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Religion / Re: Praying Loudly Vs Praying Quietly: What Do You Guys Think. by LadyTC: 5:24am On Jan 04, 2013 |
But to my suprise this verse contradicted their teachings Mat 6:6: But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret, and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.[/a] Even the so called praying in tounges is a contradiction to this verse [b]Mat 6:7: But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen [do]: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking. Today you'll see so many christians shouting: ba ba ba ba.. Bo bo bo bo... Ray ray ray ray x100 And the last verse to prove my point; Mat 6:8: Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him. [/quote] This is right but at the same time depends on how grieved a person is that is praying and wants to call out to GOD. But it should be done in your prayer closet. Praying in your prayer closet and praying aloud is also good to be honest in chasing demons away and evil spirits. When you have been in a spiritual battle you will know this. Regardless when you plead the blood of JESUS in your mind this is still extremely effective. GOD Is mighty unstoppable he sees each tear, knows every thought. He is an awesome GOD he reigns |
Family / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Propose by LadyTC: 10:14pm On Jan 03, 2013 |
eagle,eye: No be quarrel ohh but I vex how u come dey ask this kian question nah. Abeg in this case I think her background situation is irrelevant if u talk say she dey cheat or she abuse your mama and papa e.t.c. Abeg the girl be like say him be correct babe so move forward simples! |
Family / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Propose by LadyTC: 10:01pm On Jan 03, 2013 |
eagle,eye: OP you have issues sit down and read what you wrote over and over again.so if her background is what you state she was an unwanted pregnancy that makes her unsuitable?? WOuld a girl with married parents who is spoilt and sle*ps around be a better candidate for you? This is not even a question, the stay banning my comments and allow threads like this survive. Smh so many people think marriage is a wlk in the park. |
Romance / Re: Very Low Self-esteem Please Advice! by LadyTC: 7:53am On Jan 03, 2013 |
@kenyattaMoore: Dear miss low selfesteem, Nobody is perfect we all have flaws, you have found a guy that wants to marry you, not because of your facial beauty, he must see all the beautiful things about you and loves you for them, do not fret but give thanks to GOD. The so called beautiful girls you compare yourself to don't have a man as mature as yours who understands loving someone is not just about being facial acceptable by the world. Thank GOD you have a face somepeople don't. Give thanks to GOD. |
Romance / Re: New Discovery 2months After Wedding! by LadyTC: 7:45am On Jan 03, 2013 |
drpompay: The problem he is having now is that his wife is not admitting doing anything wrong, she claims she is innocent and only did d chatting to catch fun, only for him to discover that she travelled once to her parents place and went to see a guy she had never met b4. Now she claims, that was d only guy of d lots she met actually and that nothing happened and she was not trying out other options. The problem is, he trusted her with his life, and now he thinks he can never trust her again Hmmmn well I guess she won't own up to what cannot be proven. But deep inside am sure she is sorry, but at the same time its best she owns up to everything if he is mature enough to handle it and forgive her. But she does not want to lose him that's why she won't own up to it.of course he cannot trust her she has to earn that back. |
Romance / Re: New Discovery 2months After Wedding! by LadyTC: 7:42am On Jan 03, 2013 |
drpompay: Well, for d HIV story, i went with him for d confirmation test and was there when he called her. Also, b4 now he used to boast to us that he had d most faithful and trust worthy girl in d world, though he had his own short coming. All through the period of saga he never slept with any. Even told his wife then that he cannot afford to transmit it to her. Well thanks for d advice. Will invite him to nl to read dis comments and decide himself IMO I feel that this guy, will resent her he probably already does. Because the wife he wanted was a virgin, this is the problem.he believed he took her virginity and she was perfect in his eyes.and had no other man in her life. If he knows he. Can carry on without her irritating and annoying him then they should seek help. Am sure she already irritates him now and he resents her.he either forgives her forgets it and never bring it up again or let her go so she can start afresh quickly. Am sure she is remorseful at this point in time though. |
Romance / Re: New Discovery 2months After Wedding! by LadyTC: 7:28am On Jan 03, 2013 |
I don't even know how to advice. People should be careful. Many marry for the wrong reasons. From this post sounds like she was desperate to marry any guy with good income and her clock was ticking.virtue is not just about being a virgin, so if he thought that was his criteria for picking his wife, well.......virtue is foundation of principle and good moral being. Sounds like she just wanted a ring am not so sure this woman will be somebody that has intergrity. If u say u will stand by somebody then do so, why keep your options open. Its better to say I can't stand by you than to say I will but you are making other plans. Look if times get hard what is ur assurance that she will be by ur side 100percent. Then again I think that this HIV story about pricking needle is dodgy. The guy was not faithful to her. To each their own. You should both really go for therapy. I don't see trust in this relationship and that is a big problem if you don't want to get divorced soon.cos both of you won't be happy in this marriage. My #epistle kai 6 Likes |
Car Talk / Re: Driving With Or Without Shoes by LadyTC: 8:12am On Dec 30, 2012 |
Lexusgs430: Well not all women because I don't ave one, although I can drive with some of my flat shoes and not some, even some slippers I can't drive with so I just take off one foot. Some shoes are slippers are uncomfortable to drive with. They slip off your feet or u can barley feel the pedal, safety first. All this guy man!! |
Romance / Re: What Did You Give Your Partner For Xmas by LadyTC: 6:57pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
stev007: I didn't give her anyfin dis christmas boh she sen me dis gorgeous pair of prada palms/pecker #dont rily know whotcha call it in ya hood# plus dis designer perfume. Mi finking of sending ha nice flowers as new year gift with sumfin like 200naira worth of recharge card for ha calls Isinit gud? Loooool gosh rolling on my bed in laughter |
Romance / Re: A Woman's Past Relationships by LadyTC: 6:48pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
larrymoore: Pleas n please l am nt interested in ur past relationship, l only need ur true self because l ve my ugly and unmentionable past which l may nt be earnestly n honestly detailed. We all had our mistakes while growing up n the most regretable mistakes come from dating or nay relationship.Co-sign |
Romance / Re: What Did You Give Your Partner For Xmas by LadyTC: 3:11pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
amdrowning: I don't know if this thread had been created before but I feel we could all have fun.Even those that didn't give anything can still comment. Lmao so you are dissapointed....me I don't celebrate christmas.so nothing. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Play Hard 2 Get But Fall 2 Deep In Luv When Gotten? by LadyTC: 3:06pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
larrymoore: l understood ur point quite well, bt u ladies pretend mostly and end up discouraging some good seekers. Surely, some Ladies are pretentious while some guys are dubious.Yup yup I agree |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Play Hard 2 Get But Fall 2 Deep In Luv When Gotten? by LadyTC: 10:27am On Dec 28, 2012 |
larrymoore: All these games are annoying.....would be great If there was more realness going on. what do u mean here, lady T? Well am just saying that if you like someone, don't pretend act like u don't. If u ave ever heard the saying first you play the game with ur head then your heart. I guess I just find it long. Why people pretend not to be interested when they are not and make the whole process long.why can't guys and girls just be real if u like each other go ahead. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:55am On Dec 28, 2012 |
Mynd_44:My bad! Noted! |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Play Hard 2 Get But Fall 2 Deep In Luv When Gotten? by LadyTC: 9:50am On Dec 28, 2012 |
Because sometimes we are genuinely not interested. And if we give a guy a chance to get to know him and we find out there is something that really attracts us to him I.e his personality, character He treats us right E.t.c. Then there is potential of the heart being involved. I really don't think its rocket science, not all girls play hard to get is what am saying. All these games are annoying.....would be great If there was more realness going on. |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:43am On Dec 28, 2012 |
sexkillz: I was not in any form of disagreement with what you said earlier. . .Okay noted!! |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:42am On Dec 28, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Well when you said couples are advised to have seperate bedrooms, that automatically means to me she has her room he has his own room, hence they sleep in seperate bedrooms my bad! I mean what else does that mean. |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:32am On Dec 28, 2012 |
afam4eva:That's not what we are saying, some people work differently we just like having time to ourselves, we need that time alone or we might feel suffocated and we work better when we are alone, we focus more with everything life has to offer.I quite agree with mynd 44 aswell. About it being a job cos u have to work at it to make it work when u are past ur honeymoon phase.in that sense its a job. |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:18am On Dec 28, 2012 |
sexkillz: In that case, space would refer to mobile devices, "me-time" and of course, when she is in the toilet. Not my own me time. If there s a spare room in the house you can always go there are rejuvinate, re-energise. But not sleeping in the same room IMHO is not a good thing and can cause distance between couples. You can always go stay with a family reason you are going to spend time with them. Am just saying if you are in the same house and you dnt stay in the same bedroom that's not good. Except you started ur marriage as you will have seperate rooms and you both felt that way from day 1. |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:06am On Dec 28, 2012 |
Mynd_44: True. When you are too in one another, you will run out of things to talk about or suddenly you start getting the feeling that you are losing yourself and becoming more of the other person.I don't really know about seperate bedrooms though that is a bit much. I think there is enough space in the house or should be to get some me time. I feel couples if married should make sure they sleep in the same bedroom. |
Romance / Re: Personal Space Makes A Relationship Last by LadyTC: 9:02am On Dec 28, 2012 |
Hahaha I like this topic, cos me I always need my space. |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 2:03pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
2jideofor: This was written by this specie. I am clearly spelling this out 4 d ppl on dis thread. I can't argue with ppl whose intelligence level is below par.i have more success talking to my dog Due to IT's intelligence level amadioha is the only curse word in IT's sentences. IT can't have an intelligent conversation/ argument without cursing. Notice how i never said IT is poor i said i guess IT is poor, due to IT's evil intent and ITsaying IT cant wait to bleep girls around the place.also notice how it digresses and tells a tale about IT's friend smh. I ave had 3 hours sleep and I can still read all the garbage it wrote.i wonder who the fool is like I said before I reverse every curse sent back to the sender and I seal it with the blood of JESUS |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
mee42: @ LadyTC Honestly I schemed through your post and its still what h have rewritten she is a friend. And u also know she is not a wh**re. Well it's good you put her in a cab home becos you know your strength. And no I can't lodge in a hotel with a guy in the same room. And that maybe becos I am lucky I will just get my own room if am in a place where I have no house to go to. And yes I can stay at my bf's residence does not mean we have sex or have to have sex. Bt that's me this has nothing to do with me. I feel she thinks u just want her for sex and if all she wanted Was to use u then she deleted u cos she has no use for u. |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 12:27pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
luvmijeje: Op I pray say u no use girlfriend do wife and use wife do girlfriend. Thank you my sister I can't even believe the effrontery he is actually defending his actions. Smh btw 2jideofor since u know me and am a type. I guess I know I have a business with a job ontop of tht and my account is fat right?? Smh I wonder why am responding to a child but its all good. If you want come and drink breast milk should make you feel better. |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 12:22pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
mee42: @ladyTC, You called yourself a loser. I said look at ur life lmaoo you have children you are philandering and proud to come write that here smh. Where did u say u picked her up from the road in ur first post or maybe that's what you do. You said a friend called you and asked for help. My thing is if you don't want to help her do not help her stop asking for sex and calling it you want to date her. This separates the men from grown boys, you MR are just a grown boy. Get wisdom! I never said the girl was right or wrong yes she used you because she was not interested but you assumed in ur head she will open he legs for you. It's because of Nigerian men like you a lot of good girls can't stand the sight of Nigerian men vomit! Someone called to ask for help instead of saying am sorry I CNT u think well I can get sex. So u r not a friend then. because she needed a place to sleep at night and u booked a hotel automatically she is a wh**eYou think there is pride in having no self control. Smh |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 12:14pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
2jideofor: Do me a favour and lock the thread. I definitely hit a nerve you are already angry. and you know me so well that i am a type. see how you reason.that demon that is speaking inside you i plead the blood if JESUS against it. You wrote yourself you where poor in not so many words bt then again I am responding to someone whose intelligence level is below par it's not if close to that of a monkeys. Every curse u sent I reverse and return it back to the send and seal it with the blood of JESUS. |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 9:02am On Dec 12, 2012 |
190: u know u like it stop embarrassing me like this |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 8:57am On Dec 12, 2012 |
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Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 8:56am On Dec 12, 2012 |
2jideofor: who made him bad? The you hear him. Why are you attacking her she said the truth. So because of his past he must be the devil incarnate. And I guess u wish to become one once you make ur so called money, I guess u are poor now cry us a river boo hoo. Just know that actions have consequences. Instead if you to focus on your life find a good girl that doesn't care about all of that. Bt no all you have are evil intentions in your heart. I pray for your soul. Self pity smh |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 8:48am On Dec 12, 2012 |
190: I know you are just a joker! |
Romance / Re: Who Is Wrong/right? by LadyTC: 8:29am On Dec 12, 2012 |
2jideofor: Who let all this termites out of the woods? I knew they were asleep early this morning. By their fruits you shall know them smh |
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