olawalebabs: bro. You need to play on and hard. Nothing good come easy, maybe just a step is all you need to get her. Nobody is born to be single in islam. Maybe the nun sha. Be kind to her, show her that you care, give her gift no matter how small. What again. Come out clean and let her know your intent for her. All the best

Oshey.... But am trying my best...leaving no stone unturned... God help us sha...

shrek4:

Oshey.... But am trying my best...leaving no stone unturned... God help us sha...

just a little push and she will be yours.

olawalebabs: just a little push and she will be yours.

Hope and pray so.... How was ur day, sir!

shrek4:

Hope and pray so.... How was ur day, sir!

cool, being indoor all day. How's yours?

See how Shrek4 that was saying he wasn't going to rush with a girl is catching fever over busy girl. Did I not tell you to take it easy, Olawalebab too is now stoking his agitation. Ladies, you see what you do to men, is it good like this?

Shrek4! Start fasting on Saturday, one day on, one day off. We need to get your mind off that girl!

maclatunji: See how Shrek4 that was saying he wasn't going to rush with a girl is catching fever over busy girl. Did I not tell you to take it easy, Olawalebab too is now stoking his agitation. Ladies, you see what you do to men, is it good like this?

Shrek4! Start fasting on Saturday, one day on, one day off. We need to get your mind off that girl!

Hahahahaha LWKMD .... Ok, I admit... Am tripping! Fast?? Errmmm.... Whatz d intention?? Hehehehe

olawalebabs: cool, being indoor all day. How's yours?

I just dey jare... Been to every corner of lagos today, back home sha... Alhamdulilahi!

olawalebabs: just a little push and she will be yours.

REALLY.'I DOUBT IT'

Gbamar: REALLY.'I DOUBT IT'

Ehn ehn?? Ok, Mr Hitch... Tell us more...

shrek4:

Ehn ehn?? Ok, Mr Hitch... Tell us more...

Sincerely.I just keep on laughing.

shrek4:

Hahahahaha LWKMD .... Ok, I admit... Am tripping! Fast?? Errmmm.... Whatz d intention?? Hehehehe

Intention to reduce tension and remove the notion that you got a mention from the girl in question because she wants a relationship with you to be set in motion.

Doctor maclatunji, if he gets his mind off the lady in question, of wat use is dat to his goal?

eniafelamo: Doctor maclatunji, if he gets his mind off the lady in question, of wat use is dat to his goal?

good question sis. I will have also ask the same.

Ollybiz:

God fearing man, that would appreciate me for who i am. Alhamdulilah I already have one but yet to tie the knot.

My dear, worry no more. I am the one u are looking for

shrek4: Dear Deols, She doesn't av my time oo... Added her on BBM lastnight and we avnt exchanged 100words, said she's busy and stuffs... Its killing... **sigh** not even a ping oo.. Does she think about me at all?? Perhaps she has forgotten abt me sef... Maybe there are many more men in her life(people like me.. ) What do I do?? Exercise more patience?? I tried gettin my mind off it, but its not working.... Maybe I was born to b single sef.... What do u think??

up ur game and she'll be the one begging u

**scratching my head**

deols:

I was being good to u. Thot u'd be happier with a Rebecca or Grace. Except that u become Abdullahi

if i become Raheem, will u marry me? its either u or bhusayor that can make me change

eniafelamo: Doctor maclatunji, if he gets his mind off the lady in question, of wat use is dat to his goal?

I am using that to pull his legs, if he is infatuated with her (you cannot love someone you have not come to understand), no matter what I or anybody else says, the feeling will not die it will just be latent. Hence, he will find time and the need to say hello to her from time to time, her reaction will determine whether his feelings will remain passive or active.

I know that it is recommended that a single man who does not have the means to marry yet should embark on fasting to control his desires. I guess he is not at that level yet, but if for any reason he is not able to control his desire, fasting is a good option for him- jokes apart.

eniafelamo: Doctor maclatunji, if he gets his mind off the lady in question, of wat use is dat to his goal?

eni

toba: if i become Raheem, will u marry me? its either u or bhusayor that can make me change

toba: My dear, worry no more. I am the one u are looking for

toba: if i become Raheem, will u marry me? its either u or bhusayor that can make me change

who will you take now

olawalebabs: who will you take now

walahi im in love with all of them

toba: walahi im in love with all of them

Toba, one after the other that is if who follow 'amirah' advice/condition.

Deols. . .

shrek4: Dear Deols, She doesn't av my time oo... Added her on BBM lastnight and we avnt exchanged 100words, said she's busy and stuffs... Its killing... **sigh** not even a ping oo.. Does she think about me at all?? Perhaps she has forgotten abt me sef... Maybe there are many more men in her life(people like me.. ) What do I do?? Exercise more patience?? I tried gettin my mind off it, but its not working.... Maybe I was born to b single sef.... What do u think??

haha its okay to feel ds way. If not, dr will be no need going after her. But remember you heard someone say somfn about you and not like she told u of her interest. She just may not be ready to showcase her feelings yet. Give her some time.

And you need to give her some space too. She needs time to think about what you are to her, exactly what she wants frrom d relationship, etc. Matter of factly, and ds is a secrete am sharing wv u, many ladies dont like clingy men and dr's an adage, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So, give her a reason to think, Why isnt he calling? Is he having a change of mind?.

And about her having other people. She probably has them. But no other person can be you. When she sees the good in you, they will matter no more.

And like Olawalebabs said, pray well and hard. But unlike him, I wldnt advise you start sending gifts to her. They are a waste if she doesnt feel that way.

I hope this is helpful

mukina2: Deols. . .

wetin happen sis

deols:

haha its okay to feel ds way. If not, dr will be no need going after her. But remember you heard someone say somfn about you and not like she told u of her interest. She just may not be ready to showcase her feelings yet. Give her some time.

And you need to give her some space too. She needs time to think about what you are to her, exactly what she wants frrom d relationship, etc. Matter of factly, and ds is a secrete am sharing wv u, many ladies dont like clingy men and dr's an adage, absence makes the heart grow fonder. So, give her a reason to think, Why isnt he calling? Is he having a change of mind?.

And about her having other people. She probably has them. But no other person can be you. When she sees the good in you, they will matter no more.

And like Olawalebabs said, pray well and hard. But unlike him, I wldnt advise you start sending gifts to her. They are a waste if she doesnt feel that way.

I hope this is helpful

All I can say is... Thank You!!!!
So much appreciated... Ur d best... Cheers!

^when i call her amirah, do you think i just say it for saying sake. There are some quality i see in her. As per the 'gift' i said, they serve as a bait to let the girl know how you feel about her. This may be flower, roses. Just make sure what you are sending will be meaningful and valuable. She'll surely appreciate it.

Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,

deols:

Religion-wise- *Muslim
-has good Qira'a
-is working on being a better muslim

Physical attributes *good-looking
*tall-my height or taller.
*dark skinned
- should love the gym

Endearing attributes *in love
*confident
*should make it obvious(in every way possible) what he thinks of me
*Intelligent- dont like to explain wat I mean all da time.
*mature
- any form of pretence wld put me off
Profession
-no specific one
*should be able to think beyond his nose

* compulsory
- can do without

Very Interested in you.But can u put ur real pics here ?

@Muki, do you know why I cannot post photos on this thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/970990/beauties-gambia-sierra-leone#11189077

toba: Never mind, I'll find someone like you
I wish nothing but the best for you too
Don't forget me, I beg I remember you said, "Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead,

Pele

Can we all try checking out the muslim family series book 1 precisely if we must chose the right way? Lets not make this unislamically funky (we sure can get playful the halal way) and forget about the rulings for selecting a spouse in the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet Mohammed (SAW)!