Your first mistake was allowing her continue attending her church after marriage.

Once women know you are weak with authority, they will dare you on many aspects.

At the initial stage of my marriage,I deliberately insisted on things my way not because it's the best, but with time she understood it will always be my call and hers to suggest. Years after, she has learned to run things by me and wait for my consent.

If you like continue dey simp, she will do worse

Seun362:



Where did you enquirer from cos I did mine in Sangotedo, Eti-Osa two days ago and the guy told me it will cost me #1.3m for a Toyota Corolla 06 model.

Nipco Abuja

The problem is the conversion cost.
I received a quote of 700k to convert 2010 Corolla to CNG.

If it can be brought down to 300-400k, it will make sense to convert

I did the MTN 1TB annual sub. My wife started running it down, I sharply calculated and limited the data to 4GB per day.

If she watch reach 4GB, the network begin frustrate her until she turn off the tv go rest.

It lasted for 9-10 months sha.

This looks like a hit job to me. And I can guess the attackers have military training.

They should interrogate all his securities.

"Na house rat dey go call outside rat say food dey house"

This video is from like 3 years ago

My mom has that same behaviour for 46 years. My Dad is aged now and she is angry with at him for existing.

My advise is, the sooner you clear her, the better for you.

She won't stop that behaviour of you don't stop it for her.

Abeg, how much fit get me Pump action wey get licence?

This is the real " Escape from Congo"

How the NBS manage to come up with these twisted and u realistic statistics baffles me.

This should've been per states.
You can't compare cost of living at a flat rate. PH is higher than Lagos, Kogi is more expensive than Abuja.

Mohbad's wife and mom have something in common; they both don't like His father.

I can't trust the testimony of a runaway spouse. Especially if it's a woman.
They are always bitter, allowing emotions and revenge cloud what is important.

Zimbabwe's currency gained 40% of its value.
I think they have valuable advice to give Nigeria.

With due respect; Looting is not revolution.
This woman should go and sit down

The big question is, Who brought Buhari to Nigerians?

Who continued from where Buhari stopped?

My former boss advised me to get up to 4 months salary apartment for my family.

To be honest, it's the best decision. Whenever I go to my former area to visit, I see how far I have come and understand that raising my kids their would've messed their psych.

But if u are just starting out, 2 months salary is okay, because u need to have rest of mind when u get home and relax well.

I happen to be the only AA among 10 kids.
1 AS and 8 Sickle cell siblings.
We lost 6 and I must confess it hasn't been easy.

My Parents have been married 45 years. I was 6th child but life made me first born by force. There is no month I don't spend money. I even had an agreement with a local pharmacy that sell Tramadol to me because they know I have SS siblings.

This year they both have received 3 pints of blood each to boost their PCV level.

My both Parents are old and frequent hospital for check up. I love my family and I don't blame my parents for anything. It's called life- no perfect life. That is my cross and I have carried it all through my life. I am in my 30s.

Despite being an AA I made sure my wife is also AA.

My friends wonder why I am not careless with money, but I know the responsibility I carry.

MY ADVICE
- They should eat well, do fruits regularly.
- Folic acid and vitamin C,
- Strong painkillers like ibuprofen and Tramadol (if u can get).
- If they are in crisis for up to 3 days straight, their blood level should be checked. One time my brother's PCV dropped as low as 15%, he is so tough he survived.
- They should always get medications on time ( being SS they get tired of medications and sometimes get stubborn about not taking anything, forgetting it will strain your pocket)

My sister is 40 years and my brother is 28 years.

FYI, due to their health, u will have to pickup after them all the time financially.
Lastly, they need to have strong relationship with God. Because despite all your efforts only their faith can keep them alive

I can bet u it was confiscated and resold by them and then to cover up, they set an empty vessel or container on fire.

zedegit:


Seriously what if she takes it serious and starts her own with her bestie?

She will not!
Trust me, women are far more territorial than men.

Women behave better when they have competition.
Whenever a woman concludes u will never leave her; they begin to misbehave.

If u are not the type to keep a side chick, get a more beautiful female for a platonic relationship. Discuss everything with her, allow your wife catch u make phone calls with her and discuss personal stuff with her.
What will happen is that your wife will investigate her and when she's sees she has competition, she will be intimidated and get in your good grace.
Buy yourself good gifts and claim the lady bought them for you.

Secondly, if u have somewhere to spend weeks alone, do it without telling her. When u return don't apologize nor explain your whereabouts.

You have to find a way to break her, that is the only way to earn your respect.

You seem like a good person, she has checked u out and see u can never hurt her.

In my opinion, a wife has to love more for marriage to work.

I advice u send her packing to her father's house to learn manners for the next 6 months.

Just drive her there and drop her, send her property after her and tell them she needs to be with them till u are satisfied of her character change.

She will never respect u if she doesn't feel u can end the relationship on your terms.

Respect is the only thing a woman can give a man that a Man, if she cannot do that then she is useless to you.
There are many women out there than can carry your pregnancy and do all wife duties even without marrying them. So why allow one ill-mannered woman stress you.

From all u described, I don't think she will ever learn. She needs a shock therapy (kicking her to her parent's house for 6 months) to act normal.
That is the only way u can earn your respect.

I can relate with your story.
I have a friend just like this.

He is just lazy. He gives excuses for everything and is too proud to hustle.

He manages to pay the bills but his laziness and indecisiveness puts his family into avoidable hardship.

My advice is, I think it is too late for your sister to get it right as long as she can't cut the dead weight of a husband off her. He will get worse as he ages, I have such uncle.

It will get to a time, he will even take loans and your sister will be the guarantor, further driving her into the hole she can never escape.

She should move on now! And forget him. That means she should go and bear all responsibilities of her kids. That man is gone.

My people say "You cannot teach an adult to use left hand in his old age".

I need his contact for when I am ready

Rerun!

This is my only excuse why I haven't Japa.

My wife is a lovely woman but I noticed that with little power she will ride me.
Whenever she makes more money she can't help but be masculine and stubborn.

The day she knows the government will favor her more than me like it is abroad, my own don finish.

Luckily she is not keen on travelling to stay.

Emaprince:
May God enrich you and make your financial burden easy for you to tackle, bro.

Amennnnnnnnnnn sir

My mum and Dad are both AS, they gave birth to 10 kids,
only me came out AA,
9 SS, we lost 6.

So I carry the burden of taking care of the 3 alive and my aged parents.

This year alone 2 have received blood transfusion with both PCVs dropping below 15% (This happens regularly).

Due to their crisis, I have black market pharmacies where they trust me to sell me Tramadol/Tramol because mere Painkillers don't work for them.

I am not the first child but life has automatically put me first since I am better health-wise.

I love my family and there is no length I won't go for them.

When I was to get married, I made sure my wife was AA, In fact, because of my sick siblings, I don't like slim ladies 😂
My wife stand well and she get better body. My children are very healthy and this alone makes my parents joyful.

How many die here in Nigeria?
We don't even have steady electricity here.

Okoroawusa:

I was surprised o! Instead he went to the wedding up north because he knows that a lot of cameras will be there

If he attends the Ekwerenmadu's people like u will say "he is tribalistic".

At this point, nothing u people won't criticize.

I was restless on the 3rd day of my daughter's birth after the hospital told me they were out of immunization, that I should wait for extra 1 week.

Coming from my background of sicknesses and all sorts, I made calls and made extra payments just to get he immunized.

I never miss a single appointment for her. Same will go for all the rest after her.

100% Supported!

Let christians stop using the naira because it carries Arabic inscriptions.
Dumbasses!

No be small thing o!
Normally I am not obsessed with watching TV but I just like the bulb to be on the house.
I feel alive when there is light.

I was forced to use my savings to get inverter since subsidy removal might make generator a big man thing in the coming months.