Hajia me no go tlk say na curse to be virgin at 35. bt wetin me dey yarn b say na seminary u dey or u just no wan marry. Abeg d pathetic story be say u suppose don marry like 10yrs ago.
Forget d issue say u b virgin and seek 4 Mr. Right make God give u.
Na bad tin 2 dey claim virginity at dis age wen u suppose don born finish, unless say u wan claim celibacy dat one dey ok.
Na jst my opinion. i fit join such person in 100 days fastin and prayer.
no long tin

seaylan:

Militia. How come you have no respect for what is sacred.The fact that you were unable to attain it should not make you look down on people who did.

Thank you o my brother.This is what amuses me 'bout all these folks who try to feel hip because they've lost it. It's the good old secondary school mentality,since u've crossed the line of no return u try to psychologically coerce ur virgin friends into indulging in premarital sex too,not because u love them ^{hell no!},not because the experience was earth-shatteringly fantastic but because u want them to come down to ur level.

@Topic
T'all depends on her reason for keeping it.If it's based on her sense of values,religious and or moral in the face of serious social and hormonal pressure to act in our presently loose but "normal" way,then I doff my hat and bow low.

If on the other hand it's as a result of lack of opportunity (impossible if u ask me),physiological or hormonal anomalies,physical deformity which may limit the number of men that approach her,then I recommend she gets help accordingly.

In summary she has my respect and admiration.Case closed.

@milita
you seem to take it personal.the poster only asked for suggestions and advice not criticize.

it;s fun staying online on nairaland forum. all these topics they aid digestion becos you go laugh ! laugh!! and laugh.!!!. by the time u finish laUghing u will call ur secretary for food i mean lunch and dinner !i beg remain virgin AIDS IS REAL,

Roflmao

Haba!  What are you guys talking about?  Takin' what personal?  "no respect for anything sacred?  I did not criticize but only analyzing.  As the poster did not give us the reason why such " smithsonian relic" still exists, I tried to find  what called for the  existence of this "rear artifact or antique"!  I thought we had freedom to express our views here?  Why all the bad belle   Please you "holy nwejes" I expect you to have some sense of humour while you are "browsing" here.  Lighten up and talk a chill pill!  Life is too short for all this una anal retentiveness---HAVE A GOOD SHIT! I do every blessed morning with my "inhaler" for my toilet seat!

Life has phases!  At 35, I don retire dey train my children.  This 35 year old "whatever" is a slow paced one.  If you do not think that there is some "developmental lag" somewhere, then una dey the same boat.  I think you guys are Africans?  Is this what African culture is all about?  Virgin at 35!   Thank God no be my relation!  In the next 35 years, she will still be inside this virginity.  What a way to live! What a bore! Please, next topic jare!  EVEN UNA BLESSED VIRGIN MARY BORN PICKIN SO WHAT IS SHE TRYING TO PROVE

lmaoooooooo

i just dey wonder how the poster dey feel now,
instead make una tell am "weldone",  una want make she go commit, wonderful

I beg the Virgin Mama has proved her point!  We have clapped for her!  Now she needs to move on.  Once she reach the big 40 , no pastor in this world will visit her even at night!   You know you guys and age!  How many of you guys here will touch a woman for a bride over 30?  Then we are talkin of a 35 year old virgin?  Please get real! In African culture, we do not glorify "virginity" after 18! Something is definitely wrong!  There is time for every thing and this "virgin" missed the boat somewhere and may never get back on!

hmmmmmm

If you are not married it’s a thing of pride to keep yourself for 35 years. Am sure it wasn’t easy. Congrats sister

LOL  Typical!  When some people cannot hold a meaningful course of discussion, they get personal and resort to personal insults and attacks.  Better still they quote some scripture where devoid of any original ideas!  Sorry, I deal with issues in the topics posted not with individual frailties or lack of originality!  Piss unto you!

i tire o!

anyway, @ poster, it all depends on why d person is stiil a virgin
if it by choice, perhaps due to religion; she/he should feel proud and keep looking up to God if he/she wants to marry
if it is just that he/she did not see a partner (wish is not likely since sex is readily avaliable for those that wan it) she/he should be ashmed


anyway, i opt for the first instance since it sounds more realistic and i say, there are so many pple who are no longer virgins at 35 and are still single
virgin or no virgin do not gurantee what happens! for those pple that have been talking about being single at 35!

if you have a good a reason for still being a virgin, i suggest u feel proud of yourself  

viee:

i tire o!

anyway, @ poster, it all depends on why d person is stiil a virgin
if it by choice, perhaps due to religion; she/he should feel proud and keep looking up to God if he/she wants to marry
if it is just that he/she did not see a partner (wish is not likely since sex is readily avaliable for those that wan it) she/he should be ashmed


anyway, i opt for the first instance since it sounds more realistic and i say, there are so many people who are no longer virgins at 35 and are still single
virgin or no virgin do not gurantee what happens! for those people that have been talking about being single at 35!

if you have a good a reason for still being a virgin, i suggest u feel proud of yourself

i like this summary, thank u very much.

LOL    Una no see say na the ones wey dey for Niaja dey shout pass?  Una get work?  Besides sleeping in the church and praying for husband, wife, pickin, money, motto or NEPA---wetin else una dey do?  Boring people!  Please move over to busy areas in the world and let me see how much you will dwell on this nonsensical topic!  I bet my life, this virgin is not in Nigeria!  So stop making noise---hypo-po-po-crites!  How many of una be virgins sef!  Ye Ye people!  Keep dreaming of what you have lost at age 2!

@topic
it's either u're lying or u're a super-weirdo

Why are Nigerians like this. Why should she be lying because you lost yours at birth does not mean someone else did. HAba

wahala dey!!!!!!!!!

@Maka
SHAME ON U MAN!!!!I guess u over sexed abii.whts wrong in being one uhu!!

@Poster
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Plz u r d only one who can tell urself wht 2 feel abt it ok.PLZ*************KEEP UR HEAD HIGH******I ENVY U JAREE**************THIS IS WHT GURLS OF THIS DAYS WILL NEVER BOAST OF.

Na U Biko!!!!

akinwunmi:

@Maka
SHAME ON You MAN!!!!I guess u over sexed abii.whts wrong in being one uhu!!

@Poster
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Please you're d only one who can tell yourself wht 2 feel about it ok.PLZ*************KEEP UR HEAD HIGH******I ENVY You JAREE**************THIS IS WHT GURLS OF THIS DAYS WILL NEVER BOAST OF.

Na You Biko!!!!

Tell them, especially those who believe that civilization is all about being "LOSE" and F***King up and down,

Both but more of a curse.
I pray it never happens to any of my children or friend
since it did not happen to me.

na wa ! wethin d person de wait 4. na o! mke u d person go find person wey go help am bust the thing.
shooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@uchetobi

LOL   Talk ya own! People like you have no memory of when it happened since you are unconscious most of the time! Oshodi virgin!

I bet if Yoruba culture was still da same many ladies will remain SINGLE 4 LYF am tlking about the wedding night and white cloth stuff.***************I would luv to marry one, but i aint putting my hopes on it.jst chilling 4 a descent babe to take home to mama in 6yrs tym

MILITIA:

@uchetobi

LOL Talk ya own! People like you have no memory of when it happened since you are unconscious most of the time! Oshodi virgin!

Did i refer to you? WTF warranted this insult abeg stay on your own o!

Reading thru your previous post I now understand your personality. Am not surprised at your comments. Ride on. Just don’t get personal with me. abeg

Lighten up!   That is why you no get man!  Why are you so tense!  That is why it is not good to be a virgin too long! I beg I dey follow you play oh! If you do not want me to address you tell me! I thought this forum was an interactive one

uchetobi:

Why are Nigerians like this. Why should she be lying because you lost yours at birth does not mean someone else did. HAba

i guess thats true for some people. The way they are criticizing the Big V na wa o! what has the world turned into?? MUST WE ALL DO BEFORE MARRIAGE? Like i earlier said i congratulate you its not easy. Some attributed it to not finding a man Imagine!!!!!

Some people are principled for those of us who compromised , we should take cue from her. Its not an impossibility cuz many people out there are waiting for the right time. Wait on the Lord babes cuz you will reap it big time do not follow the bandwagon.

All these fake "lagos" deeper life abi na deeper yansh virgin lobbyists!

MILITIA:

Lighten up! That is why you no get man! Why are you so tense! That is why it is not good to be a virgin too long! I beg I dey follow you play oh! If you do not want me to address you tell me! I thought this forum was an interactive one

Just wanted to be clear. No wahala
And just for the records. I have a man( a 3 yr old plus man)

Eh-hen! Na so e suppose be!

Wetin all of una dey yarn sef. Pple dey congratulate, dis world dey amazing.
Wetin d kitten dey 4? na 2 carry am go grave? Abeg wahala dey tru tru. As i yarn earlier, if d lady no b reverend sista, make she pray 2 God to provide a gud man.
No be congrats or applaud she need abeg. Make una leave Militia alone, una tlk una own abeg she get right to her opinion. I dey ur side kampe.
How many guys ere go marry 35 yr old lady as first wife irrespective of virgin or no virgin?
Sum babes become worse afta dem hole don open. Dem go wan explore dose years in one day, jumping from bed 2 bed. I don experience dem tire so i no 2 dey move 4 dat kain yarn.
Na gud tin 2 remain virgin but no be 4 dis long. Abeggggggggg