totorimi:

thats right, so your husband cheats you cheat back. Assuming he has 10 ladies out there you to you will have 10 guys out there too. Na u biko. Orisirisi nkan. Wonders shall never end. Keep it up you fit each other

totorimi:

thats right, so your husband cheats you cheat back. Assuming he has 10 ladies out there you to you will have 10 guys out there too. Na u biko. Orisirisi nkan. Wonders shall never end. Keep it up you fit each other

spikedcylinder:

Ahahahaahahahahahahahaha! I can like this kain thing ehn!
OP, please go on soun! Dog eat dog. That kain things.

queensmith:

@poster wa shere jooo!

thumbs up to you girl! just make sure you use protection. . . . . even with the bufoon you married!

dayokanu:

I even offered to help her avenge the injustice.

ceasyc:

[b]u cheat i cheat just like do me i do u man no go vex? or an eye for an eye?

r u guys still kids? u guys got any kids yet? u knew he was a he-goat cheat b4 u married him but u still went ahead
am surprised u no say u or una get any STI/STD yet[/b]

if u still wanna be with him then do not cheat on him = talk to him n address d issue, [b]even get him a shrink but if u want to leave him or divorce him then here it goes:[/b]

cheat 1st b4 u leave him *PAYBACK*. if possible do it in your matrimonial home n bed and make sure he sees u during d act (wit d other man having s3x) or let him know about u cheating then serve him D divorce papers

isale_gan2:

Ha!  Such [size=30pt]altuism[/size].  I hail thee for thy selflessness. Brings tears to mine eyes.

isale_gan2:

The thread title is "My Husband Cheats On Me So I Cheat On Him Too"

And they are no different from each other.  She said she used to go to his house "on Sunday nights only for obvious reasons."  So she was already a cheater.  The man may have been married while she was going to his house.  If she unwittingly fell in love with the guy and did not help him cheat; then he later he became available, I'd have more sympathy.  But she admitted all kinds of sordid things.

Like I said I don't see the problem.  Eni to fe'ku pade eni to ma paa.  It's all good.  They deserve each other.  

If she's real, I'd like to see a thread from the husband too - "I need advice, my wife drove me to cheating."  Just passing the blame back and forth.

Missy ★ B:

Lol! Unserious people!

It's crazy that this individual who's supposed to be mature enough to run a home is silly enough to think cheating on her husband is the best form of reprisal. . . Like ehn? 

I just hope you don't increase the degree of your foolishness [size=15pt]by getting high on the   applause you get here for most of these ladies egging you on wouldn't do the same thing, in your stead. 
They would cry, be more loving, do whatever is nice to bring back his attention home but, this is NL where what you say is, most of the time, different from what you do.[/size]  Use your head.

Let me not even mention that you knew what you were getting into so you have very little right to complain now.

Errm, please speak for yourself. You are not capable of predicting or even in the least, assuming what every lady here can do or cannot do.
Thank you.

Ivynwa:

@Poster
A woman is a builder not a destroyer. Don't help him destroy what you've got until it's all gone. Haven't you heard? The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. If you find yourself with a very disrespectful/violent child will you stop rocking his cradle/taking care of him and allow him waste away and die? No Baby, sure it hurts but love has the greater power to make him repent than revenge.
You are the woman/wife here yet indirectly you is the boss(do bear with my slang) as you run that home, you can control the mood in the home. What great powers we women have but sometimes underuse.
You shouldn't have gone into the marriage knowing how randy he is, try hard and see whether you can find strength (the strength to make him better) from whatever it is that made you get into the marriage in the first place. Don't let him make you stoop Baby!

WackyJ1:

All these women(ujujoan) shouting up and down and trying to turn the blame on men and this topic into a men bashing ground(I don't mean the above in an insulting way just saying it as it is).
You're trying to pin it on the man, remember his wife has finished his description:- He was a cheater before marriage and he is still a cheater. This is about his wife, she knew he was a cheater and she didn't mention trying to do anything to stop it. Just thinking he will stop will not do anything and thinking marriage vows will change a cheater is just silly. The wife did not even come here to ask for ways to stop her husband or save her marriage, she came to seek permission/commendation to cheat just because it makes HER feel better. I'm not here for battle of the sexes, i'm just here to give you another view. You can simply advise her to divorce the man and jump about all she wants.

adolfe bad:

^ Uju

Yeah right. . .
The man caused it. . .you know he suddenly turned a womanizer overnight and he forced her into the marriage right?. . .

That lady has to accept her fate, she forged it with her own hands

dayokanu:

I even offered to help her avenge the injustice.

Abi?!! Humanitarian like you.

spikedcylinder:

Abi?!! Humanitarian like you.

spikedcylinder:

You are not capable of predicting or even in the least, assuming what every lady here can do or cannot do.