temiade:

@OP. I am a girl, and I absolutely agree with you.
I have just returned into the country myself, and the girls have been
absolutely ridiculous.
I dont understand why these girls have no class and dignity.
It is ok to expect things from a guy who claims to love you but it is classless
to actually demand it. Let the guy show you he cares and do this on his own
terms.

temiade:

@OP. I am a girl, and I absolutely agree with you.
I have just returned into the country myself, and the girls have been
absolutely ridiculous.
I dont understand why these girls have no class and dignity.
It is ok to expect things from a guy who claims to love you but it is classless
to actually demand it. Let the guy show you he cares and do this on his own
terms.
Anyway, i recently dated some so called rich naija guy and he was d most unromantic person i had ever met  -
he was borderline cold and mean, I told him I was no longer interested after 4 months into the relationship,
in his eyes I have missed out on a good life (which he outrightly told me). Well, if u ask me, that was one of
the best decisions I ever made in my life - I dont need someone to cloth me, feed me and treat me like a kid.
I  wish more naija girls would stand up for themselves and stop waiting for a man to meet their needs.
That is y many of these girls feel stuck in marriage in the future, dey have fully depended on a guy (atleast more than 50% dependent)

o.obim:

[b]u attract what u desire.am sure u went for lil girls who got no jobs.[/b]what'd u expect from such girls?dont blame them cos u shud look before plucking

d way some dudes complain abt how naija girls r so demanding makes me wonder if its not d same naija girls i meet every now n then.

Jackieugo:

I completely agree with you OP and I'm glad that you didn't generalize all naija girls. However, I believe some men are just as responsible for creating the current situation that's going on. You've probably seen many threads on here already looking down at independent women and saying we're not "wifey material" just because we choose to be successful. Or threads about rich aristos & married men throwing money at gals all the time, spoiling them completely. . . you get the point  

coogar:

if the girls don't demand it, i doubt rich aristos and married men would be throwing money at what they can get for free!

Jackieugo:

Why wouldn't they demand it if they weren't first used to expecting money thrown at them because of their previous guys? Are you trying to say naija girls are brought up to always demand money or what?

maasoap:

@OP,
You're a real selfish man and I'm disappointed in you. I read your post completely because I'm not a lazy reader. You shouldn't have gone in alone just because the said lady was late to the Cinema. You didn't know why she was late and you were not interested in finding out. She even called you several times, you ignored. She bought ticket, but couldn't find you. She waited for you till the end of the movie, she really tried. I don't want to say much about the first lady but in the case of the second lady, you got it wrong! You're full of yourself, too bad. That lady deserves an apology from you and you have to refund her ticket money because you invited her to the Cinema and she spent her money on transport and I didn't see anything close to being materialistic in this second case. Man, you've got to change your attitude.

temiade:

@OP. I am a girl, and I absolutely agree with you.
I have just returned into the country myself, and the girls have been
absolutely ridiculous.
I dont understand why these girls have no class and dignity.
It is ok to expect things from a guy who claims to love you but it is classless
to actually demand it. Let the guy show you he cares and do this on his own
terms.
Anyway, i recently dated some so called rich naija guy and[b] he was d most unromantic person[/b] i had ever met  -
he was borderline cold and mean, I told him I was no longer interested after 4 months into the relationship,
in his eyes I have missed out on a good life (which he outrightly told me). Well, if u ask me, that was one of
the best decisions I ever made in my life - I dont need someone to cloth me, feed me and treat me like a kid.
I  wish more naija girls would stand up for themselves and stop waiting for a man to meet their needs.
That is y many of these girls feel stuck in marriage in the future:
dey have fully depended on a guy (atleast more than 50% dependent). They cannot
go anywhere when the guy turns into a monster

coogar:

majority are!
they grew up watching their dads giving their mums cash to fix the necessaries in the house.

mind, i did not say all nigerian women act this way. the truth is, the topic is a polarizing one.
even if 10% of the nigerian women are this way, it still represents about 7 million in sheer numbers. people would still generalize based on what 7 million women do - forgetting there are about 63 million women who are not like that.

maasoap:

@OP,
You're a real selfish man and I'm disappointed in you. I read your post completely because I'm not a lazy reader. You shouldn't have gone in alone just because the said lady was late to the Cinema. You didn't know why she was late and you were not interested in finding out. She even called you several times, you ignored. She bought ticket, but couldn't find you. She waited for you till the end of the movie, she really tried. I don't want to say much about the first lady but in the case of the second lady, you got it wrong! You're full of yourself, too bad. That lady deserves an apology from you and you have to refund her ticket money because you invited her to the Cinema and she spent her money on transport and I didn't see anything close to being materialistic in this second case. Man, you've got to change your attitude.

coogar:

majority are!
they grew up watching their dads giving their mums cash to fix the necessaries in the house.

mind, i did not say all nigerian women act this way. the truth is, the topic is a polarizing one.
even if 10% of the nigerian women are this way, it still represents about 7 million in sheer numbers. people would still generalize based on what 7 million women do - forgetting there are about 63 million women who are not like that.

Fickle:

As a mother of 2, I am really dissappointed at the comments ladies here are making. I have shifted away from confrontation but I think the ladies here need to be flogged in the head. Is every story that a man puts up here enough to jump at their defense all the time. As cuddles stated, goldie also agreed what happened to solidarity amongnst women. It is this same attitude that is shown in our daily lives that why women are constantly rendered useless in the society. If all ladies agree that majority of women depend on men for money then it means majority of nairaland ladies are gold diggers no wonder most of you are always online all the time, this is where you make your living off innocent & spotless men with no sin. Which thread has been created to address men and their love for the female reproductive organ or all the heart breaks they have caused. Most ladies are under the shackles of men, I pity you all better wake up and smell the coffee. Fine these things happen but why can't the men take their time to associate with responsible girls or wife material. You can keep blaming ladies because you over stepped your boundaries with high profile ladies.

All of the ladies chanting, I am married. Just pray your uterance does not affect your future, when men see that ladies are testifying that naija ladies are like that, they would flee from you all rendering all of you single for life. Keep scaring your gender. Men have nothing to loose with all their wickerdness. Ladies and their stupidity, God help us all.

As for that precious egg that said naija babes that stay abroad are more decent or have better orientation, you are a big dunce. Most of you can't even wash your stinking pants as washing machine & coins has spoilt your lives. Some of you can't cook, don't have respect for elders and move around like bolos. I had to train my niece how to cook because we want her married out, she could not even boil water. So shut up, decency has nothing to do with location but your own self. keep jonzing. keep washing your dirty gutter to foreigners that read Nland and get a wrong impression about the ladies, making the men look like saints. omo ti o ba gbo oro ni ile, wa ko ni ta. Awon omo ti wan fe jasi, ki ni awon omode yi mo. jeje laye

Jackieugo:

Let them generalize then like they always do on NL. It's just hypocritical that some of these same guys that come on here to complain about our girls will continue to spend money on them in real life. Atleast there are still women with sense and values that won't fall for some sleazy guy throwing money at them.

waladis:

(clear throat) Are you sure it's not the other way round?.

Fickle:

As a mother of 2, I am really dissappointed at the comments ladies here are making. I have shifted away from confrontation but I think the ladies here need to be flogged in the head. Is every story that a man puts up here enough to jump at their defense all the time. As cuddles stated, goldie also agreed what happened to solidarity amongnst women. It is this same attitude that is shown in our daily lives that why women are constantly rendered useless in the society. If all ladies agree that majority of women depend on men for money then it means majority of nairaland ladies are gold diggers no wonder most of you are always online all the time, this is where you make your living off innocent & spotless men with no sin. Which thread has been created to address men and their love for the female reproductive organ or all the heart breaks they have caused. Most ladies are under the shackles of men, I pity you all better wake up and smell the coffee. Fine these things happen but why can't the men take their time to associate with responsible girls or wife material. You can keep blaming ladies because you over stepped your boundaries with high profile ladies.

All of the ladies chanting, I am married. Just pray your uterance does not affect your future, when men see that ladies are testifying that naija ladies are like that, they would flee from you all rendering all of you single for life. Keep scaring your gender. Men have nothing to loose with all their wickerdness. Ladies and their stupidity, God help us all.

As for that precious egg that said naija babes that stay abroad are more decent or have better orientation, you are a big dunce. Most of you can't even wash your stinking pants as washing machine & coins has spoilt your lives. Some of you can't cook, don't have respect for elders and move around like bolos. I had to train my niece how to cook because we want her married out, she could not even boil water. So shut up, decency has nothing to do with location but your own self. keep jonzing. keep washing your dirty gutter to foreigners that read Nland and get a wrong impression about the ladies, making the men look like saints. omo ti o ba gbo oro ni ile, wa ko ni ta. Awon omo ti wan fe jasi, ki ni awon omode yi mo. jeje laye

Fickle:

As a mother of 2, I am really dissappointed at the comments ladies here are making. I have shifted away from confrontation but I think the ladies here need to be flogged in the head. Is every story that a man puts up here enough to jump at their defense all the time. As cuddles stated, goldie also agreed what happened to solidarity amongnst women. It is this same attitude that is shown in our daily lives that why women are constantly rendered useless in the society. If all ladies agree that majority of women depend on men for money then it means majority of nairaland ladies are gold diggers no wonder most of you are always online all the time, this is where you make your living off innocent & spotless men with no sin. Which thread has been created to address men and their love for the female reproductive organ or all the heart breaks they have caused. Most ladies are under the shackles of men, I pity you all better wake up and smell the coffee. Fine these things happen but why can't the men take their time to associate with responsible girls or wife material. You can keep blaming ladies because you over stepped your boundaries with high profile ladies.

All of the ladies chanting, I am married. Just pray your uterance does not affect your future, when men see that ladies are testifying that naija ladies are like that, they would flee from you all rendering all of you single for life. Keep scaring your gender. Men have nothing to loose with all their wickerdness. Ladies and their stupidity, God help us all.

[b]As for that precious egg that said naija babes that stay abroad are more decent or have better orientation, you are a big dunce. Most of you can't even wash your stinking pants as washing machine & coins has spoilt your lives. Some of you can't cook, don't have respect for elders and move around like bolos. I had to train my niece how to cook because we want her married out, she could not even boil water. So shut up, decency has nothing to do with location but your own self. keep jonzing. keep washing your dirty gutter to foreigners that read Nland and get a wrong impression about the ladies, making the men look like saints. omo ti o ba gbo oro ni ile, wa ko ni ta. Awon omo ti wan fe jasi, ki ni awon omode yi mo. jeje laye[/b]

REALITY101:

Sup baby

Fickle:

As a mother of 2, I am really dissappointed at the comments ladies here are making. I have shifted away from confrontation but I think the ladies here need to be flogged in the head. Is every story that a man puts up here enough to jump at their defense all the time. As cuddles stated, goldie also agreed what happened to solidarity amongnst women. It is this same attitude that is shown in our daily lives that why women are constantly rendered useless in the society. If all ladies agree that majority of women depend on men for money then it means majority of nairaland ladies are gold diggers no wonder most of you are always online all the time, this is where you make your living off innocent & spotless men with no sin. Which thread has been created to address men and their love for the female reproductive organ or all the heart breaks they have caused. Most ladies are under the shackles of men, I pity you all better wake up and smell the coffee. Fine these things happen but why can't the men take their time to associate with responsible girls or wife material. You can keep blaming ladies because you over stepped your boundaries with high profile ladies.

All of the ladies chanting, I am married. Just pray your uterance does not affect your future, when men see that ladies are testifying that naija ladies are like that, they would flee from you all rendering all of you single for life. Keep scaring your gender. Men have nothing to loose with all their wickerdness. Ladies and their stupidity, God help us all.

As for that precious egg that said naija babes that stay abroad are more decent or have better orientation, you are a big dunce. Most of you can't even wash your stinking pants as washing machine & coins has spoilt your lives. Some of you can't cook, don't have respect for elders and move around like bolos. I had to train my niece how to cook because we want her married out, she could not even boil water. So shut up, decency has nothing to do with location but your own self. keep jonzing. keep washing your dirty gutter to foreigners that read Nland and get a wrong impression about the ladies, making the men look like saints. omo ti o ba gbo oro ni ile, wa ko ni ta. Awon omo ti wan fe jasi, ki ni awon omode yi mo. jeje laye

seedord247:

I agree with the last paragraph. most of them no there self here but i don't want to mention name, you hardly find them in ojther section of nairaland. when most of

them have castigated their TOTO for those NIGga Nigga Boyz they are now looking for true naija men to love them. well shaa time will tell.

horny4u:

This may seem the majority but there are more decent 9ja babes and men than the outgoing ones.
This two groups of people deserve eachother, just the same way the poster was crass not gentlemanly enough to come out of the movie hall to get the babe in same way the girl was crass not ladylike enough not to demand refund.

A guy commented and said he invited a girl to his hotel and she said she wants money for her hand bag, and that he was hoping to marry a 9ja babe at home. May be i am old fashioned but if you want to marry a girl you woo her not hotel her, thats jump off business and such pay as you go booty costs money, you either pay it or you call you guy friend to keep you company , plsssss that hotel room you invited her too is it for a game of ludo .

Lets keep it clean materialistic girls and "met me tonight" boys go hand in hand, no need to cry foul.[/b]Cos i tell you if you were with a girl who you see a possibility of her being the mother of your kids and the love of your life you will meet at Amala junction if you cannot afford candle lit dinner but not hotel room.

Crass men and women flock together and [b]do not expect a jumpoff relationship to help you plan you future since you are cornering her pay as yu go style then you must pay so you can go,

Now bite me I talk my own.