I know of a tribe where the groom has to build a house for the brides Father. What will u say about that Brideprice is more like you appreciating your future inlaws for taking care of your wife to be from her day of birth till date, and a lot of parents will want to use that avenue to reap the poor man of his hard earned money without really thinking of how the newly weds will fare when they get married. Maybe some feel the newly weds will feed on sand and stones for breakfast, lunch and dinner  

Yes dear we still have faithful men around

A couple were planning to get married, and as custom demands the Husband to be went to he girls parents to ask for her hand in marriage which her parents accepted. On giving the list for the necessary things the groom has to purchase for the family the bride price inclusive, the sum total was outrageous.

The guy and his family left with the list. When the lady in question was told by her husband to be the outrageous amount her Parents gave him, she now advised that he should do what he can and she will talk to her parents.
After pleading with her parents, her parents agreed and everything regarding the marriage ceremony was done.

As she got Married to her husband and his family, his family began to insult her that she was soo cheap and desperate, that that was why she begged her Parents to cut down on somethings and accept what her husband would give them .

What do you think? Is it wrong as a lady to talk your parents into reducing the total cost the groom to be has to pay on her?

For me its just nature!!!

She should not be scared of longthings cos its d sweetest

My dear,

U should first of all define your purpose of been in the relationship. You know what u want best, so if its d guy that drink, smokes womanizes and maybe manizes u go on girl but if it's not u know what to do. You are in the best position to advice yourself.

Much love

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What do you think Going through your spouse text messages, and picking up his or her calls?
I have had terrible issues in relation to this.

Please what do u think, is it right or wrong? Does it denote lack of trust & insecurity on the part of the partner who does it?

Thanks as i read your responses

Dear Wonderful nairalanders,

Please i need you opinion's on this issue, is it right to track each and every movement of your partner when u suspect he or she cheating on you
Thanks

Dear nairalanders,

Please send in your views on how to know/catch your partner if him/her is cheating on you.

Thanks

Personally i strongly feel marriage is optional. But first i will ask God if its his perfect will for me and if yes then my reasons will be

1. God's perfect will for me
2. Companionship in order to fulfil God purpose for our lives (for this reason shall a man leav mother and father and cling unto his wife and they two shall become one)

Bro's no vesk, just take it that heartbreaks are part of life okay. Out of every ten people, 7 have witnessed heartbreaks. Move on Bro. Girls are not wicked neither is love wicked

Thank God that u pulled that stunt on him and found out if his words will actually be true i.e u getting pregnant, and u found out the reality of it. Chick carry your two legs waka oh! u can even decide to borrow another two legs from our friend so u go waka faster.
He isnt worth it you purnishing him, save your energy oh! ITs not right you punishing your partner that hurt u since u once loved him/her. LET HIM BE

Why can't nigerian men and stick to one guy or girl must what is there in cheating? Is it just our mentility or is it because we are nigerians?

Well, the truth of the matter here is that, Man( i.e male and females) naturally in their own nature are never content or satisfied with what they have. If a Man can feel staisfied with his woman and vice versa we wont cheat.

If people could remove the self centered nature in them, and get to consider their partners 1st before themselves. Let true, unconditional and selfless love exist in us,i.e the God kind of love.

I strongly believe with these, the nature of infidelity will be minimal cos it will all go a long way to crub the nature of infidelity and unfaithfullness in us.

Why can't nigerian men and stick to one guy or girl must what is there in cheating? Is it just our mentility or is it because we are nigerians?

Well, the truth of the matter here is that, Man( i.e male and females) naturally in their own nature are never content or satisfied with what they have. If a Man can feel staisfied with his woman and vice versa we wont cheat.

If people could remove the self centered nature in them, and get to consider their partners 1st before themselves. Let true, unconditional and selfless love exist in us,i.e the God kind of love.

I strongly believe with these, the nature of infidelity will be minimal cos it will all go a long way to crub the nature of infidelity and unfaithfullness in us.

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Your Fiance, cheats on you with your elder Sister's Best friend, with him knowing she is Your elder Sister's best friend. He now denies her in her presence, your presence and your elder Sister, latter on he now comes behind and begs you for forgiveness, begs your elder Sister and her best friend also. Telling them individually that is you he actually wants to be with, not your elder Sister's best friend!!!!

Ladies, What is your opinion looking at it from your the three sides i.e your Elders Sis, her best friend and from yours? If you love him,Will you forgive him and accept him back as your Fiance? What do u expect of your elder Sis and her Best friend to do, and how do you expect them to react to. WHAT WILL YOU DO

Also, your elder Sis now tells your family members of this incident, do you expect them to accept him?

Gentlemen, What do u think of this Man and his actions, and if you were the girls elder Brother what will you do?

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Ladies and Gentlemen,

Your Fiance, cheats on you with your elder Sister's Best friend, with him knowing she is Your elder Sister's best friend. He now denies her in her presence, your presence and your elder Sister, latter on he now comes behind and begs you for forgiveness, begs your elder Sister and her best friend also. Telling them individually that is you he actually wants to be with, not your elder Sister's best friend!!!! 

Ladies, What is your opinion looking at it from your the three sides i.e your Elders Sis, her best friend and from yours? If you love him,Will you forgive him and accept him back as your Fiance? What do u expect of your elder Sis and her Best friend to do, and how do you expect them to react to. WHAT WILL YOU DO

Also, your elder Sis now tells your family members of this incident, do you expect them to accept him? 

Gentlemen, What do u think of this Man and his actions, and if you were the girls elder Brother what will you do?

Well the talk about his womanizing attitude and clubbing comes from her elder brother who he says always see's d guy at different joints with women. The girl here in question doesnt stay out late, so her elder Bro who keeps late nights brings back these reports to the family

My best friend has been engaged to this wonderful and great man who she loves dearly and can go miles for, for four years but her whole family members, not even one of them tends to like him they all dislike him and have tried all they could not to allow them get married. They are against the relationship due to the following.
1. That he womanizes but she doesn't see this, is she blind??
2. He is not a graduate, does not have a good job to take of her which will mean her carrying most of the family's burden
3. His job exposes him to women
4. He goes clubbing

Please you all out there, i need your opinion on this issue in order to give her a solid advice.
Thanks

Hi dear ,
Read your Story. There is no monopoly of ideas, people have their different views to issues and will give you different advice. Well as the saying goes: he that wears the shoes knows where it hurts and where it doesn't. Na u dey d relationship and u know what and what doesn't make u happy and u know what and what u are not comfortable with. You should analyse the relationship and ask yourself if it's what u really want. If its not, my dear the ball is in your court, if it is well, Use your head, not your heart. Also Sex constitutes just about 5% in a relationship and its no basis for you to remain in a relationship or see a future in it. Its left to you to take your decision either to dump him or not to, and if you want to make it work then u should call him sit him down and talk to him in a manner he will understand, let him understand your position where it hurts you and where it doesn't. You don't endure in relationships my dear. THE BALL IS ALL IN YOUR COURT!!!!!