ceaz4r: Honestly,why are people so abusive on this site? The lady asked a question, if. You've. Got a comprehension problem, then go back to school and steer clear from posts. she said besides sex, meaning, with sex not part of the discussion, what else strikes you as qualities to go for in a Man. For goodness sake, can these adults here behave like one!; and if you're -18, go and play outside!!

sosoluv:
Well pray u have a woman wit strong legs and a strong back

Yomieluv: thats why i dont date lepa,but orobo with a fortified yansh.i'm also using a steel-reinforced bed

Yomieluv: thats why i dont date lepa,but orobo with a fortified yansh.i'm also using a steel-reinforced bed

sosoluv: Besides sexual appeal what do you find attractive about the man you want to be committed to for the rest of your life?

Tyche: I think it's better dating someone that his qualities complements yours. Since we have different qualities, the one that is good for chick A, might not be good for chick B.
However if you happen to meet a guy that has self-confidence and says the truth no matter what, try to keep him, they are hard to find.
#MyOpinionThough

sosoluv:
I will make sure to apply for urs too luv...word of advice u know u can't take insults back, I suggest u stop throwin em at me...pls

Yomieluv: thats why i dont date lepa,but orobo with a fortified yansh.i'm also using a steel-reinforced bed

raphy_lawren:
if a guy lies to his gurl thats wen he cares because the truth hurts somtimes i.e the truth can hurt her

andyanders: My dear, forget some people here with bad belle. Sex, love and good things are some of the things a woman should look out for when looking for a partner. What if the man joy stick is like broom? What if the man joy stick cannot get erection?
Listen my sister, when looking out for a man for just dating, u should have the above at the back of your man. If you are looking for a life partner, let God be involved. Ask God to give you a man with great understanding, caring, educated, has a job that can take care of his responsibilities. A listening partner, not a drunk, not a party freak,at least must be social, can stand on his own, not the type that always go back to his parents for advise or asking for funds. A man with an open communication network that can express his mind whenever and whatever that happens t him or you. A man who is willing to assist. His love must not be possessive and yours too must not be possessive. He must be tolerant and you too must be tolerant. Learn to express your selves whenever there is misunderstanding. Do not go to bed overnight with backlog of issues. Table it out and resolve it no matter who is at fault. You must be ready to carry God along and learn to forgive each other whenever you have issues.
will give u more hints later. wish you well....

sosoluv:
I'm sure every catergory should be educative and informative whether its on politics, romance or culture... If I start talking about international law, totalitarianism, different statutory interpretations of different legal systems, international peace traties...what in the hell will u even know about. Instead of stalking me and looking for every comment I put on nairaland, why don't u mind u own business...I have never bothered even to check what u post or which topics u put up...go away!

cog1: @OP,for me,it would be honesty,transparency,empathy & above all hardworking & God fearing.
I don't need any one sitting around,cricizing all the time.
The moment a man decides to lie & I discover its goodbye forever and a day.
Thanks for the nice thread.

ceaz4r: Honestly,why are people so abusive on this site? The lady asked a question, if. You've. Got a comprehension problem, then go back to school and steer clear from posts. she said besides sex, meaning, with sex not part of the discussion, what else strikes you as qualities to go for in a Man. For goodness sake, can these adults here behave like one!; and if you're -18, go and play outside!!

sexkillz: And i ask again, is intimate appeal the first thing you look out for in a man?

Mind you, there are some that don't play the sex + relationship card, so what do you say about that?

And to those that involve sex in a relationship, is that the first thing you look out for, before hunting for his other qualities?

Mynd_44:
This post is devoid of any type of intelligence. I am shocked that it is this username that wrote. Perhaps her account has been hacked

sosoluv: Besides sexual appeal what do you find attractive about the man you want to be committed to for the rest of your life?

ifyalways: Great and highly functioning one touch "machine" !!!
A good heart.(forgives, cares, helps others)
Has the fear of God and love all men.
Strong and well built physically.
Financialy comfortable and secured.
A good friend, partner and soulmate. You can trust him with all secrets.
He commands respect though a man of few words.
Highly street wise.

Lol.

Nashville:

Keep dreaming dia. The question was what makes a man worth keeping and not what is the ideal man. Please tell us the minimum things you will consider to keep a man

Tyche: I think it's better dating someone that his qualities complements yours. Since we have different qualities, the one that is good for chick A, might not be good for chick B.
However if you happen to meet a guy that has self-confidence and says the truth no matter what, try to keep him, they are hard to find.
#MyOpinionThough

Mynd_44:
I suggest you apply for a brain transplant

Nashville:

This shows the kind of Christain girls we have in 9ja - Hypocrites. This means when the girls are young and not yet ready to marry, they dont need to get God involved, they can go have fun and do all the bad stuff. Then when they think they are getting of age, they suddenly start calling God. And you really think God will show up? You think God does not see your heart. Your exact analysis is why 9ja girls end up with horrible men and then they claim "they even met the guy in bible study" and now he is treating them badly.

If you do not involve God from the beginning, please dont call him when you are looking for a husband because he wouldn't show up. If you want God to show up, check what he calls the qualities of a virtuous woman, make sure you have those qualities and then he would give you the man of your dreams!

sosoluv:
Yes that's all I look for....kindly f*ck off I don't have time for u

sosoluv: Besides sexual appeal what do you find attractive about the man you want to be committed to for the rest of your life?

Dønt Find Maself a Worthy Being to Make u the Choice of a Husband - Gø meet a councellor!