Whome:

Oh so the two of you find my posts in another thread and come here to talk rubbish. For both of your information my husband did NOT leave me. I left them! Get your facts straight before you go running around speaking without merit.

Neither of you know me nor were around in my life for either of my marriages, yet becuase I stood up on behalf of another poster you want to go around trying to belittle me on a message board. I work on my computer so I am able to see what is going on throughout the day but what is your exscuse? Please both of you get a life and stop trying to decode mine becuase neither of you have a clue as to what your talking about!

Okay, so I take it every man who gets involved with you turns evil and you dump them. It has happened 3 times already so it can be concluded that this is habitual with you. . . right?

hell no, i prefer adopting a child from d motherless home!

@Chaircover, God bless you.

Some people have no regards for other users of the site.

Some of these women can lead many young girls astray if no one stands up to their nonsense which they post on forums. They always expect everyone to believe that they are angels when it is clear that they have been lacking in many ways.

Chaircover has uncover the chair again oh
I feel you Chaircover.

@ Justgood, let us just agree to disagree, I woult never marry someone like you and you would never marry someone like me! I wont discuss my life with you any longer since it is pointless becuase you do not know me and I do not know you. However watch out becuase I would hate to have to cast my evil spell on you and have you turn evil too! You know thats what single mothers do!

@ CHAIRCOVER that's what people with no argument do, go and take single statements and leave out the whole picture. I never said I was proud to have left my relationships. I basically said I left because I refused to subject my children to anything less than a happy family.

I never encouraged abortion, in fact I said I was against it.

I never encouraged single motherhood however I will not condom it because it can happen to anyone. Who am I to judge? Who are you to judge for that matter?

I have never praised myself for walking away from bad relationships, only stated the fact involved in my case. You have not UNCOVERED anything about me because you have never been in my life and Know no facts regarding my situation.

I still stand by the fact that you are goInga on assumption. ASS-U-ME ing you have a handle on my life based on the limited info I posted on this board.

If you dint have time to trade words with me then why not go on about your business and STAY OUT of mine? We will obviously never agree on this and frankly I do NOT have to agree with you about my life.

Whome:

@ Justgood, let us just agree to disagree, I woult never marry someone like you and you would never marry someone like me! I wont discuss my life with you any longer since it is pointless becuase you do not know me and I do not know you. However watch out becuase I would hate to have to cast my evil spell on you and have you turn evil too! You know thats what single mothers do!

Do I sound like someone who would marry a serial divorcee?

You can never cast your evil spell on me because I can smell women who change men from afar. I flee from every appearance of. . .

You dont have to take advise (you obviously cant handle true advise) but always be willing to take the consequences of your indiscretion. Perhaps one of the reasons it has happened to you 3 times over is because you have never taken true advice. You prefer people to tell you what you want to hear and it has not been right so far.

Guys, chill a little, it is just a forum where we all share views.
Nothing personal i am sure.

i can marry a woman of 30 is just that the understanding have to be the main objective in our relationship because i wiould want her to be later saying its not my fault that shes is the one who marry me , [color=#006600][/color]

j_bond:

i can marry a woman of 30 is just that the understanding have to be the main objective in our relationship because i wiould want her to be later saying its not my fault that shes is the one who marry me , [color=#006600][/color]

Lol, and how do you hope to prevent that?
You hope to find a woman that will promise never to say that?
Lol

just like women can marry single "fathers" too, . . .

Who made her a single mother?Did she made herself a single mother? And most men are here wagging their tongues. If God had given me the permission l have been asking for l would have casterated all of u.

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!!!!!!!

Does a widow count as a single mum?

tallgal:

Does a widow count as a single mum?

Interesting question, over to you panel of judges of nairaland.

OP.

That's def the last thing i can ever dare to embark on

yes, there is nothing wrong with that

No

the question itself is flawed because its general instead of specific.

all guys are not the same and have different requirements of a potential partner.


some do not mind experience, others do.