There is a lady on Facebook named Shade Ola Adeoye. She is quite open about her sales also created a page called shade collections and Shade clothings. Why don't you check her out and chat with her? She seems to know what she is doing. With pictures also. All the best! Plus her page is quite interesting on okirika...

There is a lady on Facebook named Shade Ola Adeoye. She is quite open about her sales also created a page called shade collections and Shade clothings. Why don't you check her out and chat with her? She seems to know what she is doing. With pictures also. All the best!

Orikinla:

If you have laid a babe twice or more and you have no plan to marry her, there is nothing special in just sleeping with her again. As we say in Pidgin English "Nothing dey there again". It is waste of time and money keeping a girlfriend who has nothing special to offer you, except "meaningless sexual intercourse".

Difference between men and boys, mschewwww.

High_Chief:

Am still in shock. Women!!!!!!!!

Abegi !!! What have we done again? The fact that one got busted does not mean ALL are the same. My apologies but I find it hard to believe that the guy has never cheated or tried to cheat since he got married.

, were y

baslone:

Nope- 3! She got busted only when the wife of one of the guys(family friend) saw their exchanged messages and started world war 3!

She had another guy/adventure similar to the above story- off to some Office Seminar somewhere in the east.

The third guy. . . . . .

, were you the 3rd guy?

It has been said times without number that everyone has a right to privacy even in marriage and I try as much as possible to keep to it. However, the curious woman in me makes me do it once a while. In truth, it has helped me to discover who I am dealing with. My advise, check but dont make it too occassional. I am glad that so far, no man has said it is a man's world and cheating is fine if the guy does it. I have heard that severallly and makes me sick.

Let her go see a gynaecologist

Hi guys, i just got a blackberry Torch phone and it seems to have a whole no. of problems which I heard is peculiar to the phone. Firstly, it does not have a Wap Browser so it cannot connect to the internet. Also, it comes with an Enterprise set up instead of BIS therefore, it cannot allow configuration of email on the phone. I have requested that the phone service book be sent to the phone which has been done but to no avail. I must quickly say also that I had returned the first one I was given because of this issue thinking it was because it was branded AT & T. Techinicans have worked on it and they seem not to know what the problem is.

However, I need clarification on the below:

1. Is this problem peculiar to all Blackberry Torch phones?
2. Is there anyone using same ype of phone and had the same issue?
3. if you did, how did you resolve it?
4. Can it be resolved in Nigeria?
Looking forward to your comments. Tnx guys!

Have you sorted this issue? If not, would advise you get a court affidavit and a police report to show that there was a fire incident and state the documents that got burnt. Sure you will be needing this in future and not for this alone. Cheers

So much being said, I think he should sue the airline alongside with the governor, his aides, and the Nigeria police(well, he is a lawyer and I am sure he knows what to do). There is no amount of apology that they can rely on to beat a man to sustain injuries.(i Hope he hs enough pictures). He should even appeal to Nigerian's sentiments by posting the pictures everywhere he can - in hte dailies, on the net, to the National Assembly and lots more.

Drunk or not(which the need to prove), he paid for that flight and did not pay for an economy class sit. He paid for a business class and sit and has the right to have sat down beside whoever. If his sit partner could not contain the stentch or inconveninece, he should have gotten up from his sit to elsewhere or called the crew to handle the situation.

I fully support him filing an action against all of dem o jere and claim exemplary damages including public apology o jere. This sort of action should be curbed. As for those that think what the aides did is right, i pity you all cos with this mindset, you will never be able to know what or who you are talkless of knowing what your rights are. At ds time and age? I am very appalled.

I am sure their reaction would have been different if it was just a common white man that was sitted beside the governor o!!!!

Where is ur store in Lagos and how can we see them? U can email me at ashbrunette@yahoo.com. Thanks.

I resumed thinking with no idea of what i was supposed to do. I did not know I was to start the new department. I was only given a system, files with no one to tell me what was happening. While trying to crack my head as to how to go about it, some clients came in and were shouting on top of their voices threatening to beat who was on the seat. Somehow(miracle i guess), i got them calmed down and promised we'd get back to them within the week. They even left cracking jokes about what a little girl can do to an angry man. My boss(a white guy) was just grinning from ear to ear and said in a low tone ' welcome on board' and gave me a thumbs up.

Yawns and leaves the thread!

Ebony-Silk:

Awwwww. . . .I now pronounce you husband and husband.

Aint that sweet? U may now kiss your bride or is it groom? Lol!

Iya mi o, Baba mi o,
Egbon mi o, aburo mi,
Omo dudu lo wun mi o,
O ti su fe pe mi ni'ta

@ Topic:

It is good that you have a very hardworking woman as a wife but i would advise that you do not get comfortable with her doing so much and give her back her money or a part of it as soon as you can get something. Even if you do not make as much as she does, be seen to be going out of your way to contribute. That is the only way you can appreciate her.

It is no use sitting down and thinking about what to do, MOVE. There are various jobs outside. Even the bible says a man that cannot care for his own is worst than an infidel. Get something doing. If you had no one to help you or to turn to, you would still provide

157 to $1 this morning.

Someone who loves me more!

sistawoman, i agree with you 100%. A man can have everything going for him and he is still not contented. I dont think there is anything that can stop a man from cheating but himself. funny, they recognise that they have wonderful wives oh. They are usually very possessive of thier wives also cos they know what they are doing outside!!!

You might get one if you improve on your English!!!

@isu ata,

Have you been reading my posts at all? Guess not.

@Olanajim,

Yes, there sure is a difference between begging and apologising. At this stage, i am of the opinion that it is going to be seen as begging because he thinks he is right. This is a matter of the heart, it is two ways. Is there no communication foreclosure here? if he is ready to talk, then you can talk of apologising not when you have to keep calling and even go out of your way to get his attention. If he does not give you, you are more heartbroken than you came? If the guy is ready to talk, then they can talk and she can apologise, go on her knees, do all a lady has to do for her man(if that is what she wants)

With the scenario she has played, do you think the guy would see things the way you are? I do not know this guy and would not pre empt him but i know that she will only get hurt the more if she goes to him. Let sleeping dogs lie. These things sure have a way of sorting themselves out but i would not advise that she should thread that path now or in the nearest future.

For crying out loud, she should get herself first, calm down and face whatever she wants to. Time heals the wound you know.

Diva girl,

I am glad you did not call him on his birthday. It does not make you a coward, it is only means you are giving him space. Honestly, you earned my respect.

I think you do not foreclose communication only where it seems the other party is ready to talk. He is the man and you are the woman, if he wants you, he should come for you. If he comes, you guys can talk and you decide if you still wanna continue(that would only be if you are sure you mean the world to him). Dont live in self pity.

Like i said in my earlier post, get a living, excite yourself, try new things and rediscover yourself again. Please dont let him think that he is doing you a favour by you going back to him like that !!!

If you beg/talk to him now, what is the motive? So that you guys can come back together? I dont know him but U know him well, do you think he will still respect you or just treat you like the girl next door who is always there?

Everyone wants to be appreciated and loved. Stop struggling for love. Even if you guys would talk about what went wrong, heal yourself of this hurt and rebrand yourself. I would not even advise that you get into any other relationship if one comes along now cos you need self healing. Stop asking!!!

You are the best in the world remember and everyone who does not treat you as one is not worth your stress.

You are an asset o!!!

@poster

So have you finally sent the text or the bday card, the cake? Whatever!!!

@topic/poster:

I have taken the pain to read this thread through before commenting. I have to ask how the girl knew you posted a picture just 5 minutes after you posted it on fb if you used a fake name et all.

As a very inquisitive lady myself, I know I have played pranks in the past to know what is going on especially when you can see handwritings on the wall so i wont blame you.

Everyone has been hurt once in life but what you do with your hurt matters. I personally think that you need to re evaluate a whole lot of things. With the scenario you painted, you guys like yourselves but there is something he sees in the other girl that he is looking for in you. Do you act like the good girl who is very obedient, saintly and would not do anything to displease her man?( The take home to mama like they call them) I am not saying it is wrong but you need to have a life of your own.

Hang out with friends, be outgoing, have fun, take extra care in your looks and make sure any man you come across sees you as an asset and not like he is doing you a favour. I know men(even if they deny it) like ladies that know their onions and match their status in every way.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Get over him, hold on tight to the little dignity you've got left and dont go back to him even if his whole family come crawling but make sure you have a life of your own before you enter a new relationship.

Time heals the wound, forget about him, hook up with old friends and DONT CALL OR TEXT him on his bday cos he is sure expecting you to do that.(because you are the good girl who is always there that he has known and can predict for 3 years) If that is going to be hard, switch of your phones and give them to a friend to keep for you till after that day.

Remember, no one can make you happy except you.

Much love!!!

Sadly, we have lost 3 Corp Members in this riot as at this morning.

Once again, my heart bleeds for our Nigerian youths and their approach to issues at times.

I still insist that must you be told to pay your tax before you do? Must you see what your tax|(the one you refused to pay o) is used for before you pay?

Common, even the bible says that you should give unto Ceasar what is for Ceasar.

PAY YOUR TAX!!!

@poster:

Babes, my honest opinion is that you should run as fast as your legs can carry you. Dont give yourself to the guy else you would only join the list.

If he liked you, he should have made the move but he did not. Whether you sleep with him or not, he'll marry the other girl and you'll end up losing not only the guy you never had, your dignity also.

A word is enough for the wise!!!

;d ;d :d :d

@adconline,

, can you for once try to be reasonable? The issue is pay your tax. Why justify what is not? Must you see what it is used for before you pay?

Abeg no legalise illegality- no right way in doing a wrong thing bo!!

@ aderogbaa - Silence is the best answer for a fool like you!!!

Nice one by Lagos state. Besides, this was not just done overnight. I am aware that Primary Education is free and the needed textbooks were handed over to schools. Just about a month ago, pubilc schools in Lagos state were given text books and last week, the commissioner for Education and some top officials in that department went around unannouced to see if the books were actually given to the students and used by them also. I think Lagos is really doing well.

BRF, thumbs up!!!