hugh hefs girls are very aware that they are sharing one man and they DNT CARE!,, but guess what i do! one has to remember that there are other variables involved, mostly money and endorsements, !hugh has made an empire with women and they are employed by him. they get paid! that is their job!, im not workin for anyone and the only variable here is my heart! i think its very insensitive when some guys feel empowered by this so called pimpin and messin around, if guys wanna mess around thats cool, good for you, but be SINGLE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!, i was lied to for three years and fine i fell for it and the annoying thing about it is that there are guys that FEEL SO GUD with themselves AT PREYING ON THESE KIND OF WEaknesses, sum1 here is even suggested that hef shud start an academy, lol.

Why can't you eat the same meal everyday of yor life??
ANSWER; Its not healthy.

, jus came back to see if there where any replies and im luvin it guys, thanks a lot but meanwhile that was quite cold by okija-juju, damn! its not fair oh!, lol but really thats an interesting analogy but i prefere a scenario where a sum1 you love is not compared to a meal, rather something like oxygen or air as in the chris brown song, that way you cant do with out it and nothing else will do, but that mentality that a girl is a meal to be devoured on, then you move on to the next on the menu out of oju kokoro, its rather greedy, mmm , all i can say is ouch!

yahoo yahoo, straight up,, at least its not as bad as those that pretend they are gay and look for boyfriends on datings sites, lol

Sauron is worse than a bad boy, he is a villain.

lol, i thought as much,

you fell in love with him because of his badboyness and you are not able to leave him because of same reason.

Why are you complaining about what is attractive to you?

Haba. Badboiness is sexy and romantic. tell me I am wrong

, naaa theres nothin bout bad boys! and now i know better

that will be the day, lol,
these things seem so nice but the average 9ja guy out there cannot be that deep.

Can u blame him??
Women are better at seduction than men, innit??

@ sauron, it seems your a bit of a bad boy yourself, lol
girls dont seduce guys, how about when a girl is minding her own business and the guy comes to flirt with her, yes girls flirt back but if ur in a relationship the you should know when to draw the line, bad boys endulge in lust and they love it!,

Tell u what. . . . . .Someone like mimi4eva are only attracted to the same breed of men.
The roc boys, men on top of their game, good-looking, successful and sex appealing.

lol, so cant attractive guys be faithful?, i mean is it a gender thing coz i have spent the past 3 yrs letting other guys know im unavailable but he clearly hasnt,

@ sauron,

what if i have grey hairs by then?

Can players/badboys change? hes been cheating on me for the past 3 years. GUYS i need your feedbk, if u are a player/badboy and happen to have a girl, i need ur feedback.

this is very very very unprofessional, and if this is meant to be an editorial spread for a newspaper they definaetly need to up thier game, in this case they would need a professional stylist and trow those rags into the garbage bin that shes wearing, and makeup artist and just a little bit of digital editing with any one can do on photoshop software and a little creativity and direction from the photographer, for crying out loud the picture is too raz!!!. we need stylists bigtime in nigeria.!, gosh the clothing is all wrong!

clothing:0/10
photographer:0/10
makeup:1/10
model:6/10(she has some potential)

i think it depends on the occasion, in the day time, its nice to have a fresh look , hence natural makeup is a nice option but on special occassions, parties or weddings one can highlight facial features such as dramatic eyes. The problem with a lot of nigerian women is that they just dont know how to wear makeup. There is a difference between looking like a masquarade and looking glamourous. you can still wear heavy makeup and not look like a clown, u just have to have the right techniques and have a good sense of style,, if u watch emericas next top model and look at tyra banks make up, it can vary between heavy makeup and the light simple look but notice that it looks good, im sick of all those raz makeup that some ppl do with thick lip liners, odd lipsticks, too much blush and bad eye shadow and eyeliner application. Of course u will look like a masquarade if you dont know how to wear make up properly, what do u expect!

without doubt genevieve is a very good actress and i believe she has a true gift of acting in a natural more composed manner than many of those other peeps out there in nollywood.  However i am very disappointed that she feels nolly wood may be on the same level as Hollywood. It is no where near the standards that these peeps put into their industry, its not a joke, they dont finish making a film in one week, it can take them up to 5yrs to make one film, that is to tell you the quality and time they put into getting the best.If a scene is not on point it will be done again, and again and again. lets even forget about the budget alone and focus on the acting in Holly there is no space for mess ups, they even have voice coaches to get everyone on point. That is why you can have an american person doing a perfect english accent or australian accent.( I cant believe she said that! then she will be in for a shock when she gets there!)

The girl is too tacky for her own gud, for crying out load she needs a stylist! she never seizes to amaze me with her dress code, but the last straw for me was wen i saw her with a busy outfit consisting of a pink low cut halter neck. It was pink from the neck to under the bust, after which there was a strap of transparent black lace material leading to the remaining pink lycra, with a slit from the navel downwards showing off her stretchmarkds. As if this is not enough, our sister went to add a gold waste belt to the outfit, need i say more.
personally i cant rate her, but i kno she has fans out there.

da song is 2wweew mad. Im feeling the song for sure, the lyrics, the beat, the razzznesss, ooooooooooh nooooooo its too sweet!

'kamikaze on a ketto level'

i wear a lot of bright clothes i hate dull clothes, it jus seems lifeless and it makes one blend in with everything else.my worst is a dulling tshirt and denim, instead go for yellow tee with a design is nice with light or dark denim, then it can be matched with yellow sandals, however its not good to go overboard with matching colours coz it can look tacky or childish. u can mix colours, there are complementary colours that look good together like green and yellow, orange and yellow e.g a orange off-shoulder with a yellow vest top underneath looks nice,
, for the summer i like my white vests with a colourful bra stap or white t shirt , bra but of course bras have to be gleaming white, i cant stand vest tops with dirty bra straps showing tru, especially when its white, yuk!

the truth is the ball is in his court and hes really having a swell time at the moment having two girls on lock down. The only way to solve this is to ignore him totally, , dnt fall for all those stupid tricks that he doesnt wanna hurt the other girls feelings, he needs time, blah blah blah, hes just trying buy enough time to keep you in his web,

NEVER chase a guy, trust me let him be the one to come after you and if he doesnt then he's not the one for you, forget about trying to snatch him and all that nonsense ull end up wasting the time u cud be using to get over him and finding another guy.

Just as the Hadith gives us good reasons to question the integrity of Muhammad, his teachings recorded in the Hadith give us even more reason to doubt he was a prophet. The following is a brief list of some of the strange and absurd teachings of Muhammad.

1. Adam was 60 cubits tall! (Bukhari vol. IV, no. 543) Then how tall was Eve? If they were that tall, how did we get here? Is it medically possible for him to be that tall?

2. Muhammad was a dog hater. He thought that angels could not enter a house if a dog was there and that black dogs were devils. Thus he ordered dogs to be killed and forbid the selling of dogs. (Bukhari vol- IV, nos. 539, 540; Muslim vol. I, nos. 551, 552; vol. II, nos. 3803, 3829)

3. Satan lives in the nose over night. He can be flushed out if you snort water up and then out the nose. (Bukhari vol. IV, no. 516; Muslim vol. I, no. 462) How big is Satan? Is he in everyone's nose? Is he omnipresent?

4. Muhammad forbade the game of chess! (Muslim vol. IV, no. 5612) This makes no sense to me.

5. People turn into rats, pigs and monkeys. (Bukhari vol. IV, nos. 524, 627; Muslim vol. IV, no. 7135). Abraham's father was turned into an animal (Bukhari vol. IV, no.569)

6. Muslims have one intestine while non-Muslims have seven! (Muslim vol. 111, no. 5113-5115)

7. If you lift up your eyes towards heaven while praying, your eyes will be snatched out! (Muslim vol. III, nos. 862-863)

8. One wing of a fly has poison but the other wing has the antidote to it. (Bukhari vol. IV, no. 537)

9. We should drink camel urine as a medicine. (Bukhari vol. I, no. 234)

10. Fevers are from the fire of hell and can be cooled by water. (Bukhari vol. IV, nos. 483, 486)

You are either 100% for/or against the bible. you cannot take some verses out to jusify yourself and leave out the rest. The Bible is Gods word. the Quaran reveals some of Muhammad's credentials for prophethood and the seem unacceptable according to biblical practices. The two prominent Hadithic "proofs" of his prophethood came from pagan ideas of what a shaman would look like and the manner in which he would be inspired.
A. The Hadith explains that when the Qur'an refers to the seal of prophethood being upon Muhammad (Surah 33:40), the seal was a large hairy mole on his back. This is found in both Bukhari (vol. 1, no. 189; vol. IV, no. 741) and Muslim (vol. IV, no. 5790,5793). This mole was the physical proof that Muhammad was a prophet according to Tabari and other later Muslim authorities. They even claimed that the mole was a fulfillment of such Scriptures as Isa. 9:6. We cannot accept this proof. While such ideas can be found in pagan traditions from many primitive cultures, it is not a part of the religion of Abraham, the prophets, the apostles or Jesus.
 
B. Both the Bukhari and Muslim Hadiths describe what happened to Muhammad when inspiration came upon him. He heard ringing in his ears, fell to the ground, turned red, sweated profusely, made moaning sounds, spit ran from his mouth, etc. While ancient pagans placed a great deal of importance on such things, they were never a part of the biblical prophets.
2. He failed a direct test of his claim to prophethood. He was asked to explain why a child will look like one parent as opposed to looking like the other. He claimed that Gabriel came and gave the inspired answer. See Bukhari vol. IV: no. 546. So, we are dealing with revelation and not just his personal opinion. He said that the child will look like which parent reaches his or her sexual climax first. The study of genetics and DNA forever disproves this idea.

3. He believed in magic, the evil eye, amulets, omens, spells, etc. He was superstitious about many things and made up weird rules about bathroom duties (Bukhari vol. 1, no. 144; vol. IV, nos. 110, 111; vol. VII, nos. 636, 648, 649, 650; Muslim vol. I, no. 458; vol. III, 3 nos. 5424, 5427). He was afraid whenever a strong wind blew (Bukhari vol. II, no. 144) and of eclipses (Bukhari vol. II, no. 167).

While this is bad enough, the Hadith tells us that Muhammad was at times under magical spells, i.e., bewitched, and told lies and did things while under those spells. (Bukhari vol. IV, nos. 400, 490; VII, no. 660; Muslim vol. III, no. 5428) Once it is admitted that he told lies and did things while under satanic influence, then the entire Qur'an could be satanic in origin.

Later Muslim authorities even went so far as to say that he was at one time inspired by Satan to put some verses into the Qur'an. They were later removed because they were Satanic verses. (Surah 53:19,20)

4. The Hadith tells us that "Allah made the prophet wealthy through conquests." (Bukhari III: no. 495), Was he in it for the money? Some Muslims are ignorant of this Hadith and claim that Muhammad was poor like Jesus.

5. He did not keep the rules he imposed upon others. He had more wives than four (Bukhari vol. I, no. 268) and did not write a will (Bukhari vol. IV, nos. 3,4).

6. He commanded that anyone who fell away from Islam should be murdered. (Bukhari vol IV, no. 260; vol. V, no. 630) Volume IX is filled with death threats against apostasy (pgs. 10,11, 26, 34, 45, 50, 57, 341, 342). These Hadiths contradict other Hadiths which say that no one ever leaves Islam (Bukhari vol. I, nos. 6, 48).

The punishment of apostates reveals that he did not believe in the freedom of religion, the freedom of speech, the freedom of assembly and the freedom of the press. The fact that he commanded that no churches or synagogues be allowed in Arabia is a telling argument that he was not a man of peace.

7. The Hadith reveals that Muhammad had to ask forgiveness for sin more than seventy times a day. (Bukhari vol. I, nos. 711; 78; vol. V, no. 724) Since Muslims believe that prophets must be sinless, this means that Muhammad was not a prophet.

8. He was guilty of false prophecies.
   1 - The 100 yr. Prophecy. (Bukhari vol. I, no. 539)
   2. The end of the world predictions. (Bukhari vol. IV, no.401)

9. He kissed and caressed the idol of black stone set into the wall of the Kabah. (Muslim vol. II, no. 2912, 2916) We cannot imagine Abraham or Jesus kissing a pagan idol and then commanding their followers to do so.

10. While Muslims claim that Muhammad was illiterate in order to make the Qur'an a miracle, the Hadith records that he could in fact read and write. (Bukhari vol. IV, no. 393)

Thanks stimulus thats the point i was trying to make, that whilst jesus is revalation of deut he his also greater than that and so much more which is why id personally choose not to compare him to anyone else, I just wanted to emphasise his greatness.

Jesus is simply a manifestation of Gods promise in human form who came to die for our sins(john 3:16). There is no need to argue about whether he is a prophet becuase he is NOT a prophet, he is greater that that because he is a Divine Being. What is going on here is called a False Analogy: Comparing two things as if they are parallel when they are not really the same at all.  I.e Moses and Jesus. with Mohammed and moses. In christianity that is not the foundation of our belief by seeing who has more in common with moses, then hurray they are the true path.  Theres more to it that that pal!, Luckily within christianity  there are too many revelations of Jesus and who he is, and what would happen,

  old testament. Isa.53:12 Therefore I will give him a portion among the great, and he will divide the spoils with the strong, because he poured out his life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.

    new testament- Mt 27:38 Two robbers were crucified with him, one on his right and one on his left. (Mk 15:27-28; Lk 23:33)


Resurrection of Jesus: Hosea 6:2, Psalms 16:10, 49:15, Luke 24:6-7, Mark.16:6-7.
 old test - Hos.6:2 After two days will he revive us: in the third day he will raise us up, and we shall live in his sight.
  new test - Lk.24:6-7 He is not here, but is risen: remember how he spake unto you when he was yet in Galilee, Saying, The Son of man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again.

think you refer the girls as generic, there are some friendly girls yes, platonic friends that truly want to be your friends and there are the ones that are looking for more that friendship, in this case he refuses to draw the line and i dont see the benefit of such freinds,, they are just an enemy of progress, n have a problem with him flirting with them because i find it undermining, so i am i asking for too much to ask him to stop ?

you xpect him 2 b without female friends?

i don't expect a guy not to have female friends, thats rather obsurd, but i find that they always fall into this catgorie:

1.girls that fancy him, that he meets randomly at parties or his friends female friends, he adopts them as his own,,  as in hes constantly going out of his way to make female friends, he loves flattering his ego,  and then he exchanges numbers so that they can flirt, on one occasion one of the girls kept txtn him 24 seven calling him for night time conversations? he never wants to draw the line and says it means no harm.


, so what does that mean

what do you think of guys collected other gals numbers while they have a girlfriend

this friends thing gets me in a twist coz my bf tries to tell me how his female friends are jus friends, hes a suck for female attention, loves to flirt hence his female friend network has 80% of the time fallen into two categories
1. girls that he thinks are hot, he knows i he cant have them but he wants them around for back up.
2. girls that fancy him n he's loving the attention

I gave him a taster of his own medicine by making friends with guys that i blatanlty know want to get into my pants and hes now angry, ?

heya

God loves and u have to remember that, the bible says that the steps of the righteous are ordered, the fact that u are on this website getting feedback from lots of people just shows Gods marvelous ways of getting trough to his children.

One of the devils tools is condemnation, he tries to make people feel bad with guilt.  Guilt creates heaviness in the heart which can get in the way of focusing on Gods love and in return loving God and puttin him first.

God is empowering you right now and u need to know[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color]. When God is bringing someone closer to him he can use anyone.  So stage one is complete, u have revealed that u have become stronger in God through the pastor. Now it is time for u to take a bold step, how about you confront the pastor on his role as a man of God. God has used him to help u but its now ur turn to help him for his role as a man of God becuase when God has ordained someone in that role his life must reflect Gods word in everyway. What u have to tell him is that God wants him to us to seek his face and turn away from things that to not seek him, Confront him and challenge him that he has to stop and repent or God will not be mocked. For his role as a pastor he wont be getting away with not repenting, one of the areas you have pointed out is adultery. Below are extracts from the bible:

(Exodus 20:14 KJV) Thou shalt not commit adultery.

(Matthew 5:27 KJV) Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:

[color=#006600](Luke 16:18 KJV) Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. This verse is for your pastor
(John 8:10 KJV) When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
(John 8:11 KJV) She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
(This verse is for you) God is telling you that he wants to release you from condemnation.
(1 Thessalonians 4:3 KJV) For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:

Remember God has a lot of grace, he always gives us chances it up to us to take the chances. Continue with prayer and God will definalety answer ur prayers and you will recieve love in abundance becuase God Is love.

fashion no nos

1. shaving off eyebrows and replacing with pencil
2. all these low quality materials like stretchy snake skin fabric used to make a skimpy dress, pvc, all these tacky dresses out there made these stretcy thin layered fabric i dunno what the fabric is called but its disgusting. they dnt last long either
3. all these sequen belts, hair bands, yuk
4. all these denim with no washes just plain blue, its very old skool
5. guys with high trousers
6.all these shoes with fat chunky heels and square front
7. puffa jackets
8 black lip liner and siver or gold lipstick
9. socks with slippers
10. over co-ordinating, matching everything from head to toe, red bag, red top,red trousers, red shoes, belt. hat. plus red flower!
11. fake designers with the string hanging from the side