Katy86:

hello mamken,

Where do you live and how long have you spent in Nigeria and where?

Did you give your children something against malaria ?


My boyfriend told me about one beach where he wanted to bring us to. He said it was so beautiful. I think he called it barbeach or something  

But when we check the internet we saw all the picture of poor people living like animals in small  I can not even call that houses, at the beach   And on th eother site there was the rich people who had more than enough to enjoy their lifes.   Sorry but this make me sick.

How you explain that to your children?
How you explain that some people live like kings and some like rats?

barbeach in lekki, ein naturspektakel!

do u need to travel to africa to see people living like rats and others like kings?
this is what happen all over the world. even in germany some people r living in the streets or in houses that look like a sheds and other r enjoying in some villas at the sea. . .isnt it?

Katy86:


But the most important thing is that my children are so small. I told it before. One is 5 the other one 1 year and 12 month. What should I do when they get ill there? What should I do when something happen? Like accident or snake bite them, oh when I start thinking about this I am going crazy. I am a typical mother who sees dangers for her children everywhere

katy, irgendwie bist du echt lustig,
some europeans still have that picture of africa. . .

AFRICA = Jungle, wild animals, cannibals walking around the bush with banana skirt. . .  

check this thread. . . .

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-118277.0.html

altough i know i'm going to get stoned again for my next post, i'm gonna take the risk. . .

i travel to nigeria every year and i never feel in danger, nether for me nor for my children.
my first boy traveled to nigeria when he was 1 year old and my second boy 1 and a half.
we enjoy the weather, the walks on the beach, the fresh food, the hospitality, the church services (its something u have to experience), the pampering of the family, . . etc.

as a tourist u have to keep to some rules, no matter what country u r traveling to. if u do so, theres no fear.

in an i.r. relationship it is very important for the child to identify himself with the fathers and the mothers country and to have a healthy relation with both cultures.

Katy, the day u decided to play with ur mans d!ck and to have babies as a teenager,  u should have known what's comming up to u.

i wonder ur man is talking abt nigeria the way he does. perhaps hes doin it intentionally coz he doesnt want u to visit nigeria with him?

i wish u could see a future with the father of ur children. . . .

good luck

whats ur age again!?!? 

so, enough for today. . . 

bye bye, c u next week

MZ, still not tired?!?!  

but i must admit, u r a good storyteller. . .  
wondering where u got all the things u claim i've said. . .  

i'm not comming down to ur level anyway. . .
u r good enough in disgracing urself alone. why should i help u . .  

sweet potato
just let her continue whit that buffoonery. finally she found a sense to her life. . .
ive still not understand where this farce started from . . .

MzDarkSkin:

[size=18pt]mamken[/size] or mamaken you can go fck and slap yourself.
i see what you are all about. I dont represent all black women
but I would put a girl like you in check for trying to come on AN AFRICAN site
putting yourself on a pedestal like you schit golden eggs. Just because one or two
IGNORANT and self loathing african men manage to make you feel like you are
somebody doesn't mean you must pass your place especially with me. How dare you
even think to try to glorify in something like this when black women are being disrespected
and then when it is all good you want to pretend to be a 'white sister'. You have some nerve
talking out of your face about:

[size=13pt]"it's now i understand what "black women too much like shakara" means. . .[/size] "

are you paying any of our bills? are you fending for any of us? so since when are we obligated to
give two schits about how you see us when you are with a black man because you are second
choice? Don't make me show my heavy nyash on this site cause you haven't seen the best
of me. Someone like you who can't even use the spell check function wants to come to an African
forum and 'skin teeth' like you are cute. I don't know what horse schit you are being fed but if you think
for one second you are better than a black woman I will lend you my health insurance card so you can get your
head checked. Damn bright! Quishi! Mussi mad to rasclat.

ehen  
now u r showing ur real face. . .

keep it up sis . . .  

and btw, i dont give a fu//ck abt what u r writing. . .
pls kiss my big, white, golden egg sh!tting nyash. . . ur "brothers" use to worship

pleep:

hmm, people an Niaraland are much to foward and agressive.

thank u!

MzDarkSkin:


Mamken I dont know what your point on being on an African site is but if it is to
'show off' and advertise I.R. dating you are in a sea full of sharks and I can and will
be the alpha female shark if necessary  but I am not trying to go there so with that
being said. . .
[size=14pt]
END THIS TOPIC OOOOOOOOOOO!

IT IS REDUNDANT AND THE BICKERING GOES NO WHERE!

THERE ARE FAR MORE BLACK MEN WHO APPRECIATE AND PREFER

BLACK WOMEN THAN OTHER WISE OK? LET IT GOOOOOOO!

size]

clap for urself MZ . . . 
usually u r more rational and read all posts carefully. that wasnt the case here. . . guess u girls r on ur period 
tell me where in this thread i've offendet any of u black women or even just spoke to any of u!?!?!
is it not tipiah that is nagging on my enemy!?!?

so please u people don bring this ur wahala near me ooo . . .

and btw, girls, u r not really helping ur fellow mates with this kin behaviour.
it's now i understand what "black women too much like shakara" means. . .

shark, goldfish or trout . . . dont be ridicolous pls 

wish u all a pleasant and PEACEFULL day

cheers
mamaken

tpiah!:


^is there a particular reason why i must like you?

care to share what it is?

well. . .

i'm sympathetic
i'm kind
i'm sincere
i'm honest
i'm lovely

u still dont like me?

ok, then do me a favour. . .
avoid me. . . 

i've noticed that u r looking for my attention . . .

why dont u like me, hun?

sweet potato, if hes the right man for u, nothing can change it. . .

all the people who criticized my relationship and got married years after me, with their own pure race, r now divorced and single mothers.
but my man is still by my side keeping me shining!

an advice i can give to the ones who r living in a multicultural/biracial relationship is:
even if its difficult, dont give a poo abt what others think or say abt u. even if it's your mother . . .keep on going your way!

wish u all a wonderfull day

Hallo Leilana

Ich denke auf dieser Website findest  du alle nötigen Infos.

http://nigeriaembassygermany.org/consular_forms.htm

Unter "Passpost renewal" steht nirgends, dass mit Visa bezahlt werden muss.
Vielleicht möchte dein Freund den neuen E-Pass bestellen. Hierfür habe ich von bekannten gehört, dass Sie via Internet den Pass bestellen mussten und dann einen Termin bekamen. In der Embassy wurden sie dann mit einem speziellen Gerät fotografiert.

Versucht euch doch bei Bekannten Infos zu holen.

Liebe Grüsse
mamaken

i'm sorry, i cant read all this bla bla bla, no time for that.

my last statement in this thread. . .

i'm sorry if i offendet anybody in anyway. it was absolutly not my intention.
actually i'm here for fun and to kill some time at work before i get back home to my family.
i'm not here to argue or fight anybody and i categorically separe private live and internet.
i blame the "white lady" living in the hope to find a solution to their miserable relation between her and her nigerian boyfriend here on NL. and i've seen more than one post treating this topic.
i can assure u, that not all relationships between white and black r out of profit. some men and women just enjoy beeing together apart from the color of their skin, the size of their abdala, the tightness of their p0ssie or the skills both of them bring to bed.

wish u all a nice day. . . .

Freiburger:

My own mother don't even care when someone says, ''white women are better than black women in bed'' but i see most ladies out here getting mad you can even sense thir fraustrations. funny

u sound sensefull. . .

oh please. . .
i do speak and write 4 languages, forgive me if my english isnt up to ur level.
i promise, ill work harder to meet ur expcetations. . .

no problem . . .
u caught me!!!

ok, ive got u.
u dont like the way i sound. . .

no problem, i'll try to sound "whiter" for u. . .

tpiah!:

this person doesnt sound white, imo.

after spending half of my life with a nigerian, how do u want me to sound?  

ok. . .

i'm happy u people found ur target for the day. . .
keep on beefing . .

as i've said before. . .
Amaka i'm through with u. . .
and tpiah i didnt even start with u. . .

so ladies, what r u looking for?  

. . . and now?

Amaka, im through with u. . .pls dont mind. . .

MzDarkSkin:

Amaka she is white hence the defensiveness.

@Mamken its not a matter of us getting upset its rather annoyed at the reasons thrown at
us for it. Some of you white gals need to take the time to analyze before you get big headed and
consider the following: "am i wanted for me or am i an experiment?, what does he have to offer me?
am i a scapegoat to piss off some sisters or is this genuine love?" some white women are so eager to
have black cock that they excuse all signs that they are being taken for a ride and some black women
notice this, voice it out and are accused of being haters. You all will learn once the 'hype' is over why
most black women see them as being 'not worth schit' cause for the most part they have lost their
sense of dignity and are leeches. Sorry to say.

I cannot tell you how many times I had to look at a 'brother' with disgust for coming into my store
with his white woman and child and wait until her attention is elsewhere to ask me "you got a man?
when can i take you out?" its not the white woman that angers me but his audacity and i am sure
he at one point treated her like a prize before succeeding to suck her dry of everything: money, dignity,
and self esteem only to disrespect her in her face and she turn a blinds eye to keep her black man.

MZ. . .white ladies never lose temper. . . perhaps thats what makes the difference.

anyway, unfortunately u r right with the points u mentioned. . .some black men have no conscience. but those r also the ones that end up cleaning their black wifes nyash ones they've finish the white ladies life. . . GOD is watching!
i mean, we all know how they end up ones they settle with their african wifes. . . i see them here now!!! if with the white ladies they were wearing latest fashion, with the black lady they must wear RedCross trouser and shirt, coz madam need to make her hair, paint her nails and plaster her face with the latest make up.  oohh, and of course she needs to dress as if shes going to meet president obama, even just to go buy bread and milk at the nearest supermarket.

btw, my mans experiment last for the past 15 years now. . .

yes, and thats exactly the way i mean it. . .
THEIR, as if THEY belong to THEM. . .
thank u for helping me to clearify that point . .

ok, we can discuss abt the way i've formulated the sentence, but it wont change anything to what i've said and to the fact that everybody understood it. . .
so we better dont waste time on my bad grammar. . .

facts?

no comment. . . 


if one of ma two (handsome) boys get home with a chick comparable to the poster, i'm gonna disinherit them . . .

as is said. . .no comment 

Why are black women so concerned abt who their black men get married to?

. . . and why u get upset if ur sexual "performance" isnt praised?
ehm, i personally prefere to be remembered by men coz of my sharp, brillant brain and for my good and kind behaviour, not for my extraordinary talent in giving bl0wjobbies, shaking of nyash and my great ability to change between 57 bleep-position in 2 1/2 mins.

so, whats the matter here!?!?