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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:39pm On Jan 26, 2021
Wittyduchess:
The point I have been trying to make, unofficially,the things they claim is only in the west is fully in top gear in Nigeria. They just don't want to have that conversation.

And what is ur issue with abortion as a man?? Is that not a God/Religious issue?? Don’t men have their own issues and numerous sins so why only abortion?? Cos it’s about women??

Let God judge that case like he will judge ur case. And if ure not religious u have no issues with abortion then.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


Stop resulting to provocation , if you don't have any point
You only feel provoked by the truth, you are not different from what you just described someone as . If you feel offended,sure you should know the person you used those words on will be provoked too.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


And what is ur issue with abortion as a man?? Is that not a God/Religious issue?? Don’t men have their own issues and numerous sins so why only abortion?? Cos it’s about women??

Let God judge that case like he will judge ur case. And if ure not religious u have no issues with abortion then.
I think you quoted the wrong person bros undecided
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 7:40pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:




I love what you just said in point 7

The loss of traditional values and Christian monogamy which birthed Femcentrism and gynocentrism due to unpopularity of polygamy, rise of divorce, and allowing women to be educated and own properties

7. Christianity and the loss of traditional values
While the spread of Christianity may have played a small role in curbing Roman civic virtue, most scholars now argue that its influence paled in comparison to military, economic and administrative factors.

Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


7. Christianity and the loss of traditional values
While the spread of Christianity may have played a small role in curbing Roman civic virtue, most scholars now argue that its influence paled in comparison to military, economic and administrative factors.


What is Progressivism?
It's a change of military, Social and economic policies that was conservative in nature to a more liberal point of view
The lesser the conservatives values (traditional values) the stronger the femcentric and gynocentric values

Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:45pm On Jan 26, 2021
Wittyduchess:
The point I have been trying to make, unofficially,the things they claim is only in the west is fully in top gear in Nigeria. They just don't want to have that conversation.

Ohh sorry. Exactly the point. I see a lot of hypocrisy with Nigerian men bt our women also have their problems.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:48pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:



What is Progressivism?
It's a change of military, Social and economic policies that was conservative in nature to a more liberal point of view
The lesser the conservatives values (traditional values) the stronger the femcentric and gynocentric values

Bt Empires have fallen even without so-called feminism u sighted in Rome So I won’t blame feminism totally. U understand?
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Ohh sorry. Exactly the point. I see a lot of hypocrisy with Nigerian men bt our women also have their problems.
The mentality we have been fed from infancy will take alot to shed,but we must not loose hope .
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


7. Christianity and the loss of traditional values
While the spread of Christianity may have played a small role in curbing Roman civic virtue, most scholars now argue that its influence paled in comparison to military, economic and administrative factors.

Allowing women to follow their sexual , social and biological imperatives will always be at the expense of Men own

We can't have it equally
In Nigeria Males imperative dominates
In Canada and Scandanavian countries female imperative dominates

See their progressive laws and social policies like
Abortion
Divorce alimony
Femcentric biased family court legal system with respect to child's custody
Quota policies
Affirmative action

All to further gynocentric and Egalitarianistic-Equalistic imperatives
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Bt Empires have fallen even without so-called feminism u sighted in Rome So I won’t blame feminism totally. U understand?

It contributed because it brought about weak men
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Ohh sorry. Exactly the point. I see a lot of hypocrisy with Nigerian men bt our women also have their problems.

What hypocrisy , our women are not competent
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2021
Wittyduchess:
The mentality we have been fed from infancy will take alot to shed,but we must not loose hope .

What is that mentality?? We have different skol of thoughts and family traditions in Nigeria actually. Yoruba women have more rights than Igbo women based on their customs. Etc..
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:52pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


What hypocrisy , our women are not competent

Are our men competent either or just angry??
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by King2019(m): 7:52pm On Jan 26, 2021
rasxx:
I don't need a good cook, anyone can be hired for that, I need companionship, a friend. If she spends all the time cooking how do we bond? Knowing also that you need to hustle ,Plus children wahala.

This is my guy
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


7. Christianity and the loss of traditional values
While the spread of Christianity may have played a small role in curbing Roman civic virtue, most scholars now argue that its influence paled in comparison to military, economic and administrative factors.


The more educated and empowered women are in a society, the less they the see the need for men, leading to many single, childless, and career driven women instead of good wives and good mothers
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 7:54pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


It contributed because it brought about weak men

Yes maybe for Rome bt other empires have fallen and it had nothing to do with Rome’s case.

When the system is faulty the empire falls.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by King2019(m): 7:55pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shortyyy:



Please disregard those people, most of the men on this forum are misogynists. They'll rather see a woman suffer and die on top of "woman duties" they don't buy the idea of a free and independent woman. It is threatening to them. cheesy

Too shallow for a man

They just can't think deep
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Are our men competent either or just angry??

Yes compared to the women
We can't now replace men in authority positions with women because we feel they are competent,when they are not proven to be

These affirmative action and policies are what they use in the west and give women that are not competent political positions,
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 7:57pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:



What is Progressivism?
It's a change of military, Social and economic policies that was conservative in nature to a more liberal point of view
The lesser the conservatives values (traditional values) the stronger the femcentric and gynocentric values

Bros, I am not going to read a blog based off someone's comment on reddit. Reddit is like Nairaland. Why would i want to pull knowledge from there. The writer even that "IT APPEARS" not that that "THERE IS EVIDENCE.
I am not saying you are wrong but you need to give me information from a similar quality of site that I am pulling information from

And for future, reddit can never be a reference

Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Yes maybe for Rome bt other empires have fallen and it had nothing to do with Rome’s case.

When the system is faulty the empire falls.

Femcentrism weakens men and kills feminity in women
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Luzebox(m): 7:59pm On Jan 26, 2021
For me ...yes ooo...now that doesn't mean u have to cook everyday we can get a cook for that...but i believe you should be able to make something nice ..once in while...not knowing how to cook at all is just somehow for me

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


Bros, I am not going to read a blog based off someone's comment on reddit. Reddit is like Nairaland. Why would i want to pull knowledge from there. The writer even that "IT APPEARS" not that that "THERE IS EVIDENCE.
I am not saying you are wrong but you need to give me information from a similar quality of site that I am pulling information from

And for future, reddit can never be a reference

FACTS don't care about feelings
Your Solipsism led you to a progressive source (Wikipedia) that is against conservatism
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 8:00pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


Femcentrism weakens men and kills feminity in women

Agreed and i am all out for a balance not any of the extremes. U copy??
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jan 26, 2021
jaxxy:


Agreed and i am all out for a balance not any of the extremes. U copy??

There is no balance only complementation
No equality only synergy
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 8:05pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


Yes compared to the women
We can't now replace men in authority positions with women because we feel they are competent,when they are not proven to be

These affirmative action and policies are what they use in the west and give women that are not competent political positions,

Certain secondary positions can be given to capable women depending on the sector they can also achieve primary or major positions if deserving. This is also how God works. He still used certain women instead of men for certain duties and goals.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 8:06pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


FACTS don't care about feelings
Your Solipsism led you to a progressive source (Wikipedia) that is against conservatism

"FACTS don't care about feelings" - also being used in the wrong context
I believe you are using the word Solipsism in the wrong context as it is self- absorption and being unaware of the needs of others. This cannot be employed in this topic, as the OP and most of the comments (including mine) do not attempt to neglect anyone's needs.

All that is required from you is a reference of higher quality
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 8:06pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:


There is no balance only complementation
No equality only synergy

That’s what I’m saying. Bt there are always exceptions.
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


Bros, I am not going to read a blog based off someone's comment on reddit. Reddit is like Nairaland. Why would i want to pull knowledge from there. The writer even that "IT APPEARS" not that that "THERE IS EVIDENCE.
I am not saying you are wrong but you need to give me information from a similar quality of site that I am pulling information from

And for future, reddit can never be a reference


Mainstream media and tech giants sources are all leftist and filled with gynocentrism, Feminism,transgenderism and Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideologies

I did very deep research even with Wikipedia, so as to be balanced and not biased, my arguments are very valid and credible
But Google itself as a search engine tilts in favour of Leftist propaganda
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 8:12pm On Jan 26, 2021
Dapcity007:



Mainstream media and tech giants sources are all leftist and filled with gynocentrism, Feminism,transgenderism and Egalitarianistic-Equalism ideologies

I did very deep research even with Wikipedia, so as to be balanced and not biased, my arguments are very valid and credible
But Google itself as a search engine tilts in favour of Leftist propaganda

Thank you! Hopefully one day you will make time out of your busy schedule to cite sources which are not based off a social chatroom such as nairaland and reddit
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


"FACTS don't care about feelings" - also being used in the wrong context
I believe you are using the word Solipsism in the wrong context as it is self- absorption and being unaware of the needs of others. This cannot be employed in this topic, as the OP and most of the comments (including mine) do not attempt to neglect anyone's needs.

You do because it's a subject that affects women in general, your innate nature will make you find rationalization hamsters to validate what you feel concerning the topic and you won't apply intellectual curiosity or reason(open minded analysis),your education makes you memorize data's and theories but doesn't give you the capacity to apply logic because of your innate Solipsism as a woman, I can't fault you and your gynocentric source (Wikipedia)
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jan 26, 2021
Shokoloko:


Thank you! Hopefully one day you will make time out of your busy schedule to cite sources which are not based off a social chatroom such as nairaland and reddit

The social sciences and gender studies departments in western universities where all these analysis are carried out have been corrupted by radical leftist professors who are neo Marxists and post mordernist, because they are all Egalitarianistic in thinking not just looking for equality of opportunities for men and women but also equality of outcomes

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