Nairaland / General / Re: Man Sets Friend Ablaze For Dating His Mum In Enugu State by derbypiero(m): 2:35pm On Aug 05, 2013 |
So funny wen der ar many gals for fun.he dnt av taste!! |
Politics / Re: FG Under Pressure To Legalise Homosexuality- Foreign Minister by derbypiero(m): 1:00pm On Jul 20, 2013 |
I need a gay manhood for rituals.dey will soon start dieing they shuld keep it up.. |
Webmasters / Re: Gay Activist Hacks Nigerian Government’s Website Over Anti-gay Law by derbypiero(m): 8:10am On Jul 06, 2013 |
Delafruita: how is it your business if one man decides to eye another man? dey shuld leave dem abeg dey r gus for ritual |
Career / Re: How To Be Young And Successful - Nigerian Career by derbypiero(m): 9:44pm On Jul 04, 2013 |
Go to tb joshua u will b delivered den ur sure to av moni.na all dis gal we dey Bleep dey make guys no dey progress cos our gals r all possessed. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Woman Was Married To Two Men At The Same Time In Lagos by derbypiero(m): 9:30pm On Jul 04, 2013 |
tobechi74: The bible says in the end times...one woman will marry seven men.............. ur bible to tight |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 - Elimination Round 3 by derbypiero(m): 7:13pm On Jun 05, 2013 |
Beatiful ladies: My votes 1.Nadia 2.Nikky 3.Gracebestowed |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 - Elimination Round 2 by derbypiero(m): 8:14pm On Jun 04, 2013 |
My votes; Vanneni Ag gal Nadia Natascha 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland June 2013 - Elimination Round 1 by derbypiero(m): 12:53pm On Jun 03, 2013 |
Nadia Adaobi Graise....are my votes |
Family / Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by derbypiero(m): 7:54pm On May 09, 2013 |
O'LORD FORGIVE ME... |
Family / Re: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by derbypiero(m): 7:38pm On May 09, 2013 |
kike100: It hurts beyond words, true! I urge to ask God for grace to forgive your wife, am sure. Still love her. Also talk with her outside your house to understand reasons for her decision ok? I pray for divine wisdom for u. cnt u read.he said he dnt luv her |
Education / Re: Would You Support The Remarking Of Utme Exam? by derbypiero(m): 5:31am On May 09, 2013 |
Yesoo dis is spoiling my business no customer |
Romance / Re: Describe The Person You Would Never Date by derbypiero(m): 7:30am On May 07, 2013 |
No gal will lyk to go out wit a guy wit small dicck bt y cnt dey mention it. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Describe The Person You Would Never Date by derbypiero(m): 7:23am On May 07, 2013 |
With moni gals av no choice.all dey need in a guy is moni |
Family / Re: My True-Love Is Planning To Leave Me: Please Advise by derbypiero(m): 2:41pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
baby_123:
It happens. People hold unto things that are not there for sentimental reasons. Be true to yourself always, if it is not in your best interest physically, mentally and emotionally. Then it isn't. Don't beg anyone to love you, if they did they will try not to hurt you and it will come natural. Distance is not an issue to someone that genuinely wants to be with you. The virginity thing is what it is, just virginity. After you lose it, you become any other girl. Then you both have to deal with the reality of the situation. This goes with my point on being blinded by sentiments. Delete all his contacts and everything that reminds you about him, throw away. Take your time and meet new people. You don't have to break up with him, but push his matter into the friend zone part of your mind. When he starts chasing you again, which he likely will(but don't put your life on hold, just in case he doesn't). You will hold the cards, and play your part right. Let him work for you, and work hard. Like making the effort to communicate, travelling to see you, planning trips etc.But cut off communication and give him space until he comes looking for you. If he is causing this much trouble, there is someone better out there who would appreciate you. Take your time dating, and you will find that special person, There is a lady here who shared a story that she married her first, and after 4 kids he abandoned her for a rich widow. He was 16yrs older than her I think. So, that can be your story if you force things and rely on sentiments to make good judgements and decisions in your interest. hope u no d guy is abroad u knw nahh |
Romance / Re: Can You Date Your Ex Boyfriend/girlfriend Ever Again? by derbypiero(m): 11:57pm On Apr 15, 2013 |
All gals are EX am' keep diging till I get gold... |
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood’s Cutest Kids Of 2013 by derbypiero(m): 11:58pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
Fair kids are cute I will never marry black ass girl dey will spoil my kids beauty.u can choose between drake nd lil wayne den u will undersatnd wot am saying |
Family / Re: 20-year-old Nigerian & His 65-year-old American Wife (Pictures) by derbypiero(m): 11:40pm On Apr 14, 2013 |
It dosent matter if the purpose is being achieved.men r making real cash boys are here talking rubbish.nwoke na ife...... 1 Like |
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Travel / Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by derbypiero(m): 9:18pm On Mar 26, 2013 |
@zioni pls i wnt to knw d documents required and how much is der fees.thanks |
Travel / Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by derbypiero(m): 9:13pm On Mar 26, 2013 |
ziashi: Please house,does anybody kn if universities in Australia accept NECO result. I'm planning of applying for my Master's at the university of Wollongong. no |
Travel / Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by derbypiero(m): 9:04pm On Mar 26, 2013 |
firstguy01: The skool is FLINDERS UNIVERSITY ADELAIDE wots d procedure to apply |
Family / Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by derbypiero(m): 11:40am On Mar 26, 2013 |
dnt blame d guy he is just enjoying his youthful age |
Religion / Re: Is Kissing And Hugging Sinful In Christian Courtship? by derbypiero(m): 5:12pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Artistree: For more info, pls read the book QUESTIONS YOUNG PEOPLE ASK, ANSWERS THAT WORK...Published by Jehovah's witnesses. una no dey tire? Everywhere u na dey |
Romance / Re: Would You Date Someone You Cant Marry? by derbypiero(m): 12:16am On Mar 20, 2013 |
wateva |
Family / Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by derbypiero(m): 4:07pm On Mar 19, 2013 |
my wife turns me down cos i av a big dicck i need advise!!! |
Travel / Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by derbypiero(m): 9:43am On Mar 09, 2013 |
surecan: 35k including the exam materials? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 4 Tips For Dealing With Anger In A Relationship by derbypiero(m): 8:21pm On Mar 04, 2013 |
Just smoke weed believe me u will forget u av problem wit her u will b happy even without her dats wot i used to do she used to b confused.den at nite i will give her a hardcore fuuuck wit dis u will ture ur problem into fun so weda probs or not i get my fun |
Romance / Re: I Lost My Virginity To My First Love At 24, But Now I Wanna Try Other Men by derbypiero(m): 11:59pm On Mar 03, 2013 |
dis is wot ugly gals do dats y i dnt go for ugly ones.hope u r satisfy by now if u r not keep guys r ready for u na u go run |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: After Getting Her A Job, I Was Abandoned by derbypiero(m): 9:08am On Mar 03, 2013 |
Never u help a gal if u wnt to avoid regreat dey dnt worth it help ur fellow guy he will never forget u |
Romance / Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by derbypiero(m): 8:16pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
bukatyne: You deserve a standing ovation. I was about to ask if the men were getting married to themselves and leaving the women behind.
@OP: I don't understand the basis of your question as nigerian men are not gay. I don't think a lady not married at 30 is a problem except if she had opportunities and missed them. Marriage is not a status thing and should be measured according to age or qualification. Ideally, a person should get married when he/she has found that special person that they want to spend the rest of their life with and fulfill the dreams together and not when they reach a benchmarked age for marriage. However, we see that a lot of people marry when they have reached a certain age and don't care if they are compatible physically, spiritually or not.
I will agree that some ladies missed it because they are looking for a rich, tall and handsome husband and would not give the upcoming man face because they have forgotten that Rome was not built in a day. Some had men who loved and doted on them, they called the men sissies and lost a rare man; some had the bad habit of double dating and were caught; some had terrible pasts and it caught up with them; some are selfish and have nothing to offer a man, some have bad attitudes and are unwilling to change etc.
However, there are some that have decided not to marry; some have been jilted; some have lost their fiances; some have not seen the man they are willing to spend their lives with.
For every single 30+ lady, there is probably one married 30+ lady gnashing her teeth but will still come out boldly to castigate the single 30+. Our society should stop pressuring women to marry at a certain age and let them make their choices. If a woman sees a man that they both love each other at 20 and she's through with school or has a means to sustain herself financially, she can marry. If she has not met her choice of man (with a realistic measure) at thirty, she should be patient and make sure she's developing herself so she wouldn't really be the one at fault. can u marry a 35+yrs old gal |
Romance / Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by derbypiero(m): 8:10pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: @Sunny_t, am in agreement with u that u ve not seen where 'less' is used that way,that is why I said most people mind on NL have been programmed to think one way. What does a girl mean when she says she want a God fearing man? cant u stop lying i tot u r a child of god |
Romance / Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by derbypiero(m): 9:41am On Mar 02, 2013 |
[quote author=seyibrown]Decent men are scarce in Nigeria! The thought of a life with a man who sleeps with anything that moves is enough to put any sensible lady off marriage to them. Majority of Nigerian men have no idea what loving, honouring and respecting their spouse is.
Marriage is wonderful but not compulsory. One does not need to marry someone who would make their life a hell just to save face within society. Many women (and men) are dead today because of the person they married. It is wisdom to wait for a quality partner (and be happy as a single person while waiting); It is folly to rush into marriage and later regret.[/quoteYou dnt Bleep too abi? Well, i wish u Happy waiting |