jidegirl12: ^^ go to bed and keep that woman Tpia on top of your prayer points, she needs a man, ( to fk her head off ) , children , job and a LIFE. Or she no go gree leave other happily married/ engaged Women alone.

Jide Babes, didn't I tell you that Tpia Sweetie is my friend?
You mustn't talk to Tpianwam/Tpiababy me like that for me abeg abeg however much she offends you biko.
If she offends you again you can tell me and I will talk to her, okay Baby?

tpia@:


shut up, you lying pig.

madam, you need a stronger dose of your psychiatric medication.

please log off nairaland and get help before you land in your gutter.

were, from idile were

Jeez! Tiibaby/Tiinwa sweet sweet.
Ple-a-a-a-as-e don't say these things. I beg you sweetheart.

We can argue all we want about this DL (no make up and Mgbeke kinda wedding dress) and (whether Kumuyi's daughter in law should not look as beautiful as she wants on her wedding in order to impress others that have no mind of their own and prefer to be shackled by their fellow man/woman's whims) yet nothing changes the fact that we are not only free to put on make-up but also free to worship and wed in whatever types of clothes we like as long as we look modest in them. People overdo these things in some of our churches.

How can they make such man-made fr*aking law that has women looking ugly and fat in that mgbeke dress on their wedding day? They should let women be free to look sweet and feminine. We were made beautiful, soft and lovely for good purposes. Do you think that God does not know what he is doing when he created women and gave them all those beautiful curves and bootlicious booties? He was only trying to make us look attractive to men, not that we should dress n-aked to show the curves. A woman can still dress modestly and still look curvy and feminine, a woman hiding all those beautiful curves God gave her in that Mgbeke dress is not fair to the one who spent time making her. Please these churches should back off and let girls/women be feminine.

Kumuyi's DIL is free to wear make-up and any beautiful wedding dress she likes. Nobody should shackle others with those ridiculous rules please. If the sisters in the DL church vex too much they should develop minds of their own, unshackle themselves and begin to be their real selves. Why are people complaining and sulking like "He made us wear all those archaic/mgbeke dresses and now see what his DIL is wearing", it shows that they were not keeping those rules out of their own volition but were merely shackled by the rules. We don't have to look ugly and mournful in churches to show that we are so into God, we can look modest and beautiful in the presence of God and still connect to God. Modesty isn't looking shabby and unkempt. Thank you.

Yeah we should be more loving and caring than we are doing. This is a faceless forum and we can still impact the people we meet here positively. I don't know whether I am the only one that detests the way people mock others in this forum. It is very terrible. Troubled people bring problem here in the forum and before the thread reaches page 4, the person is already being mocked. Dare share or mention in your posts stuffs you encountered while growing up like if you are from a broken home and mentions it in the forum, you will get mocked with it etc.
These Mgbeke/unrefined attitudes being exhibited are terrible. There is a nairaland woman that has been following me and my posts like a crazy stalker and giving attitudes like she has sworn to be an angry angel following me about looking for something to say with the intention to make me feel bad or look bad to others and make her heart feel happy. The only thing she has against me is that I kick against how she mocks people in the forum and uses the mockery of depressed people to entertain her NL friends.

Refined people are one another's keeper in online forum, loving, encouraging, guiding not bringing down and depressing others. We are doing good on the encouraging, helping and loving part but there are still plenty threads with insults, quarrel, abuse. Abeg make una stop the quarrelling, mockery,insults and bullying. Is it not good that we make others happy by the little interaction we have online with them instead of adding salt to the injury of the stress/problems they encounter in real lives? Some of us are reading and looking at these sweet pictures and after going "a-w-w-w-w, I am so touched", they will still get into threads and begin to mock, insult and hurt others.

Abeg this mirror mirror battle of the bootlicious made me laugh after watching it.
They wan measure the booties send us the sizes? Jeez!

Natural and lovely----

More Sweet sweet natural hairdos----

More sweet and natural hairdos to excite our eyes.
Natural hair is soulful, Natural hair rocks!

The final look I will work to achieve is a sweet looking locks like the ones below.
I simply love these looks.

I have always liked the Rassy locks, glad that I have finally gotten round to doing this natural hair thing that I have always loved.

I am thinking of dyeing it short (as in the pictures below) and having fun with it for a while before locking it rassy.
The only after thought I am having about dyeing it is that i don't want to lose its natural colour but I am going to dye it,
when i am done rocking it short I will lock it into a very uniformly sized and neatly lined rassy lock and when it grows some I will have the dyed part cut off or something.

Meddler: Has anyone used VO5 conditioner as their main deep conditioner? I alwaus use it as a prepoo or as an add in to my concotions. But today I actuallly used it as my main moisturizing conditioner and my hair loves it!! Mixed it with shea butter, castor oil, coconut oil and honey and I can't believe the results. And I have been worried sick about finding a good moisturing conditioner when I had one all along.
An additional bonus my hair is coming along fine. My back her is at APL, wish the rest of my hair wud catch up fast. All in all I'm pretty pleased with my hair progress.

Meddler has come again-o with all the concoctions she mixes up for her hair. Why don't you even start an organic/botanic kind of hair food line?
I am sure that you will make a headway.
I have used a V05 product but that was their shampoo, their products are of good quality.

Darkie! Meddler!
Happy to let you know that I have gone Uber natural on my hair. I am excited about it actually. Barbed off my long relaxed hair leaving behind only my natural hair.
I tried to twist it and lock it but when I went under the shower it untwisted so I am going to use something like the kinky natural to plait it and start locking it with it.
Woop! Woop! Excited.

I love my natural hair and when I see weaves/weavons now I look at it like " I don't need those shiny stuffs, thank you".
Natural hair rocks big time! Exotic and soulful!
There is this Nigerian actress rocking natural hair powerfully nowadays, what's her name? (Nse Etim). I only want those soulful natural look right now.

PAPA AFRICA:

This has to be the most sophisticated natural updo hairstyle that I have ever seen. Very sophisticated and lovely, the fact that it's all natural makes it 10 times beautiful.
[size=14pt]I love i-t-t-t-t-t![/size]

You know my colleague was just telling me some hours ago that he doesn't allow his children watch WWE which is good. I like to watch the WWE even when I cringe sometimes watching them injure one another, kids should not be allowed to watch such stuffs like boxing, wrestling etc so that they don't imbibe such thinking that it is normal to beat out others like that.
Kids should not watch movies of gun toting and gun shooting. I see 4 year olds, 5 year olds making gun sounds imitating what they see in movies. I even see some parents buying gun toys for their babies, this is not right at all cause any mistake that allows a real gun into the hands of that kid may lead to sorrowful stories of shootings.
Just my thought, just my thought.

Nne m, why hurt ourselves when we can make one another happy?
Do have a great day Ojare.

yellowpawpaw:
What did u eat? Or rather did u will some dollars? I lv ur spirit! Can't help laughing.

Hahaaa
how you dey my sister? Au revoir

@tpia
I just realized that you modified your post raking and raking. As you can see i'm not in the mood to get down and dirty with you.
What upsets you and gets you angry angry like that? Jeez sweetie shake it all up and be happy. One more kiss for you Tippynwa, take care of you-u-uuuuuu

Yes madam.
TiiTii love, have a great weekend sweetheart and do loosen up a bit okay Baby. Muah muah Ivy blows Tippy a kiss and satchays out of the thread doing inyanga for Tpiah. Hahaha

tpia@:


you should learn to let your mouth take a back seat sometimes, and give common sense the floor.

you are too quick to jump into things, dont let it be your undoing.

The advice is of you, by you and for you----the one who opens every thread to insult and hurt others.

Undoing ko, do me ni
You are taking the online thing too far as to mention undoing. Get a grip woman, Jeez! Tpianwa sweet sweet. Haahaa, I can only but laugh right now. Quit amusing me acting too serious jor. Hugs Tippy

How are you girl? Have tried to pm/mail you but not succeeding. Hope you are doing fine?

Tpianwa, are you here?

Tpia sweet sweet, will chat with you later okay Baby. Take care

K Babes, goodnight/morning.

tpia@:
since i didnt put your name in the post, why are you acting as if you saw your moniker there?

chill.

my point is the situation has been rectified, people sometimes do not understand or care what others are experiencing because they do not walk in their shoes, you cant force an empathy gene into humans, its either they have it or they dont.

when they dont, they tend to act it out and feel conceited or 'better than' as we say in nigeria.

simple, i dont think there's anything to get hyper about.

Jide there seems to be a point Tpia is making here, you know.
Her post isn't really all jabs sometimes,I think that most times she has a point she is trying to drive home but that gets lost with the jabs she throws into things.

jidegirl12:
Duh?? Jeez I'm I'm just just done with you.
Just go away far from here Biko. Chei olorun ku ise.

Nne I don't understand Tpia at all. One moment you are gisting with her and having NL fun together with her, the next moment she is jabbing words at you as if you are enemies out there in real life. She has given me this her side jabs too such that i wondered whether I and Tpia quarelled or something. Anyway, I still like her all the same.

@Tpiah
tpia sweet sweet , how are you love? Hope cool? Are you still angry with me Sweetie, hope you are not? Come ere. Hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs------okay I will stop here so that you don't get angry with me right now. Hahaha. Tpianwa, i'm gonna open a thread for you so that we can have one of our big girls gists okay Baby.

Jide don't be angry with Tpia abeg, na my friend-o-o. No mind this her jabbings jor.

Jide, I read this online days ago and the write-up that came with the picture explained well that it wasn't deliberately done because the father excused the school and blamed the insensitivity on the part of the company that snapped the picture.

I mean somebody that truly feels for others would have thought twice about distancing that differently abled child from the school mates like that in that picture. I think that it isn't deliberate, it was just snapped by somebody that did not think in the direction others in that position would have thought. I read that the mum was very hurt about it but they eventually got the picture retaken with the child in the middle and the whole class warmly all around him.

Tammy13:

I wish i had posted this question a long time ago, so that way I could have read this response sooner. He left last night while I was sleep and went to her. He called me this morning asking was I mad and that he was coming home to me and how he's so dumb for keep hurting me, blah blah blah. I have a tracking device on him, so I can see where he is at all times, he has one on me also. But he KNEW i could see that he was over there, yet did not care. He ran to her anyway. It troubled me because we had a GOOD day, no arguing, had just made love and everything else. Yet he still couldnt resist himself. Yes, this was unexpected. i never wouldve imagined he would leave me while im sleeping to go be with her, when before bed he told me how much he loves me and how good of a wife Ive been. but now im throwing in the towel.

Your statement is very powerful for others who are also in a situation like this. I just wished I read it much sooner.

You mean that he did that?
Fresh out of your arms into the arms of another woman to spend the night with her?
What are you two doing? There is a need for the two of you to go back to the drawing table and place a hand on why you are married, whether you want to remain married etc I mean I don't understand or are you not married to him? Respect is seriously lacking in your relationship with him, this is disrespect of the highest order and too much for me to assimilate. I may return to your thread later perhaps then i can grasp this well.

You must be feeling unhappy and terrible about it all, do pull yourself together okay. Hugs to you. I think that at this point, it is not a bad thing if you involve your/his parents into the matter.

jidegirl12:

Nothing do you jare


You don't like it sis but karma's a biatch
She got EXACTLY what she deserves

osisi was right bout one thing tho... OP got mouth , dead roach for 3 months!!!! Haba!!!!

funrarawonlomamafurawonloogunje!!!

The Uchicha/cockroach part of the post is on another level altogether, it is true that you (the poster) seems to have gotten tired and started dealing with the matter in an "if-cleaning-is-below-you,-I-am-not-cleaning-after-you-anymore" yet it's on you that you left a cockroach lying around for 3 months. You are the wife, the position he has you in isn't a good one to be in at all but while trying hard to inculcate cleanliness in him letting things get to a drastic level of (sparring with him in an "I-ain't-cleaning-after-you,-if-you-like-dwell-in-your-filth" mode and leaving out cleaning of some parts of the house just to get back at him) may affect your marriage negatively. A man like that may not care if you let the Uchicha/roach stay in the house till next Xmas sef lol same thing with the used cotton wool especially if he gets heady too and decides to play the game with you to see who will out do who.

The wearing of pants that was used to wipe male wetness shouldn't happen at all, he shouldn't be allowed to wear such and if he puts it on before you can make him not to, you can get it off him immediately by maybe seductively leading him to the bed and removing it. If he doesn't wash his clothes himself and you have a method of doing laundry in the house, it is still your onus to see that such clothes are washed even if you don't do the washing yourself. I know it isn't easy taking care of the baby and the homefront, you also shouldn't clean after a grown man but while teaching him cleanliness you shouldn't allow yourself get frustrated to the point of leaving out your wifely domestic duties in order to spite him. If visitors come in and see roach carcass and bl**dy cotton wool on the floor, it's on you the wife. You are the one that will be seen as an untidy homemaker. You shouldn't have detailed things down to these 3 points because anybody reading these parts will stick those on you.I hope you get to free your mind off the lil anger against him on the matter and with a more open heart/quiet and firm tone make him over sha.

@Vikin
You guys are being funny now. I guess Nairaland fun makes up for the few other parts, whatever happens therein one can still get plenty humour out of it.

jidegirl12:

I dey oh my lovely cutie patuti I'm waiting for that single on iTunes oh, I promise to force at least 100 people to buy

FBI detectives full ground .... This one is a no brainer

Thanks, Love!

Kanye weiist is being attacked for using the name of the disease "Parkinson" in an unfeeling way as used in this his lyrics "Soon as I pull up and park the Benz / We get this b***h shaking like Parkinson’s.”

I like some of these rappers like Kanye West and Ricky Ross but when they make these stupid mistakes of not thinking about the effects of their lyrics, I don't sympathize with them. I mean how can Kanye West use that word like that knowing that his songs will be heard across the world and can sound offensive to others? In the case of Ricky Ross, i wondered what he was thinking when he sang "Put Molly all in her champagne, she ain’t even know it/I took her home and I enjoyed that, she ain’t even know it.” Didn't it sound to him like he r*ped the young lady in whose drink he doused molly in, he is even lucky he didn't get charged for that. High time they started being careful with the lines they drop as lyrics. Hey, come to think of it.
http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/news/rapper-kanye-west-attacked-by-parkinsons-uk-charity-over-inexcusably-stupid-shaking-lyric-on-track-from-new-album-yeezus-8665612.html

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Rapper Kanye West attacked by Parkinson's UK charity over 'inexcusably stupid' shaking lyric on track from new album Yeezus [/size]

Kanye West has been accused of ignorance and stupidity after the rapper mocked Parkinson’s disease sufferers on his new album.


The track "On Sight", from the album Yeezus, includes the lyric: “Soon as I pull up and park the Benz / We get this b***h shaking like Parkinson’s.”

The main symptoms of Parkinson’s disease are stiffness and shaking in the form of tremors.

Steve Ford, Chief Executive at Parkinson’s UK, said: “Kanye West has shown an inexcusable level of stupidity and cruelty towards people living with an incurable condition.

“Life with Parkinson’s is difficult enough without becoming fodder for insensitive celebrities who should know better, looking for their next big hit.

“People with Parkinson’s have to cope with intolerable social discrimination on a daily basis – often to the point where they are afraid to go out in public – and this sort of thoughtless, callous comment can only serve to make things even worse for them.”

The American Parkinson Disease Association called the song “distasteful and the product of obvious ignorance.”

The Yeezus album is being kept off the top spot by Irish newcomers Kodaline, according to midweek figures released by the Official Chart Company.

Meanwhile West and his partner Kim Kardashian are reported to have named their new born baby daughter Kaidence Donda West

This thread is twisting into different moods with every new page. It's hilarious at the moment and I hope we all laugh it off and leave out the mockery parts but some thing tells me that it may get to another FBI/detective level in which the real poster is searched out and revealed.

Poster you ought to have known better than replying your friendly posters with such sharp retorts like you gave Coogar, knowing that any misstep from you will go down like it did.

@Jidegirl
Jide Babes, how you is?

This story looks to me like something that was made up to check out the reactions of people to it.

If the story is real, I will say that your sister is nice and doing a good thing by supporting the Nanny to get drugs that she needs. I know that some other persons will have gotten angry and mad at the Nanny for not informing them of her health status which is why it is even good for procurement agencies to have such domestic helps run test before employment or even the family request that tests be done before recruiting domestic helps. It wasn't nice that she hid her health condition, she is not even supposed to work as a Nanny. There are other jobs that such a person can do instead of Nanny jobs.

Now to the very important part of it all, it is good that this lady is not made to feel terrible about her health condition by dropping her like hot potato. Your sister is already doing a great job taking her to the hospital. She can go further and show her understanding by explaining well to her that she sympathizes with her condition but that Nanny job isn't perfect for her, that she should hold out for sometime while she helps her find a job. She can keep in contact with her communicating sometimes and you all can search job adverts like the ones here in nairaland. You may succeed in helping her get something else to do, this may go a long way in not making her feel like the world hates her now that she has HIV. We all are the world Ojare. A little compassion here, a little understanding goes a long way in making the world a better place for others and us all.

@Osisinwa
---making jabs at her husband's stuff already wasn't cool at all. You did not even give the thread days or months to dry off before making fun of her over it all. Babyosisi don't disappoint me Ojare. If we laugh at people and their problems, it is insensitive and can affect them in one way or the other. Let up dearie. Quit making Coogar laugh at the woman like crazy.

Coogar abeg relax for the woman o-o-o, jeez! If we laugh at people and their problems here you may end up not seeing threads to have fun with your lovely Gifs.

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SniperInADiaper: How does a 16 year old girl know what impressive sex is?

kulyie: like she nor no wetin prick be or what it is used for

Hahaaa
Una funny o-o-o, Oh so na 16 year old the Ogbakirija(sharp sha sha wife) be sef? They will be doing her a favour giving her a divorce so that she will grow up some more---get some skills/certificates, be able to care for herself before being married away and to think that she got married away to a man she does not like sootaay she turned him into a sexually starved mallam. I can laugh right now.