Keep up the good work. Kudos

skyone:

why the unnecessary lie for goodness sake, why, why, why?

funny, couldn't stop laughing,

there plenty of handsone guys in naija, maybe u guys are not looking in the places.
and some of you guys talking bull are ugly as s**t

my sincere and honest answer will depend on how defenseless I am, if the guy is 2-3 bigger than me then i will not do any thing till we get home and sleep then i will show him pepper.

i will let him sleep and go to la la land,
things to do to him while he's asleep are endless
#1 handcuff his hand to the bed and wipe the living life out of him and park my stuff and waka
#2 handcuff his hands and legs to the bed till someone discovers him
and I'm still thinking

i was not expecting that ending!! funny sha?

k2wise:

Its  really sad that we have more of children here than adult.
@poster, you have asked a very reasonable question but the kids in here have failed to understand and intepret properly.

before i continue i will like to make a point, their certain times when a woman fails to be a woman. just for the sake of this thread, i will give a personal Experience i had on the 23 of October this year (last month) .

I visited a friend in Abuja lastweek. (I will summarize cos he's also on Nairaland) He's what anyone will call a perfect gentle man, anyway he just got discharged on tuesday 10th of Nov. 2009 because his wife stabbed him almost to death before neighbors came him. according to his story, she gave him a slap immediately he got into the house but he didn't respond( if he had i would have doubted it cos i D*** will never hit a woman) she met him in the room continued hitting him and asking questions but he kept quiet so she went into the kitchen got a knife and stabbed him and even when he tried to stop her she continued until  neighbors came in.
sorry i forgot to also mention that he's a military officer and she was accusing him of infidelity.

My point is this:-  [font=Lucida Sans Unicode]"ANY WOMAN THAT RAISES HER HAND TO HIT A MAN IS NO LONGER A WOMAN AT THAT MOMENT. SO SHE CAN BE TREATED AS SUCH[/font]."

For those of you who don't know the real story of Rihanna and Chris. she hit him at least 16 times before he responded. don't ask me for source because you're mostly kids who will never understand.

To those few who made good points, Kudos to your sense of reasoning.

IT IS MORALLY WRONG TO HIT A "WOMAN" I mean a real woman.

couldn't have said it any better

y me:

guys are guys, innocent or non-innocent they all are gonna pay

who ripped your heart out??. oh abeg o, my guy no go pay o.
u r talking like a victim, if u r, i sincerely sympathize with you but abeg make u no make every guy pay,

is a difficult situation, i would rather be rape. there's people out there who are getting rape and they are surviving and moving on with their lives. been rape can ruin someone's life but with the right ppl around you and family support, you should be able to pass that phase. just pray that u don't get pregnant or sTD as he/they do their business.

i think the age of the girl would have played a role in her decision, if she was a young girl, she probably imagined that rape would be so horrible  that should rather die

oghuvbu:

no matter what a woman will do to you does not give you the right to lay you hands on her because if you do it makes you to be irresponsible

that's bull! there're some women out there that are the rudest, meanest, bitchest, no self respect etc, there is an extend to a man's patient!

chiozor:

the women already have some nasty way of punishing men when they mess up by withdrawing their services, being on strike or sexual denial
since we gat no ass, boobs, nagging mouth, we use our arms,

uh? what can i say about this, i think i rather keep my comment before i start up something!!

to answer your question SIMPLE AND SHORT. THE ONLY REASON WHY A MAN SHOULD NOT HIT A WOMAN IS IF HE SEES THAT HE'S SUPERIOR AND THAT THE WOMAN IS DEFENSELESS. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE WOMAN IS THE ONE HITTING HIM AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF STOPPING, EXCUSING ME FOR SAYING THIS, BUT I WILL SAY " PLZ SLAP THE LIVING HELL OUT OF HER!!"
i'M A WOMAN AND I DON'T BELIEVE IN WOMAN BEATER BUT SOMETIMES SOME OF US NEEDS TO BE SAT DOWN WHERE WE BELONG

daduke2k:

If u want 2 cry go on,bt if it doesnt help 2 make him 2 stp ,take my advice cheat urself

remember that two wrong does not make it right, just because he's cheating doesn't mean she have too cheat too.
some people have dignity!!

well there's no need for me to repeat what ppl already said, it was a bad mistake when you saw it coming!! tell him that he needs to chill or u will leave him, simple and short . but u have to stand by your words

i understand that u love ur husband, but how long will u continue to endure his ignorance!

i myself had to end a relationship with a man i loved dearly, i cried for like the whole day, but is something i needed to do in other to live a long and a happy live,

it won't be easy, but u have to make ur choice and fast, the longer you wait , the harder it would be!

FL Gators:

I used to think it its an act of rebellion and self-hatred.
But now, I guess not.
Cool for others, NEVER for me.

same here, i don't see the point, i can see myself getting those tiny nose rings, but TATTOO. sorry not for me, don't really have any thing against though

ok I'm trying to get my fiance a VISA to come to united State and i don't know where to start.
i was thinking that he applies for student visa but then again, how does he do dat, does he just go to the embassy and what?

I was also thinking that he apply to American schools and see if he gets accepted as an international student since he's an intelligent guy(he came first out of the whole graduating class)

any idea, at least where to start, right now he's going to university of Enugu state, studying Biochemistry

this is useless, i see no use to this

tithe:

Why ar some NLanders, talking as if they ar the victim, the good thing about the matter is that the girl in question is wiser than the 25yrs old girl i dated 2007,  So demanding, suspiscious and i didn't meet her a virgin, but the case here is different and moreover you can neva tell the age difference when we are together

if she's as wise as u claim her to be, then why doesn't she see where she's heading, it seems like u r so fascinate with the fact that she's a virgin and before u know it,  u will un-virgin her and she would have a kid for you, end of story. then u won't find her so fascinating any longer

so plz refresh me memorize, what exactly do u want ppl to say, u asked for an advice and they gave it to u. what to you want!!

hey guys, did y'all forget about what they say about love been BLIND

you both may truly be in love with each other, but mind you she's only 16, she doesn't know what she want yet. she might think that she knows but she does not. just let her be. give her time. She haven't fully matured yet. though she acts like. there are better things that she needs to be concentrating on, like her studies. relationship shouldn't one of it, she will have time for it

she does not have as much life experience as you do, there might be something about you that she likes, and tomorrow she would see another guy that have that the same quality and even more but then she would be tied down by you.

I'm not going to say that this is a child abuse apparently you didn't have a dirty mind about this, you just simply feel for the girl

i was 16 when a 24 yrs old feel madly in love with me, wanted to marry me and everything, i really believe that his intentions were good, but i knew that this was not the way i want to head. yes i want to be married someday but that was not the time. there's time for everything

PLEASE LET HER BE, EXPLAIN TO HER THAT SHE IS TOO YOUNG. TELL HER TO CONCENTRATE ON HER STUDIES, THEN WHEN SHE FINISHES AND HER HEART IS STILL WITH YOU THEN GO AHEAD, AT LEAST BY THEN SHE SHOULD KNOW WHAT SHE WANT.

a lot, if I hadn't join the group, i probably would not have heard of this Nigerians deportation to another part of Nigeria, which i understand what they are trying to do, i mean Lagos is too crowded for God's sake but that was not the best way to approach the issue.

thanks candylips .

glad to be a part of this group

this is bull, i know a lot of Africans/Nigerians that get mistaken for mixed black America. we have some African cuties and uglies, there are also some white cuties and[b] uglie.[/b], no matter what continent you are from, you will see a striking beautiful/handsome person and you will also see some ugly a** people. truth be told

OK, so I didn't even had the patient to finish the story. i understand that  they are trying to get rid of all the beggar but was that really the best way to approach it? isn't that a violation of human right? anyways i don't really know what to say, I'm just overwhelmed, that was not the best way to handle.

it just seems to me like those beggars are been treated like a three legged sticky dog ( u know wat i mean)