I will try to get in touch with his family,because never before I have seen them or talked with them,But i always send my love and regards to them.But I think to get it touch with them will be difficult,cause they don't want to talk with him,what about me?
I just want to be fine with them.I am not a bad person and I want to show them my love towards my boyfriend.

P.S thank you all  for your opinion,it's important for me to get into all this things more,

Hey guys!
I read absolutely every single word here. . .
The truth is his mother is dead,his father,brothers and sisters are against our relationship.
I still don't know what to do. Your culture is very strict and I know if family says 'no' then nothing can be done.
I am praying all the time and hope GOD will help us.
Just looking for a way to let his family know they are wrong and cause us pain and pain.

@ 190, No, He lives in London,I live in Birmingham.
Well,the decision is his own.just cannot stay there and doing nothing,feeling I am losing him.
Very sad.

He doesn't know what to do, He is suffering because he said "no" to his family,but now they don't talk with him and he is very sad and upset,
We are both very confused, it's not easy, Family support is important in a relationship,

Thankyou so much ,for the replies,
Really hope things to change, I know he cannot live without his family,but it's just too hard to break up,
I give him time to decide,I am not in a hurry,just wanna be with him,

We are together for almost a year.And he told his family about me,cause our relationship is very serious and his family said 'no'.And one day he told me the all situation,

Hello everybody!
First,I want to apologize I am not a nigerian and write here,but I think you guys,can help me or at least give me an advice,
Here is the difficult situation:
I have a serious relationship with a nigerian guy and we are in England now (he is working here).We love each other very much and he means the world for me.We are together for a year and was about to live together (we are currently living in different cities and travel and spend weeks together).Everything was perfect between us,until he told his family in Nigeria about me, And,unfortunately they said "no".They told him,they don't wanna him to have anything in common with a white girl.They don't accept me as a white girl.And they don't wanna talk with him at all.But they don't know such a pain it is for us, to break up, So now he has to choice between me and his family, Hard decision for both of us, We really love each other and I will do everything for him,without any doubts,
So guys,do you have any advices for me?? I know all about cultural difference,but I love your country and culture and respect it,
Hope things to change!!!

Need your help and knowledge,

God bless you all!!!

Hello everybody!
First,I want to apologize I am not a nigerian and write here,but I think you guys,can help me or at least give me an advice,
Here is the difficult situation:
I have a serious relationship with a nigerian guy and we are in England now (he is working here).We love each other very much and he means the world for me.We are together for a year and was about to live together (we are currently living in different cities and travel and spend weeks together).Everything was perfect between us,until he told his family in Nigeria about me, And,unfortunately they said "no".They told him,they don't wanna him to have anything in common with a white girl.They don't accept me as a white girl.And they don't wanna talk with him at all.But they don't know such a pain it is for us, to break up, So now he has to choice between me and his family, Hard decision for both of us, We really love each other and I will do everything for him,without any doubts,
So guys,do you have any advices for me?? I know all about cultural difference,but I love your country and culture and respect it,
Hope things to change!!!

Need your help and knowledge,

God bless you all!!!