sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Losing out wetin?

So because of your friends dating non Nigerians, that becomes a premise for concluding your unfounded theory of "Nigerian Babes losing out on Nigerian Men"? How many countries of the world have you been to? Can you utter such rubbish in Nigeria? Can this question make it to the headlines of a Nigerian newspaper?

Get your facts right before posting balderdash. . . it's not by force to post. if you feel like posting, post something substantial or post something like "My friends prefer non Nigerian Girls, to Nigerian Girls". . . That sounds better than a senseless generalizing. Sit on your hands to avoid posting nonsense. Thank you in advance. . .[/size]

Are Nigerian Babes Losing Out On Nigerian Men?

I observed that most of my friends who live and study in the US and UK are dating non-Nigerian girls

Guys, is this the trend or one of those aberrations?

r231:

They figure out that their certificate after study doesn't come with stay/permanent resident/greencard

so they rather go for Oyinbos and and start making excuses that naija babes are drama

Eg 190 and his concubines

Wislet:

Guys, learn to respect your women. Cos in doing so, u'll only show you have respect for yourselves. , It is high time you Nigerian men grow up. Sometimes i wonder at the quality of future fathers we are breeding?

wtf??

The topic says

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Are Nigerian Babes Losing Out On Nigerian Men?

. . .and the poster stated that:

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I observed that most of my friends who live and study in the US and UK are dating non-Nigerian girls

. . .  .he concluded with a question:

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Guys, is this the trend or one of those aberrations?


It is clear from the above that the poster simply wanted opinions based on his own personal experience.  I haven't seen anything in his post to suggest that he's attempting to generalize what he has observed.  His concluding statement can simply be answered with a "yes" for those who agreed with him and a "no" for those who don't.  Why the fck should anyone blow this out of proportions?

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Ok i just did. So after ending your moronic statement with a question mark, you started with "I observed that most of my friends who live and study in the US and UK are dating non-Nigerian girls."

Can you school me more on that, teacher? How do you reconcile your topic with that statement?[/size]

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]And what exactly is the problem?

When did one person's opinions based on personal experience become the trend?
Why was his observation restricted to the confines of "his friends" studying in the Uk and Us?
Did he observe his friends in Nigeria also?
And why was his topic Hammering on Naija Babes Losing out to Naija men, why not be specific and point out the geographical location of the babes and men he was talking about?. . .[/size]

hamsky:

[size=15pt]To be honest I think Nigerian girls are just so unreal, they have this taught that they do guys favour by going out with them. And the thing about them not being romantic that is absolutely true except you find a very wise one; "Na only naija girl you go buy flower for we go tell you seh na flower I go chop"[/size]

hamsky:

[size=15pt]To be honest I think Nigerian girls are just so unreal, they have this taught that they do guys favour by going out with them. And the thing about them not being romantic that is absolutely true except you find a very wise one; "Na only naija girl you go buy flower for we go tell you seh na flower I go chop"[/size]

hamsky:

[size=15pt]To be honest I think Nigerian girls are just so unreal, they have this taught that they do guys favour by going out with them. And the thing about them not being romantic that is absolutely true except you find a very wise one; "Na only naija girl you go buy flower for we go tell you seh na flower I go chop"[/size]

manny4life:

@Sexkillz,

I have to call you out on this one; the poster included a question mark in his comment stating that indeed he was asking a question. He wasn't making an assumption but using his friend as statistical sample for the basis of his question. If he had phrased is as "Nigerian girls are losing out on Nigerian Men", that's a conclusive statement, but the reverse is in this case because the question mark does denote that the sampling goes further into opinionated survey of YES or NO. In other words, a question doesn't draw a conclusion of theory but opens background for further investigation and provides basic background for the final analysis.

Sagaman:

Do you have issues?

The guy stated he has observed something and put a question out to see if others have similar observations and you are chatting dust.

When you chat shyt and are caught out, like he did when he made it clear to you that it was a question, not an assertion: Shut up and accept you goofed and stop these "I no go carry last" arguments.

YOU GOOFED! HE CORRECTED YOU! LEARN!

Wislet:

And if they throw themselves on your lap, you will call them virtuous?
Romance? Were you born romantic? If you're such a master in it, why don't you teach her some? Seeing as in your culture and in most families (maybe urs included), affection is not something shown openly. And you guys TO YOUR OWN SHAME keep opening your mouths to talk about flowers. How many times, IF EVER, did you see your fathers buy flowers for your mothers? Or your mums want them as gifts? Were you given flowers as a kid? You know whqt i see? Some men who have not only lost touch of their roots, but have lost their reasoning. Though we must applaud them for having succeeded in acquiring something AT LEAST-  a large dose of inferiority complex! It's not easy at all.

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]And what exactly is the problem?

When did one person's opinions based on personal experience become the trend?
. . .[/size]

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Noted! Now, was he specific about the geographical location or not when he asked the question? Was he seeking the opinion of Nigerians in Nigeria or Nigerians in the Uk and Us alone?[/size]

Guys, is this the trend or one of those aberrations?

zumbigbo:

Ah ah,

I can only speak from experience O,  it is very rare to find a balanced, thoughtful and sincere naija girl,  however it is very rare to meet a balanced, thoughtful and sincere naija guy, as we are all creatures of our upbringing. Nigeria is a place where the possession of money is valued above  what I consider to be more important virtues like moral character, intelligence and honesty. If we as men are honest, what we see is the fruit of our elder's sins. Because if as men we held a benchmark down in the home and the office, our women will follow.

It is no wonder that $$$ has become the axis of all action, thought and feeling in 9ja, to the extent that we have allowed it to destroy every institution from the family to govt. Anyway, I digress.

From my own personal experience in Naija, Brasil, Cote d'Ivoire, US, Sweden and many places in between, I just love Senegalese women, but that is a personal preference for character and body shape,   Come, come, below is a pic of my lovely wolof queen in Dakar.

SWAGFORCE honey, as I told you previously the most important is to be happy and there's no obligation for a Nigerian male to get married to his sister and from my point of  veix I truly believe that Nigerian men are still very close to their sisters even though they seem to be a bit harsh, they're crazy about them  

Sagaman:

Think about it again and stop being so myopic and giving excuses.
The first part to change is the need to acknowledge a need for change.

Continue deluding yourself and absorbing yourselfs of blame and wonder why black men are looking elsewhere.

It is as ridiculous as Nigeria saying Westerners don't come to Nigeria for Tourism because they are racist and prefer to take their money to fellow white people (Spain, Monaco, USA, Greece etc) or black nations that are more servile than Nigeria. It is because we are proud and don't take shyt that they don't want to come to Nigeria for tourism.

Yeah! Obviously people can come with the most ridiculous excuses picked from the darkest corners of illogicality instead of accepting the real issue poking them in the eye.

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Noted! Now, was he specific about the geographical location or not when he asked the question? Was he seeking the opinion of Nigerians in Nigeria or Nigerians in the Uk and Us alone?[/size]

It is clear from his post that he wasn't seeking the opinion of a specific group based on location. His question was an open one to find out if his observation was limited to his friends or not

again. . .

manny4life:


Though I wouldn't speak on his statistics, however, geographic doesn't really play much of an important role in this case, but rather the dating pattern plays the role in the sampling. Though he mentioned it, but you if you read it properly, he did not assume U.K or U.S. as into consideration but the people involved (Nigerians) in the dating pattern. I think that's what he was talking about. Yes he was seeking opinion irrespective of where anyone is because like I said, geography plays little or no role in this case but Nigerians and their dating pattern is the key identifiers in this case, these are the two variables one have to access.

Jenifa_:

It's d same reason black american men are doing it. same reason carribean men are doing it. same reason african men are doing it.
But it doesn't happen with muslims and born again christian men or men with strong cultural values.
I stand by my claim.
the answer is very obvious.

Jenifa_:

and your tourism analogy makes no sense.
Nigeria doesn't really need oyinbo tourism. Mostly former settler colonies (Kenya, SA etc) and settler colony wannabe (Ghana) have successful ones.
Even when they wanted to bring "Miss World" to us, the northerners refused it with violent reaction!!

Jenifa_:

OP is clearly talking about the UK and US. and Nigerians abroad.
how many oyinbos do you know in Nigeria. In fact, the opposite is the case in Nigeria with naija women more likely to date oyinbo than vice versa.

You all seem to be ganging up on him for not joining you to bash nigerian women. hahaha shame on you

BABE!:

LOL.

Oga Sexkillz, OP never asserted that it was a Nigerian thing, he only asked if it was a Nigerian thing. Big Big Big difference Sir.

LOL.

Oga Sexkillz, OP never asserted that it was a Nigerian thing, he only asked if it was a Nigerian thing. Big Big Big difference Sir.