@ Poster, So sorry for the loss of your baby, the Lord will give you many more children. Thank you for standing by your wife these trying perion, God will bless and strenghthen you. It shall be well.

@ OP, Like your mum said, Patience is a virtue, wait because u will get married.Just watch,pray and remain focused.

It doesn't matter where or how they met, as long as the chemistry is right and they both have what each other wants in a partner, they can go ahead and marry. The most important thing is LOVE and TRUST. If these is found in the relationship, they re good to go.

@ Poster, There's nothing wrong  in waiting to hear from God, she should have known all these years if she wants to marry you or not, but i think she doesn't love you enough to marry you, or she has someone else she thinks she loves and would want to settle down with, but whatever comes out of it, be strong and courageous. IT IS WELL.

I think it is better you tell Tunde about the escapades of Dupe before she ruins his life, and he will never forgive you for introducing a LovePeddler to him.
"If you were in his shoes and you were not told , how would you feel when you found out"

This is really really sad. I wonder what this country will become in the next 15 years, if we continue like this.
May their souls rest in peace.

She is a brave woman.May their soul rest in peace.

sorry o, you are married, learn how to your live with your wife, since you said she loves you, you can work on yourself and reciprocate her love. you were not dragged to the altar when you exchanged your marital vows. .

My dear, i don't think you should go back to your former employer, because if you do, he will use you to win his contract and faustrate you out of the job, or set you up.
Continue where you are, and work your way to the top through diligence and hardwork, THE lORD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH.

Give her some time, then go back and talk to her, if she doesn't bulge, forget about her and move on with life. it's sad but then, life has to on. Take heart dearie, shit happens sometimes. cheers