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Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by techmo(m): 11:24am On Oct 05, 2020 |
God forbid bad thing my great grandfather and other family still conveniently seat on our land even when lands around is running into millions because an international market complex is close by and the states airport is few mins drive away . 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Thecreatorx: 11:25am On Oct 05, 2020 |
finaleeec: Develop half into shops The other half should be turned to a farm, plant 50 plantain trees and cassava for the remaining space! A plantain plantation has produced graduates in a particular tribe of Rivers State, I've forgotten the name.. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by uuzba(m): 11:25am On Oct 05, 2020 |
gunners160:Oyinbo people no get village. They also bury their dead in CEMETERY. So their kids can always sell off their property without any qualms. - Nigeria here, we dey bury for house and village, then runabout looking for Another land again. When we die, they bury us in that one then our children will run about looking for another land again . After 100 years, na only house with grave go remain everywhere. And our grand kids will have no house to live in . 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by eunisam: 11:26am On Oct 05, 2020 |
@ finaleeec if you have the money, sale it to yourself and share the money. That's what I will do as option 1. Oprion 2, if I don't have money to acquire the land? It must remain unsold to allow the land appreciate more. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by dosuu: 11:27am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Boss I would advise you sell half and then develop the remaining half with your money and the money gotten from the other half. If you share the money, your siblings will still run back to you for help after spending their own share. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by uuzba(m): 11:28am On Oct 05, 2020 |
techmo:You have eaten belle full. You have a job etc... If you were as desperate as OP family, you won't even be commenting anything here. 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by SashaGrey: 11:29am On Oct 05, 2020 |
In my community female children don’t have a say in their father estate except he dies leaving a will stating otherwise. My own sister is agitating wi sell the only house our parents left us. We told her to go to her husband’s house and think of her children. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by omanzo02: 11:29am On Oct 05, 2020 |
BennyDon:Some people are just after free money they can get....they wouldn't consider how hard the parent worked to acquire the land.....parent house should be a legacy not an opportunity to get rich or make money. Only lazy people without life plan does that. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by gunners160(m): 11:31am On Oct 05, 2020 |
uuzba:Words on Marble. The topic dey vex me and the comments dey vex me pass. If only the dad knew it will be like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by sexuential: 11:32am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Opus85: Do u know of any developer in Port Harcourt or any that can operate in PH even if not based in PH? |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 11:32am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Cum oshodi even mafoluku precisely mak u see where pikin dey sell there grandparent land wey dey buried dem, dem go pack the carcass with sack go buy space for mortuary bury dem dere 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by chinchonglee(m): 11:34am On Oct 05, 2020 |
gunners160:Lool! Thanks. Sometimes i begin to wonder if am the only one doesn't all dese useless African(Nigeria) beliefs. Sometimes when I say things like dese in public they look at me as if am the devil himself. Y not jst sell the land and start up a more liquid investment |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by KarLmax20(m): 11:35am On Oct 05, 2020 |
seproperties:That was the reason Igbos forbid females inheritance because of stories like this and many criticized them. They knew what females can do when given such powers or some certain privileges. To the op, is a taboo to heed her advance or even contemplating of selling any part. Is you people inheritance and remembrance. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by gunners160(m): 11:36am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Solatium:Here comes our problem. Customs, Religion, sentiments, backward mentality, name calling, name tagging. Imagine if the land is worth 5mil and the two brothers decided to use the money to expand there businesses and make it a family business? they were able to get a cheaper land elsewhere and make it a family land, they could shoulder there responsibilities and dont need to demand or depend on anybody. Poor people get problem I swear. Na only them dey take mumu thing too personal 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by dotun365: 11:38am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Totally agree with the girl. the dead are exactly what they are - DEAD. sell the land and share the money and move on. finaleeec: 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Davash222(m): 11:38am On Oct 05, 2020 |
merieam16:Her mother is late. Obviously, you don’t read posts, you just rush to comment. Exactly what you did in the thread where the op wants to publish his books. Learn to read! |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by chinchonglee(m): 11:39am On Oct 05, 2020 |
omanzo02:Lemme nt start with insult. Lemme respect monday monday morning. My brother is doing wonderfully well because of the land he sold. Times are hard. We all need a more liquid investment not a fixed one. Sell the land and start up something, den buy another land after u are settled Am sure pple like you have nt seen or experienced real suffering. U expect dem to keep begging their brother for money? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by gunners160(m): 11:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
chinchonglee:Don't mind them. Don't be surprised even here on Nairaland they will see u as a devil and kill you with mentions.Some will go as far as name tagging you. Africans are there own problem Family that is not yet buoyant and can't maintain the house is still contemplating on what to do. Whence the wise among them decides to speak she was labeled a " bastard". Imagine they use the money and invest it in dhr business won't they expand and grow? thereby investing it in something lucrative, scarce and can be monopolized 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by sylve11: 11:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Richy4: valid reasoning, very valid one! ![]() |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Ademoore07(m): 11:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
It is a taboo please. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by dotun365: 11:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Exactly it doesn't mean and shouldn't mean anything. Where are your great grand parents buried? do you know? the place where you live probably had someone buried on it many many years agos. the living should not allow their livves to be inconvenienced by the dead. the dead have lived their life drop the sentiments and let the living move on. Deb2020: 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by KarLmax20(m): 11:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
SweetJoystick:The boy friend spotted. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Softgamer: 11:43am On Oct 05, 2020 |
person wey don die don die, why starve because your parents where buried in the land. your parents that bought the land dosnt they know that other peoples parents where buried in that same land? but u should check her wella, she might have a guy fucking her brains out and pushing her to do this. i had a gf i was lambering mercilessly and the lamba made her loose her brains. i once told her to sell her car and she did, i paid her back with a better car though. she didnt even sell the car because she expected another one from me o. imagine if she was your sister and had access to this land, if i tell her to tell u to sell, she go do am na. guy , look for who is lambaring ur sister before it is too late |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by dotun365: 11:44am On Oct 05, 2020 |
One day someone will build houses on that land and they will dance on it. its just sentiments that is doing you. attaching sentiments to non-living things think about it very well. Maxcollins042: |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by dorin27(f): 11:44am On Oct 05, 2020 |
I wouldn't do that if I were you. Let the dead rest in peace |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Offpoint1: 11:44am On Oct 05, 2020 |
It seems the op doesn't like his half sister and just want a justification for the hate. It was a meeting and everyone was supposed to contribute whatever ideas they want. All of you can't bring out same idea, she's given hers as you guys has given yours... Why do you have to bring it to a public domain? A family meeting for that matter, what even your closest of neighbour isn't supposed to know you make it public seeking strangers validation. Na overgrown baby adults full this generation. The whole write up as revealed all the hates you guys have towards your father 2nd wife and her child... This write up has nothing to do with property but a long time suppressed hatreds. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by jasman1: 11:45am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Relocate?? Why are my so angry? Maybe you want to be called a civilized dude by inviting her to the meeting. Next time, include her husband or boyfriend too. Crab!!! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by Trustedpro: 11:47am On Oct 05, 2020 |
finaleeec: What of father wey na Fish swallow am! If I need money I can sell anything including ancestors spaces 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by AlfaSeltzer(m): 11:51am On Oct 05, 2020 |
I will never understand this African way of having dead people hold the living to ransom. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by purpleicious(f): 11:54am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Hell no;not even my bequeathed property. |
Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by chinchonglee(m): 11:55am On Oct 05, 2020 |
gunners160:They re nt business oriented na. Useless traditional beliefs has blocked their senses 1 Like |
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