Good evening wonderful people. I am on the verge of divorcing my husband because he cheated on me with our former neighbour's younger sister. He dumped her and our son paid the price. I was in good terms with my neighbour and her sister and one time I was supposed to visit my brother who is now late at the hospital.

My husband was supposed to stay with the kids and he called me to inform me that he is stuck in the office, I should leave the children with my neighbour he will pick them up as soon as he reaches home. It was my first time leaving them with her and my husband called me to follow him to the hospital because our son was not well.

When I rushed to the hospital, I didn't get the chance to see my son because he was rushed to the emergency room for operation. The doctor said he had sustained a head injury and I asked my hubby how? He said that from the neighbour's explanation that he woke up from his nap and slumped. I was confused how can a 10 months old healthy baby wake up from his nap and slump.

Even the doctor didn't believe that explanation, he told us the injury my son sustained could be that he was hit with a hard object or he fell on a hard surface but hubby was still adamant that nothing like that has happened. The surgery was a success but it has left him with so many health issues, epilepsy, speech delay, he is 5 years old but he is just learning how to walk and he is still in pampers. When I look at him, I cry every day.

I can't believe my healthy baby who weighed 4.7kg at birth and had started walking at 9 months is now looking like a different baby. We are lucky that we are no longer in Nigeria and the care our son is receiving in this country is excellent that everything is covered by the government or else we wouldn't be able to afford that in Nigeria.

I recently found out what actually happened to him, my husband was dating the girl and he dumped her so the girl revenged by hurting our son. She threw him on the table 2 times. My husband has admitted that he dated her and I asked him why he dated a girl in the same compound knowing how risky it was for me and our children and now our son is paying the price for his wickedness.

He can't stop apologizing to me but I don't want him anymore. I can't stay with a man who sacrificed our only son's health because of a 5 second pleasure. I am ready to divorce him and move on with my children. I don't want anything to do with him ever again. Please advice me on how to be strong and take care of my children alone?

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I don't know where to start from, we've been married for 2 years..but let me talk about what happened tonight, my husband has a best friend which he takes more serious than me. During his birthday last year, he left his work during work hours and attended his surprise birthday party.

He has never been around for my birthday, I cried, was mad, when same thing happened this year..now yesterday was his friends birthday, he was out of town only to come home this afternoon and dressed up and left immediately to visit him. He later called that they were heading to another friends place and I became so angry and I told him none of his friends has visited us since we got married but he is always the one looking for them especially this particular guy, my husband has been posting this guy since last month till today for his birthday which he never did the same for me and even our child.

Now when I said everything, his response was because I complained, he won't come home till weekend and I am free to do whatever I want.. Please if u were in my shoes, what would you do, because he's not home yet and I'm sure he's not coming as he said.

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I’m 25 I grew up with both parents but my mom controls the home. She acts like a witch honestly. My dad is more like a vegetable anything his wife tells him, he believes without trying to find out the truth. My dad always wanted all his kids to go to school but my mom did all she did and we didn’t. Just my eldest sister and I went to school because we are girls.

I used runs to get a Bsc. My eldest brother left home at 18 because of the issues and we are all scattered because she raised us with hate. I have so much hate in my heart for my mum. She has done so much evil to our family people don’t respect us when they see us. She can wake up as early as 5 am, sit outside, start cursing and swearing for everyone in the house. People don’t associate with us. I left home without going back. Only God can change the hate in my heart for her.

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I am a single mum of 1 and I am 40 years old. I and my son father had issues of genotype “AS” while I was pregnant with our son. We were never married. Our son is 8 years now. We tried to see if we could stay together as a family for 9 months but it didn’t work.

Because I already see myself doing all the spending in the relationship and that’s not the problem with me but he keeps taking it for granted. He doesn’t want to support with any bills yet works and earns good. I had to move out of the house because I know I can do better without him.


He pushed the blame of the AS on me that I lied to him about my Genotype. Whereas all through my growing up from school and all, I have been AA. The last test I did before pregnancy was still AA. I just don’t know how I turned AS when I was pregnant. I want to believe the Hospitals I have been running my tests played me on that. But I thank God our son is AS too.. Now I wish to have more kids but I want to talk to my son’s father about us doing IVF.. I don’t know if he will agree to that though.

Because we are really not into each other like that. We were both introduced to each other by our friends way back then that saw us more like people who don’t want to settle down. As God will have it, we had a son. Because we are both the workaholic type. I love my sanity a whole lot and dodged any drama that has to come with relationship. No responsible man out there yet and the fear of menopause is wanting me to have more kids now before it’s too late.

My son’s dad is not yet married too.. we have been seperated for 7 years now. I’m not sure if I should go ahead and ask him if we should do IVF. We both have been Co-parenting for those years. And he has been doing his fatherly role to his son. Meaning he could spend on his son but not me. I have no problem with that. But we can’t be together as husband and wife because I know we don’t have any feelings for each other. We are better off Co - parenting than being in a marriage we both know won’t work. He’s still single too.

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Good day everyone.

I am a second year student in the university.
I met this guy early last year then he was working not until November when he told me that he is going to quit because they are not paying him well and that he wants to go back to the village to start up a small business for the main time. So before he left in December, I took in and due to the fear of my family and others he asked me to abo_t it which I did. So early this year, when I had a little break I visited him and now I noticed I am pregnant. I don't know what to do. If I keep the baby my dad will disown me and the little business the man is doing can't really cater for my schooling and the babys up keeping. I don't want to stop schooling. The guy wants me to keep this one but I am till scared and worried about my school and family.


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Good morning Okay, I'll go straight to the point. Mom and dad got separated when I was 5 years old, that was in 2004. I was little but not too small to not remember seeing dad beat up my mom on few occasions over unnecessary things. She was like a maid in his house, he treated her like trash, cheating on her right in her face. His girlfriends would come around and they would make mockery of my mom.

Mom told us, she once broke a cup at his shop and she was forced to pay for it. She started a business with her own money but she was made to account for it and give him the money at the end of each day. Nobody could talk to him. This persisted until she had to run for her life. I remember how we all ran into the car that came to pick us up nak_d. We got dressed in there, we didn't even get the chance to take all our clothes.

The japa was real 😆 I grew up knowing he must be alive somewhere but he never showed up, my mom was all we knew. We all watched my mom struggle to fend for us. In 2014, my sister convinced us to go look for him and make peace. We knew he wasn't worth it but we wanted to give him the chance to be the good father he never was. Mom didn't want it but she gave in, for us. We visited him that once, we talked and reconciled, but the energy was never returned.

He only called once and that was all. 3 years ago, he finally showed up but that's because we called him to tell him that my mom was dead. He only attended her funeral, after the burial we went over to his village to see him before going back to our various houses. You won't believe this man tried to force us all to dump whatever we have going on in our lives including university to come help him out in his little restaurant business. Tried to force me to go live with someone I don't even know as a maid. Told my sister who was married to relocate to his home. I mean, who does that? I left secondary since 2017 and haven't started university yet because of financial issues. He didn't think I needed to go to school.

All he said was I have to go serve as a maid with strangers, no payment, I might get lucky and find a husband. He didn't care about what we wanted. He made his own rules. My siblings and I refused. He hasn't been in our lives all these while only to come now to make ridiculous decisions for us We all traveled back not caring what he thinks. And that was it, no calls, he sends nothing. We all have been fending for ourselves individually. For me, I've already had it registered in my head that I'm an orphan. Now here's the question even my mom didn't have an answer to before she died.

Does this kind of father deserve to even be acknowledged when there are suitors? Does he deserve to receive bride price from the husband of the kids he knows absolutely nothing about how they survived all through the years? I'm 23 and my eldest sister is 30. None of us has received anything from him but everyone keeps Insisting that he's our father and the bride price would be payed to him regardless. I feel its unfair. Fathers would abandon their kids because they know in years to come these kids would come back by themselves.

Note, he didn't pay my moms bride price, its embarrassing but that's what it is. He and my granddad used to smo_e together, they were friends. Just because he used to dash him money and buy him drinks back then,my granddad gave his daughter away to him, forcefully, none of them cared what she wanted. They didn't follow the right procedures. I'm planning on having a court wedding when the time comes, no bride price, I'm not for sale and he can't reap where he did not sow. But I want to know, am I being unreasonable? Is it okay to go ahead and have court wedding without his consent? He didn't pay moms bride price so what's the difference? Is it also okay to pay the bride price to my brother when he is still alive? I need your sincere advice please.

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I was once married with two kids but divorced because of infidelity from my wife. I later met this girl through a friend of mine, they are cousins. I went ahead to ask her out and we started dating. I told her I was a divorcee, she accepted me. One day when I was going through that my guys phone, the cousin, I found out they have had an affair before I met her. I went ahead and confronted her. She confessed to me they did it. Even with her uncle too. She doesn't know what really use to come over her but they later said it is a spiritual issue which they have worked on now. She confessed that she even slept with many other guys in the past. She doesn't do it for money but just doesn't know what makes her do it back then. But one thing about her is she is a good person. She has been so supportive to me since I met her. She really shows me love, she is what I want in a woman but with all this she has done in the past, it is just making me have double mind. But she always confesses to be a better person now. I just need advice to know if I should continue or just let her go. I love her but all these things I found about her is just making my heart cold for her.

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Me and my husband dated for 3 years before I got pregnant for him. My son will be 3 years this year. This man doesn’t respect me at all, he disgraces me publicly, complains about everything I do, always says the house is dirty even if I just cleaned the house, he will still complain about it. He cheats on me a lot, I don’t know his phone password, he has s_x with my friends and street sisters but I endure everything because of my child. Any small thing he will start fighting me and I might beg him for days. Like 3 or 4 days, he won’t talk to me. He has money and I have my shop but I’m fed up. He can’t even help me with any little house chore in the house, he comes home late. I’m just 22 years old but I’m dying. Any small issue, he will say he regrets knowing me. He said his biggest regret is dating me. I don’t understand, I did not do anything wrong. We argue almost everyday, he will lock his room door and I won’t be able to enter. He won’t talk to me for days …. I’m dying …. I don’t know what to do. He disgraces me publicly

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I have a guy who I got pregnant for, when I was 7 months gone the elder sister adviced us to go for a genotype test. When we got there we did the test and the result showed that both of us are AS. We had no option than to keep praying for mercy. I gave birth to my baby he was okay, After 2 years I had to run a test for my baby too but luckily it came out as AS too. The reason I am writing this is that my parents hate this guy. They said over their dead body will they see me get married to him. And on the other hand, I don't love the guy anymore. I am just staying with him out of pity, no atom of love. The guy is really taking care of me, he is the one sponsoring the work I am learning. He gives me money anytime I am in need of it. He was the one that settled my bills when I did an appendix operation. I just need your advice on how to go about it. I am planning on separating from him.......

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Good morning, I have been with my two siblings (sisters) for years now taking care of them as our parents are not close. I have been so wonderful to them because I made them not to miss our parents. Early this year, I discovered the elder one of 20 years started having feelings for me not like family love again. So I eventually fell in for a deep romance with her but we didn't have s_x because we know the consequences behind it in our village ( a taboo ) and death or madness is what follows. Honestly since we had this, it has continued because I started having feelings for her while she has already fallen in love with me. My problem right now is that her jealousy made me to part with my girlfriend. But right now, I've gotten another girl and want to move on from her but it's not working because the last time my new girlfriend came around this week, my sister was very angry and she cried after the girl left and I had to beg and console her. Right now I don't want the girl anymore because I can't cope seeing my sister cry because I love her so much but I want to move on because I can't have s_x with her only the romance. I am finding it very hard to love another girl aside from my sister. She in her own side has been making boyfriends but refuses to go out to meet them. I am depressed and don't know how to get over this.

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Good morning wonderful people, I got married 2021, me and my husband were living happily. I have lost my mum and my dad has another wife. Due to the way she maltreats my sister, I now took my sister to be living with me which my husband agreed. But now my sister started misbehaving, I cannot correct her she would shout at me. She doesn't do anything at home and now my husband is complaining about her. I don't know what to do again.

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my husband and i got married just two months ago and ever since then there has been no privacy for me..his male cousin stays with us i tried to adapt with that...then he invited his friend over and that one has been living with us for almost a month now..the worst part is i had to be sharing our masters bathroom and toilet with this friend and i really hated it..i just think it’s too soon to be experiencing all this and i feel he shouldn’t make it seem like he’s the only one that owns the house just cause he pays the rent

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I've been living with my mother in law for three years now because my husband is not in the country. we had to move there because when he left things were really bad for us then and he promised we'll move out once he has enough money to get an apartment. now its three years already and he's really reluctant to visit the issue of moving out despite the fact that right now things are not going smoothly between his mum and i. i need an advice on how to go about it because i need to move back to the city to get a good paying job for myself.

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