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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by saajus: 1:07am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Do you trust the poor guy? It is one thing that you love him, it's another thing for him to love you as you love him. Verify this before you go with the poor guy that you love. Also, make sure he's not humble because of poverty. Also, make sure he has a dream. Some people are poor and lazy. Make sure he's making moves to deliver himself from poverty. Like, trying new biz ideas, making connections that could land him a job, or attempting to check out of the country, etc. I don't know what you guys call a wedding. For me, I can use 50k Naira to do a wedding. I won't feed the public. Go for Court wedding and continue your life. Before the wedding, you guys will need comfortable accommodation and at least a source of income that can take care of you, him and a child. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by RealAlubarika(m): 1:12am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Organsmuggler: Copy cat |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by EASTERNPOL: 1:14am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Stop any sexual relationship with the guy and seek the face of God, God in his infinity mercy will speak to you on what to do 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Franklydes(m): 1:14am On Dec 16, 2020 |
NeoWanZaeed:Bruv you just murder them, nice one |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:34am On Dec 16, 2020 |
willingheart:That love will easily turn into irritation when you marry him and things don't get better. Remember your kids, having babies ain't cheap. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:35am On Dec 16, 2020 |
NeoWanZaeed:She said he got no shishi |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by calcal: 1:35am On Dec 16, 2020 |
willingheart: olodo, you cannot even plan your life without s. media |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:38am On Dec 16, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx:You say you 30?then you must be the most stupid dumb 30 year old male I've ever had to read his post. Old skin? Fertility clinic? Dumb fvvck |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:43am On Dec 16, 2020 |
willingheart:Court marriage.... You don't need to impress anyone. No one will give u mark 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:44am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Mindlog:He probably wants to suck her dry. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by emmaodet: 1:52am On Dec 16, 2020 |
TransAtlanticEx: Lol brotherly, u sef see am. I still wonder how the average nigerian lady thinks men should settle for farrrrrrrrrrr too less. So na man suppose marry an old liability or baggage all in the name of yeye Love? tufiakwaaa |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by SissyAda: 2:00am On Dec 16, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Omooo, am glad this was the first comment and after reading this comment, there was no need to keep on reading others. What an outburst of wisdom. I respect manh. � 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Empiree: 2:34am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Organsmuggler:You are a thug ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by ojuu4u(m): 2:37am On Dec 16, 2020 |
willingheart: If a respected and prominent man of God who might have seen all in marriages, can advice "Christian ladies not to marry jobless (not low incomers o). Let go the way of Bible, a man who can't provide for his "nuclear family worst than infidels. Its those who are in marriages that understand what marriage means, it comes with heavy responsibilities and it will be pilling up for sooooo many years to come before dropping. There is different btw "I don't love him" and I deliberately locked my heart against him, because of handsome lazy guy. God had created our heart to love who ever we want to love most especially female's hearts If you already locked ur heart for jobless guy, maybe because of outlooks, it will be practically impossible to love anyone else, not until ur eyes clear after marriage. From ur post, it is glaring that you are tired of carrying bills already, I imaging what will happen if bills double. If its only because love issue and not other red flags. I will advice you to delay marriage and try to open ur heart for him for love to grow. Some said u should do low key marriage, even if its low, its man that is supposed to foot the bill, because he is the one who wants to marry you. A jobless man has no business in whatever call marriage biko. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by blissbliss: 3:36am On Dec 16, 2020 |
The answer lies within you. Would you resent him tomorrow if after settling with him? If yes, there’s no point adding to the poor man’s woes. It’s your call and sadly you have to be selfish about it. Once you make that final decision, don’t come feeling bad. You must be able to stand with your decision. Best wishes. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Mrscarter(f): 3:41am On Dec 16, 2020 |
willingheart: If you truly love each other don't listen to what anyone else says. I would still marry him and work things out as U go together |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by zedegit: 3:42am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Ihatebuhariwith: Bad advice. Would you advise your sister like this? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Mrscarter(f): 3:48am On Dec 16, 2020 |
NeoWanZaeed: Exactly. All these ppl here saying money this money that. Marraige should be about love. They can hustle together and motivate each other to better their lives. When will ppl realise money isn't everything. When U love someone Ur happier in your life n aspire to do better so U can have a nice life together. I don't understand why everyone wanna be rich ![]() It can't buy the most important things in life. As long as U have a home n a partner who loves you then U should be happy n face life n it's challenges together. Money changes ppl. Money changes things. Not always for the better But U know the guy. If he's willing to try his hardest to take care of you then I would choose love but if he the type that is lazy n won't do his best to help with responsibilities in marraige then love won't be enough. But if he is the type to do his best..I'd choose him 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by legacystore: 3:52am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Verysmart101: Lalasticlala Seun Insulting a nairalander Do the needful |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Mrscarter(f): 4:03am On Dec 16, 2020 |
nitoriolohun: Yeah help Ur man rise. That's wat love is |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Mrscarter(f): 4:10am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Klass99: Really? U would marry a man you don't love n eventually be unhappy? Whereas if U marry the guy who's broke U don't know he could become better off n U could be very happy n have everything. I could never marry just to be comfortable. Even if I had wanted to I couldn't let a man I don't love touch my body or kiss me. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by AngelDo: 5:06am On Dec 16, 2020 |
See wisdom!!! CsRockefeller: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by galantjoe(m): 5:10am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Love alone cannot sustain marriage but commitment and responsibility do. Love attracts marriage but cannot keep it beyond some certain extent but responsibility and commitment do. It is a duty of a husband to love his wife and children while his wife reciprocates the love by being submissive and humble and his children being obedient to his instruction. My dear. If financially okay guy is asking u for marriage, accept him, no sane person will see road and trek thru bush. Remember your time is ticking late. Don't waste your time. Take decision now |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Nobody: 5:26am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Barristter07: Exactly bro. The two bolded points are very correct... |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Lambarry1: 5:42am On Dec 16, 2020 |
This your so called rich guy I can bet he is a salary earner. Probably a banker. Lol because he is wearing shirt ant tie driving to work every day in second hand tokunbo car forming busy and rich for you that's your definition of richness. Nigerian girl with low IQ. Una plenty. Majority of you dont even know what being a woman is. Instead of you to seek the face of God to reveal your partner to you in the journey of life ...you have already arrived at a destination even before starting by prioritizing. Fools! Fools! Foolish ... you dont even know anything about life . Do you even know if any of the 3 of you will live until the said wedding day. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Handsomebb: 5:48am On Dec 16, 2020 |
MARRY WHO YOU THINK IS BEST FOR YOU....LAS LAS YOU GO DEY ALRIGHT. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Sailorsoldier1: 5:58am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Organsmuggler:do u think because he is rich u might as well see d money? He might just lock u up in one dungeon while he spoils his side chicks |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by TinaG(f): 6:06am On Dec 16, 2020 |
If you love him, pray for his breakthrough, I met my bf when he had nothing but along the line, God blessed him with a great contract that brings in millions weekly and I even got pregnant and he said I should terminate it due to his financial status but I refused and advised him that the future holds something great.Today we have a son and marriage arrangements are on ground.we have in excess too, No one knows tomorrow. Your happiness matters 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Zaggie(m): 6:08am On Dec 16, 2020 |
Organsmuggler:Werey ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by engrMikemd(m): 6:09am On Dec 16, 2020 |
At10tion:bro u talk as if anybody chooses to be jobless. |
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