Both are the best.

Neither Love or Respect

Good Finances.

johnrix:
Married men in the house, which do you see keeps your marriage - love for your wife or Respect for her?

On one hand, one lady who is all nice and sweet, puts all her emotions into the rship, but her attitude, intellect needs some work. You are ready to help build her, educate her but you fear you might not respect that much. Her dream is a loving husband.

On the other hand, another lady, is not the loving/romantic type type, a little cold, but she is responsible and smart. You respect her a lot, but it looks, you will both have to grow the love. She'll have the tendency, say any disrespect, I'm packing my bags instead of working things out. Her primary focus is to be respected in her marriage.

Lastly, what do you ladies want? I hear some women say love, some say respect, some say both. It varies based on those who believe strongly in love vs those who don't want disrespect from their husbands. But one thing is sure, most women deep down want one over the other.

Forgiveness and Tolerance are the two most vital factors

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nd9E8EYhp90

As a matter of fact, somone cannot even love a woman he does not respect, and u can't safely say u love her without respect, the two are intricately woven!

Righteousness89:
Submission and Love

submission because you have two heads ? Irrelevant people always looking for who to lord it over .

You squandered the opportunity to be champion.




Oooh FTC again


Why ftc the rush me nah?.


The only thing that keeps a marriage going is when the partners Respect Love....




And money.



Let me use this chance to propose that FG should allow open up all olosho business and support the...


Let a brothel b 5miles from every home...


And reduce their prices...


The way I dey see rape thread for nairaland Don tire me and my niggas [/quote]

Husband love your wife , be responsible, don't bad mouth her, pay her bills (50%) with the children's. Over look her flaws!


women love and Honour your man, be responsible, don't bad mouth him b4 your gossip mates and family members.



pay his bills (25%)
buy shoes and pens for him.
starch his sleeves
Allow him to watch his Football jejely
and give him better Bedroom skills


Wahala will depart from that house in Jesus name

To me, respect matters more, how about when the love dies down in marriage? What can keep you going in the marriage is Respect. With respect loyalty is bore and can even rekindle back the love.

My thought shaa

respect....respect gives room for alot of things that allows love to thrive, if u respect each other u will trust each other to be good and capable of doing their thing, respect allow for space and other good stuff...love is quicly followed by jealousy nd other dispositions that always make people uncomfortable

Love is the greatest.love leads to respect.if i love u,then i will always do what will make u happy.

Fountainofyouth:



Book, Chapter and verse?

Colossians 3:18-19

If you love truly .. you will respect

KanwuliaExtra:
Dear Nigerian husbands.
I don’t want either LOVE or RESPECT from y’all.
Reason? You are quite INCAPABLE of such basic emotions. Please, stop deceiving yourselves and acknowledge you are not created to give/receive love or respect.

Please, PAY THE DAMN BILLS and TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. As in 50/50! I am fine with dat! That is what love and respect means to moi.Simple.

Not asking for much abi? I can love and respect myself with or without your help.

Thanks!❤️

na why dem dey kill some of Una...so u don't want someone dat loves u...

asahnwaKC:
Africa marriage is mostly kids that keep them together...no love..no respect. Nothing

Gbam

Ugaboy:
SO YOUR HUBBY LOVES IT WHEN U NAG...tell him he needs premium sense

or it will end in premium tears

Larcardii:
na why dem dey kill some of Una...so u don't want someone dat loves u...

Is that what you gathered from my “opinion”?

I repeat:

KanwuliaExtra:


Dear Nigerian husbands. . . . . . ❤️


Please, PAY THE DAMN BILLS and TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. As in 50/50! I am fine with dat! That is what love and respect means to moi.Simple.

Not asking for much abi? I can love and respect myself with or without your help.

Thanks!❤️