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I feel your pains @op. Truth is the guy is not good for you. A man that cant take decisions without consulting his mum and sisters is not a Husband material. I can imagine what your parents must be going through too. You have to be strong for them and encourage them not to call him or his people over this issue again. Pray and hope for the best. I can tell you from experience that having such people as in-law will make your marriage a hell for you cos you will have to fight for his attention, affection and love. You will at all times be at the mercy of his sisters and mum. Count yourself lucky. I wish you God's best. 3 Likes |
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I have been so blessed by God that even my existence is a great miracle. I'd like to share this particular one because it was the first miracle I am consciously aware of as a teenager who knew nothing about the life. I was admitted in one of federal universities in Nigeria to study a medical course some years back. I had to go through some basic science courses grouped into 3 of which an aggregate score of 40% was required to cross to the medical school. I scored 50%in 2 of the 3 courses and 38% in 1 as a result of seized result from one of the courses in that particular group. I went to see the lecturer in charge of the course to know why my result was seized. He told me that it was reported that students who sat for their exams in the particular hall where I had mine cheated I told him I did not cheat cos I'm not even in the habit of communicating during exam. He further told me there had not been any history of releasing seized results in the dept and that I should not expect mine to be different. And he gladly walked me out of his office. I was devastated. I was home on this particular day listening to messages on the TV from 2 great men of God about "reversing the irreversible" on the same day from different locations. I knew God was talking to me. This happened on a Sunday I prayed after the ministrations. God of miracle answered me and I was called that the seized results were released on Monday . It was God's Miracle. 2 Likes |
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May the souls if d departed rest in peace. Congrats to Akin and d other survivors. |
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I think I'm a bit late. Its better late than never. I need 3k USD to balance up my tuition. |
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Its called Gynecomastia. Its a medical condition that could be physiological or pathological. Its just an abnormality. |
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Everyone keep saying Yoruba actresses are razz. What is the definition of "Razz" ? U call dem razz cos they refused to join d league of the ones that form to be what and who dey are not. Please let's face it, being you doesn't mean u are less Dan others it only means u are U. Talking about bleaching, is it Rita Dominic, Tonto Dikeh, Oge Okoye nd other that did not bleach? So try Rita get bleaching agent wet she dey produce. Mercy Aigbe dear, I'm with u on dis. U are still d best dressed whether or not u graced any mag's cover page. |
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SkyBound: Why run back to Spain? Stay back and fight to finish if u are bold enough. Come to tink of it how much do u have from d proceed of ur drug deals dats making u bark like dis? Grow up boy and preach peace. 4 Likes |
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Have her report to the hospital immediately. Breast pain + discharge are red flags. |
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Fake prophets everywhere! The same way they will tell a hubby day his wife has put him under her armpit and call his wife and mother witches. The devil is just all out to destroy homes so there won't be godly children as said in the bible. May God help us. 2 Likes |
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Bamibor: Regular exercises, yes. Work out for a minimum of 3 times a week and maximum of 5 days a week. Avoid working out close to bed time. U could try brisk walking in the evening by brisk walkin I mean u try to take like 100steps in a minute. |
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hijodedios: The write up was taught at a bible study I attended I only shared it so we all could learn from it. Also, for those in troubled marriages to be able to work at resolving their marriage problems, and to know divorce is not the answer. Having said that, consider what Jesus said in mark 10:2-6,9, from my own understanding of these words I could say he never gave any ground for divorce he only emphasized on Moses command which he gave as a result of the pressure mounted on him by his people. If adultery were biblical grounds for divorce consider what Jesus said in Matthew 5:27-27, from Jesus' definition of adultery most men are adulterer. This gives every wife biblical right to divorce her husband on the ground of adultery. I respect your opinion but I think I have a contrary one. Let's stop Divorce |
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Worried about the high rates of divorce in the Christian fold and the world in general , I took part in a single day bible study on God and divorce; to knowing what God says about divorce and the consequences. I would like to share the study on this forum. Introduction Marriage can be compared to a marathon race. If you one does not commit oneself to running the distance no matter what the cost, chances of dropping out along the way increases. But if determined, one will find unforeseen strength to overcome every obstacle.Complete commitment to marriage provides a foundation of dependability and trust. It takes you through tough times and steers you toward godly solutions. A lack of commitment erodes strength, determination, and resourcefulness. Which can lead to tragedy in marriage. I am appalled at the number of so-called “Christians” and “churches” that meddle in people's marriages today, helping to break up the family by recommending divorce, helping the wife escape her husband, and taking sides. The Scriptural approach is to either mind our own business, or help the troubled couple as a COUPLE (because God sees them as ONE). Oftentimes, in-laws will only side with their son or daughter, which is sinful. This has caused many divorces. The Scriptural approach is to help BOTH of them, for they are ONE in God's God's views about divorce The Bible says that when two are joined together in marriage, they are no longer two, but one (Genesis 2:23-24; Mark 10: ![]() Study these Scriptures to see how serious the Lord is about divorce:"I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel. (Malachi 2:16) What God has joined together, let man not separate Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery. (Mark 10:11-12) If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. (1 Corinthians 7:12-13) God and divorce — Does God ever allow divorce? Jesus plainly taught that divorce only happens... “because of the hardness of your hearts” (Matthew 19: ![]() Most people who file for divorce attempt to claim that Jesus allows for divorce in situations of adultery; but that is not what Jesus taught. What about all the other sins that one's spouse may commit? Does that provide a grounds for divorce? No, not according to the Lord. Jesus taught in Matthew 18:22 to forgive, 70 times 7. Divorce is the sin of hate, unforgiveness and hypocrisy. So many people are woefully ignorant of the Scriptures, just as Jesus said: Matthew 22:29, “Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.” God's power can save your marriage, if you will trust God and not quit. If adultery were Biblical grounds for divorce, then consider what Jesus said in Matthew 5:27-28, “Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” So according to Jesus, a man is already an adulterer if he lusts upon a woman. If adultery is Biblical grounds for divorce, and a man is already guilty of adultery if he lusts on another woman, then his wife should have a right to divorce him. To deny this is to say that adultery of the mind is not as bad as adultery of the flesh. Jesus clearly taught that they were both equally sinful. Obviously, Jesus was not giving a wife permission to divorce her husband if he commits fornication. Here's another thought, and I want you to think about this. This is especially for those of you who believe that adultery is Biblical grounds for divorce. What about murder? If your wife kills 10 people, would that give you Biblical grounds to divorce her. You can't show me such grounds for divorce in the Word of God! God NEVER gives anyone permission to divorce their spouse if they commit murder (or many other horrible sins). It is ridiculous for anyone to claim the right to divorce on the grounds of “adultery,” when that same spouse could commit murder and you'd still have to remain married to them. Jesus never gave anyone permission to divorce. Let us never encourage anyone to get a divorce, because all marriages are sealed in Heaven. Whether you were married in a church, at city hall, or on top of Mount Everest... your marriage vows (promises) were to your spouse, and to God ... “'Til death do us part.” Consequences of divorce Jesus said that to divorce for any reasons and then remarry is to commit adultery. Yet many people who profess Christianity play games with God by divorcing and then cruising along as if God did not mind. They often continue to attend church and engage in "spiritual" activities or ministries, thinking everything is fine. They look good on the outside. But read what God says about them: You flood the Lord's altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands. You ask, "Why?" It is because the LORD is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. (Malachi 2:13-14) In other words, when you divorce for any reasons, you drive a wedge between yourself and God, for you are rebelling against him. Realize that divorce has consequences. Divorce brings painful consequences. Not only do you distance yourself from God when you divorce, you also damage your spouse, wound your children, injure other family members, hurt friends, set the stage for future pain for yourself, and bring shame upon the name of Christ. When you do things God's way, things work out best. On the other hand, when you disobey God, problems eventually come. If you divorce for any reasons, the odds are high that you will regret it before you die. You are certain to regret it when you stand before God. 1 Like |
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Why buy the cow when it's milk is readily available? No sane guy will be pressed to take you in as his wife when you are readily available. Ladies be wise. |
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I would love to have a copy too |
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Ewizard:I totally agree with u. 1 Like |
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debo07:Has she started Physiotherapy? If not let her start. 1 Like |
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unsuregirl: Avoid the things u do that make him hit u. Use another approach like talking to him when u are calm and u sure he is as well. Sometimes u incorporate the silent treatment too. Best of luck. |
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Don't kill your husband o. U made the choice there is no going back. My advice:- say a word of prayer for him every day. Ask God to touch his heart and make him the kind of man God wants him to be. - Evaluate yourself, ur attitude, utterances and expressions what are they saying about u. Look inwards and check for the things u are not doing right. Try work on these deficiencies once identified. - Refrain from talking to people about ur marriage. Speak to God directly. - work on it appearance, do a lot of working out and look good. - Read books on how to better ur marriage. 1 Like |
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Have you tried exercise? If not try working out for at least 30mins 5 times a week. Not strengthening exercises o. Do more of aerobics like brisk walking, walking on treadmill or swimming. I hope u'll find this helpful |
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While some degree of pain is normal during menstrual cycle, excessive pain is not. The pain experienced during the monthly cycle is as a result of the action of hormone on the uterus to bring about contractions. Pain brought about as a result of these contractions are normal. When the pain is excessive and interfering with daily activities, it's an indication of some underlying medical conditions. In such cases I will advice ur gf to see her doc. In mild cases however, she should engage herself in some aerobic and flexibility exercises days before her period starts and during. This will help relieve the pain. 1 Like |
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