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Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by omotolsy(m): 3:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
What keeps Marriage together is marrying the right person and not factors thereafter in Marriage. The foundation is the winning factor in Marriage. Marriage is like a house/institution, you build a house on a faulty foundation then you get a collapsed building. Get it right before entering into it, if you get into it and start patching it up, your Marriage is then a gamble. Respect, care, tolerance, etc are all intrinsic to the word love, for if you claim to love then these factors are naturally exhibited. I am open to marital discussions and advise. (strictly matured minds) 07030771728 |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Both Love and Respect From both sides |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Twagrill(m): 3:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
For sure It's love oo. It's holistic |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by sowilli: 3:35pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Love, respect, understanding, tolerance |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra:No married woman will type this 1 Like |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
PacoRamani:Breast that will shrink with time.. Stop all these lustful idea now |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by omorttee4u(m): 3:38pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
They are 5&6, when it's comes to marriage. Before the love could grow, you need respect. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
TheKingIsHere:Fake love.. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Davash222:Nobody can fight the truth!! |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Studyinchina200(m): 3:40pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Money and respect. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by banio: 3:41pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Let Summarize it. Loving You without respecting you is rare. But respect without love is COMMON. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
ogawisdom:So a woman will submit to a man that disrespect her in Public just because he provide the money?? |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Pearly255(f): 3:42pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Both buh our Nigerian men love to be respected. Respect comes first. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by omoharry(f): 3:42pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra:..Funny enough there are some guys that very loving and responsible.Its just that they are few and they love people that do not love and appreciate them. I believe some good loving and well brought up guys are available but they are like diamond that we have to look very well . However, the nuisance and the irresponsible ones are available every where.They are the regulars Joes' in and about town and in churches. Dont worry, Love will come to you and do not let some irresponsible nuisance to make you think it does not exist among Nigerians men. 1 Like |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by OmoOshodi(m): 3:43pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Good sex with(not and)money 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by ogawisdom(m): 3:44pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
eni4real: Others things being equal |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by samguru(m): 3:45pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
When you love someone you respect him/her so much Also when you respect someone, you will automatically love that person. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by KoolBigk(m): 3:46pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Read my comment again, now slowly! I said Love & respect are needed...the other factors i added was just to expatiate further for better understanding for OP. Oluwafhemmi10: |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by MrNipplesLover(m): 3:47pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
The hypocrites will not talk about sex. lack of adequate sex breaks marriages. money inclusive. 2 Likes |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Nmezor(f): 3:49pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Both, infact they are interwoven OP...when you love ur spouse u will definitely respect him too 1 Like |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by KingAzari: 3:50pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Respect... fck love. Respect my fvcking decisions. If I said I am sleeping alone, respect it. If I said I ain't vcking you, respect it. If I said I ain't gonna have more kids, fvcking respect that. If I said I don't wanna argue or talk, respect it. When you respect my decisions, love will come. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Samcent: 3:51pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
It's love for my wife that has kept me in marriage. My wife has been, and I pray she continues to be, a good help meet to me. 1 Like |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Eju2018(m): 3:51pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
In a marriage, Love is not enough. When I first heard that assertion, I thought it was untrue. But with recent developments I have found it is true. Ask anyone from a broken relationship if they STILL LOVE their ex, the answer is yes. So if there is still love why are they separated? Simply stated- Love without respect cannot work. Disrespect stifles love in any relationship |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by nick50(m): 3:53pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Husband love ur wife,..wife respect ur husband..thats how it should be |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Felalucky8(m): 3:59pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
[quote author=frozen70 post=90494580]Love is what keeps marriage If you love someone, you will respect him or her Simple What if the person's action makes you disrespect him or her? Cuz that's the only reason to disrespect him or her.........ACTION |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by obyrich(m): 3:59pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
johnrix:You do not submit to whom you do not respect. Also note that respect begets respect and love binds the souls together forever. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by RPG2020(m): 4:02pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Women are dangerous no matter how you please them evil mind live with them die with them So as a man i will advise you to marry urself � Anytime she do anyhow drop her off at her father house or where you pick her from Nor Sense |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by LordIsaac(m): 4:04pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Before I can decide to ask you out in the first place, I must respect you and that must be reciprocal. Even if it is a coerced type, I shall pick RESPECT anyday. |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Munzy14(m): 4:05pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
samguru:I totally disagree with the bolded. example; You respect someone u work for because he/she is your boss. work ethics demands so. But he/she might be a pain in the azz that u hate so much. I think love takes respect wherever it goes, but respect doesn't most times. Understanding each other is key in every relationship, In addition to getting the right partner who will.
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Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Danniedpastor(m): 4:06pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Ladies and gents, let me shock you. LOVE DOESN'T KEEP A MARRIAGE. COMMITMENT AND RESPECT DOES. Love can begin marriage but marriage survives on commitment and respect. A time comes when you don't find anything to love in your spouse. 1. It could be in the time of misunderstanding and quarrels 2. It might be a time the make a terrible mistake 3. It might be during extended family issues. 4. It could come at anytime but trust me, IT MUST COME. This is why people do terrible things to their spouses or even kill then. Then, you are forced to ask... "no be this people dey act Romeo and Juliet before?". Every home also needs the HOLY SPIRIT to survive. Do you know why? 1 Only the Holy Spirit can keep your home when it is threatened. 2. He reveals imminent attacks. 3. He keeps you Holy... You can cheat if you have the HOLY SPIRIT. 4. The human mind can't forgive but with the HOLY SPIRIT you can forgive and wrong doing. I can go on and on but no time. Just play your part as a man and let the HOLY SPIRIT lead you. GOD BLESS YOU |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by LaJoe2: 4:09pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
BOTH |
Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Emma1Oj(m): 4:12pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Just say "LOVE" because you can't submit to someone u don't love.. Wen you love u submit n respect. |
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