@ Nike4luv...

That's not realistic...

do you people know that love has a very heavy say in this matter, do y'all know that. do you think its so easy to just tell the one you love and want to die for i dont want you no more. do you think its so easy? well if you do then you had better just back track and know it is not so dont be quick to say dump him, throw her out, kick his butt out blah blah blah.

yea..but she was unfaithful to u..how can u deal wit dat..it makes you feel impotent innit..shows dat she gets wot u dont offer herfrom sum1 else..

nike4luv:

yea..but she was unfaithful to you..how can you deal wit that..it makes you feel impotent innit..shows that she gets wot you don't offer herfrom sum1 else..

Is that how you view life?? ...

[Just curious... ]

oh..i give up CJ

Nike4luv

@ legry..wot me do now?

keep her or leave her!

Nike4luv why you give up on CJ

Is that how you view life?? ...

[Just curious... ]
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i just say it how it is CJ

CimonJorr:

nike4luv link=topic=828.msg14677#msg14677 date=1121765392:

yea..but she was unfaithful to you..how can you deal wit that..it makes you feel impotent innit..shows that she gets wot you don't offer herfrom sum1 else..

Is that how you view life?? ...

[Just curious... ]

nike4luv:

Is that how you view life?? ...

[Just curious... ]

i just say it how it is CJ

Baby girl...

When you've walked these streets before, you kind of know the terrain.. and you know that some times it's not your fault when things don't happen according to plan.. I know I told myself I wasn't going to discuss this.. [because it still hurts when I think of it.. ] but when you're in love, and there's nothing in the world you wouldn't do for that person, and you experience that kind of betrayal... there's no amount of words that can take away the pain.. you analyse the situation in your head constantly.. over and over again.. [like the words of that Nelly/Tim McGraw song.. ].. and you constantly come to the conclusion that you really did no wrong.. and it hurts.. other people outside the relationship.. your friends.. her friends.. don't seem to understand why things went that way.. and you know you're a better person that the person she left you to be with.. but you hold you head high because  you believe.. no.. you know that given another opportunity, there's nothing you could change that would make things better.. you leave matters, knowing you gave it your best shot.. and leave the rest to God..

But guess what...

It Still Hurts..... 

Awww... Simon, don't let it hurt you anymore..okay. I am here to console you and make you the happiest man in the world. ..

I love Nelly and Tim Mcgraw.

Though it's simply unbearable to think about letting go of someone you love but sometimes you just have to let it be. Just take heart and you'll be fine.

I think we all need to have our heart broken at least once in our life time cause if you dont, you live in this naive world of thinking thst lies and betrayal does not exist and i tell you Heartbreaks also brings maturity. So for those that have seen it Thumbsup and for that have not well ............

Hey CJ,
wel..sorry dat had to happen to u but trust me...one feels de same way evry single time ur heart is broken..i hav experiences, so sorry if dat first post annoyed u..just take heart okay?

No worries... Wasn't annoyed..

To use the lyrics of a popular song..

"I'm back on my feet again..."


But still, it serves no healthy purpose to re-open old wounds, because they wont heal well that way..
I just wanted to give you a different view on life..

if u ask her i doubt it if she would say yes me luv i cheated on u (No she would not). which gurl will come clean to their guy and say yes i cheated or i am cheating on u. but u can not believe a third party. the person might have some issues with ur gurl. the decision is urs but the only thing u need to think of, as some peeps in here have mentioned is do u love her and can u cope with the relationship after she cheated on u. best of luck.
If i cheat on me guy i wld tell him becos of the way we started together.we tell eachother things. but i wld never cheat on u cutie boo.lol

twinkledew:

if you ask her i doubt it if she would say yes me love i cheated on you (No she would not). which girl will come clean to their guy and say yes i cheated or i am cheating on you. but you can not believe a third party. the person might have some issues with your girl. the decision is urs but the only thing you need to think of,  as some peeps in here have mentioned is do you love her and can you cope with the relationship after she cheated on you. best of luck.
If i cheat on me guy i would tell him because of the way we started together.we tell eachother things. but i would never cheat on you cutie boo.lol

wish we had more females like you in the world ,I'm sure your BF wouldn't cheat on you either

BY BOY DON'T MIND PEOPLE NASO DEM GO DE PUT THEIR MOUTH ANYHOW.

BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT IT IS TRUE, THEN LEFT WITH YOU.

Listen, personally it can go both ways. This happened to me. I know you love her and want her, but remember for a girl to do that somethings missing.
Don't be chasing her, you will know if she deserves to be forgiven. Let her talk and LISTEN. Should be easier on you if it was just sex and there wasn't a relationship. Your girls human. And probably just wants to be with you right now. Put yourself in her shoes. Let he without sin cast the first stone. I get past it everyday by realizing my relationship was missing Passion. To be honest her cheating had me think and it has sparked a fucken forest fire and I have never looked back. I'm in a way, thankfull it happened.
Remember Relationships need the following Friendship,Respect,Passion. Or else don't bother/

Interesting reply from the new comer...

ToE:

Listen, personally it can go both ways. This happened to me. I know you love her and want her, but remember for a girl to do that somethings missing.
Don't be chasing her, you will know if she deserves to be forgiven. Let her talk and LISTEN. Should be easier on you if it was just sex and there wasn't a relationship. Your girls human. And probably just wants to be with you right now. Put yourself in her shoes. Let he without sin cast the first stone. I get past it everyday by realizing my relationship was missing Passion. To be honest her cheating had me think and it has sparked a fucken forest fire and I have never looked back. I'm in a way, thankfull it happened.
Remember Relationships need the following Friendship,Respect,Passion. Or else don't bother/

dat's a good one

what the hell is wrong with you? lets be serious here , shes with someone else she dosnt love you
can you get the picture really you are being used

i would have to agree with lola. for once she is rite

well, u need to confirm, then it its true , bust that side and move on, though it might be hard but thats life bro

Always be wary of the bearer of bad news. People have their own agendas. This person may actually secretively resent you and your girlfriend's relationship. Was this person a third party in the sex act with your girlfriend and other person? If not, how is this person a reliable source.

Don't make decisions based on what others say. You need to find out for yourself. Everybody who smiles in your face and eat your food isn't your body. Have you every heard of the Temptations. They have a classic song called "Smilin Faces." You need to check the lyrics outs.

Though this is a bitter pill to swallow, I will advice that you don't make any hasty decision.Remain calm while you think of the best decision you can make at this time.

Well, considering this is Nigeria, you could . . . like. . . hit her.

But I wont recommend it. Just leave the relationship.

Well i guess thats up to u to decide wat u want to do.

If u really love and think u can for give her fine.

But if u think once a cheater always a cheater. then she doesnt deserve u.

that's bad

and what is keeping u from kicking her ass out of your life huh? which one is what will u do?


ok let me school u a lil bit. confirm it personally. if i were near u i would do it better but am not. try to catch them red handed or tell your source to get pixs. u might even pay for it cuzz that is what i did when people told me my ex was cheating. i spied on her myself and caught them red handed and i did what eerbody will do. i gave her a rose, kissed her passionately, looked her straight in the eye, removed my shades so she would see that look she loves seeing that made her fall for me, then i told her baby i love u so much but bitch, stay the fu*k away from me cuzz its over. so confirm and do your thing. goodluck

Lmao @diddy I'm lovin' your style at least you didn't beat her