Pidginwhisper:
Have you read a Novel by Ugo C Shege?

Ballzproblem2:
probably wants you to come over because she is finding it hard to find companion there ..


Why are you in communication with someone who dumped you?

TemplarLandry:
Broski, can't you see you're just an option? She's using you.
Explain your financial situation to her, if she's ready to sponsor your relocation, you can go ahead with the japa plan.

In advance, I dedicate “Cry Me A River” by Justin Timberlake to you two in case you later break up when you get back together in the UK.
Great jam!

eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.

eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.

SIMPonPatrol:


She has an itch in her puscy so she needs a guy who will be helping her scratch it

eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.

eepeepook:
She complains of loneliness all the time and wants me to come over.

fikayormi:
Babe don look around don realized that she is aging and seriously lonely , you are never her first choice boss , you’re just a back up incase things goes south which is currently happening .

If you are ready to be the wife make she be the husband no problem follow her plan .

So you self never get better plan for ur life na person wey don forget you wey no send ur papa you want

With your good job and hustling spirit ,who tell you say you won’t get a beautiful wife , come later japa in the nearest future?

Kobicove:
Since you know she can't host a man for more than a few months why do you still want to go using her as your sponsor?

If you go there in your present condition you will likely make your life a living hell cos you will be completely at her mercy

eepeepook:
This woman relocated five years ago to the UK. Immediately she did so, she blocked all forms of communication we maintained. I took it as a soft breakup and dated randomly.

Luckily, I was able to view her life through mutual friends’ Facebook accounts. She dated an akata for three years and lived off him. They broke up eventually, however she was able to secure a good job beforehand.

Fast forward two years later, she sent me birthday wishes last year and we reconnected. Life continued like nothing happened and we gist regularly. She complains of loneliness all the time and wants me to come over. I’ve told her to date around and she tells me things of the sort are too hard. She wants to focus on her career for the meantime.

Her plan now is to write an invitation letter for me to come over. I’m yet to find my footing in Nigeria as I just got a good job some months back. The pay is good, but I don’t have the funds to travel out yet. She’s not ready to pay for flight tickets and is still encouraging me to relocate and live with her.

Where will I start from? I know very well she can’t host a man for more than a few months. Is it marriage she has in mind?

I’m confused.

eepeepook:
She’s not ready to pay for flight tickets and is still encouraging me to relocate and live with her.

I’m confused.

talented321:
What if she abandon u again when u cross border...

Karlifate:


@ bolded:

This should've been an eye-opener for you.

Someone that truly wants your progress would make sacrifices for you.


You're only confused because you're already fantasizing about the "lonely" pvssy.

If you're sex-starved, find a nearby pvssy or better still, practice sexual transmutation, you'll forget about her in a couple of days.

Ladyclara002:
Advice: Communication is key in any relationship. Try talking to your ex and see if there's a way to work things out, or if it's best for both of you to move on separately.

Where will I start from?

I know very well she can’t host a man for more than a few months.

Is it marriage she has in mind?

I’m confused.