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I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 3:35pm On Mar 02, 2010
My guy has not been in the country, early last year we had issues of which i decided to move on, even thou i still love him, late last year, he started calling me again to make up, i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.


the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show cos i promised to keep my body for my guy, immediately i texted him i ve something to tell him, i boldly told him i cheated on him, plead and promised not to do it again with all sincerity.

he forgives me, i observed the love he has for me increased. but am a bit afraid, he might use that against me someday.
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Ben13: 3:41pm On Mar 02, 2010
Yep~ He has forgiven you and the love he has for you did increase but the Trust he had for you has decreased~!

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Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 3:43pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

My guy has not been in the country, early last year we had issues of which i decided to move on, even thou i still love him, late last year, he started calling me again to make up, i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.


the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show cos i promised to keep my body for my guy, immediately i texted him i ve something to tell him, i boldly told him i cheated on him, plead and promised not to do it again with all sincerity.

he forgives me, i observed  the love he has for me increased. but am a bit afraid, he might use that against me someday.


Only trying to help, so err . . . err . . . is it the same dude you met in church and opened this thread for or the one you left a message for


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-395019.0.html#msg5473468

or

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=381501.msg5321890#msg5321890
Divine R.:

hope u ve the following qulities
1.   Rich
2.  educated
3.  Tall
4.  Handsome
5.  God fearing
6.  An Igboman
7.  living in a well furnished house alone, not with family members
8.  No intimacy before marriage
9.  Honest
10. has car
11.  Can speeak english
12.  ready to accept my family members
13. infact let me purse here.

anyway am 34 years, u can call this number if u meet the qualities +2348038,  or e-mail me at riz_,
waiting to hear from u


Not trying to judge you, but only wanna make sure you would not get tempted again and turn the man into a psycho who would hate all women for life, we already have enough of them wandering the streets as it already is lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by r231(m): 3:47pm On Mar 02, 2010
^^^^ grin cheesy grin cheesy wandering the streets as it already
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Ben13: 3:49pm On Mar 02, 2010
LOL busy body is ya real name and occupation grin
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by dare0834(m): 3:59pm On Mar 02, 2010
Busy_body:


Only trying to help, so err . . . err . . . is it the same dude you met in church and opened this thread for or the one you left a message for


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-395019.0.html#msg5473468

or

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=381501.msg5321890#msg5321890

Not trying to judge you, but only wanna make sure you would not get tempted again and turn the man into a psycho who would hate all women for life, we already have enough of them wandering the streets as it already is lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Busy_body, that was so fast, wonder how you did it
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 02, 2010
busted
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Freiburger(m): 4:03pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

My guy has not been in the country, early last year we had issues of which i decided to move on, even thou i still love him, late last year, he started calling me again to make up, i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.


the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show cos i promised to keep my body for my guy, immediately i texted him i ve something to tell him, [b]i boldly told him i cheated on him, plead and promised not to do it again with all sincerity.[/b]he forgives me, i observed the love he has for me increased. but am a bit afraid, he might use that against me someday.



Try n keep your promises real and u you will just be fine.
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by googles: 4:09pm On Mar 02, 2010
[size=13pt]@ busy body
na wa o

@poster
jst keep to your promise
and always give him reasons to trust you[/size]
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by opokonwa(m): 4:10pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

My guy has not been in the country, early last year we had issues of which i decided to move on, even thou i still love him, late last year, he started calling me again to make up, i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.


the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show cos i promised to keep my body for my guy, immediately i texted him i ve something to tell him, i boldly told him i cheated on him, plead and promised not to do it again with all sincerity.

he forgives me, i observed the love he has for me increased. but am a bit afraid, he might use that against me someday.

That's the funny part. You were doing it and crying
Guess you enjoyed the show amidst tears.
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Freiburger(m): 4:16pm On Mar 02, 2010
[quote author=opokonwa link=topic=406722.msg5614106#msg5614106 date=1267542636]
That's the funny part. You were doing it and crying
Guess you enjoyed the show amidst tears.
[quote][/quote]





grin grin grin
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 4:19pm On Mar 02, 2010
I did the same thing, and confessed to my guy, he forgives me and advice i becareful, thou that was my first time of cheating on him after 2 years relation, i did it cos we had issues of wish i decided to move on, before he came back to me for make up, i never wish to cheat on him again no matter the pressure i face from men.

I love him so much thats why i confess to him, he felt bad and understands with me, he forgives me and increased his love for me. Is not easy to confess that kind of thing, but to free urself, you have to

any way it all depends on individual.
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by smooooooth: 4:21pm On Mar 02, 2010
u are 34, and still making promises to keep your body for a man that is a 1000 miles away from u and still playing with your feelings. some women sef!
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 4:24pm On Mar 02, 2010
r231:

^^^^ grin cheesy grin cheesy wandering the streets as it already
Ben-10:

LOL busy body is ya real name and occupation grin
dare0834:

Busy_body, that was so fast, wonder how you did it
pc guru:

busted
googles:

[@ busy body
na wa o



Didn't you people see my disclaimer below, I only did it out of genuine concern na cool

Busy_body:

Not trying to judge you, but only wanna make sure you would not get tempted again and turn the man into a psycho who would hate all women for life, we already have enough of them wandering the streets as it already is lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed


Divine R.:

. . . i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.


the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show



How could I sit by and watch her cry show after show after show, ehn, and unlike you lot, I ain't that heartless cry cry cry
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 02, 2010
Busy_body:


Only trying to help, so err . . . err . . . is it the same dude you met in church and opened this thread for or the one you left a message for


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-395019.0.html#msg5473468

or

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=381501.msg5321890#msg5321890

Not trying to judge you, but only wanna make sure you would not get tempted again and turn the man into a psycho who would hate all women for life, we already have enough of them wandering the streets as it already is lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
BUSY BODY!

Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Godalone(m): 5:02pm On Mar 02, 2010
liar
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 5:11pm On Mar 02, 2010
@Busy-Body u are really busy bodi, so you ve been marking my thread abi. Actually this particulat guy is my main guy all those other ones are out of it.

my guy trusted me, even at this point he still trust me he appreciated i told him. this is the first time i cheated on him since 2007, i didn't just cheat on him cos of the fun of it, rather cos we had issues of which i tot that is over between us and decided to move ahead, it was the month he was coming back to make up that i slept with this guy, my conscience HIT me of which i cried throughtout the show and that day and next day i ve to confess and free myself.

honestly i didn't enjoy the show, cos i was thinking of my man. cry cry cry cry cry

I WILL KEEP MY PROMISES, AND CROSS MY LEGS
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 5:16pm On Mar 02, 2010
smooooooth:

u are 34, and still making promises to keep your body for a man that is a 1000 miles away from u and still playing with your feelings. some women sef!

please am not 34, don't mind that thread that was brought by BUSY BODY
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 5:22pm On Mar 02, 2010
I don't care what you did when you broke up with him and moved on, my only concern is that the guy is back in your life, his heart is in a fragile state, it is now you decided to cheat and send him a text to tell him, and you are still here opening threads to beg people to help you hook a brother you have been eyeing in Church plus chasing that 25 years old Engineer who said he is looking for a 23 year old lady, and only just days ago oh undecided



Divine R.:

please am not 34, don't mind that thread that was brought by BUSY BODY


Shuo, see as you dey slander my character before my very eyes, na me post or na you post that shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by omega25red(m): 5:23pm On Mar 02, 2010
well i bet he can forgive you because who knows how many admirers as you call it has he laid down with and since you confessed first it made him feel better about his so problem solved (just a scenario)
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Nautillus(m): 5:24pm On Mar 02, 2010
^^^ and folks are still sending in advice . . . .with the glaring revelation that its all bullsh*t? ? ?

Na wah oh. . .Busybody. . .thanks for the headsup
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 5:51pm On Mar 02, 2010
@Busy body u re really busy body, the guy in my church i just like his person i only needed him for just a friend, thou he has some of the qualities i needed in a man, that was what attracted me, as for the 25 years guy seeking for 23 years wife forget him.

please stop porknosing
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 6:00pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

@Busy body u re really busy body, the guy in my church i just like his person i only needed him for just a friend, thou he has some of the qualities i needed in a man, that was what attracted me,  as for the 25 years guy seeking for 23 years wife forget him.

please stop porknosing


You consider your post below as one of someone just looking for a friend cheesy No wonder it is only when the show is in full swing that you start crying, i bet even when they uncloth you, you still think they are still friends and wouldn't do anything to your unclothed body grin Have you considered a career as a comedian, I haven't laughed like this in a long time


Divine R.:

How can i approach this guy?

there is this guy in my church, i really admire him, he has some of the major qualities i needed in a man, he is gentle, handsome, focused, God fearing etc

i really dont know how to approach him, i ve gotten his number, ve already sent him a text message of good wishes, after that he called and demanded to know my name i told him i remain anonimous, i ve nt made my intention known to him, thou he doesnt know am the one.

i keep thinking of this guy.

please advice

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Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 6:13pm On Mar 02, 2010
lol ;d
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 6:17pm On Mar 02, 2010
@ busy body shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
why are you doing this? anyway i didnt cheat on my guy this year, so don't consider that guy.

please can someone separate this fight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by 190: 6:18pm On Mar 02, 2010
^^

Just keep doin it
kip cheattin~
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Mar 02, 2010
Oya Oya you have done an Expose on Divine R, she isnt as holy as she claimed as she was grin So give it a rest nau tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 6:20pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

please can someone separate this fight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?


For wia, God punish any peace maker wey show face for hia angry angry angry I have to get to the bottom of this otherwise how my pickin and husband go chop, abi you no sabi say na other people's business be my speciality and na for dia i dey get my daily bread angry angry grin
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Busybody2(f): 6:25pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

@ busy body  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
why are you doing this? anyway i didnt cheat on my guy this year, so don't consider that guy.

Right, back to the manuscript, which one of the two guys should i not consider or is there more guys you wanna tell me about, berra tell me before i find out myself cool

Secondly, you said you did not cheat on your guy this year, so are you jejely confessing that you cheated on him the year before and the year before and the year before and the year before


And a word of advise, you berra take up my offer to become a comedian, you can even have my agent sign you, or we can even be a duo act - Busybody/Divine R the Clown cheesy grin cheesy
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by DivineR: 6:28pm On Mar 02, 2010
@ Ebonyeye

I can't be too righteous, thou i try my best to remain righteous/faithful and pray ''led me not into temptation am a human being am not above temptations ok, it can happened to any body.

thank God i admitted i cheated on him, and apologise do u think is easy to do so?

@ Busy-body she is here exposing me, instead of telling me congrate!!!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by chamotex(m): 6:31pm On Mar 02, 2010
Divine R.:

honestly i didn't enjoy the show, cos i was thinking of my man. cry cry cry cry cry

I WILL KEEP MY PROMISES, AND CROSS MY LEGS

Gerrout!!!  angry angry angry
You didn't enjoy what?

When you were kissing, you didn't enjoy it right?
When he undressed you and flinged your bra and panties to the other side of the room, you didn't enjoy it?
When he was sucking and nibbling on your nippies, you told him to stop abi?

Let me ask you a question. At what point in this whole process did you start to cry exactly?
After he had sliced your legs open and dipped you with some nice cream innit . . . . Mcheew!!!
Re: I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Mar 02, 2010
Forgive but never forget, lol


Busy_body:


Only trying to help, so err . . . err . . . is it the same dude you met in church and opened this thread for or the one you left a message for


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-395019.0.html#msg5473468

or

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=381501.msg5321890#msg5321890

Not trying to judge you, but only wanna make sure you would not get tempted again and turn the man into a psycho who would hate all women for life, we already have enough of them wandering the streets as it already is lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
grin cheesy grin

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