Try using a tongue scraper. A lot germs, bacteria, food debris lies on the tongue which can causes halitosis, bad breath. Using a tongue scraper should help to eliminate bad breath. Just use it regularly.

On the weekends akara and akamu or french toast. Weekdays just a fruit, muffin, donut, cereal bar, or juice. something I can eat on the go.

If he plan on seeing me everyday I hope he don't think we are going to always do something together. I like the whole idea, but squeezing a little ME time and "doing my own thing" time won't hurt.

I was having this conversation with my cousin on whether she is considered a Nigerian or not. She was born and raise in the States to Nigerian parents. Doesn't speak their language neither has she been to Nigeria. To her when a Nigerian asks her where is she from? She considers it a trick question. If she says she is American or from America they will say she denying what/where her parents are/are from. If she says she from Nigeria, they question her ability to speak her parents language and the fact that she never been to Nigeria. So they will call her a typical American.

To me if both parent are Nigerian then you Nigerian regardless if you have not been there or don't speak the languages. Yet where you were born and raise is where you are from. Agree?


If you are a product of two Nigerian parents yet you were born and raise outside of Nigeria are you Nigerian?

If you are a product of two Nigerian parents and born outside of Naija are you from Nigeria or from wherever you were born.

The man should get the ring. The engagement ring was a promise to get married in the future. That promise is broken and therefore the ring should be given back.

Wait to the child is a little mature to talk about what sex is in general. I believe around 9. But from ages 2 and upward children need to know that nobody needs to touch them in their private area and to tell an adult if it happens. Overall parents have to learn to simplify (I lack a better word) sex according to their age. The worst thing a parent can do is not to say anything at all or pretend like the child is to innocent and young to know such things.

Love em. From the wide leg to the skinny jeans to the boyfriend jeans.

Keeping it real. No incognito. No front. No 50/50. Just 100% you.

No. Age is not the issue. Its you.

Ijaw wife? Ijaw husband?

Try something new. Meet new people. Force yourself to get out of a routine and surprise yourself. Never forget your family and friends. This what I do to cope with loneliness.

neo-soul music

No. That the straw that broke the camel back.

Yes with her husband,

Favorite pizza will be pepperoni with extra sauce.
Favorite Dishes:
pasta with extra sauce. (Any dish that is saucy and have chicken is my favorite.)
curry goat with rice and peas
samosas; meat pies
Bean dishes

With any culture that is diffrent to your the best thing to have an open mind and dont critize. Learn from each other. Culture is nothing to be afraid of. If you love his personality and he makes you feel good. Whats the problem? Keep it real. Dont be afraid to ask questions. Show some instrest. It just one bridge that you have to cross when people of two different background come together. Best wishes!

It was me. We were both going in different directions. I got another job in another state and was ready to move on. He didn't want me go but rather stay say in the same city as him and do the whole wifey and children thing but I just didn't see myself doing that anytime soon with anybody let alone him. Worst thing was I was laid off 8 months later and he became engaged. Sucks!

There is fire on the mountain run run run

1. Spread your wing- stop looking in the same places or dating the same people
2. Trust your gut- if it dont feel right, it not right
3. Be selective-not meticulous, you can overlook some flaws
4. Be hopeful-They not going to fall in your lap and might not be your first or secound choice
5. Stay true to yourself-A disguise wont get you far

Not being able to care of myself financially or physically. Or losing my mind.