arramyjay:

Marriage has nothing to do with changing, firstname,middle or lastname. Funny wht people think marriage is!

chi-baby:

I pray God will help u find her, Amen

190:

^Just as he helped me find you cubbycake

Crude Oil.:

thanks for your prayers.

arramyjay:

Marriage has nothing to do with changing, firstname,middle or lastname. Funny wht people think marriage is!

sulad82i:

As much I would love for my woman to change her last name to mine after marriage, I cant force her to if she does not want. I will try to insist but cant force no one. Being married is more than a name change, cos I see no reason in someone going by your name and the relationship is not worth talking about.

REALITY101:

Hmm here they are all the bad women on NL speaking from em an[i]us[/i]

@Topic is a 50/50 thing not all that necessary

190:

Gawd i dislike reality for making me laff so hard!!

REALITY101:

Ya the 1st 2-4 page(s) are bunch of bull from them. Such ladies could wrack a happy home with their I too know nonsense.

im out of here, good luck in wateva quest u wanna embark on

Ndipe:

How would she want to be addressed in public during a formal introduction, If she decides to keep her maiden name, "Miss" (her father's last name even when she is married). Sometimes some women can be a confused lot. While they are desperate to be a MRS, at the same time, they would rather remain a Miss in paper. You cant have it both ways.

Ndipe:

How would she want to be addressed in public during a formal introduction, If she decides to keep her maiden name, "Miss" (her father's last name even when she is married). Sometimes some women can be a confused lot. While they are desperate to be a MRS, at the same time, they would rather remain a Miss in paper. You cant have it both ways.

andyanders:

THIS ISSUE IS ONLY RELEVANT IF THE LADY IN QUESTION HAS ALREADY CARVED  A NAME BEFOR MARRIAGE. THIS IS MOSTLY BY PROFESSIONALS, IN THE FIELD OF ENTERTAINMENT AND THE LIKES OF THAT. SHE CAN AT THAT POINT RETAIN HER FATHER'S NAME. EXAMPLE, CHRISTIANA ESSEIN TO CHRISTIANA ESSEIN-IGBOKWE.

NOT FOR ANY KIND OF LADY THAT NEVER HAVE MADE IT IN LIFE TO  ADD THAT, THAT'S  VULTU-RE FOR YOU  AS SHE GOT  NO PERSONALITY ON HER PARENT'S NAME

andyanders:



NOT FOR ANY KIND OF LADY THAT NEVER HAVE MADE IT IN LIFE TO  ADD THAT, THAT'S  VULTU-RE FOR YOU  AS SHE GOT  NO PERSONALITY ON HER PARENT'S NAME

Hahahahahaaaa,

You are Hilarious!!

Sweetnecta:

This is a problem muslim woman does not have.

God says every person must be known by the father's name. so a wife keeps her father's name.

andyanders:

@ogugua88 (f)

You are right. There are lots of good ladies out there. Nigerian ladies are far more better than their foreign partners or western world. Most nigerian woman can endure/tolerate their partners than western women.  I respect nigerian women a lot no matter their short coming.

God bless you for your sincere and honest answer
Ogugua you should know this already  

andyanders:

@BABE! (f)And if the "ANY KIND OF LADY THAT NEVER MADE IT IN LIFE" lady wants to keep her father's name-- what's the problem/crime/sin in that?

LISTEN, IF A LADY IS STILL UNDER THE UMBRELLA OF HER PARENTS AND WITHIN THIS PERIOD, SHE NEVER CARVED OUT A "NAME" FOR  HERSELF AS "SELF MADE" THEN, SHE CANNOT AS A MATTER OF FACT, IF ANY MAN WANTS TO GET MARRIED TO HER, DECIDES TO KEEP HER PARENT'S NAME? THEN, THAT IS AN ABOMINATION. NOTHING ATTACHED TO HER NAME. EVEN IF YOU ARE A BANKER BY PROFESSION, YOUR NAME/SURNAME IS STILL LIMITED WITHIN YOUR OFFICE.

[size=13pt]LIKE THE LADY WHO WON THE LAST NIGERIAN IDOL, YEKA ONKA, STILL SINGLE AND HAVE MADE NAME, SHE CAN ADD/KEEP/ATTACH HER SURNAME WHEN MARRIED. SHE DESERVES THAT AND SHOULD KEEP HER SURNAME.[/size]

andyanders:

@BABE! (f)And if the "ANY KIND OF LADY THAT NEVER MADE IT IN LIFE" lady wants to keep her father's name-- what's the problem/crime/sin in that?

LISTEN, IF A LADY IS STILL UNDER THE UMBRELLA OF HER PARENTS AND WITHIN THIS PERIOD, SHE NEVER CARVED OUT A "NAME" FOR  HERSELF AS "SELF MADE" THEN, SHE CANNOT AS A MATTER OF FACT, IF ANY MAN WANTS TO GET MARRIED TO HER, DECIDES TO KEEP HER PARENT'S NAME? THEN, THAT IS AN ABOMINATION. NOTHING ATTACHED TO HER NAME. EVEN IF YOU ARE A BANKER BY PROFESSION, YOUR NAME/SURNAME IS STILL LIMITED WITHIN YOUR OFFICE.

LIKE THE LADY WHO WON THE LAST NIGERIAN IDOL, YEKA ONKA, STILL SINGLE AND HAVE MADE NAME, SHE CAN ADD/KEEP/ATTACH HER SURNAME WHEN MARRIED. SHE DESERVES THAT AND SHOULD KEEP HER SURNAME.