koladata:
sorry about your experience bro, going by what you described about her, i think there's something she's not comfortable with about you and she's trying to way her options, she might not be as bad as you think, sit her down, you guys can't be friends again but you don't have to block each other, once in a while hello and hi is not bad.. most of them are the same, learn to remember them for the few good they did and move on without hard feelings.

you are right but make he block her first, after 5yrs when we all know is impossible to come back together then he can unblock her and be saying HI to her once a while. Period

God1000:
Nothing is spiritual here, an autopsy report will reveal the cause of his death

Maybe he even died of natural causes, who knows.

Let's stop the speculation

so if someone died of spiritual attack, autopsy go reveal he died of spiritual attack. Try think beyond normal, this is Nigerian.

Hisbah:
Congratulations and wishing you many happy returns. Pls do give away let's celebrate with you.

I know people like you plenty for twitter looking for giveaway up and down. Continue oooo

Kylekent59:
Na to get red card for the next match. Stake it 1 billion dollars.

Very easy.


Psg will lose their next match. Gamblers be warned!!!

they can't because marssile already close to them, they need winning to create gap since thats their only cup as they no dey CL, French cup again, they must collect league by fire by force

uchwar1:
Married when and where?

wetin be your own? He married her during the time they are mourning their son.

Samunique:
Good !

Da bi mo se da !

Let them take their corruption back to their countries !

If I may ask, isn't there any motive behind these people crusade for this their so called LGBTQ right nonsense that always tops their agenda wherever they go

Bcs I don't understand why they will leave their countries for others just to go there and start preaching the same sex rights when there are far more pressing and important issues than that !!!

Are these people not truly insane ?

What's so special about these pervert persons

I think america is evil, if Nigeria support gay right, America can clear all Nigeria debt because of that.

BloomingDale:
Hope it’s not what I’m thinking.

just to inspire his son since okoye son na footballer too.

burp18:
Obi followers are circulating old videos to incite people against one another. Obi should call his his followers to order.

without justice for the injured. I wish those injured were your sister.

IyaTola:
Please don't mind my English just pay attention to the content.

A family friend called me and asked if I'll be interested in civil defense work, I told her yes why wouldn't I? She sent me a number to call the man he'll put me through the process.

I was excited, I called the man who spoke to me calmly, he asked me to send my details to him which include my name, age, height, qualifications and all, i did that without instantly i was sooo fast while typing I'm sure even flash will be trilled at the speed.

The next day he sent a civil defense form to me to fill and scan to his mail, i did that and called him to inform him, he then acknowledge that he has seen it and told me he has forwarded my form to their H.R. I should await their call, i was soo happy immediately i dropped the call i started googling salary of a degree holder of the civil defense officer, saw 151k in my mind i was like their Father i don arrive, i go soon buy Benz.

The H.R called me and told me they've contacted my school to ask if i graduated from their school and they told them yes. He then asked for my c.v and told me to wait for my appointment letter.

Early Thursday morning omo see appointment letter for my mail o!! with my name written in capital letter... I called him to notify him of the new development, he congratulated me and told me i will have to pay the sum of 85k for my 2 weeks training in Kano and the payment must be made before noon but i shouldn't worry the money will be returned after my training but u have to pay early so as not to loose the job. I went ahead to borrow the money from a friend and headed to the bank to make payment i already got inside the bank before calling him to send the acct number im to sent the money, that was how the civil defense H.R sent me Yayah Suleman's acct number, i started asking my self why would federal government send me a private account number to pay for training? called the guy and said o boy u almost fooled me sha, the guy laugh and said u got me nice one and dropped the call...

There are lot of scammers out there who will try to scam you all in the name of giving you employment abeg be careful.

that family friend nko , did you curse the idiot?

Massiveglory:
Good one.

If miscreants as mc olomo cannot be arrested and thrown behind bars, the government is setting an explosive time bomb.

Mc olomo is the leader of a lagos state sponsored thuggery, assigned to unleash violence in order to win elections.

Monopoly of violence does not reside in mc olomo.
The government should do the needful to prevent the uncontrollable.

As for the oro king, he is a disgrace to kingship. When a king tows the path of dishonor, shame and reproach embraces him.

Mc olomo and any of the miscreants instigating election war should be caged , locked and keys thrown away until after elections.

which govt want arrest him? Down in your heart, you know nobody will arrest him with the backing of tinubu .

I watch one vedio where tinubu said its easy to cause chaos ,he meant if he give Mc oluomo go ahead, trouble go reach everywhere

May God help this country

N3TRAL:
Kudos to Serie A. The glory of Italian football is returning. For the first time in more than a decade we have 3 Italian teams in the Quarter Finals of the UCL.

I tip Real Madrid, Benfica, Napoli and Manchester City to go through.

Yes. Bayern will not win Manchester City.

because halaad always score against small team, you think that will be problem for Bayern. I agree with your but I tip Bayern to past man city

CoronaVirusRelo:
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣


Seyi ti lule

think bro, its atiku that fall not seyi . when its time for governor election,you go see drama.

Seyi don't support at ik u

Parachoko:
Obi should go to court with his evidence and stop wailing

On Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu and Senator Kashim Shettima Mandate I Stand Gidigba

you mean the court already bought ?

peepydelano:
We no dy give shishi have been sharing money since yesterday, na people wey no get sense Obi go fit deceive. Meanwhile we are celebrating Atiku’s victory already

atiku na saint, we understand. Good luck

lazynairalander1:



That is where dignity comes in.

alaye forget dignity, na money be koko. He left his going job at Brighton and embrace Chelsea and things don't work out. You expect him to use dignity pay his bills and live fine.

May the owner sacrifice 50m euro and sack him then get a new coach

lazynairalander1:
Have some dignity a d leave, Chelsea is not an experiment club.
If you have any iota of regards for success you will not be killing my clubs heritage. If not for white privilege why is Mount playing ahead of Chukwuemeka & stop playing Gallagher/RLC ahead of Kovacic.

Infact Just resign.

resign make he forfeit 50m euro which suppose to be compensation when he was sacked? Who does that? The owner should just sack him and compensate him with the 50m as part of their agreement and get another coach

Truthshscrazy:

The maid part got me ROTFL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

her kids might not have access to the man inheritance and if she don't have a kid for the man, she might not have claim to the man property in future. She should just think am twice. She fit born one pikin for the man if she get body to carry it with her age. That means she got a full right to the man inheritance in the future and her other kids with another father can enjoy too

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello guys, I am a 36 years old single mother of four. My son will be 15 in August, first daughter 10 in october, my third 5 and youngest 3 by june.

I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years.

I have been friend with this man, a widower who is 57 years and a father of 2 children. He is asking for my hand in marriage. To be honest, I don't want to be married again, all I want is to focus on raising my kids because I have been through a lot in my previous marriage and I don't want another marriage wahala.

He asked for my hand in marriage, I rejected him and I had explained to him why I don't want to marry again. I told him what my ex did, he said he is a mature man he will love me and my children and he will never hate them or ask them to leave his house. I told him I have to think about it and I will get back to him ASAP. But I am still scared to accept his proposal because I don't want history to repeat itself and he is still on my neck. He wants me to accept his proposal. I am confused.

Please advice me. Is it a wise choice for me to get married again after everything I have been through in the past?

you still want to give birth again? You better inform the man whether you go give birth for him or not.

But if you don't give birth for him, there is no concrete relationship between you, its just like building house on sand. You are just like maid with no right to the man property . think twice before you made the decisions

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

Did you ever pray about it before you wedded your wife? Or you consult any pastor you trust to inquiry about your future with your wife ? Or you are just this kind person who don't believe in spiritual thing thinking everything is just normal about life? If you are such kind of person that I pity you in advance because you never understand this cruel world we live in. Because problem never show don't mean it won't show, unless you have someone like your mother who can pray or better pray for yourself. Prayer should be part of your daily routine. 12 in the night to 2am daily and fast 3days every week.

Op nice one, you have a large heart and concern about welfare of people in prison even though not all of them are guilty . it sadden my heart that we have so many kids on this forum who cant reason beyond themselves . I think govt official who are exconvict don't even care about the welfare of people in there. This country need help but not with so many kids out there in man body.

Other country take of their prisoner but in this country, we do as devil instruct. For instance those cook at Nigeria prison supposed to cook food they can eat themselves not beans with stone(according to what I hear but not sure)

PlayMaker14:
Burna Boy, just drop your RIP message and move ahead... Those SA beast does not give a furck about their own artist talk more of you from Nigeria.


We read how they wasted a global star in the person of Lucky Dube and the circumstances surrounding why they killed him.

If you like, have Armoured car, RPGS and grenades in your possession, those cursed xenophobic beast will still get you down.

not without been gun down and killed too. Imagine those mudefuker who killed AKA run away with it

englishmart:
Once Barca wins this match, I will win 750k. I don't want to cash out 300k

you Better cashout , casemiro go play and it won't be easy win for barca . man united fit beat them join

SuperBlack:


Don't waste your money Sir,

It won't Play, Barcelona go beat ManUtd

with casimero inplay , once that guy play forget the rest

Maybe they assume you steal from company money and call it tips. If there is evidence that is a tips true true then you are suppose to keep it

xareal:
somebody enjoying vacation with her legally and lawfully wedded husband na him be olosho again...ahhhh na wa oo

you don't understand a thing about their marriage and mischievous mercy aigbe with previous marriage related to this new marriage. I pray the husband continue to make more money because if shit happened to him, mercy aigbe can't stay a seconds with him during hardship

No man insight to stand for that woman , everyone go just dey mind their business even if they are going to kill the woman . if 2 grow up men stand for that woman. And ask those official to stop beating her, I think they will stop

triple996:

Everything

noted sir

triple996:
And so....
Pandora obituary the lying machine

lie about what sir ? So we can avoid him like plague

aariwa:
he fell at the Ibadan immigration office and was taken to hospital where he died..I think around 2006

I think maybe he sick ni

aariwa:
The strong man of Ibadan politics more powerful than Abacha’s man arisekola alao . He made governors. He went on TV and said he would remove ladoja because he wasn’t settling him from state coffers. He sponsored his impeachment because all members of the house of assembly were loyal to him. He made Alao Akala governor who became like a sitting duck and always allocated a portion of the state revenue to baba adedibu as governor Alao Akala prostrates for Adedibu, but ironically both men Akala and Adedibu that removed ladoja all slumped and died while ladoja is still alive

adedibu didnt slum and die, he died in hospital and there was speculation akala know about his death since baba is planning to install his son as governor instead of akala to enjoy second term. But that second term AKala don't smell it too