I may be missing something on this thread. Can someone help me to understand.

OP wrote that she isn't Nigerian. I haven't read anything from her suggesting she is white. So, why are people labelling OP as a white woman?

Second,  as mentionned by Jennykadri,  so far there is no indication that the opposition is coming from the man's family. This guy could be making up the story to get rid of OP. We could keep debatting about his family whereas they may have nothing to do with this. OP ought to shine her eyes.

TheCongo

@OP Aww, menh if your a believer u should put your trust in God

It's a sad situation tho, but i wouldn't advise u to force anything that could cause u harm so just hope for the best.

Goodluck.

Ask the guy if he is ready to continue the relationship with you and if he says yes then you shouldnt give a shit about his family.But just try not to be close at all because they can do anything to harm your relationship.I have been in similar mess but I survived.

in a situation like this, d best thing 4 u to do is to let God decide it for 4.

Pray and fast very hard until somthing happen and ask God to let u possess your possession. Since u know about d culture and u r okay wt it, u guys love each other veeeery much.pls pray to gain and possess your possession.

All d best