I'd love to say Nigerian men are just individuals, but I find it a bit naive to disregard how their upbringing and culture might shape them. You'd be hard pressed to find a Nigerian man who doesn't come from a polygamus background (father, grandfather) or wasn't raised in a home in which his father called all the shots. In my experience, Nigerian men love to be in control and love to be worshiped. The women that tend to compliment them are passive and submissive. That said, they are also the best providers I've ever seen. Most women I know who are married to Nigerian men do not worry about bills and are spoiled terribly.

Its not really a black/white issue, its more about making sure you have the personality traits that compliments a Nigerian men.

Well if you sincerely care for her, you won't hold her speech against her.

Actually I do have friends that prefer short men. There is somebody out there for everyone. I'm sure there are features I have that you or other men may not appreciate. Another person's preference isn't a reflection of you, so fret about it. Also, I'm sure there is much more to you as a person than your height.

Just say exactly what is on your mind. Its okay if you don't have the perfect words, all that matters is that you are honest. If so, your sincerity will translate perfectly.

Not understanding your question

Does it really matter? Does a woman's identity have to be based on a man, her father or husband? Why is a woman not entitiled to go by her birth name just like a man? Further, a woman taking her husbands name IS part of Western Christian tradition. It has nothing to do with African culture.

I don't think its about filling out a form, its just a preference. You're attracted to what you're attracted to. Nothing wrong with knowing what you like.

First I would stop having unprotected sex. Second, I would confirm you were impotent. Last, you SHOULD inform a potential mate at an appropriate point of the relationship that she would not be able to have children if she chose to be with you.

So you believe that because you are a virgin you are a better person than fornicators? I can gurantee you that you're not.

Well since you've already impregnated the woman her and her family will be a part of your life forever. You might as well meet your child's grandfather, you will be seeing a lot of him for the next few decades. Good luck.

I would hope that one would disclose their finances with their fiance and defintely their husband/wife. How can you build a family together unless you've become partners financially. It don't see how a couple could purchase a home, save for college education, etc. without sharing this information. Finances is the number one reason for divorce in America. I strongly believe that if you are not willing to share your money, or be upfront and honest about our finances with your boyfriend/girlfriend, you shouldn't get married.

Is she flaunting her success, or are you intimidated by it? If its the first, then don't entertain her. If its the second, also don't entertain her because your insecurity will make you bitter, and the relationship will suffer because of it.

Speak for yourself.

I'm actually 5'6 but I like to be able to wear high heels and still have my man taller than me. I find it very sexy.

My minimum height is 6ft

I can't speak for other women, but I am truly only attracted to tall men.  I recently dated a person that had all the qualities of an ideal partner, but the attraction was nonexistent because of his height.  Call it shallow, but after that experience I've decided not to even entertain the idea of dating a man that is short.  Marriage is a promise that you will only be intimate with one person for the rest of your life, so attraction is a neccessity, not a luxury.

They work, both people just have to be equally committed.

I don't think its a very typical trait of Nigerian men. Nigerian culture focuses on men being providers, and I am yet to see Nigerian parents who stress ettiquette and chivalry in their sons.