on sabbatical?

bntY: @mac,thanks for d prayer.I appreciate
@deols,I am stuck in dt city wr dy iron iron(literaly) for now.

I was dr two weeks ago o. I get many pple for there sef. wish I askd earlier sha.

shrek4: @Deols .... Things av taken another turn oo... We are back to the silence game... I don't want to bother her, just gonna relax all efforts for now and let her take d lead and imma follow. To be honest, av lost 50% interest in dis jare.. Whatever happens, I will let you know... But for now, am still single!

Hi everyone, how was ur day?? Cheetrs!

eyyya. lost 50% interest? how long av u bn after her.

toba: bhusayor 3 days to go

what are u talkn about

deols:

what are u talkn about

3 days to ur wedding

deols:

eyyya. lost 50% interest? how long av u bn after her.

Almost a month.... We talked on BBM dis afternoon.. While I was tryna tell her communication is key, she felt I was complaining.. She can't do more than she is doing.. Weekend is d only period we can talk, she just doesn't want to talk jare... Me, I don let go oo...I will delete her off my BBM list in a week sha... She is suppose to meet me halfway, but she isn't ready to do that.. Perhaps she isn't ready for a relationship sef... Wish her luck... I moved on!

Its official; Am Single!

Thanks Deols!

shrek4:

Almost a month.... We talked on BBM dis afternoon.. While I was tryna tell her communication is key, she felt I was complaining.. She can't do more than she is doing.. Weekend is d only period we can talk, she just doesn't want to talk jare... Me, I don let go oo...I will delete her off my BBM list in a week sha... She is suppose to meet me halfway, but she isn't ready to do that.. Perhaps she isn't ready for a relationship sef... Wish her luck... I moved on!

Its official; Am Single!

Thanks Deols!

sorry oooo.

do u mind picking one of the ladies on this thread?

toba: sorry oooo.

do u mind picking one of the ladies on this thread?

Pick? Are we auctioning here? You talk about dem as if they are commodities for sale... Respect ladies abeg!

shrek4:

Pick? Are we auctioning here? You talk about dem as if they are commodities for sale... Respect ladies abeg!

Thats how we jokingly speak with ourselves here without getting too Zealous.

Im i responsible for ur predicament? why talk to me like that?

na wa o, dis thread has refused to proceed unto its natural demise. so then keep the posts coming.


meanwhile, I think I have the longest post on the thread (any objections?), not dat I've done a word count or anything, but I submitted a dissertation back there. I think I'll edit it and repost for effect soon. ma salaam.

shrek4:

Pick? Are we auctioning here? You talk about dem as if they are commodities for sale... Respect ladies abeg!

Thats how we jokingly speak with ourselves here without getting too Zealous.

Im i responsible for ur predicament? why talk to me like that?

This post has been modified. Please, watch and moderate your language- I am serious.

maclatunji: Thats how we jokingly speak with ourselves here without getting too Zealous.

Im i responsible for ur predicament? why talk to me like that?

This post has been modified. Please, watch and moderate your language- I am serious.

BS.

I already coded the language even though it was strong. ur modifying my post amounts to overzealousness on ur part cos the same coding are being used severally even on sections being moderated by mukina and other senior mods like Jarus

toba: Thats how we jokingly speak with ourselves here without getting too Zealous.

Im i responsible for ur predicament? why talk to me like that?

Dude, watch it! Your very last warning... You can choose to ignore me, I don't care..but I wont take dungs from you anymore... What predicament are u referring to? Relationship na career? Or what's ur headache... Stay off my case na... You are yet to make sense since I joined tis thread... Respect ur self and do the right thing!
I won't insult u... I will wait till you ask for it!

@Mod ... I wonder why mod hasn't done anytin about this, tis is suppose to be a mumeens' and mumeenats' gathering... Things like this will put people off here... When u discuss serious issues and some clown from God knows where jumps in...make fun and all sort of jokes, what do u call that? Comedy central?? For the interest of dis thread, do sometin about this... There is a section for jokes on NL... I bliv we discuss sensitive matter here!
We should give every new reader a cogent reason to contribute and join this thread.. Not some gimmick posts.... <----- my suggestions, subject to be questioned/contradicted and chastised!

Salaam

shrek4:

Dude, watch it! Your very last warning... You can choose to ignore me, I don't care..but I wont take dungs from you anymore... What predicament are u referring to? Relationship na career? Or what's ur headache... Stay off my case na... You are yet to make sense since I joined tis thread... Respect ur self and do the right thing!
I won't insult u... I will wait till you ask for it!

@Mod ... I wonder why mod hasn't done anytin about this, tis is suppose to be a mumeens' and mumeenats' gathering... Things like this will put people off here... When u discuss serious issues and some clown from God knows where jumps in...make fun and all sort of jokes, what do u call that? Comedy central?? For the interest of dis thread, do sometin about this... There is a section for jokes on NL... I bliv we discuss sensitive matter here!
We should give every new reader a cogent reason to contribute and join this thread.. Not some gimmick posts.... <----- my suggestions, subject to be questioned/contradicted and chastised!

Salaam

Very valid points my brother. @toba, your comparative analysis of mods is your personal matter but know one thing, this 'junior'' moderator will not tolerate any obstinate or deliberate misdemeanour from you.

shrek4:

Dude, watch it! Your very last warning... You can choose to ignore me, I don't care..but I wont take dungs from you anymore...

Dude this is the internet and faceless forum at that, dont get too ZEALOUS here. Every of my responses to u are jokes. I cant decipher, why u chose to act this way. Its ur choice if u cant flow in my rhythm, so be it. There's what we call 'pun'

What predicament are u referring to? Relationship na career? Or what's ur headache... Stay off my case na... You are yet to make sense since I joined tis thread... Respect ur self and do the right thing!
I won't insult u... I will wait till you ask for it!

ur words are too harsh. Like i posited above, im not in a fight with u, neither are we in a contest. Get real and be a man. All stuffs here are not to be taking as real. Once again, if u arent seeing things my way, i'll let u be. I dont need a friend or make friends on faceless forums such as this.

Cheers

@Mod ... I wonder why mod hasn't done anytin about this, tis is suppose to be a mumeens' and mumeenats' gathering... Things like this will put people off here... When u discuss serious issues and some clown from God knows where jumps in...make fun and all sort of jokes, what do u call that? Comedy central?? For the interest of dis thread, do sometin about this... There is a section for jokes on NL... I bliv we discuss sensitive matter here!
We should give every new reader a cogent reason to contribute and join this thread.. Not some gimmick posts.... <----- my suggestions, subject to be questioned/contradicted and chastised!

Salaam

Once again u are missing the point and showing the level of tolerance in islam. FYI this forum is owned by an atheist and everyone is at liberty to post anywhere so far such one doesnt break the rule. I dont think i have in anyway.

Let me remind u of something. Dyt said to me on this thread 'Toba can u come and massage my leg' i didnt get angry cos thats our usual jive. I'll advice u flip through previous pages to see. can u also say cos of that this thread is a joke? U've said funny things to me on this thread which i didnt take personal. thats maturity

No qualms. There are more things to chase outside of here than to pick an e-fight, more so amongst the characters i like online

maclatunji:

Very valid points my brother. @toba, your comparative analysis of mods is your personal matter but know one thing, this 'junior'' moderator will not tolerate any obstinate or deliberate misdemeanour from you.

Who cares? Im only advising u to grow up and learn from those that are matured in moderating

Im not Logicboy or Lagosshia. as much as i wouldnt break the rules, so also will i not tolerate nonsense.

U dnt want me to remind of some of ur irrational posts on this thread. do u? Remember we started this thread together in september last year. the supermod do visit this thread

My guy once again calm down, let the good flow that we've had continue. U know im a peace lover thats why i post freely in any section. threat is what i will never take from anyone.

cheers and maa salam

^Behave, if I see you abbreviate any swearing or inappropriate language, that's it. Post anything you like now, irrational in your mind. Your attempts at blackmail cannot work for every post I make is moderated before I post.

You are choosing the way of confrontation rather than respectful (of yourself ) compliance, I won't give you any further warning,

maclatunji: ^Behave, if I see you abbreviate any swearing or inappropriate language, that's it. Post anything you like now, irrational in your mind. Your attempts at blackmail cannot work for every post I make is moderated before I post.

You are choosing the way of confrontation rather than respectful (of yourself ) compliance, I won't give you any further warning,

smh


blackmail u say? u are a big joker. U are not in any position to correct me BTW im not confrontational. even if i want to be, definitely its not gonna be with anyone on this thread cos i consider them 'e-friends'

im only reminding u of what has happened in the past, so u are the one that needs to behave urself and not me, especially amongst fellow muslims. Keep ur warning to urself. u can employ me to do PR for u.

I wouldnt charge u too much

#OnToMoreImportantIssues

Shrek, mod and toba. I'll BAN, BAN AND BAN you. Copy that

olawalebabs: Shrek, mod and toba. I'll BAN, BAN AND BAN you. Copy that

Olawale oooo..... Wetin u talk?? Type in english abeg, I don't understand gibberish...

olawalebabs: Shrek, mod and toba. I'll BAN, BAN AND BAN you. Copy that

ooga mi sir. Im sorry i will not do that again. if u ban me, i wouldnt be getting my muslima again. Pls i beg

shrek4:

Olawale oooo..... Wetin u talk?? Type in english abeg, I don't understand gibberish...

try me and you will understand that gibberish.

www.nairaland.com/972957/wedding-pics check out the wedding pics. they are lovely

^^Thanks for the pics, you can use it for your wedding with sis Rebecca or Aunty Agnes. It'll look nice.

this is what i will do. i will change to islam and becme Abdul to get my muslima and anything can happen after that. deal?

toba: this is what i will do. i will change to islam and becme Abdul to get my muslima and anything can happen after that. deal?

that's deceit and Islam is against it. Thank God, the sis know your plan.

Salam Alaykum everybody. I was thinking yesterday and it hit me that we have been focusing on deal makers things/traits we want our potential spouses to have but we are making a mistake I believe because we need to also focus on deal breakers (things we will not tolerate or won't accept).

Now, marriage isn't only about living with the person whose traits and character you like, it is also about living with the obvious flaws of your spouse- managing them such that they don't break your relationship and place a heavy strain on or destroy your marriage altogether.

Let us talk about these deal breakers, what are the things you cannot tolerate at all and which are the ones you can manage. Personally, I don't think I have a full list yet but let me give perhaps the most popular one: I cannot stand deceitfulness and dishonesty. If I remember any others, I will talk about them later.

I can not tolerate someone that snores ..

On a more serious note

abuse (physical or verbal)

Infidelity

no looking back....

bhusayor: I can not tolerate someone that snores ..

On a more serious note

abuse (physical or verbal)

Infidelity

no looking back....

Hey, but I snore now. It is not our fault. Would you really turn down a good man because he snores? What do you mean by 'no looking back'?

Liars and deceit, can't get closer to them.

As much as my wish list is modifiable,I hv a few list of uncompromisables viz

1.aqil:I am suppose to obey most of d time so his ideas had better be.....
2.friendly-disposition:cant cope wt a tyrant in d name of upholding morals.imagine dis:'Abu saunters in,children scamper to dr room or wife runs to d kitchen.'
3.cant tolerate a guy who equates lying and smartness.