Step 1- Agree with me, I think u r goin 2 hv one of 2 scenarios
1- Ur girl already knows, probably some elaborate ploy btw both friends and herself 2 fnd out if u r "faithful" u r, so far, u forkd up bigtime homeboy , Just know that if this is d case,  she really does love you, , i think.
OR
2- Her girlfriends have gone solo- vendatta on ur ass
So take ur pick.

Ma guy, abeg eat jare,  Na dem women put us for dis predicament, wen dem mama chop the apple for inside garden, carry give my papa papa chop  

Invite your friends and tell your gf to invite her friends and have a 0-r-g-y together

typical

Damn it! Guy no slack o or else u go live 2 regret am. Chop all of them.

God what a jerk. You are obviously very weak minded. I suggest you get your head out of your a** and pay attention to your fiance and stop acting like a love lorn teenager.


Or better stay let her go. I think she deserve someone better.

See how all these hypocrites are attacking a guy who has chosen to confess his weakness with their holier than thou sermons.At least he has admitted he has a problem which is half-way to solving it.
@op i can understand where you're coming from.You're only human,& it's human nature to feel the way you do.All i ask is you show some restraint out of respect for your woman.5 minutes of momentary bliss could ruin all you've worked hard to build all these years.
For all those ladies attacking the dude,take a long hard look at your b/friend/fiance/hubby,he's probably doing the same thing probably worse.Abeg nobody holy pass

@ Poster, You are taking your wife for granted because she is faithful or you feel you have suddenly become a star?
there is a way that seems right, but the end is quite sour.
so save yourself from yourself before you self destruct, cheating alone is enough "bad" no to take of with your wife friends?
Pally focus on making money and establishing your family jor, for ur mind u don turn star, ptsuuuuuuuuu

passyjango:

@poster, If this story is true, you are obviously sick or immature. The fact that you lust after any of her friends that visits, confirms my theory. If you are normal, you will only be attracted to one of them. What that means is that if another of her friend sleeps over, you will still find that one attractive more that your fiancee.

For your own good, I suggest you submit yourself to a psychologist or even a psychiatrist, so that the origin of your problem will be found and solutions provided. If you do not hid this advice you may end up abusing your own children. This how it starts. To be fore warned is to be fore armed.

You're going too far my friend. Pls don't mention my unborn kids yet. And I'm not sick o

I bet you are just digging your own grave

If this is true, i will not join the group of people that calls you indecent. You knw why? Because i know how wayward girls are. They play the victim but they are the real instigator. Women will seduce their friends' man. Women will seduce their sister's man. Some women even seduce their single mother's boyfriend. Most women should not be enlightened or educated in any way. They should, in fact, be segregated as they are the cause of hideous and involuntary erections in men like you.


Now, as much as i do not support 80% of what women does, I do know true love exists with some women, so if your Fiancée is for real; then hang on to her and resist those biitches no matter how hard they try; because all they've got is some pussssy--nothing more. Good women are very scarce so treasure what you have if she's for real.

@Poster
Enough sensible responses so far, so what's ur next move? are u going to talk wit ur gf or not? By d way u shldnt be camping girls datz fornicating and GOD aint pleased wit dat

@poster,
i hope u know this is not AY comedy zone or fan page. next time, post this trash at the comedy forum.
on the other hand, if u have just one room and u are this useless, God will never give u access to two rooms not to talk of more.
if u are real, use the nearest electric socket in ur room and kill urself.
it is for things like u that men get bad names.

A problem shared is half solved, the poster didn't come here to brag about his infidelity, he came here to lay his problems, we are all humans, there are worse people here castigating him, what he needs is advice on how to change his ways not to rain abuses on him, Poster if this is story is real, know this "most people waste time searching for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love ", put urself in your woman's shoes, I bet you won't be happy if your guys were walloping her in your house while your in the toilet, If you don't love her like you said LET HER GO, Don't keep her cus you guys have been together for a million years , If you wanna keep her then you must remove your mind from her friends, spend some quality time with her ALONE, look for her imperfectness and see them as perfect , Appreciate her frailties and strength, If this doesn't work just take time out and go for counselling it would help you, NEVER I REPEAT NEVER MARRY SOMEONE YOU DON'T LOVE, hope this helps,

Many posters have advised to keep your distance from your gf friends, dont call them on phone and dont invite them to your house anymore. If you must do, go outside go find anoda babe wey no be her friends.
You may think that you dont love her very much after 5 years because you feel you have seen everything in her, played enough with her innocence 'pusssy'. wait until you lose her, then Naija go resemble Ghana for your eye and you will realise that its not easy to get a woman who worships you and tolerate your excesses.
Respect that gurl my guy or let her go now that she still has time on her side,

Man, what a real pickle you're in.

Can't resist your fiancee's friends?

Marry her, and you won't be able
to resist your WIFE'S friends!

Can you live with that? for life?
or you wanna be another divorce statistic?

So, uh, what you gonna do?

I suggest you get born again.

OP.
Go commit suicide

Jeezuzpick:


I suggest you get born again.

And in one fell swoop all his problems will be solved abi.He'll stop lusting after his fiancee's g/friends.Aren't the so-called born-agains worse than the unbelievers?Please come up with a more practical solution.This one is too simplistic

@poster, you may not know it, but your story suggests there are some baggages you are carrying from your past which you need to sort out. I still recommend a psychologist for you. Yes guys feel attracted to girls, but they do not start touching them on the same bed as their girl friend. What pleasure do you derive just touching her. Your actions are purely childish and suggest that you still have issues to resolve with your past. You are still childish inside and need a psychologist to unlock the adult in you.

guy, no mind them, all them guys condeming u on this thread jst dey pretend, men i feel u, it happens even to the best of us, we all lust after other women even if we have one we truely luv, much less one that you are stuck to out of loyalty. all i can say is weigh ur options properly, if she`s some one you cant stay faithful to, lay her off easily, and move on with your life, it been said that a thousand failed relationship is better than one failed marriage.

u must be a dog ,

passyjango:

@poster, you may not know it, but your story suggests there are some baggages you are carrying from your past which you need to sort out. I still recommend a [b]psychologist [/b]for you. Yes guys feel attracted to girls, but they do not start touching them on the same bed as their girl friend. What pleasure do you derive just touching her. Your actions are purely childish and suggest that you still have issues to resolve with your past. You are still childish inside and need a psychologist to unlock the adult in you.

Psychologist? And of what use will one of them be, when even being a born again Xtian does not immune one from immorality or fornication!

Poster is a troll. You all are getting trolled hard.

@Poster, don't mind all the ladies and people condemning you, they are all senseless sentimentalists. You said you don't love your girl and you've told her to leave you the hell alone, yet she is desperate to hold on to you through threats of curses and all that sh it, becuse you dis virgined her? I beg make i hear word, na she dem first do for this world?

The fact is that most Women have fish brains and would never learn! Call her and tell her OH HA! that you are a player and if she is willing to accept you like that she can go on. Tell her that you won't mind marrying her if she is that desperate BUT you will play her well and catch your fun with as many girls as you like including her friends even after the wedding and if she gets angry and walks out , its all good! There is no curse that would catch you as long as you were honest with her on this issue. And besides as She is cursing you in one corner, there would be others who would be blessing you in their heart if you are being good to them.

So dump her if she is not your ideal and find your ideal to be the best lover of her life, that ones blessings will cancel her curses! And she would find someone who will truly love her not by force!

I just hate these evil women and their emotional blackmails! na by 4rce? Nonsense

dude you are a sociopath, a psychopath, and a miscreant. caressing your wifes friend when your wife is in bed with you ? i wonder what sin she committed in past-life to be stuck with you in this life.
look dude, either you grow the hell up, or just move on. i am sure she will get over it in time and hopefully find someone who truly loves her.

andyanders:

YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A DOG. YOU POSSES THE SPIRIT OF LUST AND ONLY A TRUE MAN OF GOD CAN DELIVER YOU. WITH YOUR ATTITUDE, YOU CAN EVEN SLEEP WITH YOUR OWN DAUGHTER IN THE FUTURE. YOU ARE A RISK TO YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY. [b]ARE MY SURE YOU HAVE NOT SLEPT WITH YOUR OWN IMMEDIATE SISTERS WHEN YOU COME ACROSS THEIR NUDITY? YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY DEMONIZED.[/b]

I guess you're that my sister! What a silly and vicious way of thinking.

Guy u got to be real this time, just picture your gf in bed with your best friend, how would u feel?. I'm very sure you wouldn't like dat kinda scenario, so be considerate and do not unto others what u wouldn't like to be done unto you.

Like some posters have said, if you dont love her then simply let her go, i'm sure she will one day find in her heart to forgive u rather than make her miserable for the rest of her life by marrying her out of pity.

You dont marry out of pity, u simply marry for true love, that's the only thing that can sustain a marriage. Any other reason is bound to fail.

Think twice before it's too late.

comechop:

Poster is a troll. You all are getting trolled hard.

had to be a troll. nobody is that stu-pid

buzugee:

dude you are a sociopath, a psychopath, and a miscreant. caressing your wifes friend when your wife is in bed with you ? i wonder what sin she committed in past-life to be stuck with you in this life.
look dude, either you grow the hell up, or just move on. i am sure she will get over it in time and hopefully find someone who truly loves her.

I'm not yet married Mr Psychopath and socio-path. I guess you didn't understand my post

Dahbutter:

@Poster, don't mind all the ladies and people condemning you, they are all senseless sentimentalists. You said you don't love your girl and you've told her to leave you the hell alone, yet she is desperate to hold on to you through threats of curses and all that sh it, becuse you dis virgined her? I beg make i hear word, na she dem first do for this world?

The fact is that most Women have fish brains and would never learn! Call her and tell her OH HA! that you are a player and if she is willing to accept you like that she can go on. Tell her that you won't mind marrying her if she is that desperate BUT you will play her well and catch your fun with as many girls as you like including her friends even after the wedding and if she gets angry and walks out , its all good! There is no curse that would catch you as long as you were honest with her on this issue. And besides as She is cursing you in one corner, there would be others who would be blessing you in their heart if you are being good to them.

So dump her if she is not your ideal and find your ideal to be the best lover of her life, that ones blessings will cancel her curses! And she would find someone who will truly love her not by force!

I just hate these evil women and their emotional blackmails! na by 4rce? Nonsense

and you would still hold this opinion if the woman in question is your beloved daughter ?

paris10:

I'm not yet married Mr Psychopath and socio-path. I guess you didn't understand my post

it still applies whether you are married or not. you both live together. she is your woman of 5 years.