Em good people of naira land am i the only that think "little miss just lost her virginity" here,is a bit rude, insulting people is not the way to go, truth is wat u did mistake or not does not warrant applaus from us, when u post stuffs here u should be ready for any reply, honest or not,

by the way you mention you love ur boyfriend a lot, are u really sure.the way u threw ur "FLOWER" away makes me doubt it.plus u didnt ve 2 meet this DEFLOWER at the hotel thats wat cinemas,resturants and bars are for, so pls cut the innocent act girl, u went to get laid and u did, hope u enjoyed it though.

but since u looking 4 advice i will say, tell ur boyfriend the truth but dont hope for much, u still quite young and you have the rest of ur life ahead of u, so if things dont work out at least u ve learnt a valuable lesson .which will help u in futhure, ie cute does not always mean open UR legs, and its not wise to meet a guy behind close doors untill u sure u wanna take it 2 second base.(especially one u met online he could ve being a serial killer or a rapiest 4 all u know)

well good luck girl, hope things work out 4 u

PS NO HATE MAILS PLS AM ALLERGIC

principles:

that vision and mission (na Wa)

sandy4real:

please do you know how to answer it.tell me please

no offence guys but i just think if you having problem answering that question as a graduate, then theres a bigger problem OH.cos its just a simple common sense question.

my dear life has tot me that if u love someone let em know, life is too short for you guys to hold grudges .do be bold and tell her she probably feels the same way about you , but pride is holding her back or u, so let ur instints take control, i say go 4 it.wat ve u got 2 loose, totally nothing.good luck mate.

hey thank GOD am not the only one that dont like that, was begining to think i ve a problem.plus all my pal think something not right with me, my boyfriend does that too, in fact i nicknamed him clingy, even when he is driving,we in a resturant or we in the shops, infact each time i complain he says its cos i dont want people to know we dating.which is wrong cos i love him and am so so happy 2 have him, but i just think some of us girls are not WIRED that way.i know he has serious security issues cos he cant stand 4 a guy 2 even look at me twice, so girl i hope thats not the issue with ur guy

i think the question is wat kind of girl will let her pic be use as a public spectacle in that way, do they pay them for that or something, it seems like a cheap shot at fame 2 me, but come 2 think of it i wonder if anyone remembers them after they ve read the paper

@ poster dammn girl, really curious as to why you told the one you love, am i the only girl thinkin that wasnt the smartest thing to do, i see u let that talk about honesty being the best policy get in ur head, you know wat i always say before u tell someone something or do something to some1 ask urself how will u react if it was u, do u think u will forgive ur boyfriend if he was the 1 that got someone pregnant, wat did u expect a hug and for him 2 start fighting for patarnity right with the other dude, well since u in this already i wanna say good luck girl u will need it.can see the guy forgiving you, doestnt even happen in the movies. and to those other ladies out there this is lesson 101, we ve 2 be SMART there are other ways to deal with stuffs like this a hint, (no one had to know)

oh and girl hope the sex was atleast good , hate to think u going tru all this when it wasnt even worth it,

osegwu:

Just tell her to fu----ck off
that she has emptied your tank

thats rather shallow, dont u think,

@ poster first of all telling a girl u love her just cos she said so to u is plain wrong.when a girl says that u dont ve 2 reciprocate. u can just smile and give her a kiss.i love u is a word that has deep meaning and shouldnt be use lightly am sure u dont know it signifies commitment. all u ve 2 do is tell her how u really feel its not the first time situations like this ve occured and it wont be the last,

as 4 ur friend i wonder wat hold he had on u 2 tell u the relationship with his cousine int over till he says so.not good, no one has the right 2 say that 2 u.when he is not the one in the relationship or did he pay u 2 date his sister or something, dont take that shit from him

cheers mate

@ poster
the fact that she doesnt say i love u shouldnt be ur main concern but how she shows her feelings 2 u, take guys 4 example most can say i love you on first dates when we all know its not true , pls concentrate on other tell tale signs of love, someone like me, i can say anything 2 get wat i want, but i try 2 avoid i love u cos its being misused over time, cheers

my dear at least she told u, which says alot 4 her.mistakes do happen believe me.wine flowing freely,smooth talk in her ear be4 u know in BANG.my advice is not to dumb her cos believe me bro i can bet u the only thing different about the next one is that she wont tell you, just try to talk things over with her and let her know how u really feel, i dont think the fact that most of her pals are guys.is that terrible.85% of my pals are guys,i do not ve sexual feeling 4 them i learn alot from em and i trust em more .with all the female backstabbing,boyfriend snatching and bitching who can blame her, so bro follow ur heart and good luck with ur girl

girl kick his broke ass to the curbs, he is a scrub a good guy will not ask if he doesnt give, much less get upset with u. most real men i know pride themselves in how well they take care of their lady, pls u deserve better,

pls stop this thread, there is no ground for comparism , omotola is a complete woman, a true beauty, indeed

@ poster,
poor darling i can feel your pain right now, but before you do anything rash like let ur jealousy and ego get the better of you, find out why she cheated on you, if she met the guy and slept with him 2 days later there must be something the guy did right that you still aint doing properly in all the time u guys being going out, so talk to her and find out cos it may help u in future relationships, like i always say most women ve reasons for cheating,

futhermore its funny to see people condeming and saying cast her out, thats really hipocrital i always say "who they catch na im be thief" how many girls or guys can say they are not guilty of this sin,

pls mr poster, know wat u want and dont let one mistake ruin wat u ve, and believe me there are no saints out there.dont be decieved, the angel u know, we all humans,

for those of you who say stay for love uncle Shakespare will be proud, as for me i will advise my brothers,uncles,friends etc to leave her and pray for her from afar, am sure the second and third guys stayed and believed in love too.ve u guys not read the concubine by who was that again, my tot is that theres enough stress in this world why knowingly go lookin 4 trouble,

@ poster
my dear what you need to do first of all is to sit down with ur girl and discuss her issues for example since she is rude and annoying its might just be a cry for attention, or maybe something u doing is upsetting her, for example is there anything she is always complaing of lately, maybe there a habit of urs that annoying her.do talk it over

futher more there are many ways 2 deal with anger that will prevent u from harming another mans child, like count 1-10 u know thats stuff for me i just work away 4 a while


good luck man,

rawlings:

who said i have heard enough?let me still hear what u going to say againokie?

hey mr poster(RAWLINGS) you keep encouraging people to advice u more and stuff i am just wondering if it would not be best for u to concentrate on your studies for now, since u just 22 and still in the university u ve many years to go, either decide to face ur studies now or see the tread "will you marry a poor jobless man" some of the comments there will help hasten ur mind on wat u want , lol

join the queue honey

@ POSTER

PLS TELL YOU FRIEND TO GO JUMP INTO THE OCEAN, WHERE DOES HE THINK HE IS IN A DREAM OR IN THE PAGES OF MILLS AND BOOMS.THIS IS THE REALL WORLD AND I DONT WANNA BELIEVE ANYBODY CAN BE THIS SILLY.HOW DOES HE EXPECT IT WILL EVER WORK.I FEEL FOR THE LADY HE IS ABOUT TO MARRY SHE DOES NOT DESERVE THIS SOB, NO ONE DOES , I WONDER HOW THEY WILL BE HAPPY IF HE IS GOING 2 STILL VE A CRUSH ON HER SISTER, MY PRAYER IS MAY THIS NEVER BE MY PORTION.MAY THIS KIND OF GUY PASS US BY, IF YOU FEEL ME SAY AMEN.

Ok for those of u in doubt let me tell u a little story my dad has this pals who practically disowned his first daughter why? He trained her in school she read engr made a first class after youth service she met this dude, who had third class, wayward looking, as in full nfa she said she must marry oh .parents disagreed and she ran away from home. her mom cried and her dad let her married, to rent a house my dads friend contributed, to pay bills same thing. she got pregnant poor dad had 2 pay hospital balls, so it went till the man got tired and decided the daughter will not kill him.and he washed his hands off her, question is will u blame such a dad? Is it fair to put your father tru stuffs like that? Tell me why i should marry a poor jobless man?

For those of u who preach love, i heard some shops in the new city mall/shoprire etc now allow you to buy stuffs like pampers. school books and food and pay with love,

ladies and gentlemen, its good to love but lets be realistic here oh, why marry a jobless man when ur mates are marrying guys that can take good care of them, if na curse go for deliverance oh

two years did i hear u say two years mr man please leave the girl alone am sure u far older than her and the reason u still hanging on is because u ve not gotten between her legs, do u want her 2 carry a placard first please move on,

alinco2:

its apity u can't even express yourself.
guess d interviewer was interested.
take another look at what u posted, right
from the subjet to the message.just a bunch of crap.
interview yourself first

MY GOD YOU SOUND REALLY BITTER HOPE U OK.R U SURE ITS JUST THE POST BODERING YOU, PLS TAKE IT EASY OH, THOUGH THE POSTER MADE SOME OBVIOUS MISTAKES, ALSO NOTICE HE SHORTEN SOME WORDS LIKE SKUL-SCHOOL,ODA -OTHER WTC
P.S TAKE A LOOK AT YOUR OWN POST I THINK U ALSO NEED 2 INTERVIEW UR SELF,

@POSTER,
DONT WORRY IT HAPPENS ALOT PLUS AM SURE.THAT WONT BE THE ONLY INTERVIEW , JUST BE POSITIVE, AND THINGS WILL TRUN OUT GREAT.GOOD LUCK

Beautygyal:

@ Gnature lol yeah its tru i was just wonderin, if thas why she named herself tha!

Beautygyal:

@ lovestinks, that is soo sweet, now i no why u named yourself as loveSTINKS!

hey hey hey, if u wanna know why i use lovestinks as a screen name just ask , lol.well its cos the same S.O.B(Son Of a Bitch) started screwing my friend.he asked 4 forgiveness claiming she was the one coming on 2 him, was really hurt 4 a while but now am just great.and with a better man.just wish he can cook 2

so ok with the name already and concentrate on the topic at hand.

@poster please can you tell me how you sent your application tru to glo, will really be gratetfull

HEY GIRL ARE U SURE U DID NOT GET MY EX , I HAD THIS DUDE ONCE THAT DID SAME.AND I LEFT HIM 4 SOMEONE ELSE WHEN HE REALISED I WAS SO OVER HIM AND WAS HAPPY WITH MY NEW MAN, WONT BELIEVE THE INSULTS.BUT IT WAS FUNNY 2 ME COS HE WAS OBVIOUSLY HURT AND NOT EVERYBODY CAN HANDLE REJECTION WELL, MAYBE THATS HIS CASE, IF U STILL LOVE HIM AND WANT HIM BACK GET HIM 2 APOLOGISE AND BE SORRY 4 WAT HE SAID, IF NOT HE IS NOT WORTH IS, HES JUST ANOTHER LOOSER.AND UR LIFE MUST GO ON.

my ex was a really good cook and we use 2 have cooking competitions which made being in the kitchen fun.for example if we preparing stuffs like fried rice .i will handle the rice and he the chicken or wat ever we were using.last 2 finish gets to do the dishes.pus he had a way of kissing my forhead that made headaches go away,

hmmmmn let me think. nope

i dont know if love is blind oh but for me.mine has done laser eye surgery,wears contacts and still wears glasses, wat else can i say

Ashamed to say it but yes i ve, the love was 2 much it was killing me,he got 2 possesive,dominering,at a time it was scary, believe me it was, for example once i said i wanted a break he got real sick, his family had 2 come beg me, he use 2 cry alot and stuff , this kind of love is like fatal attraction, dont want anybody 2 kill me and kill him self NO SIR.i want a guy 2 love me but he should be in control of his emotions

omosefe:

I will kisss him if am so attracted to him.
there is nuttin wrong about it.

WORD GIRL

first of all having read tru this tread carefully i will like 2 say its dumb, the truth is every one has different principles they live by .kiss or no kiss, so no need condeming other.just give ur opinion and rest, no social debate needed, no be church we de.

secondly wat century are some of these posters, the 15th .expecially the dude thats talking about saving first kiss till u say i do, i think 2 much Hypocrisy here. in nija every body wanna potary being a good girl and all thats how u find single mothers of one claiming virginity. , little wonder that the so called goodie goodie or should i say holier than thous are the one that wen i guy break their heart they wanna commit sucided.(cos u feel u gave him ur most priced treasure)and stuff

people should be honest and express true feeling, lifes 2 short 2 short change ur self, kissin dont make u a LovePeddler
P.S no hate mails pls am allergic

hey people we ve 2 be honest here, if the mood is right wont u(as in red wine.expensive dinner,stroll in the park holdin hands etc)?, besides i would ve know him 2 some extent be4 i even go on a first date with him, (but i never go more than a kiss cos if u do rush these stuff u tend 2 regret it)

no dearie by all means they should, but not true me, by the way r u one?