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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Met/dated One In A Million Girl/guy Before? by donyjohn: 7:04pm On Sep 21, 2016
Yes, I have!

As a matter of fact, I am with one now. We are getting married soon



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODTVuSpDPe0
Romance / Re: You Can Always Do Better, Never Give Up by donyjohn: 6:32pm On Sep 21, 2016
Romance / Re: Tell Us About Your Best Friend In Secondary School !..keep The Fun Waxing by donyjohn: 5:56pm On Sep 21, 2016
I was very shy, so I didn't have a friend


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3PADMO9pIic
Romance / Re: Arrhhh My Wife Ooh...(advice PLZ) by donyjohn: 5:30pm On Sep 21, 2016
I think your wife is the only one that can help you here.

Sit her down and ask her what the problem is?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oedFqxtN-7A
Romance / Re: Finally Its Weekend..I Looove It!!! by donyjohn: 4:57pm On Sep 21, 2016
I always enjoy my weekend to the fullest



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIezbj2EPRg
Romance / Re: See What A Girl Posted On Fb.. by donyjohn: 4:31pm On Sep 21, 2016
Na wa oo.. This world don spoil



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHLlWk3_P7M
Romance / Re: Here Are The Signs You Are Dealing With A Yoruba Demon....its Real Ladies. by donyjohn: 4:07pm On Sep 21, 2016
Yoruba boys are great people!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fm4oJPLvjxQ
Romance / Re: Micheal sinzo ***STARSON*** by donyjohn: 12:25am On Sep 21, 2016
Michealsinzo:
. The line is her office line fr wrk, dere is no way she could...the guy is doing everything to please her,even send 25k to her last week..

You are at risk my friend! She had better lose the job, than you lose her.
Romance / Re: Micheal sinzo ***STARSON*** by donyjohn: 12:15am On Sep 21, 2016
Don't sit there fold your hands and do nothing, else this guy will snatch your girl from you

BEST ADVICE: You must mandate her to change her sim, period!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LB0ejBaE-s
Romance / Re: Ultimatum To Miss Twaci. by donyjohn: 11:20pm On Sep 20, 2016
Romance / Re: Mathematical Evidence That Proves Women Are The Problems Of This World. by donyjohn: 10:54pm On Sep 20, 2016
Romance / Re: Guess Where She Is From... by donyjohn: 7:55pm On Sep 20, 2016
Romance / Re: Top Intelligent Romancelanders 2016 by donyjohn: 7:22pm On Sep 20, 2016
Romance / Re: Angelina Jolie Has Filed For Divorce From Brad Pitt by donyjohn: 6:26pm On Sep 20, 2016
I'm not surprised, divorce is their lifestyle


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-Pg6cdK8rI
Romance / Re: Re: Why Girls Like Dating 'bad Guys' by donyjohn: 4:38pm On Sep 20, 2016
I think bad guys seem to be more attractive to girls


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZuPlnmlDos
Romance / Re: My Friend's Boyfriend's Trying To Hit On Me..do I Let Her Know by donyjohn: 4:15pm On Sep 20, 2016
Don't let him have his way.

Since you like your your friend, do to others what you want them to do to you.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYtCYgf0PM4
Romance / Re: When Your Side Chick Says This (whatsapp Chat) by donyjohn: 3:31pm On Sep 20, 2016
Bro, take it slow with this girl... She is just too fast on you!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64m9jBRsglo
Romance / 3 Ways To Make Yourself More Attractive To Women by donyjohn: 1:43am On Dec 29, 2014
Making yourself appear more attractive to women is really not as hard as it might seem on the surface. Do you have to go out and get plastic surgery or follow every trend that comes out of New York or Los Angeles to make women want you? Not at all. Do you have to build up a fat bank account so that you can win her over with material things? Nope. Do you have to become addicted to working out so that you can make yourself appear more attractive that way? No you don't.

There are many ways that you can make yourself appear more attractive to women and they are within the reach of any man. First, though, you have to be able to change the way that you see yourself, so that when you look at yourself, you see a guy that women can find attractive. Do that and you will begin to see women look at you a little differently.

Here are 3 tips on how to make yourself more attractive to women that are "outside" of the box of what you usually hear:

1. Get yourself some culture.


You know, you can really impress most women when you have a little "culture" that you can share. Being able to take her into your world and share something that she may not be used to can be a great way to make yourself appear more attractive. An example of this might be to become interested in art or music and allow a woman to see that side of you. Give yourself as many dimensions as possible and you will definitely start to appear more attractive to women.

2. Learn to lighten up.

Sometimes, being too serious about certain things can end up turning off a woman. Sometimes, you just have to lighten up and the way that women respond to you will change. One of the things that is really appealing to anyone, not just women, is to have the ability to lighten someone else's mood. That way, whenever they want to have a good time, you are the one that they want to be around.

3. Hang out with women on a friends level.

Why would you want to do this? Well for one, you get an insight into how women think that most men will never be able to get. But, there is more to this. When women see you as being the kind of guy other women like to be around, it automatically suggests to them that they might want to hang around you. And that can lead anywhere you like, as long as you know how to escalate things beyond friendship.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


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How to Attract Girls Without Being Annoying
Romance / How To Get A Girlfriend When You Feel Lonely by donyjohn: 1:37am On Dec 29, 2014
Guys seek out getting a girlfriend at different moments in their lives, and the reason for why they want to get a girlfriend can have a large effect on what kind of results that they get. Some guys seek out a girlfriend when life is going good for them and they want to have someone to share their life and have some fun with. Most men, though, tend to seek out a woman when they are lonely. When they feel like they need to have a female in their life to take away that lonely feeling.

Coming from that mindset is usually a bad way to go about it, simply because you are coming from a place where you really lack any kind of power. When you want to attract a woman just because you are lonely, you are either going to be very unsuccessful as most women tend to be put off by that aura, or you are just going to latch on to the first opportunity that comes along. Doesn't sound all that appealing when it is put that way, does it?

So, what can you do when you are lonely and you want to get a girlfriend?

Probably the first thing that I would suggest is to work on building up your social life, and I don't necessarily mean working on attracting women. Get a group of friends, it can be a mixed group of men and women, and start socializing more often. When you have a social connection like this, it can make that need to get a girlfriend evaporate pretty quickly. Plus, you are giving yourself a little more "power" which usually means that you won't make a bad decision and end up with the first woman who comes along.

Another suggestion I would make is to get busy. When your life is heading in the right direction and you are working towards personal goals that you might have, a funny thing tends to occur. You tend to instantly find that women want to pay more attention to you. You also find that you become a lot more picky when it comes to the women you date, simply because you know what you want and you know that she has to fit into that picture.

You also have to learn more about what actually will make a woman want to date you.

What most men think of in terms of what attracts a woman to a guy is actually way off base from the reality of it. Guys think that they need to have a certain amount of muscle, they think that they need to have a certain kind of job that knocks her socks off, or they assume that they need to have things that they can use to impress her. None of that really has to be the case, especially when you consider the fact that there are men who do have all of these "things" and they still have a hard time attracting women.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


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How To Hook Up With A Girl
Romance / How To Get Women Interested In You - 3 Ways Most Guys Fail To Spark Any Interest by donyjohn: 10:53pm On Dec 28, 2014
Did you ever find it harder than it should be to get a woman interested in you? I know I have and so have most men. For some guys, it will always remain a mystery to them why they cannot seem to get more interest from women, but there are some guys who actually unravel this mystery and you can be one of them. The trick is, you have to try and step outside of yourself and get into the mind of a woman and that can be quite difficult. However, if you CAN actually get into the mind of a woman, you can easily see why most men don't generate the kind of interest that they want to.

Let me explain a little more. Okay, we all know deep down inside that we don't just want to get women interested in us, what we really want to do is to generate interest from women we find to be incredibly attractive and desirable. So, that really is the kind of woman who you have to "figure out" if you want things to change. And one thing that you need to realize is that desirable women DO play by a different set of rules than just your average woman.

Why?

Because they can!

Here's 3 ways that most guys fail to spark any interest with desirable women:

1. They approach her with the mindset that she is better than they are.


Like it or not, if you approach a woman and you are clearly giving off the vibe that she is better than you are... she's probably not going to have much interest in you. Sure, she might like the half dozen compliments that you reel off in the first 60 seconds of meeting her, but it certainly is not going to make her want you. Why? Because you are not the first guy who has tried to win her over with flattery and you certainly will not be the last.

2. They don't know how to talk to her in a way that creates curiosity in her mind.

If a woman is going to be interested in you, then she needs to be curious about you. She's got to wonder, who is this guy and she's got to find herself wanting to answer that question by getting to know you. Problem is, if you are talking to her like you are an open book, then there is nothing there for her to be curious about. Trigger her curiosity and you stand a good chance that she is going to want to satisfy that urge to get to know you better.

3. They don't know how to 'play the game.'

Generating attraction and interest should be fun and enjoyable for you and the woman you want to become interested in you. And yes, there is a game to this and you have to play it in order to actually experience it. A lot of guys tend to have the idea that there should be no games and that really is not a realistic take on the way that attraction works at all.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

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How To Tell A Girl Your Feelings If You're Shy
Romance / How To Be An Alpha Male - 3 Tips That Will Make You More Appealing To Women by donyjohn: 10:47pm On Dec 28, 2014
You are tired of women saying that you are a good guy, that you are a nice guy, but then hesitating when you make it known that you want to be more than just a friend. What you have to do when you get stuck in a position like this, is to make her see you as an alpha male, because that is the only way you are really going to be able to change the way that she feels about you. Until you really assert yourself as the alpha male in her eyes, she is always going to be more inclined to see you as friend material more than anything else. How are you going to go about doing that?

Trying to transform yourself into an alpha male is not always an easy thing to do. It might seem like it takes too much work or that you have to totally change who you are. The thing is, you really do not have to make huge changes to change the way that a woman feels about you. A few small changes here and there, and you can suddenly find that women seem to be more attracted to you than ever before.

Here are 3 tips that you can use right away to make a woman see you as an alpha male:

1) Your posture, the way that you stand has a lot to do with how people see you.

Sometimes, you don't even have to interact with someone and you already have a good measure on their personality just by seeing their posture. A real alpha male does not stand with his shoulders slumped over, and he also does not stand with his chest poked out to the point of being ridiculously obvious. Just stand straight, with a comfortable look about you. Make it apparent that you are more than comfortable being yourself and being in your own skin.

2) The things that you talk about show who you really are.

Do you complain a lot about things? Do you act as though you are powerless and life just kind of happens to you? If so, then these are some things that you may want to change. A real alpha male does not go around complaining about things. And he certainly does not feel powerless and as if life just kind of happens. He knows that he can make changes whenever he wants to and the freedom that comes with feeling like that shows in the way that he talks.

3) Make her see you as an alpha male by not being afraid to take chances.

This is another very valuable trait that you can adopt right away and it does not need to just apply to getting women. Being able to take chances once in a while is a very respectable trait, something that most people wish they had but do not. Show a woman that you indeed have this trait and she will have no troubles at all seeing YOU as a REAL alpha male.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


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How To Ask A Cute Stranger Out
Romance / How To Attract More Women As A Shorter Guy by donyjohn: 10:41pm On Dec 28, 2014
They always say that women prefer men who are tall, dark, and handsome. So, what if you are lacking in the height department? What if the only way that you could ever come off as being six feet tall is if you are standing on a stack of books? Does that mean that you have to just accept that you will not be able to do as well at attracting women? If you think that your height really precludes you from being able to get dates with women, you need to change that line of thinking right away.

While it may be true that women do prefer a guy who is "tall," that does not mean that she can't be attracted to a man who is not. There are plenty of guys in Hollywood that women drool over that are nowhere close to being 6 feet tall. There are plenty of guys outside of Hollywood who can go out to just about any bar or night club and do incredibly well with the hottest women in the place.

Just because women might prefer taller men, it certainly does not mean that you have to accept a lower quality of dating life at all. Besides, think about it like this. Aren't there some preferences that you have that really do not matter in the end with the women you are attracted to?

Fact is, people will end up feeling attracted to people even if they don't seem to "measure up" to their preferences. And this is true for women, just as it is for men. So, if you assume that being on the shorter side means that you won't do as well with women, stop that train of thought right now.

Here's a few tips on how to attract more women as a shorter guy:

1) Stand as tall as you can.

I don't mean that you should do this in a ridiculous way. I mean that you should walk with good posture, like you would if you were 6 feet tall. Don't allow yourself to make it look like you are smaller, and don't allow your height to do any damage to your confidence.

2) If she is taller than you are, tease her about her height playfully.

Turn things around and tease the woman for being "too tall." Just do it in a playful way, not in a passive aggressive way. It's an easy thing to do to take something that you think she might be thinking about and turn it around on her and make it humorous.

3) Lead her. Be a leader.

One of the reasons why women probably prefer taller men is because a taller guy kind of represents a leader. Well, you really don't have to be a certain height to give off those qualities, do you? Make her see you as a leader by leading her. Be a real alpha male and your height will not matter at all. In the end, as long as you are focused on making yourself seem more attractive and giving off alpha male vibes, it does not matter if you are 5'6" or 6'5". Women will be attracted to YOU.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


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How To Talk To A Girl At School That You Like
Romance / Find Yourself A Girlfriend Fast - What Do You Need To Do To Speed Things Up? by donyjohn: 11:24pm On Dec 27, 2014
Do you feel kind of tired of trying to search for a girlfriend and you just want to find an easier way than what traditional dating gives you? When you are looking to meet the right woman, and you only have traditional dating advice to follow, it can sometimes leave you feeling frustrated and confused, because you feel like you are doing things the right way- and it's just not happening fast enough. It could be bad luck, or it could be that you need to try something a little bit different to get faster results.

I think it is a very common thing to feel as if dating can be disappointing. Men feel this way, women feel this way, and at times it can seem like that is just the way that it is and there is nothing that you can do to change it. You've probably had your fair share of situations that played out in a way that left you hanging, and you probably want to know how to change all of that so you can attract the right woman and make her your girlfriend.

The peculiar thing about it is, we live in a time where meeting the right woman can be easier than ever, as long as you have a proven strategy and use proven techniques to make a woman want to date you. After all, 50 years ago, all you really had was a couple of local places that a man could meet a woman and if that did not happen, well, he was plain out of luck. Now, there is an ever increasing amount of ways to meet women, so things CAN be easier for YOU.

The problem usually is not with the lack of options to meet women. A lot of the time it really comes down to the way that you are trying to attract a girlfriend. It's quite common for guys to 'think' they are doing all of the right things... when in reality they are doing a lot of the WRONG things to find a girlfriend.

A good example of this is when a guy tries to win over a woman he has JUST met with romance and it turns out that it has very little effect on her.

The problem with that strategy, is that it usually feels rushed to a woman, and a lot of the 'romantic' things are usually just instances of a man spending money or using compliments to try and persuade her to like him. There is a much more effective way and it really CAN speed things up if you don't fall back into the old pattern of following out of date and often ineffective dating advice for men.

Instead of working on the 'romance' side of things right away, why not work on the ATTRACTION side of things? While you might think that they are the same exact things, they really are NOT. When you work on the attraction side of things, you are working on creating a feeling, and it often has little to do with what you can buy her or what clever compliments you can give her.

Here's a common example that usually does a guy in before he even gets started:

The first date with a woman comes up, and he has yet to really spark a lot of attraction with her. There is a little bit there, that's why she is on the date, but not a lot yet. So, to try and impress her, he takes her to the fanciest restaurant in town. He makes it known that he is going to spoil her all night and at the end of the night... he thinks it is a sure thing that they are going to be dating for a while.

The only problem is... the woman he has taken out on a date does NOT feel that way at all. She enjoyed the fancy restaurant, but that was about all she enjoyed. The guy did little to nothing to generate REAL attraction with her, and she does not see any reason to go out on a second date. This kind of scenario happens a LOT and most men don't realize why they don't get that second date.

They think that they have been 'played' and they feel like they have been made a fool. Well, really it all comes down to the fact that they didn't do their job of creating that feeling of attraction that they needed to create to make her want to go out on the second date. The money does not do it, and the compliments don't do it. If you want to get a girlfriend fast, the simplest way is to learn how to create and build REAL attraction with a woman.

Attraction Speeds Things Up... ALWAYS...

This is the easiest and most effective way to 'speed' things up. When a woman feels a LOT of REAL attraction for a guy, getting the first, second and third date with her is EASY.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THFD5EjrbTg


How Do I Get A Girlfriend
Romance / Get Attention From Women - Why Women Don't Notice YOU by donyjohn: 11:18pm On Dec 27, 2014
Does it ever feel like no matter what, women just do not seem to pay that much attention to you? And even if they do, does it always seem like they see you not as a guy they want to date, but just a nice guy that they may want to be friends with? I can totally relate to this feeling, because at one time... that is exactly what it seemed to be like for me. There is a reason why some guys get a lot of attention from women and some guys get next to none. And it is probably not why you think it is. Even if you are not the most 'polished' guy, even if you are not the guy dressing like a wannabe rock star... you can still get attention from women.

First though, you have to kind of get into WHY women don't notice you. Because until you get to the root of that problem, things probably are not going to change. And if you think it is because you are a nice guy, and that women are addicted to being with jerks, then you really need to change your way of thinking.

Here are some common reasons why women don't notice you:

1. You shy away from being in the spotlight.

This is a really common problem that shy guys tend to have. They don't feel comfortable being the center of attention, so they shy away from the spotlight. The problem with this is... if you shrink away from getting noticed... doesn't that set you up for disappointment? I mean, if you want attention from women... then you kind of have to get over this. Let's say that you are at a party. And there are plenty of women there, but also plenty of other guys. Even if you are the nicest, coolest guy there... the other guys are going to get noticed if they don't mind the attention and you are shying away.

2. When you socialize with a woman, you try to be too safe.

What do I mean by too safe? It's when a guy will suppress what he really wants to say, all because he is afraid that he will say the wrong thing or because he will somehow offend a woman. Problem with this is... how will they get to know you at all if you suppress what you really think and what you really want to say? Besides that, women respect a guy who's not afraid to speak his mind, and that is an attractive quality. If you don't show that you have this quality... why would they want to see you as anything more than a friend?

3. You come across as being one of those lethargic guys with no real energy.

You don't need to come across like one of those super amped up guys that you see in a typical infomercial, but if you come across like you have no energy at all... that's not going to attract much attention. People respond well to those who seem to have a lot of positive energy, and if you come across as being lethargic and complacent, then you are not going to trigger that response that you want. And women want to be with a guy who is going to energize their life, not bring them down.

Now listen carefully -

What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read - Click Here

Looking for love and dating can be challenging. Discuss your dating problems on our forum. We can help you find a great loving relationship! Go to: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bb4XAkPHTOo


How To Ask A Girl Out On A Date
Romance / How To Get Any Woman You Want by donyjohn: 9:15pm On Dec 27, 2014
There are a lot of sales messages in the dating advice for men world that try to give the impression that some guys can literally attract any woman that they want. And sometimes, when you take a look around and you see guys that seem to have a 'special' way with women, it can seem like that. It sounds like a pretty irresistible thing, to be able to attract any woman you want. Is this really possible?

I think you know what the REAL answer is going to be and that is NO, you can not literally attract any woman you want. The easiest way to blow a hole through that theory is to just take a look at any happily married woman and realize that if she truly is totally happy with her marriage... you are not getting her no matter how good you are with women. That being said, though, there are some skills and techniques that you can learn that will make it seem like you can attract any woman you want... to a point.

Mastering the ability to attract women is something that most men will NEVER be able to truthfully say that they have done. For most guys, attraction is a mystery, will always be that way, and they will end up with the first woman who says YES to them. Even if deep down they really want to be with a different woman, this is how most men's lives will play out. A little bit depressing when you think of it that way, no?

You don't have to settle for that kind of a life and there ARE some tips and techniques that can make sure you have a pretty good chance at getting the kind of women you really desire. Here are a few of those tips:

1. When you act like a guy who will bend over backwards to please a woman, that's exactly what you will have to do. (And most women are not attracted to this quality.)

It still surprises me at how many guys use this 'technique' as their way of getting women to like them. I would have thought that most guys would know that this is exactly how NOT to make a woman want you, but it seems that is not the case. Look, it is all well and good to want to be a nice guy, understand that desire. But, you cannot be a guy who bends over backwards and expect that this is going to be an attractive quality to a woman. Most women who DO like this quality... will expect that this is the way that you will always be. Imagine that. A lifetime of bending over backwards. No thank you.

2. Become a MASTER of chemistry and you will attract women.

No, I don't mean that you need to become a scientist or that you have to learn the periodic table or anything like that. The kind of chemistry that you want to become a master of is the kind of chemistry that makes a woman feel like she is having the time of her life when she is around you. When you have this ability, then you can make almost any woman feel like you just might be the one guy she has been searching for and that is the way that things begin to happen.

3. Do NOT act like you are just trying to make friends with her, let her know that you LIKE HER.

While you don't want to over do it and make a woman feel like she has you wrapped around her finger and you are always going to want her, you also do not want her to feel like all she has with you is friendship. You have to understand that women compartmentalize guys, and when you get compartmentalized as being friend material, dating pretty much is no longer an option at all for you. Let her know that you like her, don't be afraid to make that clear.

Now listen carefully -

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Romance / How To Flirt With Women - Make Her Feel Like She Is Falling Fast For You by donyjohn: 9:10pm On Dec 27, 2014
There is a big difference between just flirting with a woman and doing it in such a way that it is effective and she feels like she is falling for you. Most men when they flirt with a woman are not doing it in a way that is going to make the woman feel like she is falling for them, they are doing it in a way that is either bland or ineffective, and that is why they have to keep on going out hoping that they will one day get things to click. One of the problems that men usually have when it comes to flirting is that what they believe to be effective isn't, yet they keep on trying those same things over and over again.

We've all been flirting with women ever since we first discovered them, but you have to mature in the way that you go about it, or else all you will ever get is hit or miss success. And of course, that really means more misses than it does successes. If you feel any angst when it's time to flirt with a woman, pay close attention.

What are some tips on how to flirt with a woman so that she feels like she is falling for you?

1. Don't just try to 'flirt' with a woman, make sure that it is meaningful.

This is only really true when a particular woman is who you want. If all you want to do is have some fun and you really don't have a desire for anything 'real,' then by all means flirt away and don't have an end result in mind. However, if you really do want things to click with a certain woman, then what you need is to have some kind of framework or at least an idea of where you want things to lead. That way, you have a target of sorts and it's not just some rambling conversation that goes nowhere.

2. Women want to be in the spotlight at times, so make sure that this is how she feels when she is with you.

We all know that women love romance and they love the idea of being swept up in some really romantic plot, although that never happens to them. Well, if you kind of put the spotlight on the woman and make her feel like she is the only one in the room, at least in your eyes, you can make her feel that way. That will kind of give her the feeling that she is being swept off of her feet and caught up in her own romance story... with you as the leading man!

3. A man cannot shy away from the fact that a woman needs to feel sexual chemistry with him.

For some reason, the common train of thought of most guys seems to be that making things 'sexual' is always a bad thing, but this is not true. Making things sexual is what you have to do if you want to really sweep her up and make her feel like she is falling for you. The thing that you do not want to do is make things sexual in a way that makes it seem like all you want is to get laid and that's the only reason why you are flirting with her.

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Romance / Dating Tips For Guys To Know - The Qualities That Attract Women by donyjohn: 8:58pm On Dec 27, 2014
Dating is more of an art than it is a science. That's why I want to remind you that while there are some pretty universal qualities that attract women, don't get stuck in the vacuum of thinking that all women want exactly the same thing or that there is one technique that will make all women respond favorably to you. I've seen some guys fall under that impression, and they usually quickly find out that it's not exactly true. Still, there are some qualities that are pretty universal, meaning that while not all women are attracted to these qualities, they do tend to be what a lot of women are attracted to.

Guys that understand what these qualities are will undoubtedly have a much easier time attracting women than those who don't. Of course, just knowing what these qualities are will not guarantee you any success with women. You have to be able to take these qualities and build on them so that you can make them effective for you.

Anyways, here are a few qualities that are attractive to (most) women:

1. Honesty.

I know, it's sounds a little too squeaky clean to hear this, but let me explain what I really mean. Most men are trying really hard to come across as being really close to perfect when they want to impress a woman. So, many times they will exaggerate things or even make things up with the hopes that this will be impressive to a woman. And you know what? Sometimes it works for a short time. The thing is, it usually does not work out long term. Usually you will get busted on it. But, there is a little more as to why honesty is such an attractive quality. It shows REAL CONFIDENCE. Let's say that you don't make a lot of money, and you are honest about that. That might turn off some women ( the gold diggers), but to a lot of women it will be REFRESHING, because income is one of the most lied about things when a guy is trying to impress a woman.

2. Sense of Calmness.

This is a very attractive quality to many women and it's one that is actually kind of rare. Anyone can be calm in a calm situation. Not everyone can be calm when things get a little chaotic. In fact, most people lose their calm when things get a little chaotic. So, having a sense of calmness in most situations is actually a pretty rare quality to have. And what do people seem to value most in this world? Things that are perceived to be rare. And that is true of the qualities men have that women find attractive. So, if you are in a situation where a typical guy would get "frazzled," show her your rare quality of staying calm and in control of your emotions.

3. The ability to make something out of nothing.

This might sound like a good quality to have in business (and it is), but it can be good in other situations as well. Here's what I mean: Let's say that you make plans to take a woman out somewhere and for whatever reason, it's not happening. Maybe the restaurant bumped you even though you had a reservation. Can you turn the night around and still make it enjoyable for her? If you can, if you can take that nothing situation and make it special, you will WOW her. Trust me.

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Romance / How To Get A Girlfriend Who Adores You - You Have To READ This by donyjohn: 6:41pm On Dec 05, 2014
Have you ever really noticed just how many guys end up with girlfriends that just seem to take advantage of them? Or they wind up in relationships that are just painfully boring you can tell that they wished that they could find another girlfriend, but for some reason, they just end up putting up with it? I know I have and I am sure that you have seen this as well. Maybe you have even been in a relationship just like that. If you have, then you know that it flat out sucks to feel that way. Is there a way to make sure that you end up with a girlfriend who adores and appreciates you?

Yes, there is. Well, okay, there's no absolute guarantee. However, the way that most guys approach getting a girlfriend practically guarantees that they WILL end up with a girlfriend who does not fully appreciate them and even takes advantage of them. Knowing that, if you can do things differently, then you can put yourself on a path to attracting a girlfriend who ADORES you.

How Do You Get a Girlfriend Who Adores You?

Like I said, most men approach getting a girlfriend in a way that will make it almost certain that they do not end up in the best relationship possible. One of the most common reasons for this is that they NEVER learn how to QUALIFY a woman. What I mean by this is... they see a woman, they think she is attractive and they automatically hope that they can have a relationship with her. Or, they just decide that the next woman they get with, they will stick with.

Here's the problem with that though. When you make it apparent to a woman that you have no qualifying process, that she can do just about anything and you will put up with it, you are giving her a green light to do just that. And it's not just the wrong kind of women that will take advantage of that opportunity, most women will. On the other hand, if you show a woman that you DO have a process of qualifying them (another way to think of this is just having "standards"wink, then they will automatically treat you differently.

Qualify Her And She Will Appreciate You...

You will notice that most women do have a way of qualifying guys, even if it is not the best way, they do have a way. They don't just get with the first guy who wants to date them, they wait it out till they find the one that "qualifies." That is the same thing that you NEED to do if you want to get a girlfriend who appreciates you. And you need to STAND by that qualifying process, so that if you do attract a woman who does not measure up... you move on and find a new one.

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Romance / Confused By Women - Here's Some Advice If You Are Stumped by donyjohn: 4:35pm On Dec 04, 2014
It's easy to get confused by women. Way too easy. The way that men and women go about things is so entirely different from each other much of the time, it's kind of surprising that we do get it right. If you want to find a way to stop feeling stumped, then listen up. There are a few things that all guys need to know that will take away some of that confusion. It won't take it all away, but it will take a lot of it away and that's not bad at all.

One of the reasons why guys feel confused by women, is because men and women tend to voice themselves slightly different from each other. This is definitely the case when it comes to attraction. When a woman feels attracted to a guy, it's not unusual for him to have no clue at all that she feels that way. And the reverse is true as well.

Here is some advice just in case you are stumped and confused by women:

1) She does not want you to solve her problems as much as she just wants you to listen to her.

This is a classic miscommunication that happens between men and women, even in couples that have been together for a LONG time. The guy assumes that if she is telling him about a problem, that she must want him to solve it. Sometimes that may be the case, but more often than not... she just needs an ear to listen to her. If you can give her that and not try to solve her problems for her, you will be much better off.

2) She does not want to have a guy who is just a nice guy, she wants a guy who can excite her.

Nice guys can easily be just friends or like a brother to a woman. Exciting guys on the other hand are more likely going to be the guy she wants to date. If you want to be that guy, the one that she wants to actually date and be in a relationship with, make sure that you bring some excitement to the table.

3) The fastest way to win over most women... is to learn how to use conversation as an attraction builder.

Master the art of conversation with a woman, and it won't be long before you find that you are suddenly doing much better in terms of getting women to flirt back and even want to date you. The average guy is pretty poor in his conversation skills, and this is one area that if you are able to master... you will be able to get a girlfriend very easily and keep her attracted to you.

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Romance / How To Get A Woman Interested In Dating You by donyjohn: 4:01pm On Dec 04, 2014
To get a woman interested in dating you, a guy cannot rely on the sage advice of the past that men have followed. It is a different world and a different time. You have to do a little outside the box, creative thinking if you want to be able to get a woman to feel attracted enough to you that she wants to date you. It can, of course, happen the old fashioned way, however, there are much better ways of going about it that will probably get you much closer to your goal in the end.

It can feel incredibly aggravating to assume that you have done all of the things that a man is supposed to in order to get a woman interested in him, only to find that this is just not the case at all. Guys who get stuck thinking like this quite often will just decide that they are better off not even really giving it much effort, as it always seems to turn out the same lame way for them.

What if you had a few secrets that leveled the playing field a little bit and made it so that you could build her attraction to the point where she was eager to date you? How would that make you feel?

Here are 3 secrets to building a woman's attraction and making her want to go on a date with you:

1) Your attempts to build attraction will be futile if you are not appealing to her emotions.

Many guys make the mistake of assuming that if they are a good guy on a logical level, then that will automatically make a woman decide that she wants to date them. That, however, is rarely the reality of the way things go. More likely, if you are just trying to make a logical case for why a woman should want to date you, it will fall on deaf ears. On the other hand, if you appeal to her emotional side, then you will have a much easier time.

2) Most women respond well when you make them feel like they have to compete for your attention.

This is something that I would not mention if I was only interested in being politically correct about things. The reality is, for most women, when you make them feel as though they are in competition with another woman... they will respond favorably and try and steer your attention their way. Of course, this is very helpful if you want to make a woman feel attracted to you.

3) The way to really ensure that a woman wants to date you, is to evoke feelings of sexual desire in her.

If you are skilled at making a woman feel real and intense sexual desire, then it will be hard for her to pass up the opportunity to go out on a date with you. Don't assume that you cannot make a woman feel this way. You don't have to be the typical stud in order to make a woman feel sexual desire, IF, you know how to trigger sexual attraction in a woman.

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