I know!! all tomboys lowkey wants to smash a woman, the feeling is always there

Cousin9999:


You're projecting ignorance and fear onto someone who thinks/lives different from you.

You don't understand why they don't conform (ignorant), and you consider them similar to males (ignorant). You think they're as oversexed as males (ignorant), and you assume they have predatory thoughts (ignorant).

EmptyCoconutHead:
okay sorry about that.
I'll drop my WhatsApp digits but promise me you'll quickly censor it off okay?
Thanks

missjo:

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camobri:

I'm telling you what I know and not Some psycho analytical jargons.. all tomoys are lesbians, not all lesbians are tomboys. every tomboy gon tell u she hav d feelings, d ones in denial would deny it but deeeep within, dey want it

Cousin9999:

lol Sure, troll.

missjo:

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tck2000:
Hnmm

missjo:
Being a tomboy or tomgirl has no correlation with being transgender.
Tomness is exhibited in purely physical ways like in subtle dressing, sports, talking style. Trans is psychological and involves a total transformation across genders. What i mean is, a tomboy is still a girl and can choose to act girly when they have to,they just prefer behaving as a boy. A trans will stick to their new gender and does not make switches.

I take this personally cos i am a tommy myself,so take it from me and be careful about mistaking toms for trans people