Many ladies make this mistake

If you are looking for a relationship that will end up in marriage, please date a single man. Many ladies allow themselves to fall in love with a married man even though they know crystal clear that the married men would not marry them.

When at the end of the day, the married man brings the relationship to an end because he has had his fill or found another prey or has come to his senses to return to his wife, the affected lady begins to cry and lament.

They run to Facebook forums to tell stories that touch the heart and label all men as bad.

If you really want marriage, do not date a married man. It is a wrong practice and an absolute waste of time.

What you sow is what you reap. If you are making another wife to cry, be certain that someone else will make you cry in your own marriage in the future ( Galatians 6:7). The principle of sowing and reaping is a spiritual law that cannot be broken.
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Loving a man who doesn't love you is a total waste of time and too many ladies make this mistake.

No matter how strong your feelings are about a man, if he doesn't want your company, don't waste your time trying to get him to be intimate with you. Gather your emotions together and look elsewhere for love and attention.

Spend your time to build a relationship with a man who is worth your attention, who respects your feelings and is available. Do not get too emotionally involved with a man who has not made any move or made a real commitment.

Take note that the man is the one who should make the first move. Do not make the first move to express your feelings to a man you admire because he will view you as a cheap and desperate woman.

Rather, give attention to those who are really interested in you and are begging for your attention. Give your love to a man who values it. Do not give your heart to a man who will trample on it.

Learn from the Bible in Matthew 7:6 which says that you should not give your pearls to swine who will trample on it and trample on you too.

Never ask a man to marry you.

You may think that you are honest and outspoken about your feelings but many men will not see it that way.

Being the first to make the move to ask for marriage makes him see you as an insecure person. If he wants to marry you, he will ask.

If he doesn't want to ask or he is taking too long to ask and you think that time is not on your side, stop seeing him for a while or let him see much less of you. If he truly cares and sees the difference, he will take steps to make a binding commitment.

If he fails to notice any difference and goes on without taking any steps towards marriage or engagement, you may have to pack him to one side and move on because he may be a time waster.

However, be reasonable regarding the timing you expect him to ask for marriage. Many men will not ask for marriage in less than 12 months of dating. Very few men will ask for marriage in less than 6 months of dating.

Mistake Number 1
Making the First Move

Never make the first move
You may think that there is nothing wrong if you walk up to a man you admire and express your feelings to him.

You may have the opinion that a woman should go all out for what she wants. Going all out for what you want is true in the world of business where no one is likely to give you what you want provided that the rights of others are not violated.

In the world of relationship with men, things are different. If you want a truly caring relationship with mutual reciprocation of love, do not make the first move. If you want a mutually fulfilling and complimentary relationship, never make the first move.

When a woman makes the first move, many men think she is too cheap and desperately looking for a man. They think she is loose and can easily run off with any man who smiles at her.

Many men may accept her proposal but only to abuse her and to dump her. They will exploit her sexually and financially and drop her. When a woman makes the first move, she will be the one striving to please the man rather than the other way around.

A woman who makes the first move indicates that she has a weak character and lacks control over her emotions. Many men will not respect such a woman and will not treat her with the love and respect she deserves.

They may accept to date her for the purpose of having access to her body but when it comes to commitment to marry, they will take off.

Do not listen to the women liberation movement who tells you to make the first move to approach a man. In the Western countries where the women make the first move, the divorce rates are higher.

Remember that the Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. It's the man who has to do the finding and has to make the first move.

Mistake Number 1
Making the First Move

Never make the first move
You may think that there is nothing wrong if you walk up to a man you admire and express your feelings to him.

You may have the opinion that a woman should go all out for what she wants. Going all out for what you want is true in the world of business where no one is likely to give you what you want provided that the rights of others are not violated.

In the world of relationship with men, things are different. If you want a truly caring relationship with mutual reciprocation of love, do not make the first move. If you want a mutually fulfilling and complimentary relationship, never make the first move.

When a woman makes the first move, many men think she is too cheap and desperately looking for a man. They think she is loose and can easily run off with any man who smiles at her.

Many men will accept her proposal but only to abuse her and to dump her. They will exploit her sexually and financially and drop her. When a woman makes the first move, she will be the one striving to please the man rather than the other way around.

A woman who makes the first move indicates that she has a weak character and lacks control over her emotions. Many men will not respect such a woman. They may accept to date her for the purpose of having access to her body but when it comes to commitment to marry, they will take off.

Do not listen to the women liberation movement who tells you to make the first move to approach a man. In the Western countries where the women make the first move, the divorce rates are higher.

Remember that the Bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. It's the man who has to do the finding and has to make the first move.

If you know sincerely that you have no feelings anymore for her, let her go. Don't waste her time any longer