AbokiWam:
I had this girl I wanted to date sometime in 2020,

Because I was broke she turned me down..Fast forward to now that Man is out of school and now seeing Lil Cash here and there, she came back in.

This girl would always bill me for everything..ranging for hair money to money for nails and all sort

I use to turn up and send to her..But i wasnt interested in any relationship even as she was trying to be my main chick because my main chick is enjoying now..

To cut the long story short..This girl made a tiktok video (October dump)
I saved the video and converted it to pictures using an app (You know how fast those tiktok transitions are)

And then in one of the pictures she had took a screenshot of her account balance which showed approximately 440k (Four hundred thousand)..


I was furious and mad.this is someone begging me for money everyweek...10k..5k e.t.c
The dump also had pictures of shawarma eatinng ad fancy restuarant.

Guys...these girls have money, they wouldnt use theirs.
They would collect from you and other guys and save theirs for a business or something
Later you would be poor and miserable while they would establish a business.
I spoke to another female friend..she said Ladies have money..because little drops makes an ocean..so they collect from different guys

Wise up kings
Save that your Money today
I would spread the gospel..these farmtools have been using our heads

You're a big fool for accepting her back now that you started seeing something in your hands

Keepamsafe:
We just started dating barely a week ago and stil understanding eachother. But. She is asking for monthly allowance. Tho” it doesn’t sit well with me, but I don’t want to lose her cos I love her already. How do I handle this please? Cos I’m scared another guy can promise her monthly allowance and she might mistakenly cheat or break up with me.

You're a fool, A fool for ever

Auxtan:
Good day Nairalanders.

I hope we all are good and coping with the economy?

Please, as usual is advice time. This story happened to me just yesterday night (around after 11pm).

I got a call from a number that isn't in my contact list around after 11pm, as I picked up I remained silent until the person called my first name, I now responded and asked who he was.

He spoke in an uncommon native Igbo tongue and started asking me what I have done wrong that someone will bring my picture with my full name all the way to Enugu for him to perform a ritual that will see me either suffer stroke or be involved in an accident.

I remained silent and after he was done talking and directing the question to me, I asked he come again as I didn't get what he said the first time. He then responded and said in the same uncommon Igbo native tongue that is my ear blocked that I couldn't get him the first time, he then proceeded to saying exactly the same thing again while referring me with my surname now, but this time as he spoke I began hearing shrine-like music instrument sounds. It was at this point I ended the call. He called again and I didn't pick up.

This morning I downloaded Truecaller to figure who the person that called me was, as I couldn't find his number on WhatsApp or anywhere online. True caller identified his name as "Chief John Odoh".

Figuring his name made my curiosity grow because I have initially brushed off the call as probably from a scammer looking to use emotional control on me.

What could this really be? I don't owe anyone or feel I am at loggerheads with anyone. I don't wish anyone bad. What could this be?

Please someone help me break this down. Thank you.

Call the person back ask him question, involve an elder or your parents

Weed

Candidlady:


@bolded
You husband has a house that you the wife ain't staying

Should have been "she comes to OUR house uninvited"



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What do you guys gain when you come up with fake stories

Mumu you should have ask a question instead talking nonsense, Nigeria youth and over I too know

EreluRoz:
What are you doing in the market as a man? Men that goes to the market are very stingy and aggressive.
I dislike men that would open eyes to everything and won't allow women to be women peacefully.

You should have a woman maybe a market woman that get your things for you.

You're just daft

brain54:
This dude seem to think that everything is about money...

And bank account!

Then don't insult another person because of your frustration, the person can use anything he or she have to reply you

Typing:


Hmmm. 500 tomatoes while you bought 2000 pepper and you call this stew?

By their words you shall know them

Yugoslavia247:


Then face your life.

You can never learn

sIfioksq:
Bode George should focus on his party's internal issues instead of trying to school Tinubu. The man has been clear about his plans. Transparency is key, and Tinubu is committed to that. The days of hiding behind subsidies are over; it's time for real solutions. Let’s see how PDP can manage the economy before giving advice.

While Tinubu destroy Nigeria

Yugoslavia247:


Years from now you would wish you knew somethings before you married.

Oga I'm married with three kids

Jeon:
Mind your business since you can't live with it.



I don't judge and I also don't have opinion to pour, because everyone with his or her own life. I will be very OK with you, as far your doings no affect me.

This one is into hookup

BeyondCertainty:
To be a man is to bear all responsibilities.

However, this doesn't mean you should be foolish by giving a gf money because you want to start practicing how to give in marriage.

There's a difference between a nice guy and a good guy.

Be wise.

Don't mind the stupid op

Kingsmeal:
Nawa o

3.7% is an insult to the south easterners, 0% should be the target please. We can do better so our children won’t mistake protest for riot .

Truth be told this 3.7% out school children is from Ebony state mostly

Philipponzaghi:
Atiku should focus on his own shortcomings instead of praising the army. This is the same man who turned a blind eye when it mattered most. Now he's playing the accountability card like a politician in a bad movie. Where was his voice when it was needed? Always late to the party, as usual.

Why are you very stupid? So it's good how the army man killed unarmed man?

[quote author=AllMight post=131324607]I asked the lady if she is also seeing revelation about us, she said yes..... Since then she have been calling me daily.

And the worst part is that, MOG said she must move in with me... Habah! Even if it is God that said it, is that not a sin? [/quote
They have catch mugu and mugu you shall be

AllMight:
I've been attending this church for 2yrs, i played the sax and band. A month ago, i was told to teach this lady how to play the sax by the pastor's wife. Now this lady stays at their house. At times when i'm chanced i go to the pastor house to teach her, but most time i teach her during/after the chorister rehersal.

Nothing was going on between the two of us. But, i was surprised when last sunday, the MOG said he saw i and the lady in a revelation getting married. I laughed it off because im just 24 and nt yet ready for marriage. But he insisted i pray over it, through the week when i go to their house to tutor the lady, the wife do make subtle remark that i pretend nt to hear.

Then this sunday, the MOG said the lady is my wife from God that i need to listen to God before smtin bad happen to me. I'm nt in anyway interested in her. When i tried reasoning with the MOG, he said im only trying to rebel against God's will. He even threatened to send me away from the church. Please how do i go about it?

He even add manipulation join, stop going to that church for your own good

Kids don't fall in love

Abdul05:
Awon omo rada rada..


Tell them to use the same energy or embrace the same ideology to protest against the rampant killing by unknown gun men.( l mean ipob terrorists )..so that investors can come to southeast .


A deserted region ..

Children of hate, this one pain you die

dhiqson:

Man
You're insecured!
It's just help assistance and harmless malt nd biscuit
Why are u gettin so worked up...
Pls go and beg ur wife
And let peace reign

Nigeria men and their stupid way of thinking, they think they're smart but empty upstairs it won't reach three months before they start fucking even if they have not start

Galinton:
But you, try and buy car too na. Your wife dey get free car you want stop her?

You're such a big fool, he should steal to please a woman, you're the one that will blame him

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
My fiancee is currently serving in benue, while I'm in Edo.
For the past 6 months, I have been sending her about 10k every week, sometimes more than 10k.

Her school pays her 15k, state pays her 16k, government pays her 33k, making it 64k. Every month, immediately she receives her allawee she'll quickly send almost everything to her contributor in Edo.

Ones state and school pays her, she'll also send the monies to her contributor. I'll now be the one taking care of her throughout the month. I have told her severally to keep at least half of her total money for herself, so that even if I'll send money, it'll be very small. She won't listen.

Now I've decided that she should always use her money to take care of herself, that I'm not sending her money again. She's angry, but I no send.
Pls, I'm I wrong for telling her to use her money.

You're not just mumu, you're idiot join

drnoel:


I mean in this time and age we still have human beings with this mindset. We are in trouble in Nigeria

When a fool talk you will know

Verbtips:
Please why do ladies always do this?

As you advertised your goods that's the way they advertised their market

ChildOfDoom:
After taking doxy... for some days to relieve me of my former sexual infection, I have caught another one.

This one is more excruciating. Girls are currently twerking their waist to lure me at the brothel but I am not moved

I just got azith... (500mg) to try ease my distress. Constant urinating, milky substance at the edge of my dudu and wide opening at the tip that makes my urine disperse awkwardly when i discharge.

It's heavy and hot down there. No wonder the last girl I slept with complained that it was 'peppering' her when I dived in.

If only I can resist the temptation of raw sex when cured or double the condom next time to ensure tight kitten or ferocious lash doesn't burst it

Let this one kill you

SadiqBabaSani:
stop praising nonsense, Burkina ain't making much progress since these military guys actually took over

Tunibu Is the one making progress, slave

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

Don't ever make that mistake, you will see her type immediately you have something to do with her

So you don't miss me

Paraman:
You're a confuse Bitter obi supporter... From Lagos is a slum to it was a former capital territory. Well, go and verify the difference between Federal territory of Lagos and Lagos state

If Lagos is a slum, I wander what that will make Anambra and Abia state

Lagos was formal federal capital deal with and shut up

Paraman:
If Lagos is a glorified slum, what will that make Anambra and Abia state?

Any one that criticizes Lagos is igbo man, children of hate can't change