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Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Bolubunmi(f): 5:02pm On Jan 02, 2008
What can I say! I just love it all! This is a gud thread and a sweet write-up too. I cannot but agree with my sister about the temptation we women usually fall into all in the name of love? lust! i dare say. We should try to respect ourselves and most importantly, this body that God has entrusted into our care. It is when we do this that the male folks will begin to see us in another light and begin to respect us too. Carry on the gud work sister. Cheers! Happy New Year all.[what is life? life is what you make of it, simple!]
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Contila: 5:05am On Jan 05, 2008
I like one of the responder’s comments that segregated the meaning of TRUTH and REALITY,
I don't have a high horse nor a righteous podium to stand on; however, I do know that the book of Proverbs,
chapter 10 starting from verse 31 talks about the value of a virtuous woman.  So the eventual question for all the women
that this initial write-up applies to is - Where Do Your Virtues Lie?

What I have noticed is that girls who are really attractive in their younger years are misled by their beauty until
their more "mundane" friends start finding mates and getting married.  Then they start to ease up on their
"correct bobo longer throat, "  Advice to men - research the woman you're about to marry. If you can research
a job prospect, the stock market, etc. why not the person you choose to spend earth's eternity with. Who she shows
you, MIGHT not be who she really is.  With that being said, men we must not be hypocritical in our approach. 
Some, if not most of us have histories; however, know what is important is realizing that the most fulfilling
things in life are intangible.


I dey hail!
Contila!
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Tonyblu(m): 5:33pm On Mar 09, 2008
Contila:

. . . Advice to men - research the woman you're about to marry.
. . . Who she shows you, MIGHT not be who she really is. With that being said, men we must not be hypocritical in our approach.

Well said!
And shld equally apply both ways.

Cheers.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Nwaka77: 1:35am On Mar 10, 2008
Very nice write up. Loved reading it.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 5:17pm On Apr 08, 2009
Read again.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by cashi: 5:54pm On Apr 08, 2009
YOU NA YOU I DEY TALK TO LIMIT IT!!!!! PLS
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Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by babygurl19(f): 8:14am On Apr 09, 2009
u are such a freak, its becos some of the guys here are poor and they support yu, cos ur sisters are unfortunate doesnt mean women cant be happy, and for sex, its very good as far its with the rite person, and not multiple pple. the porn actresses use drugs and all thats y the side effect is bad. God desisigned sex for marriage so shut up with the diappers. silly guy
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by daduke2k(m): 8:46am On Apr 09, 2009
Nw dats d main problem wit Nig girls neva repentant. How sure am i dat u re not one of dem hoes. angry
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Enockia(m): 3:34pm On Apr 09, 2009
wat will too much sex do to man will it make him use daipers as well
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by topup: 11:28pm On Apr 09, 2009
Good points made.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Druss(m): 8:50am On Apr 15, 2009
ask the commercial sex workers and the most sincere ones will tell you that they now use diapers like babies.

You were doing averagely well till you came here. This is bullshit. This only occurs to those who poke girls or guys up the ass. Pardon my English. GOD didnt design the vagina to lose control if you are doing what he actually designed your dick for. Stop using fear factor. I hate it when people do that. You wrecked a perfectly good post with the above line!
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Druss(m): 8:52am On Apr 15, 2009
Wow, this is very hypocritical and one-sided. The women you said shouldn't give in to sex, who asks for it in the first place
Your post is extremely unrelenting towards the female, yet, it pays no heed to the fact that men instigate these things in the first place. Why don't you ask stop men to stop pressuring girls into sex? Why don't you ask rich men to not marry poor women? Why don't you also ask them to stop 'falling for' these apparent devil marketers? Look, I'm in the banking industry, and I can honestly tell you this whole banks employ chicks to go tempt guys for money is exaggerated, I don't say it doen't happen but if those girls go out and do it, it's on their own idea. Girls who feel they can't meet their targets goign to extreme measures to get what they want. At the same time, the men (mostly married) who are loose enough to fall for a babe in a skirt and let go fo his money?? Please.

Your no6 post tripped me the most though. You are yet to give the scientific proof that happens. I agree with birdman. Somebody told you a lot of bollocks, and you believed it because it proves your point. It doesn't happen. Too much sex will not turn you into a walking baby. It's so RIDICULOUS, i can't beleieve how many women on this post believed it! Don't you even undersatnd your own bodies? What are the diapers supposed to hold anyway? Urine? Cos if that's the case, it OBVIOUSLY has nothing to do with sex, because those parts are not related. God is not stupid. If he wanted married people to have sex, why would he then put a limit on it? Listen to yourself, abeg.

Please go and re-examine your post. A man thinks about sex every 6 seconds. He's not blameless. And stop generalising. I know too many women who have had long, meanigful relationships WITHOUT sex, so that imagined 99% u made up is very annoying.

Just another chauvijistic male running amok under the guise of the Bible. Spare me.

She has said what I wanted to say.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by smooooooth: 9:09am On Apr 15, 2009
greatest post so far on Nl, ladies pls read and learn, xpecially no. 5
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 7:18pm On Apr 28, 2010
smooooooth:

greatest post so far on Nl, ladies pls read and learn, xpecially no. 5

No one can please everybody. But as you know the consequences of our choices are enough lessons for life.

We see the lessons of life in the lives of others.
But unfortunately most of us repeat the mistakes of others, because we fail to learn from them.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by godsfav: 7:55pm On Apr 28, 2010
I most confess u re a lady that is fill wit wisdom & u no d 2 chata in d bible that can guard som1 nt 2 go astray. Thanks, i hope d ladies ll tak heed of ur true philosophy.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by blakbarbie: 4:28am On May 13, 2010
great advice!!
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by queeneve: 7:33am On May 13, 2010
The morale of the story is, ALL YOU HOES, I MEAN LADIES KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED AND THE
KNIGHT IS ON HIS WAY!
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by COco102: 9:02am On May 14, 2010


This is the BEST post i have read this morning THANK U VERY MUCH POSTER

Where can i get your books in SA?

Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by taioluv: 2:50pm On May 14, 2010
thank you for this beatiful write up i like no 5 best because many ladies do not want to suffer with any man at all, and they dont understand that some of the already made guys already have some lady in mind to marry but just want to play a last fling before settling down to her.
Be warned!!!!!!!!!!
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Dubstic: 5:47pm On Jul 09, 2010
who be the guy wey you love and him no send you?if you know say you go fit marry him contact me make i tell you wot to do on slimdubstic@yahoo.com.he will propose to you in two weeks.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Agibecky: 2:42pm On Jul 14, 2010
How to Know the Difference Between Love, Infatuation and Lust.
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-the-Difference-Between-Love,-Infatuation-and-Lust
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 6:30pm On Nov 06, 2010
Thank you to everyone who read and those who commented to agree or to disagree.

I sincerely believe that Nigerian girls and ladies deserve the best and they should not compromise their dignity, integrity and nobility.

We should not accept hypocrisy and mendacity at all levels.

Mutual respect is priceless.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by safarigirl(f): 10:17pm On Nov 07, 2010
I SHARE YOUR SENTIMENTS, I AM SICK AND TIRED OF HAVING TO REPEAT THESE THINGS TO MY FEMALE FRIENDS, WHY MAKE YOURSEL GULLIBLE TO A GUY WHEN YOU CAN PLAY HIM AS YOU LIKE? IN THIS WORLD IT'S WOMEN WHO HOLD THE ACES, MEN ARE THE PAWNS, THE SOONER NIGERIAN GIRLS REALISE THAT THEY HOLD A GREAT AMOUNT OF POWER OVER THESE DROOLING MEN THE BETTER FOR THEM.

BANGING A GUY DOES NOT MAKE HIM RESPECT YOU MORE OR CRAVE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE, IT MAKES HIM THINK LOWLY OF YOU, KEEPING HIM WAITING MAKES HIM YEARN FOR YOU, HE'LL BE ALL OVER YOU LIKE SUGARANTS ON CANDY

ACCEPTING MONEY FROM A GUY OR ALWAYS EXPECTING HIM TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING, DOESN'T MAKE HIM RESPECT YOU, HE THINKS OF YOU AS A PEST, BE YOUR OWN WOMAN, NEVER WAIT FOR HIM TO PAY THE BILLS, DO IT YOURSELF, SHOW HIM HOW INDEPENDENT YOU ARE INSTEAD OF MAKING HIM THINK OF YOU AS A GOLDDIGGER

LADIES WISE UP! COS TRUST ME THE POWER IS IN YOUR HANDS

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Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 7:38pm On Mar 26, 2011
COco102:



This is the BEST post i have read this morning THANK U VERY MUCH POSTER

Where can i get your books in SA?



You can order any of my published books from Amazon.com.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 7:46pm On Mar 26, 2011
safarigirl:

I SHARE YOUR SENTIMENTS, I AM SICK AND TIRED OF HAVING TO REPEAT THESE THINGS TO MY FEMALE FRIENDS, WHY MAKE YOURSEL GULLIBLE TO A GUY WHEN YOU CAN PLAY HIM AS YOU LIKE? IN THIS WORLD IT'S WOMEN WHO HOLD THE ACES, MEN ARE THE PAWNS, THE SOONER NIGERIAN GIRLS REALISE THAT THEY HOLD A GREAT AMOUNT OF POWER OVER THESE DROOLING MEN THE BETTER FOR THEM.

BANGING A GUY DOES NOT MAKE HIM RESPECT YOU MORE OR CRAVE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE, IT MAKES HIM THINK LOWLY OF YOU, KEEPING HIM WAITING MAKES HIM YEARN FOR YOU, HE'LL BE ALL OVER YOU LIKE SUGARANTS ON CANDY

ACCEPTING MONEY FROM A GUY OR ALWAYS EXPECTING HIM TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING, DOESN'T MAKE HIM RESPECT YOU, HE THINKS OF YOU AS A PEST, BE YOUR OWN WOMAN, NEVER WAIT FOR HIM TO PAY THE BILLS, DO IT YOURSELF, SHOW HIM HOW INDEPENDENT YOU ARE INSTEAD OF MAKING HIM THINK OF YOU AS A GOLDDIGGER

LADIES WISE UP! COS TRUST ME THE POWER IS IN YOUR HANDS

Some women are the wisest of the human species.
You have said it all.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 2:52am On Oct 08, 2011
Orikinla:

Some women are the wisest of the human species.
You have said it all.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 12:52pm On Dec 07, 2011
But unfortunately, Nigerian girls and ladies are now more desperate than ever before due to increasing rate of unemployment in the country and the collapse of the education sector.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by islamrules(m): 2:58pm On Dec 07, 2011
This is a great write up. Brilliant.

Can I copy and print for my Sister ?

Pls Permission to copy ?
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 4:53pm On Dec 08, 2011
islamrules:

This is a great write up. Brilliant.

Can I copy and print for my Sister ?

Pls Permission to copy ?
islamrules,

You are free to share it.

Whatever I write and post on Nairaland is for public knowledge.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by kemmyangel(f): 10:03am On Sep 17, 2012
smiley winkGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa.............. sadGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa..............
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Nobody: 11:32am On Sep 17, 2012
Great words of advice from a honest heart.
Re: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by Orikinla(m): 12:14pm On Oct 05, 2012
kemmyangel: smiley winkGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa.............. sadGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa..............

kemmyangel: smiley winkGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa.............. sadGuyz are full of lies, they tell lies every day of their lives.........we also have ladies who liked to be lied to.........i almost hate Guyz now shaa..............


Not all guys are full of lies.
But They say every evil starts with a lie
But not every lie is of the devil.
Sometimes we have to lie to save a life
When our beliefs are torn apart by strife
And saving a life is not evil
You had better lie than to die.

During World War Two, many lies were told
To save many Jews from being killed
And so it has been done at other times
So when I lied to you in my promises
I lied because I love you
And heaven knows my love is true.

Yes, baby, I lied because I love you.

~ By Orikinla Osinachi, Thursday October 4, 2012, Lagos, Nigeria.
© 2010 – 2012. All Rights Reserved in every medium of communication, circulation and distribution. No part of the words of these lyrics should be reproduced in any format without the authorized permission of the author and copyright owner.

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