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Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

I understand how you are feeling right now, it's possible that man happened to be her weak point, probably a love from her youthful days which she had hoped to have something with but never did then, I know its not easy, but forgive her and reassure her of your love, re-invent your love life, guess she was tired and needed a spark, surprise her and I believe she won't go back

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A Lagos business hotelier Babatunde Saka of OFLYGLOBAL RESOURCES LIMITED has taken Saheed Ayinla Ogundare under the name and style of SEADOF HOTEL & SUITES Block 2, Flat 5 Luth Staff Quarters Idi Araba, Lagos and Kolawole Bankole operating under the business one of the DE RITE HOTEL AND PRIMAL HOTEL AND RESORT SERVICES LIMITED, to Lagos state high court, IGBOSERE over alleged use of his company account for fraudulent diversion of the financial resources of LUTH and bridge of contractual agreement between Babatunde Saka of OFLYGLOBAL RESOURCES and Kolawole Bankole of DE RITZ HOTEL AND PRIMAL HOTEL RESORT SERVICE LIMITED.Saheed Ayinla Ogundare who once worked as a customer resource agent for PRIMAL HOTEL as a canverser to bring LUTH staffs and guests to the hotel received his agreed agency fee.Unknown to the management of the hotel, Saheed Ayinla Ogundare contacted the leasers of the hotel Mr.kolawole Bankole and promised a bigger and better financial gain to the leaser instead
According to a statement made by the claimant written under oath what lead to the current legal action started on the 8thof August 2016 by a contract agreement between Kolawole Bankole (owner) and Babtunde Saka,when Kolawole Bankole let out his fifteen (15) bedroom hotel with related facilities known as DENEST HOTEL at 5 M.K.O Abiola Crescent to him with an agreed down payment for a particular period. Babatunde Saka incurred a further expense to the tune of three million, nine thousand, five hundred and forty-nine naira, seventy kobo (N3,009,549:70) to put the hotel in a better shape and for advertisement in print media.On the14thJuly, 2017 Mr.kolawole Bankole and Mr.Babatunde Saka entered into a contractual agreement to another hotel facilityin respect of thirty-four (34) bedroom hotel with other related facilities at PRIMAL HOTEL AND RESORT SERVICES LIMITED at 46B Isaac john street, GRA, Ikeja,Lagos,Nigeria.
After taking over the second hotel, Babatunde Saka expended eight million eight hundred and eleven thousand, nine hundred and thirty-one naira only (8, 811,931.00).However on the 16thOctober 2019, kolawole bankole who lease the hotel to babtunde saka, stormed primal hotel and resort services in a war like manner with thugs and violently and forcefully took over the property and drove out Babatunde Saka and his staff out from the property seized all their purchase item, provision of the contract signed which gives privilege to other party for notification should there be terminationof contract by either party on the 6thof February 2020, Kolawole Bankole took the same action In a gendarmemanner as earlier exhibited in respect of DeNext Hotel and claim all purchased items to enhance the value of the hotel
The chairman lodge a complaint about the breach of contract, illegal and unlawful seizure of his properties to the assistant inspector general of police, at Nigeria police force criminal department alagbon, Lagos. Dated 24thOctober 2019 claiming the sum of twenty-one million, Eight hundred and twenty-one thousand, Five Hundred and Forty naira seventy kobo (N21, 821,540:70) it was further revealed that Saheed Ayinla Ogundare ex-customer resource agent who works at LUTH is now in charge of the management of the hotel under the name of SEADROF HOTELS AND SUITESwhich gives room for conflict of interest and corruption. The account of the claimant Ofly global resources limited is still being used to receive money and ask the claimant to forward the money to his account which the compound with initially until he was advise against such act the account of the company was used to collect the total sum of (N3, 851,170) three million, eight hundred and fifty-one thousand, one hundred and seventy.The claimant claimed against the defendants jointly and severally are as follows:
1. The sum of 15 million as general damages and special damages.
2 .Declaration that the forceful and wrongful taking over of the hotel and seizure and continued detention of the claimant’s items purchased to enhance and improve the management of the two hotels by Kolawole Bankole without resorting to the provision of the contractis unlawful and illegal
3. Declaration that Saheed Ogundare as a public servant in the employment of LUTH to engage in a private business and managing Hotel is unlawful.

A Lagos business hotelier Babatunde Saka of OFLYGLOBAL RESOURCES LIMITED has taken Saheed Ayinla Ogundare [/b]under the name and style of [b]SEADOF HOTEL & SUITES Block 2, Flat 5 Luth Staff Quarters Idi Araba, Lagos and [b]Kolawole Bankole [/b]operating under the business one of the DE RITE HOTEL AND PRIMAL HOTEL AND RESORT SERVICES LIMITED, to Lagos state high court, IGBOSERE over alleged use of his company account for fraudulent diversion of the financial resourcesof LUTH and breach of contractual agreement between Babatunde Saka of OFLYGLOBAL RESOURCES and Kolawole Bankole of DE RITZ HOTEL AND PRIMAL HOTEL RESORT SERVICE LIMITED.
Saheed Ayinla Ogundare who once worked as a customer resource agent for PRIMAL HOTEL as a canvasser to bring LUTH staffs and guests to the hotel received his agreed agency fee, unknown to the management of the hotel, Saheed Ayinla Ogundare contacted the leasers of the hotel Mr.kolawole Bankole and promised a bigger and better financial gain to the leaser instead; according to a statement made by the claimant written under oath what lead to the current legal action started on the 8th of August 2016 by a contract agreement between Kolawole Bankole (owner) and Babtunde Saka when Kolawole Bankole let out his fifteen (15) bedroom hotel with related facilities known as DE NEST HOTEL at 5 M.K.O Abiola Crescent to him with an agreed down payment for a particular period. Babatunde Saka incurred a further expense to the tune of three million, nine thousand, five hundred and forty-nine naira, seventy kobo (N3,009,549:70) to put the hotel in a better shape and for advertisement in print media.On the14thJuly, 2017 Mr.kolawole Bankole and Mr.Babatunde Sakaentered into a contractual agreement to another hotel facilityin respect of thirty-four (34) bedroom hotel with other related facilities at PRIMAL HOTEL AND RESORT SERVICES LIMITED at 46B Isaac john street, GRA, Ikeja,Lagos,Nigeria.
After taking over the second hotel, Babatunde Saka expended eight million eight hundred and eleven thousand, nine hundred and thirty-one naira only (8, 811,931.00). However on the 16th October 2019, kolawole bankole who lease the hotel to babtunde saka, stormed primal hotel and resort services in a war like manner with thugs and violently and forcefully took over the property and drove out Babatunde Saka and his staff out from the property seized all their purchase item, provision of the contract signed which gives privilege to other party for notification should there by termination of contract by either party on the 6thof February 2020, Kolawole Bankole took the same action In a gendarme manner as earlier exhibited in respect of De Next Hotel and claim all purchased items to enhance the value of the hotel The chairman lodge a complaint about the breach of contract, illegal and unlawful seizure of his properties to the assistant inspector general of police, at Nigeria police force criminal department Alagbon, Lagos. Dated 24th October 2019 claiming the sum of twenty-one million, Eight hundred and twenty-one thousand, Five Hundred and Forty naira seventy kobo (N21, 821,540:70) it was further revealed that Saheed Ayinla Ogundare ex-customer resource agent who works at LUTH is now in charge of the management of the hotel under the name of SEADROF HOTELS AND SUITES which gives room for conflict of interest and corruption. The account of the claimant Ofly global resources limited is still being used to receive money and ask the claimant to forward the money to his account which the conform with initially until he was advise against such act the account of the company was used to collect the total sum of (N3, 851,170) three million, eight hundred and fifty-one thousand, one hundred and seventy.The claimant claimed against the defendants jointly and severally are as follows:
1. The sum of 15 million as general damages and special damages.
2. Declaration that the forceful and wrongful taking over of the hotel and seizure and continued detention of the claimant’s items purchased to enhance and improve the management of the two hotels by kolawole bankole without resorting to the provision of the contract is unlawful and illegal
3. Declaration that Saheed Ogundare as a public servant in the employment of LUTH to engage in a private business and managing Hotel is unlawful.4.Order directing EFCC to investigate the perpetrators of Saheed Ayinla Ogundare staff of LUTH operating a business name and style of SEADROF HOTELS AND SUITES while in the employ of the LUTH. The circumstances and reasons for transferring of several sums of money into the claimant’s company account, and later collect them when he has seized to operate or manage the hotel.5.The cost of this legal action and out of pocket expenses.
The presiding Judge, Ganiu Safari, has adjourned till 21stof December 2020 for report of service of the court process.

Chrisbriss:
What amaechi is doing only.shows desperation.. Buhari has kept mute to the evil that has been happening in rivers state since yesterday because its perpetrated by his goons... for anyone that would quote me and say wike.did same during his time as miniters.. before u talk.. leme talk.. wike didn't go about with army or sars.. he didn't hijack ballot box... he didn't force himself on rivers state... smh..

Wike did more than that, that I can tell you authoritatively, and still doing it, the only truth in Nigeria election is the best RIGGERS always WIN,

LagosNIV:


Unfortunately there is no visa category for an adult married child of a legal permanent resident (LPR). Your mother in law can submit a petition for her daughter as an IR2 (child of a U.S. citizen) after/if she naturalizes as this category allows the beneficiary to be married.

So what can one do in this case, my sister in law is a citizen, can she be substituted as the petitioner and my wife still retain the priority date of before, or are we going to start afresh here. Because my mother in law is in Nigeria right now. How can we go about it

Hello VO
A F2B form was filed by my mother in law(a permanent resident/green card holder) for her daughter while she was still single(over 21) and was approved by USCIS last December 2014 who later sent it to nvc for further processing, we got married July 2013 and we are blessed with a daughter . we paid AOs fee and her own and also submitted all necessary document pertaining to it, NVC sent us a letter dated October 6, 2015 that they can't approve it because she is married, and further action has to be done by USCIS . please what is our chance or what can we do . please kindly advise us asap

No, am talking about NVC, Portsmouth new Hampshire. USCIS has finished their work and sent it to NVC for processing
NVC are suppose to access, collect fee and document and send it to our Consulate here. but because of change in status of my wife, the D260 form he was to fill, they omitted the part for me and child to fill so that we can generate invoice for us two, but we got a message that they have return our paper to USCIS instead of them to confirm it
pls do you know how we can know what they really want or why they reject our appeal
pls do you know or have any reason why such is happening to us

@ Visa Officer. My wife immigration application was approved last Dec 2014, by USCIS, and send to NVC for further processing, it was filed by her mother as a single woman,the mother reside in Nigeria now, we got married in July 18, 2013. we proceeded to nvc and started the process, paid the AoS fee and her own fee, but there was no column to ADD her family contrary to specimen we read earlier,we sent countless message for them to rectifies it, still no result. we sent every necessary document for the family to nvc, but yesterday when we checked our status, we got a shocker that we should contact USCIS that its no longer with them. what can we do about that and how long does it takes USCIS to decide on such case. please advise us Visa Officer

please is there any one that knows anything about the immigration recruitment since last April,

quality01: Plz apart from all diz churches which are jst too popular,do we have other silent churches where wealthy single women dresses hot and seeking men in lagos?

Go to Deeper Life Bible Church, you will find alot of them there, i tell you your life will never remain the same

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Awo did not only have friends across the other geo political zones, he was a moving force across the country, you people did not know a thing about him, He thinks better and much much wiser than the Zik of Biafra. A man that made his own region the unsomountable and the most economics prosperous in the whole Nigeria, even when other regions were crying for shortage of funds, the leftover was the one he used in funding free education, building university of Ife, setting up both higher and post secondary and primary schools, funding University of Ibadan, industries Lagos (Ikeja) and Ibadan, Set up the first Television station in Africa, the first and the highest skyscrapers in Africa. etc. Is not about the number of friends that you made, its about the achievement, the legacy left behind, tell me what did Zik benefit from having friends across the country add to the Ibo pot of soup or the Ibo GDP, tell me with all the friends that he had, what are the legacy HE left behind that you as an Ibo could refers to now
So many could be said of Awo, He is not in Zik level, he pass am no be by mouth alone, even by legacy left behind
Zik spent more years on earth than Awo, and wasn't even relevant again in the politics of things before he died, but Awo was relevant all through his lifetime , even in death, he was still more relevant and talk about more than Zik, Its because of how good to Nigeria that The Govt @ that time refuse to buried him, the family had to talk to the FG to allow them buried him around 1999 - 2002 i think.
Up till today they still celebrate Him, people converge all over the country @ his home in Ikenne to pay tribute to this great man, tell me, how many does that for Zik, when they can't even built a proper maoselum for Him to rest, Think twice b4 you even mention this man name again

Awo did not only have friends across the other geo political zones, he was a moving force across the country, you people did not know a thing about him, He thinks better and much much wiser than the Zik of Biafra. A man that made his own region the unsomountable and the most economics prosperous in the whole Nigeria, even when other regions were crying for shortage of funds, the leftover was the one he used in funding free education, building university of Ife, setting up both higher and post secondary and primary schools, funding University of Ibadan, industries Lagos (Ikeja) and Ibadan, Set up the first Television station in Africa, the first and the highest skyscrapers in Africa. etc. Is not about the number of friends that you made, its about the achievement, the legacy left behind, tell me what did Zik benefit from having friends across the country add to the Ibo pot of soup or the Ibo GDP, tell me with all the friends that he had, what are the legacy HE left behind that you as an Ibo could refers to now
So many could be said of Awo, He is not in Zik level, he pass am no be by mouth alone, even by legacy left behind
Zik spent more years on earth than Awo, and wasn't even relevant again in the politics of things before he died, but Awo was relevant all through his lifetime , even in death, he was still more relevant and talk about more than Zik, Its because of how good to Nigeria that The Govt @ that time refuse to buried him, the family had to talk to the FG to allow them buried him around 1999 - 2002 i think.
Up till today they still celebrate Him, people converge all over the country @ his home in Ikenne to pay tribute to this great man, tell me, how many does that for Zik, when they can't even built a proper maouselem for Him to rest, Think twice b4 you even mention this man name again

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IF YOU ARE ABLE TO GET YOUR HAND ON THE OCTOPUS PAUL (THE NEWLY EMERGE CELEBRITY OF ANOTHER SPECIE)
TELL ME WHAT KIND OF QUESTION WOULD YOU HAVE ASK HIM?
i would love to ask the Octopus when Christ will be coming back,whether Jonathan or Babangida is going to be Nigeria next president, and so on
on a personal note, i need to ask the Octopus who is really going to be my wifey ,out of all the thousands and one i know (LOL),when exactly am going to hit it BIG, i mean cash-level
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i still don't buy your story, u earn 6k per months and stay with a friend, eat and buy clothes and sometimes transport yourself to work and to Ibadan some times, So how much remains out of that amount you have being saving, or did you finished NYSC in 2005 ?
i will really want to know?
stop fairytale love story, bet ter sell it to Binta and friends or Naija moviemaker, you will get paid for it instead of this fully packed lie with alloy wheel

When you alone with him don't quibble, don't be proud. Pride for a woman

doesn't mean asserting herself. You must learn to trust your man.

Marriage is always a lottery: it takes time before you find out whether

you have drawn the lucky number. But assume its the lucky one up to the

last moment. Sometimes you can out stubborn fate. anything else.

distrust can hurt a person more than anything else.A person's heart

opens up only to trust. And don't be in a hurry to ask questions. Truth

pour forth in words of is own accord, like a spring out of the ground.

If he lie to you once to put you off- he will lie again, and neither of

you will be able to shake off the falsehood.
Men are impatient,their glance are slippery,Its never lingers for long.

A woman must be clever and hold on in life for the two of you. A woman

cleverness is tenderness and kindness. That's harder than physics or

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Not every man has fortune, just as not every man has character. Nor does

fortune necessarily mean success
i admonish all to be gentle as a dove and be ready to sting like a bee

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