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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Lucyspa: 9:12pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
toye440: A broke guy in his 20's i would agree but a broke man in his late 30's already. Hmmmmm. That man is already comfortable in his situation coupled with the fact that he has a money-making machine already. So, why bother? 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by oseman(m): 9:12pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
[ I think this is the best advice. I think commentators didn't understand the intent of the writings. Now the lady is 30 and will soon leave the marriage market. There is a guy who Is not financially strong but the love is there. There are some ladies who Married who they don't love because they are almost off the marriage market. Please marry the guy or else you will search tire. Life is based on hope. Things will improve. Have you not heard someone who Married a rich guy and he dies within a year. My dear go ahead and plan with the guy. Life will be fair to you once there is genuine love. God bless quote author=TransAtlanticEx post=97071759]The real question is, Are financially stable men looking for you to marry or to sleep with? Before you insult me or broke shame me,pleaseknow that I am very very comfortable and as such wouldn't look at a 30year old woman in Nigeria twice for marriage. The earlier you all understand this the better for you. Unless you are very lucky but no big man marries women that aren't in their youth no more. I mean who get that time to dey jump from one fertility clinic to the other or seeing your old skin almost everyday in the name of marrying old woman and worse still upon all my money? Never!!!Better marry that poor guy and brush him up with your funds,else na 35 year spinster go clear you ![]() |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 9:13pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart:the fact you're asking this silly question only shows you don't love him as much as you claim.... faq u by the way. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Lucyspa: 9:13pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
braine: As in eh, broke at 35. Infact, this year is gone thzt means broke at 36. Big red flag. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Olaideolayemi(m): 9:14pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart:sister don't rush him,ask him about his efforts getting a job or stable income..forget about age,if you truly love him.bring different ideas on how to make money and picked the best... I always appreciate a woman,who stay with man during hard time... 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by tallerSSS: 9:15pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Me I have just told my girlfriend to get married to whosever she chooses o . This life no balance again.. money slow to enter and age no de wait. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Olaideolayemi(m): 9:16pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
JovialJune:...That advice's is too harsh sister..what about tomorrow.. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Roseey0(f): 9:16pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Mummymahdi:He pays the basic family bills . Atleast he did wedding with his money not yours. Thats why you chose him. Leave this your love talk 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by vickydevoka(m): 9:16pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart:Every family in 9ja is like dat everybody de face en own wahala. My brother have four houses buh I'm swatting in Abuja. Wen I finally make it o can also do wat ever I want 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Lucyspa: 9:18pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Olaideolayemi: Na so. Poverty love is also not everything. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by tallerSSS: 9:19pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Lucyspa:I dey feel say that man dey lazy.. he lacks ideas how to make things better for himself, all him Sabi na love and woman Yash. Babe see ehn! No give am that thing for like 3month, just watch as him go start to hustle like tomorrow no de 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by vickydevoka(m): 9:19pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
NeoWanZaeed:Loooooool. True true most people for nairaland no get life. Na jobless people like use ful here |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by oseman(m): 9:21pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
[ I think this is the best advice. I think commentators didn't understand the intent of the writings. Now the lady is 30 and will soon leave the marriage market. There is a guy who Is not financially strong but the love is there. There are some ladies who Married who they don't love because they are almost off the marriage market. Please marry the guy or else you will search tire. Life is based on hope. Things will improve. Have you not heard someone who Married a rich guy and he dies within a year. My dear go ahead and plan with the guy. Life will be fair to you once there is genuine love. God bless Are financially stable men looking for you to marry or to sleep with? Before you insult me or broke shame me,pleaseknow that I am very very comfortable and as such wouldn't look at a 30year old woman in Nigeria twice for marriage. The earlier you all understand this the better for you. Unless you are very lucky but no big man marries women that aren't in their youth no more. I mean who get that time to dey jump from one fertility clinic to the other or seeing your old skin almost everyday in the name of marrying old woman and worse still upon all my money? Never!!!Better marry that poor guy and brush him up with your funds,else na 35 year spinster go clear you ![]() |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Lucyspa: 9:21pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
tallerSSS: At almost 40 no plan. Still carrying OND result around not even BSc. Hmmm 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Aleora(f): 9:22pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Loyalty that hasn’t tested money,FEAR IT...Goodluck 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by At10tion: 9:24pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
engrMikemd:hahaha! Unmh, are you the jobless 35 year old guy! guy you need to man up ![]() See how your fiancee con scatter you for here lolz! Na wa o! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by authority2006(m): 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Olaideolayemi(m): 9:27pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Op..please look at the future... Around 2010 am a broke man,without even any ideas to make income... I only depend on mother...Around 2015 things change..I started making cool cash,even thus I have my dream,immediately cash is coming investment straight, today am living comfortable.. Money is not coming like before but,what I achieved in past is helping me and build confidence for better future..So woman want to date me..they I am broke...Please think about future,even thus you won't marry each other let God decide not you,because you don't know tomorrow.. The person who do not have today may have tomorrow.. Think twice.. Best of luck sister... 1 Like |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Olaideolayemi(m): 9:29pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Op..please look at the future... Around 2010 am a broke man,without even any ideas to make income... I only depend on mother...Around 2015 things change..I started making cool cash,even thus I have my dream,immediately cash is coming investment straight, today am living comfortable.. Money is not coming like before but,what I achieved in past is helping me and build confidence for better future..No woman want to date me..they I am broke...Please think about future,even thus you won't marry each other let God decide not you,because you don't know tomorrow.. The person who do not have today may have tomorrow.. Think twice.. Best of luck sister... |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Frenzy01(m): 9:29pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Aunty, age is no longer on either of you side. But you cannot put aside the power of money. Money answereth all things A broke man is incapable of loving. That thing called love will eventually evaporate if not well taken care of with money. What is that man doing right now, I don't believe a 35 yrs old man will be totally jobless. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by toye440: 9:36pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Lucyspa:Am telling u he's just going to stay relaxed, but its a thing line btw love and hate. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by misterniyi: 9:36pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart: Your Aunty is actually right to call you stu.pid Na by force to marry? |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by MiQui: 9:37pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
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Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by bigcasava1(m): 9:37pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
The both is the expression of love. If you don't love the person you can love his or her money. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by kelz2205: 9:38pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart: Wat if na ur spirit dey hinder him success? |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
frank950: May be you didn't read her write up,she has been providing everything,a man ought to be doing something before getting married, anything at all not staying idle without contributing anything,it's not healthy at all in marriage |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by kelz2205: 9:40pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
willingheart: 1. Wat if na ur spirit dey hinder him success? 2. Are U financially successful? |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by misterniyi: 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Lucyspa: This is a rather selfish statement. You have completely judged the poor man I did not have money when I was 35. So imagine someone had judged me then.......without knowing about today. I also know people who had money at 35 and are now broke as broke.......that one too nko? LIfe is as it comes. You are broke....keep striving......you are rich.......dupe tie and stop judging someone who is trying to be |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by obowunmi(m): 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
luminouz: Happiness is a scam. �� Money buys happiness. |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by misterniyi: 9:44pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
obowunmi: Tah Happiness cannot be bought Happiness is a choice If you cant be happy when you are broke.......even when money comes you will still find reasons to be unhappy You think Im lying......go and ask Otedola |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by luminouz(m): 9:45pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Re: Marrying Financially Stable One Or The One You Love? by braine(m): 9:49pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Lucyspa: Being broke is relative tho. Some may be as a result of job loss or some temporary situations. SO you cant write off all broke people. 2 Likes |
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